People Share The Random Things That Don’t Bother Others But Ruin Their Mood (38 Examples)
Everyone is different, and we all have our own unique quirks and idiosyncrasies that make us who we are. There are some of us, though, who get inordinately irked by things the vast majority don’t have any problem with.
Someone asked the internet, “What’s a completely normal or minor thing that irrationally gets under your skin, but most people don’t seem bothered by it?” and the community didn’t hold back. Why, however, are some folks so sensitive? Let’s dive right in!
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Music so loud in a restaurant that you can’t hold a conversation.
The worst are coffee shops that feel like they need to have live music playing. I don't want to hear a singer-songwriter moan at 8:00. I just want to drink my coffee and have a quite conversation with my friend.
Load More Replies...I went into a very popular sub joint, was well recommended. I went in and it was so loud, I couldn't stand it just trying to look at the menu up on the board, it was so loud in there, I just turned around and left. There was no reason for the music to be so loud in a take-out joint.
When I attend a rock festival or a sporting event I don't complain about the sound level, but a restaurant can get noisy what with all the patrons chatting, dishes clattering, etc. Loud music simply makes it unbearable.
I'm sure there's a purpose for it, but I just can't figure it out. In bars it makes sense. It forces you to get physically close to talk, which helps for hookups
So that you wont stay too long and they can circle more customers, specially if you have a busy night with the resto booked. In some restos here if you book your table they may only give you 2 hours to eat before you have to leave. So its basically just to get more people in and get more money.
Load More Replies...It's not irrational when you have auditory processing disorder or sensory overstimulation issues...
I went to brunch with my mom not too long ago. She raved about this place. I walked in and immediately wanted to walk out. The food was great but I will never step foot in that place again. The music was so incredibly loud I had to talk louder than normal. Then to make it worse it was packed so there were a ton of people who were talking loud trying to be heard. The place had no kind of sound dampening at all. It was by far my worst dining experience
Speakerphone in public.
It's usually as bad for the recipient because all that fancy noise cancelling tech doesn't really work when you hold a phone flat and shout at it.
This one depends. If I'm in a crowd I don't use my phone at all. Or if I'm in a quiet place, obviously no phones in the library. But if I'm outdoors, far enough away from people that I won't bother them, I will do speaker phone and stove putting the phone up to my ear. I have two reasons for this, one is I'm a bit hard of hearing and the speaker is easier for me, it avoids a lot of " what did you say ". And second, the phone can get very hot against my face since I live in Florida. So if it's bothering others, I avoid the phone. But if I'm not going to bother anyone else, I will definitely use speakerphone at all times.
I was in a medical clinic, and the guy next to me is listening to some video sans ear buds on his phone. I explained that the noise was bothering me and to use ear buds. He looked at me like I was an alien. Sorry guy, didn't want to play this card, but I'm going to bring this to the staff's attention.
The worst of these is when they hold the microphone up to their mouth and the speaker to their ear. That's just the normal way, but with more work.
Its the new youth trend that they just dont do regular calls but video calls.
Load More Replies..."There's this wonderful invention. Have you heard of it? It's called headphones. Maybe you could try them?" This is what I say. On the bus or light rail you see people quietly get on then immediately pull out their phone to have loud conversations. They treat the bus like it's their living room I forgot to mention that it's not permitted on the buses or light rail here in the Seattle area
Multiple sources of noise at once. For example- tv is on, and someone also watching videos on their phone in the same room. I can’t breathe.
Any sort of unnecessary background noise. You're not watching? Turn off the d**n TV.
My mother lives alone now and because our family is large she leaves the t.v. on for "companionship".
Load More Replies...Watching something important on TV and those present speak one over the other.
Or can’t stop trying to talk to you so loudly that you can’t hear the TV, and miss all the good stuff you were looking forward to seeing and hearing on the program. It’s the exact reason why I stopped going to the movies, going shopping, going on vacation, you name it, with friends years ago. I want to see the film. Catching up with each other can happen before and after, NOT during! I want to relax and catch up on my sleep, not go out clubbing every night, trying to hook up, then being catatonic and want to just sit by the pool the next day when I want to go out and actually see the place we’re staying. I need to get such and such at the store, not wander around the mall or the rest of the store, especially when I have to be somewhere later on, or there’s something specific I want to get and I know they’re selling out fast and I need to run to that department RIGHT NOW, not wander the aisles taking my time. While I have gone places with friends and had a wonderful time, the times that weren’t wonderful just put the kibosh on my having much, if any, confidence that doing stuff with friends will turn out well. When I have gone places by myself, I always have a good time. The only dampers on that are when things outside my control ruin it, like bad weather, wars breaking out, or natural disasters (you get my drift).
Load More Replies...Yes! My wife doesn't understand why I have to cut the TV off when our daughter is having pretend conversations among her dolls. No, I'm not mad at her, I just can't hear both and I'm choosing our child over TV.
Way too much sensory overload these days. My house is surrounded by state forest. I go home, put the phone on the charger, and walk away to enjoy the peace and quiet.
Same as noise in restaurants, this isn't irrational when you have sensory overload
I work in fast food with a bunch of kids who goof off very loudly. Between them and all the different timers going off I’m in a constant state of anxiety at that place
My husband does this....videos on the phone, action movie (read: loud) on the TV and I'm making myself busy in other rooms b/c I can't take the noise.
It is very annoying when people insist on talking in the Teams meeting when I want to concentrate on something else.
Some people’s brains are wired to process sensory input like sound, touch, or smell more intensely. This can make everyday stimuli (chewing, pen clicking, humming) feel unbearable. In extreme cases, this is known as misophonia, a condition where specific sounds trigger emotional or physiological responses like anger or panic. To someone with heightened sensitivity, what others call “background noise” feels like an alarm bell going off.
Certain behaviors (like interrupting, humblebragging, or repeating stories) act like “social allergens.” You might tolerate them at first, but over time, they become increasingly irritating. This can be worse when you can’t “tune out” the behavior or aren't able to habituate (get used to) it the way others do. So, while you might not notice your co-worker’s constant throat clearing, someone else is barely resisting the urge to explode.
Loud motorcycles. Why? There's no need for them to wake me from a sound sleep from a quarter mile away.
Any vehicle - construction equipment, delivery trucks, etc. The only loud vehicles should be emergency vehicles - fire, police
Load More Replies...Nice, I'm sure your neighbors appreciate that. I have a super loud one on my street, and it backfires to boot.
Load More Replies...The number of times motorists fail to see motorcycles and cause accidents make some riders choose to be heard...
They are either trying to make up for all the inadequacies they have or are desperately looking for attention!
Because it helps idiot drivers notice me. Sorry for waking you but I prefer to be alive.
Or having a radio blaring on your motorcycle. Sir, you've chosen a motorcycle for transportation, you've forfeited your right to music on your commute.
People who don’t move when you say ‘excuse me’ and then get upset when you shove past. After that idgaf I gave you a chance to be polite.
A little different, but I’ve noticed far too many people who don’t move when you ring your bicycle bell, either. Y’all need to move or there just may be an accident.
people use their bell where you live? here I can be happy if they yell.... I hear a bell maybe once every 300 cyclists. Same with holding arms out as a turn signal. I want them all in a course with grade 4 students learning the ettiquette
Load More Replies...Unless they're blocking a entrance/exit, YOU MOVE AROUND THEM. You have no idea about any mobility issues they might have.
Try speaking louder, like really politely and nicely, just LOUD. Most people aren’t deliberately ignoring you, they just have their own thoughts and problems and being aware.
My husband just doesn't notice people. He is a big guy and just stands in the way. I often have to tell him people want to pass. At home same, he just stands somewhere blocking the way for everyone. He realy doesn't notice and its terrible. So i ask him to step aside, or i stand there until he does notice, but every time he gets irrtated, well, so do i if you don't even notice me and let me pass. Same with our OCD son, he doesn't"t keep distance to him althoughbits asked of him a thousand times. He doesn't prosess the moment
In my defence I have tinnitus and can't hear anything behind me, so if somebody who is standing behind me says, "excuse me" I don't always hear. I'm not being ignorant, I'm not being rude. I simply can't hear. All you need to do is tap me on the shoulder and I will gladly move. There is no need to barge into me or shove me out of the way.
I love the people that walk in a line of three on the sidewalk and then look like a deer in the headlights if incoming traffic of one person suddenly blocks the way. Learn to walk behind each other FFS
I just stop and pull out my phone. I basically become a pylon.
Load More Replies...If it's loud and chaotic, I'll give people the benefit of the doubt they didn't hear me, so I will try again. But don't even think about ignoring my request in a store aisle or I'll send you and your carriage to the other end.
Songs on the radio that are allowed to have police or ambulance sirens on them.
Or TV shows that show someone asking Alexa a question or requesting a song. My Alexa always picks up on it and starts talking or playing the requested music. Annoying.
I work with somebody who's name sounds a little like Siri. And when somebody says their name in a meeting my laptop immediately starts acting up.
Load More Replies...A current advert on UK tv includes the WhatsApp notification sound; it's really annoying.
When I'm home and watching TV and hear a door knock, I can't tell if it is mine or on the TV. I look at the captions on the TV to check that it was in fact on the TV. (I cannot tell where sounds come from.)
Oh good grief yes, my parents watch a word game show that uses a sound of their own doorbell. The number of times I've leapt up to answer it...
I listen to a lot of hip hop, so these sounds do crop up on occasion. But they can still take me by surprise if I've got the music on in the background while I'm puttering around my flat.
I know two off the top of my head: "Wasn't That a Party" by The Irish Rovers, an Irish-Canadian band, (the song mentions a drunken trio stealing a cop car), then "Bud the Spud" by Stompin Tom Connors (the song is about a potato truck driver from PEI who has the cops annoyed at him)
Emotional bandwidth shrinks under stress. When we’re tired, anxious, or overwhelmed, our brains perceive even neutral stimuli as threatening or irritating. Something you’d normally ignore (like a foot tapping or someone breathing too loudly) can feel like an attack. It's not about the act itself, but the state of mind of the person reacting. Think of it like an emotional splinter: tiny, but painful under pressure.
People who score high on conscientiousness often have a strong preference for order and routine, which makes unpredictable or chaotic behavior irritating. Those with neuroticism may feel more emotionally reactive in general. Plus, people who value personal space or quiet time can feel overwhelmed by those who are loud, tactile, or overly expressive—behaviors others may see as totally normal or even friendly.
Not using indicators when other cars aren’t near but would still be of use to pedestrians.
When I drove, I used them ALL the time, even if no one was around. Part of driving and not optional IMO.
Yes get in the habit so you don't really think about it.
Load More Replies...And then they give you evil looks when you cross the road in front of them. Well if you'd troubled to indicate, I would have waited at the kerb.
Same with bicycles not sticking out their hand. Please let me know where you are going.
One of my biggest pet hates. As a pedestrian I've lost count of the amount of times I have been crossing the road and nearly been flattened by a driver who has come racing round the corner like they are on the grand prix circuit without indicating.
Always,, Everytime. It should be second nature to use them during any turn or lane change. It's literally a flick of your pinky finger
Using directionals was an automatic response whether it was necessary or not. Get into this life-saving habit for others.
Mercedes, Audi and Tesla are all just as bad, if not worse. Sincerely, a BMW driver who does indicate.
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I cannot stand the sound of someone chewing loudly, especially when their teeth clack together or they slurp soup. Like… why is that even legal 😩.
Misophonia. This also replies to Mreoww and SweetCheesySpaghetti, besides OP. It is, quite literally, a hatred of sounds. It can lead to wanting to damage someone permanently because they sniff/slurp/sigh/rub their hands together/chew with their mouth open/play loud music etc etc all the time and the only way you can shut them up is either by muttering "Will you shut the eff up" as loud as you can or getting ear buds to play white noise while they continue to sniff/chew/slurp etc. It is recognised (recognized) as a disorder.
How can it be a disorder when everyone has it? Everyone gets terribly annoyed by some kind of sound. The vast majority of people seem to hate the sound of nails on a chalkboard. And it's very common for people to despise it when people loudly chew.
Load More Replies...Just reading this is stressful! But thank you for including ... for ages I thought it was just me that felt like this.
I can't handle that noise, it makes me feel physically ill. I had a co-worker who ate with his mouth open, super loud, and he would eat at his desk CONSTANTLY. It got to the point that I would have to leave the office for half an hour when he came back with his lunch, and then had to wear ear plugs AND noise cancelling headphones so I couldn't hear him chewing.
Some even make a lot of noise with their mouth shut. They can eat desent, but i guess it has to go in like that, no considaration of people around them.
Don't go to Japan with the soup slurping; slurping is polite seen as a sign of appreciation for the food and a way to enjoy the meal more fully.
OMG it's awful! My husband is a quiet chewer thank God, but had this horrible habit of sucking his teeth. The only time in our marriage I've seriously considered divorce.
Morning people moralizing it.
I finally just flat out asked my boomer dad what the hell is so virtuous about getting up early? Did he feed the poor and cure cancer while I slept in? Turns out no, he didn't do anything significant, go figure!
My dad would get up as the åsscrack of dawn, make enough noise to wake everyone else up, then nap for three hours in the afternoon...all while moralizing about the virtues of getting up early.
Load More Replies...I hate that too. There is no reason why getting up early and going to bed early is better than getting up late and going to bed late: you get the same amount of hours and can do the same amount of things. The only difference is being out of sync with other people, opening hours of shops, and daylight. But is has nothing to do with being lazy. Should I call you lazy too, because you're in bed at 10 while I'm working hard doing chores at 1 in the morning?
Even when I was in my 60's (I'm the Boomer here), my dad was still calling me lazy for not getting up at 5am like he did. He was nodding off in his chair by 7 pm and I got 6 more hours of stuff done after that.
What is it called if you're not a morning person, but you also want to go to bed early?
Mention something once, fine. Mention something twice, you're pushing it. Tell me a third time about the virtues of early rising and you're in for a really bad day.
I love to be up early before anyone just to enjoy the peace and quiet but I am not a get up and go person. I will not be happy and/or productive and I will most definitely not hold a conversation with anyone. Just leave me alone with my cigarettes and Mountain Dew
What's considered "normal" varies widely between cultures and families. For example, direct eye contact is respectful in the U.S. but can be seen as aggressive in some Asian cultures. Someone raised to value modesty might find confident self-promotion off-putting, while others see it as self-assured. These ingrained standards shape how we interpret “everyday” behavior, so what’s bizarre in one culture might be commonplace in another.
Annoyance often builds like pressure in a soda bottle. Someone might tolerate a small irritant once or twice, but after five, ten, or fifty times, their patience runs out. This “stacking” effect can be subtle; a squeaky shoe might go unnoticed on Monday but drive someone up the wall by Friday. The irritation isn’t about the event, it’s about how many times it’s happened, and whatever else they’re dealing with.
"Unexpected Item in Bagging area". Starting to lose my s**t just typing that.
F'k off with giving a *machine* a tip when you're ordering an overpriced bag of sweets... 😡
I'm not giving a tip unless I'm seated at a table and they refill my drinks and such it they deliver my food to my house, and honestly, I'm getting pretty sick of tipping delivery drivers after having to pay higher prices and fees for the delivery.
Load More Replies...Like most of us, I was a server who relied on tips for survival. But I refuse to tip at places where I have to get my order, bring it to a table, and clear it when finished. If I'm playing the server, you ain't getting a tip.
Also, check your receipts. Literally yesterday I was charged twice for one item and the machine only beeped once.
One of the funniest things I read about this was from a guy who said he'd found the employee break room, went in, sat down and started eating his lunch. Someone confronted him saying he couldn't be there as he wasn't an employee. He countered with "I just checked myself out and bagged my own purchases, so I believe I do work here."
If I ever meet the person who does the voiceover for self service checkouts, I'll be shoving an unexpected item right up their bagging area!
Yes! I have season tickets for Football (American). I walk up the steps, open the cooler, take it to the counter and have someone ring it up, then have the audacity to ask me to tip? Nope!
BP, how does this picture have anything to do with the caption? BP's editing makes me rationally annoyed!
People dropping by unannounced. .
I don't do it myself, but it doesn't bother me. But then everyone I know understands when it's not convenient, and doesn't get sniffy about it.
Yeah, I live in a pretty close knit street in the city. I pretty much have an open-door policy in my house. Especially for my kids' friends and their parents. The only rule is to not ACTUALLY leave the door open because my dog is deaf and if she gets out she can get hurt.
Load More Replies...I used to do that, because I was raised in the countryside and that's what people usually do there. Only later did I learn it's actually rude to city people
I recently set this a boundarie with the m.i.l. and she's still not over it..might never be..
Prior to ubiquitous cell phones, sometimes a friend would pop over if they were in the neighborhood. But now, if you don't text first, I'll watch your pouty little face through the peep hole until you dejectedly walk away.
Or texting you with just hello... Explain what you want in the initial message, so that I don't have to make the message appear red before I know approximately what you're going to ask of me. Then I can make the decision to wait a few hours if I know I don't have time now, or to ignore you all together. I've gotten to the point where if it's not my boss, I ignore anyone who starts with just hello until they send another message that is more detailed.
I don’t know how or when people started hated unexpected visitors. I am rarely doing anything so important that I can’t stop what I’m doing to have a visit with a friend or relative or thought enough of me to come visit. And add to that socializing with neighbors. If I’m outside and you wanna come over, again, I’m not doing anything so important that I can’t stop for a little chat
People only ever drop by my house unannounced when it looks like a tornado had gone through it. Nobody ever comes round when my house is nice and tidy.
Stopping in the middle of foot traffic to look at your phone/take in the view/pick your nose. Even if I can go around you, the sheer lack of consideration for others drives me insane.
I see this the most when I go grocery shopping with my wife. The sheer number of people that are oblivious to their surroundings is astonishing.
Sadly my elderly mother is one of those people. Either standing in the way, parking the cart like a road block or walking backwards while looking at a shelf and bumping into other people if I wouldn't hold her back
Load More Replies...Try getting to your daily commute, between 16h00 and 18h00 in Antwerp central station, in summer, when grandparents with their grandkids are going for the train back home from their trip to the zoo (which is 'next door' to Antwerp central station)
Don't try that in Boston or NYC. We have to deal with tourists, which are akin to a herd of cattle meandering down a path. We will physically push you out of our way. Gotta check your phone? Pull to the side.
People often rely on “unwritten rules” of behavior, like not talking on speakerphone in public, or leaving personal space in line. When someone breaks these social scripts, it causes discomfort. Even if the action is harmless, it feels like a disruption of the social contract. The tension comes not from what’s being done, but how off-script it feels.
Finally, people often don’t realize how their behavior is being received, or how it lands in different contexts. That friend who monologues without listening may not realize it’s draining. Or the coworker who hums while working may not notice others struggling to concentrate. The mismatch between intention and impact leads to friction, even when no one’s being malicious.
The overuse of the words “narcissist” and “projecting.” It’s TikTok pop psychology and more often than not used incorrectly by people who have a tenuous grasp on the concept in general.
And also words like “trauma” and “ptsd”. Half of the times they’re used quite incorrectly and unnecessarily.
The overuse of the term 'gaslighting' and I see it used incorrectly, far too often. I'm pleasantly surprised on the very few occasions that I've seen it used correctly.
Also "literally" or screaming "I can't breath" when arrested. If you can scream you can breathe and you're the stupid, not us listening you.
Seems like a catch- 22 there - if we can hear you saying you can't breathe, you CAN breathe. Maybe panic leant them the strength to plead for their life? Maybe they are trying to make a point of too much force being used?
Load More Replies...the overuse of the concept of "boundaries." People weaponize it and it's infuriating.
and they think it means that the other person has to change their behaviour🤷🏻♀️
Load More Replies...Therapy-speak in general. They're all important terms, but their casual use invalidates them. They're also often weaponised against people. Triggered, boundaries, gaslight, meltdown, etc. They're all real and very serious, but they're not used that way anymore. Edit, changed 'weapon used' to 'weaponised'. Thanks autocorrect
Far too much diagnosing of all sorts of things. People describing minor incidents - a dirty bathroom, FFS - giving them PTSD.
Kids running around without their parents in stores and restaurants.
And the parents, when they do show up, not apologizing to the establishment and other patrons, then not doing a d**n thing about their kids’ bad behavior. My parents were old school. We were taught how to behave in public. We didn’t run around like feral animals. We didn’t touch someone else’s stuff, and we certainly didn’t think we were entitled to have it. Our parents were mortified if we acted up in public, because it reflected badly on them. Now I don’t mean they had us acting like robots, we were allowed to be children when we were children. I just mean, when we were in stores, theatres, restaurants, offices, or other public places, we didn’t act like we were raised by spoiled brat chimpanzees, and we always had at least one of our parents with us at all times, because back then kids went missing in places like that if there weren’t responsible adults around.
I was at the grocery store with my daughter and grandkids and some super obnoxious teenagers were randomly pulling things off shelves. They did that in front of me and I made them pick it up. If you won't parent your children, I will.
Worked at a restaurant where another restaurant owner came in with wife and kid about 5yo. Let the kid run around the floor, going up to tables, staring at people, or running full length of the large window sill - past tables. I talked to the owner of my restaurant who did nothing. 3 of my tables got up and left. To make matters worse, one of my long-time regular tables wanted to speak to the owner, so I let him know, and he called my customer "sir" without even looking at her. She was a somewhat butch lesbian. They were the coolest customers but I never saw them again. Made me so mad.
Woman who was not showing any signs of stress like some harried parents do, allowed her two kids to run pell-mell through the aisles, banging into shoppers and causing a disruption. I told her there was a man lurking about that I suspected might be a p e d o, and she immediately rounded them up and kept them at her side.
I've been known to walk out of a restaurant because parents were letting their kids run round like it was an adventure playground. When I was growing up, dining out at a restaurant was a rare treat and I was expected to be on my very best behaviour. I expect the same from my daughters. They know that if they were to misbehave or be rude they would be marched straight off home. The same rule applied in supermarkets
My kids were taught to not do that or act up because there would be consequences.
Off leash dogs when there is an applicable leash law. Then the unleashed dog runs over to people with a leashed dog while the owner is yelling at the unleashed dog.
And maybe MY dog isn’t friendly, hence the reason they’re on a leash. Do they ever take that into consideration? Nope.
Load More Replies...I see this waaay too often when I'm on my bicycle. Dogs are generally in the mood to chase a bicycle. I deliberately stop and wait for them to pass me. I'm not interested in possibly being bit
Neighbor down the way always let her large, unruly dogs run amuck in the neighborhood. I'm talking a Rhodesian Ridgeback, replaced with an Akita, and ending up with some large mutt. Didn't matter how much we complained or reported her, she just didn't care. These dogs went after neighborhood pets and children. Well, I'd just had a rough day at work and was unloading my equipment when her dumb mutt flew through my yard after my cat. That's it. I smacked the dog so hard it went down. I threw it into my vehicle and took it to the pound with the caveat that I never wanted to see this beast in my neighborhood again. That was the last dog that b!tch owned.
And then they'll get upset with me when I put my foot out to block it.
My ex genuinely HATED people who enforced leash laws. He threw a hissy fit when I refused to automatically hate a random woman with him, and I spent far too much time over those few horrendous years trying to give examples about why it is not only considerate, but simply courteous, to keep your dog in your control, whether there are laws or not. He took it EXTREMELY personally when someone didn't want his dog to come up to them or their dog. Then again, he took everything personally, when someone told him something he didn't want to do, and enjoyed annoying people. One of the first times I saw his cowardice, though, was when a guy, who was in a group of guys, told him to get his dog down, because the dog was smashing some flowerbox flowers on the sidewalk (we were watching a parade and standing on the edges that were fit for humans, but not dogs). He didn't say a word in response, got down, and we walked off. He never said a word, and silently took it out on me later.
I constantly tried to explain people's fears, allergies, that maybe THEIR dog is not social or has reactions to unpredictable behaviors, etc etc etc. I beat my head on the wall trying to be patient and give him the benefit of SO MUCH DOUBT, about a lot of things that I finally admitted to myself he NEVER needed explained. I had NO idea, for far too long, how he intentionally played stupid and acted genuinely ignorant about what I considered to be basic human decency. Now I know he's not human, it all makes more sense, and was much easier to admit things to myself. But I digress.
Load More Replies...Every time some poor dog gets attacked by another dog, it is always the one that is not on the lead who attacks. It happened to my dog a few years ago. Dogs should be kept on leads in all public places. No ifs, no buts, no exceptions
Or letting them out in the neighborhood to poop. Letting them roam up and down the street free pooping in someone else's yard. Just so they don't have to pick up after them.
In short, we’re all shaped by different life experiences, temperaments, and expectations. What seems harmless to one person might hit a nerve for another, and vice versa. The key isn’t to assume people are being difficult, but to understand why something might land differently for them.
What do you think of the things in this list? Irrational, or totally normal? Upvote your favorites and don’t forget to leave a comment on the ones you found most relatable!
People with 0 spatial awareness. I became more cognizant of this during the pandemic, but some people really seem to walk around as if they have universal right of way and that no one else's personal space should be respected. Stopping in the middle of a busy walkway to stare at a wall. Walking slowly in the middle of the sidewalk and not giving way to someone walking or running by. D**n near running me over with their shopping cart when exiting an aisle instead of waiting 1 second for me to pass by. Breathing down my neck while waiting in line. Nearly stepping on my toes while I'm sitting on a bench even though there's plenty of space to give me breathing room. Its not just the egregious violations of personal space that gets me, but its as if some people arent even aware of or respect the people around them. Drives me nuts.
Me too - I'm not normally confrontational with strangers but, man, this makes me crazy. If someone has plenty of room to go around and they choose to walk all up on me from behind, I will stop dead in my tracks and make them run into me. LOL You know for a fact that people like this drive the same way! It's so incredibly rude!
I ride the subway a lot, and the one that always gets me is people stopping at the end of the escalator. MF I will push you out of the way, the escalator doesn't stop just because your dumb a*s got off. GTFO
Or the top or bottom of stairs! You need to find your transit card? Move the fúck to the side!
Load More Replies...I am not usually a confrontational person and will usually just remove myself from a situation. But this one day I was at the store that has a clear queue with a sign that says wait here for near available cashier. I was at the register and was getting very frustrated cuz my card was giving me trouble. I feel someone is inside my personal space so I’m trying to hurry and get out of there. It wasn’t working and this lady is now pushing me to the edge of a panic attack. I finally turned around and told her to back up repeatedly. She barely moved till a cashier stepped in got her to move
I had one woman crowding me from behind in line. Line was slow due to a big lottery draw that evening. Could feel her breath on my neck with every exasperated sigh. After about five minutes of this, I let loose a very loud, wet fart (not a shart, fortunately). Think it jogged her memory as she left to find something else in another aisle.
Situational awareness. It's another trait that has been excised from society..
Once when I was in college, I was nearly at the front of the line in a grocery store, just waiting for someone else to finish. I move up, the guy behind me moves up, and bumps me with his cart. Happened three times. The fourth time, I said, DO! NOT! BUMP! ME! WITH! YOUR! CART! AGAIN! -- bumping him *hard* with every word. Young woman, older male, zero spacial awareness, and throw in some power/control there, too. Felt so good, 10/10, would do again, highly recommend. The shocked Pikachu face he made was so worth it.
Headlights that are too strong or not dipped and always shining into your eyes.
The barstools that flash you when you're clearly on low beams but "oh your lights in my eyes". Wanna talk because yours are hurting mine too with those bloody blue xenon bulbs.
Also, when one of them is no longer set right and bounces around. Very annoying. I had an acquaintance who would leave right after me and one of her headlights was bouncing around. I said something to her, and since it didn't botherr her, she didn't see a need to fix it. It was annoying seeing in my rear view mirror.
I've heard people say the ones that are a problem just aren't installed right, at the right angle etc, but every car with LEDs I've seen has been a proble. How can they ALL be installed wrong? Also, they usually seem to have one of them at a lower brightness (but still too bright) than the other so...? A lot where I live also have colours that fade between blues and purples or yellows constantly for some reason. Talk about distracting!
Dumping liquid in a trash can.
It's gonna leak, my guy.
To be fair, a lot of places I've seen do not have a place to dump your unfinished beverage.
You mean, the ground outside???
Load More Replies...Dump any and all liquid there, on the street, then throw the can away. Liquid WILL evaporate.
Yeah, how is this so hard to comprehend? I pour mine along a curb or in the grass/dirt where it won't cause a mess. Have never had trouble.
Load More Replies...I'm in the middle. Indoors this is wrong, outdoors like a public trash can on a sidewalk, this is okay.
People coming into work when they are sick. Especially if they are going to sniffle and cough the entire day.
It should be. Stay the **** at home instead of infecting everybody else. Sadly employers often don't see the logic of this.
Load More Replies...The problem, here in France, is that the first three days are not paid even if a doctor signs you off. It's to discourage frivolous "oh my díck hurts (coincidentally it's the cup final today)" type of things, but three days is about €70 net per day or €210ish. Minimum wage workers *will* feel that, so they drag themselves into work and spread the plague due in no small part to their total inability to cover their mouths when they attempt to toss their uvula across the room.
This is absolutely not the case for most people in France. Presumably you're talking about people on zero-hour contracts like in fast food chains, but they're very much the exception, not the rule.
Load More Replies...For some people, a day off sick is a day's lost pay. Not everybody can afford that. Also not every illness is contagious
My job converted sick days into regular PTO days. So now people are coming in sick to avoid using their regular vacation days.
Next time the boss insists on the sick person coming in to work, ALL of the other employees should call in sick the next day. The employer should get the hint pretty quickly.
Yeah because we love going to the office so much that we absolutely want to go even when we're sick
Getting too hot, and not being able to cool down.
I can't for the life of me understand how people can find saunas relaxing. Getting hot shortens my internal fuse from Interstate length to driveway. 🥵 But what absolutely blows my mind is people complaining about hot weather - and then telling me that going to the sauna is one of their hobbues 🤯
Hot countries are more violent than cold countries. It's not a coincidence. I am from a hot country, and I can attest to this.
Load More Replies...Personally I would rather be too hot than too cold. I hate being cold.
For me, it's just my feet that get really hot. Really makes it hard to sleep, and it's not just during summer. Sometimes I have to put the air con on for an hour before bed just to cool my feet so I will be able to get to sleep.
People crowding around the luggage belt instead of stepping back so everyone can see what’s coming around them.
Are you saying the same a-holes who jump out of their seats when the plane lands, blocking the aisle and yanking their overhead bags onto your head, don't become courteous citizens at the luggage belt? Well, now I've heard everything.
I don't really see this behaviour that much anymore. Or maybe I'm just so unconcerned I don't really notice it. My bag will come out or it won't. Me putting my face on the conveyor isn't going to speed things up. The baggage claim is usually when I call my loved ones to let them know I arrived safely.
But you don’t understand; I’m in a much bigger rush and my time is far more valuable than yours!
Spelling lose as loose.
Breath/Breathe is one I notice far too often and infuriates me for no reason at all
Load More Replies...I'm going to disagree with this one. I teach English, so I understand the importance of correct spelling and grammar, but I'm also highly aware of how classist English is. It was designed, when it was standardised, to identify people of lower classes as they wouldn't be able to continue their education to the point they could spell difficult words correctly. Now, people's online comments are too often invalidated not because of what they said, but because of little mistakes that don't actually affect the readability of their comment. We're just continuing classism and I find it gross
Thank you for being a voice of reason here. People can be so snobbish when it comes to language. As an ESL speaker (now living in an English-speaking country), I really appreciate it.
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Not shutting off alarms when they go off.
My wife can hear her alarm, get up, get dressed, and head down to start breakfast and the blaring alarm doesn't bother her enough to turn it off.
my sister used to just leave hers going for like 30 minutes, dont know how she could stand not getting up after that
I used to live with someone who would sleep through multiple alarms. On my days off I'd have to force them up just to try to get back to the little extra sleep I might get. It's so rude.
I don't have to worry about this anymore, as I only live with my dad who is retired so doesn't set an alarm. I press snooze on mine a lot, but he is fairly deaf so doesn't hear it going off thankfully.
This is me, I have to admit. I often get up before my alarm, or between my original alarm and my snooze alarm. And then I forget to turn it off. And when it goes off and I'm in the living room, I can't be bothered to walk all the way to the bedroom, so I'd rather just deal with beeping for 1 minute. Plus, by the time you get there it's almost done ringing anyway. It drives my boyfriend absolutely nuts though, so I am really trying to remember it, or to walk there to turn it off for his sake.
I work from home, so people asking for a Teams call to explain in 20 mins what could be much more transparently and traceably explained in a 20 word email.
I have attended four teams 'meetings' (more like lectures) that were exactly identical during my time at my current job (about 3 years). Actually it was a lot of info, so about four lots of 2-3 sessions, plus one in person meeting with the same info. Then there have been two meetings in the last 6 months about another topic, that also were identical. All of which had been summarised at different times into emails with info sheets we had to print and display at our service!
Kind of defeats the WFH idea if you're being pestered by inefficient co-workers.
Plus, an additional six people were invited to the Teams meeting just in case they might be interested or affected or lonely.
A wet sleeve.
During the winter I play the game of "what is the minimum I need to push my sleeves up doing the dishes to avoid splash without freezing." I don't always win.
So many of these are like, "If you had the sense god gave a goose...!"
Load More Replies...Yep, I have to change my shirt if I was careless enough not to roll my sleeves up.
Co workers getting smoking and vaping breaks when non smokers don’t. F**k right off.
Here everyone is generally entitled to one break in the morning and one in the afternoon, no more if you’re a smoker.
What hellhole do you work in? Everyone should get a break, not just the ones with addictions.
Breaks? Who gets breaks? :) Working in childcare, I get a half hour break only if my shift exceeds 6 hours, which it only does once or twice during the school holiday program. Otherwise I have to work for five hours on my own, meaning I am lucky to be able to go to the toilet during my shift, because kids can do a lot of damage to themselves even in that amount of time.
I kept an unlit cigarette in my desk and would go with them outside when they took a break. I didn't smoke, just held my cigarette and stood upwind.
When people say "exspecially" instead of "especially".
I say expresso because that is correct where I live. Espresso is only correct in Italy.
Load More Replies...This song makes me laugh -- "Me N' Annie Gonna Axe Her Momma" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=snS-FUhbyYE
Load More Replies...Finna is used in place of "fixing to" in the same way that gonna means "going to"
Load More Replies...I once received a prayer request for someone having a problem with their corroded artery.
Or 'arks' instead of 'ask'. An old friend of mine used to do this. She was fully aware it was wrong but couldn't change it, so I just had to get used to it. Also when we played Cluedo she pronounced Colonel Mustard as 'Colonial' Mustard
"Probly" is almost as bad. "Defnally" does my head in.
Load More Replies...Picking up an item in the supermarket and it's sticky.
...with *what*? That's the question. Sometimes one doesn't want to know the answer.
Yurk! I once did that and went screaming to the checkout for a tissue. Bless them they gave me a wet wipe and didn't act like I was a lunatic (it would have been hard to tell the difference at that point).
Did a jar break in transit and no one noticed its contents got on the other jars or did some selfish chucklehead open the container to take a sniff and put it back? You decide.
I did this with chicken once. It was all wet on the bottom and dried all sticky on my hand. I wasn't even half way through the store, and I couldn't stop thinking about how everything I put in my cart now has raw chicken bacteria on it. I couldn't wait to get home.
🤢Our store offers sanitary wipes and plastic bags in the meat area
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Leaving time on the microwave.
I always leave 1 second bc the stupid microwave will beep so many times when done and that drives me insane.
When mine turns to 1 second, I hit stop because I don't need to hear the beeps. This causes it to revert back to the time.
But leaving one second of the microwave annoys my wife so much that it is worth watching the timer.
Bottles rolling around inside a plastic bag while a car is moving.
I have had a bag of bottles and cans to take to the container deposit (10c refund) scheme in my car for about two weeks (but at least they are in there instead of sitting by the bins like they did for months) and going over speed bumps is really annoying. All so I can get about $10 back.
I bring my own bags, because thos plastic one's are trash. (Plus now we have to pay for them.) I arrange things in my bags so that the bottles are all separate, and can't knock against another bottle.
Water droplets on kitchen or bathroom floor when I'm in socks.
They're sharing a stack of yummy food to feel better after the one on the left stepped on water in their socks first thing in the morning.
Load More Replies...Problem is, I usually only have myself to blame, because I'm the one who spilled it and didn't clean it. So it usually goes *step* 'ugh! D**n past me!'
I hate it with a vengeance, I have to change into dry socks 10 times a day. I am the culprit of the water droplets 90% of the time, so I can't even blame anyone. The hand towel is on the other side of the kitchen from the water tap, so after washing my hands I always get water on the floor while walking towards the towel. I just can't find a solution, this is the only place where you can comfortable put a hand towel.
Crowd participation.
I have no idea what a "dogging site" is. Without your edit, I would have no idea that it was a joke.
Load More Replies...I also hate when the emcee isn't satisfied with the audience response and says something like, "I can't hear youuuu! I said who is excited to get this show started!" and they make you yell louder. Nope.
I don't know.....singing along w/ the Grateful Dead at shows was a ton of fun, esp when the band would stop and let the fans fill in the next line of the song. Pretty cool to hear thousands of people singing the same thing really loud in the venue.
Confusing i.e. and e.g. I know it’s petty and a totally stupid irritation, but it makes me nuts.
For those who also weren't aware of the difference, "i.e." stands for id est, meaning "that is" or "in other words," used to clarify or specify something already mentioned. "E.g." stands for exempli gratia, meaning "for example," used to introduce examples illustrating a point.
I always remember e.g. as eggsample. That way I always know what it means.
Load More Replies...Yes! The full spelling is et cetera, Latin for “and all the rest” (et means and, cetera means all the rest—-sorry, two years of Latin in school—-a lot of it kind of sticks with you). Full or shortened, the “c” always comes after the “t”. It isn’t ec tetera, ffs.
Load More Replies...i.e., don’t use latin abbreviations, e.g. i.e., unless you know what they mean.
The toilet paper being backwards, but i have a feeling this is not a minor thing in many people's eyes...
I have had cats for over 50 years (off and on) and never had a cat play with the TP; where do these psycho-kitties come from?
I don’t have 50 years of experience, but none of my nor my family’s cats has ever done that with toilet paper either. Just lucky?
Load More Replies...Many people that have cats are said to put the toilet paper on backwards, but I'm just trying to avoid the entire roll from being shredded.
Having a cat - or some dogs - is the only acceptable reason to have the toilet paper on backwards.
Load More Replies...If the person lives with cats, there's a valid reason for putting the TP on backwards. Otherwise, it's just shows they have no class.
Some industrial and workplace settings have to dispensers that can only be accessed by the backwards position. If you turn the roll to the correct position, you can't easily reach the paper end
The 1891 patent literally illustrates how one should put toilet paper on a roll holder. The edge of the paper that one would pull down should not be touching a cabinet or a wall.
When people step on the back of my flip flop accidentally. I don’t know why is triggers me so bad 😩.
OMG It's my freakin kids! Why are you trying to climb into my butt? Just stand next to me or give me three feet of space.
Load More Replies...When my kids keep kicking the back of my shoes while we walk... back the f*** up spawn of me!
Not just flip flops. Had a person who was apparently in some sort of trance step on the back of my sneaker so my foot popped out. When I turned around and told him to back the ef off, he acted like I was the rude one.
When someone opens something that has plastic but doesn’t take the plastic all the way off.
For example, sour cream. My gf will open the tub and peel back the plastic almost all the way, but then smooths it back down and puts the lid back on.
I do that 😂. I have this really weird idea that it will somehow protect the stuff inside better if the plastic cover stays on. I know it’s weird and doesn’t make sense, but idk, I just do that.
Why you want to remove the seal from your food container after you open it...keeping the seal after the product has been opened can lead to a higher risk for contamination from continual touching, according to Tetro, who recommends removing the seal as soon as you open the product. If you must leave it on for some reason (ahem, can’t admit defeat), he advises washing your hands before touching it. But your best bet it to just accept that seals were meant to be broken…and discarded.
Load More Replies...I do this with ice cream because it doesn't frost over as easily. If the pint doesn't have plastic, I use plastic wrap before replacing the cap.
I do that, because the main lid was not sterile, it could have been opened and touched before I bought it.
Being inexact in wording.
I can’t stand being misunderstood, it makes me feel like an idiot.
I hate it when I say something to someone and they misunderstand and I realise it was because I wasn’t clear.
Find it hard to properly articulate some times.
I sometimes get nervous and ramble and put together random words that don’t even fit together in a sentence. It’s so irritating for me.
In this context it should have been, but there are some times when it isn't. In this case, I don't imagine it prevented you reading the post
Load More Replies...Or the other way around. Like when you work or live with someone who mumbles, or just isn’t the greatest natural communicator. They know what they mean, and assume everyone else does too, even if they are incredibly vague or blatantly say it incorrectly. Learn how to communicate clearly and don’t just assume people immediately “get” what you said. The worst is the one who thinks you should “just know” what they want, like you can read their mind. They are people who are doomed to be disappointed and to make anyone around them utterly miserable trying to deal with them. (Oh hell to the yeah I have dealt with people like this my entire life. Worked with some, friends with some, related to some.)
Some of this is on the receiver. Precise words don't matter to a blind horse.
One of the many side effects of repeated traumatic head injuries is aphasia, which is incredibly frustrating for me and people I speak with. And if you interrupt me, it's over. My mind goes blank. End of conversation. Even these silly little comments need to be reread and edited due to aphasia.
This is amusing to me. I write science fiction as a sort of hobby (hoping to publish if any house will want it) and a fellow writer and I debate the use of dictation software. He uses it, I don't. For me, the additional time between my brain forming the idea and my hands typing the sentences gives me time to choose the best words. My speech, on the other hand, is dreadful on a good day. Finding the right words to say in the moment is difficult.
I hate when I ask a clear, precise question that can be answered with one word.... and get an anwer that either has nothing to do with the question or is exactly 4 whole sentences too long before getting to the point
I am constantly correcting myself at work because I will give kids an instruction, then realise how it could be misinterpreted, then try and say it correctly quickly before they do the wrong thing.
When I have a water bottle in my bag and I can hear the water sloshing around.
Fkn barking fkn mongrel fkn dogs. People who make noise when they yawn. When people say ''step foot''; it's SET FOOT. ''I won't SET foot in that shop again'', not ''I won't STEP foot in that shop again''.
What about people that do an extra loud scream when sneezing?
Load More Replies...Summer is starting here in the US Midwest, soon every establishment will be unnecessarily cold. AC is nice when it's hot out, but how cold does it need to be? We just do carryout 99% of the time, I can't deal with the cold, the noise, the people, the waiting, the forced tipping.
Well here on the East coast, when it hits late spring (bout a month and a half ago) I'd rip my own arm out and beat myself with it to have AC that worked that well.
Load More Replies...People that are 2 stupid or, 2 lazy to either put a shopping cart in the rack or take it back to the store.
Especially the ones that dump them in the handicapped spaces. So many times I have seen handicapped people have to stop,nget out of their car, move 2 or 3 carts just so they can park. I do try and help if I am close enough.
Load More Replies...Forcing interactions with children. "Your uncle can help you", "Ask your uncle", "You should hold the baby and entertain it"... I'm not far away from telling my family that I don't care at all about cro.tch goblins, related or not. Edit: Also b******t censoring on normal words on websites with a f*****g stick up ther a*s like BP
Willful ignorance. When someone doesn't know something and is too lazy to spend a couple minutes learning even a little about it before they continue to spew their stupidity. There is a lot I don't know, but if someone is speaking to me about it or it's applicable to my life in any way I'll at least learn the basics...
Having your phone's notifications repeatedly go off in public spaces. I'm talking library, bus, waiting room. Hardly anybody else is bothered by that musical tone. Even wearing NC headphones won't block the sound
People who do not answer to hello, dirty dishes ON TOP of the empty dishwasher instead of in it, people who drive so close behind you that you can see the white in their eyes, people you see the first time speaking informal to you, easy opening packages wich are only opening of you use a machete, the vegetables in my neighbors garden looking much better than mine and all he does is ignoring them. The list is endless 😩
People who leave empty packets/jars/boxes/bottles in cupboards. You think you've got something, you take it out of the cupboard and guess what, it's empty. My hubby does this and when I asked him why he said that he put the empties back in the cupboard so that I know we haven't got it. NO. If it's not there at all then I know we haven't got it.
Fkn barking fkn mongrel fkn dogs. People who make noise when they yawn. When people say ''step foot''; it's SET FOOT. ''I won't SET foot in that shop again'', not ''I won't STEP foot in that shop again''.
What about people that do an extra loud scream when sneezing?
Load More Replies...Summer is starting here in the US Midwest, soon every establishment will be unnecessarily cold. AC is nice when it's hot out, but how cold does it need to be? We just do carryout 99% of the time, I can't deal with the cold, the noise, the people, the waiting, the forced tipping.
Well here on the East coast, when it hits late spring (bout a month and a half ago) I'd rip my own arm out and beat myself with it to have AC that worked that well.
Load More Replies...People that are 2 stupid or, 2 lazy to either put a shopping cart in the rack or take it back to the store.
Especially the ones that dump them in the handicapped spaces. So many times I have seen handicapped people have to stop,nget out of their car, move 2 or 3 carts just so they can park. I do try and help if I am close enough.
Load More Replies...Forcing interactions with children. "Your uncle can help you", "Ask your uncle", "You should hold the baby and entertain it"... I'm not far away from telling my family that I don't care at all about cro.tch goblins, related or not. Edit: Also b******t censoring on normal words on websites with a f*****g stick up ther a*s like BP
Willful ignorance. When someone doesn't know something and is too lazy to spend a couple minutes learning even a little about it before they continue to spew their stupidity. There is a lot I don't know, but if someone is speaking to me about it or it's applicable to my life in any way I'll at least learn the basics...
Having your phone's notifications repeatedly go off in public spaces. I'm talking library, bus, waiting room. Hardly anybody else is bothered by that musical tone. Even wearing NC headphones won't block the sound
People who do not answer to hello, dirty dishes ON TOP of the empty dishwasher instead of in it, people who drive so close behind you that you can see the white in their eyes, people you see the first time speaking informal to you, easy opening packages wich are only opening of you use a machete, the vegetables in my neighbors garden looking much better than mine and all he does is ignoring them. The list is endless 😩
People who leave empty packets/jars/boxes/bottles in cupboards. You think you've got something, you take it out of the cupboard and guess what, it's empty. My hubby does this and when I asked him why he said that he put the empties back in the cupboard so that I know we haven't got it. NO. If it's not there at all then I know we haven't got it.
