Woman Posts Outfit Pics Her Boyfriend Hates, Captions Each One With A Quote From Him (31 New Pics)
Olivia Jackson, a twenty-something-year-old Londoner, believes that nobody should succumb to outside pressure when it comes to clothing choices; people are free to wear whatever the hell they want. Even if the objections are coming from their significant other.
To illustrate her point, Jackson started a series called Clothes My Boyfriend Hates. "I'd started to really enjoy fashion but my boyfriend constantly made sarcastic comments about what I was wearing," the blogger said about the origins of her project. "I knew I couldn't be the only person who was just carrying on wearing what I wanted regardless, but equally I knew that there would be people out there who were impacted by their partner's or other's opinions – because I'd been there myself.
"So I thought I'd start documenting these clothes my boyfriend hates. Since then, I've been on a mission to empower women to do what makes them feel great."
Below, you will find the latest entries to Clothes My Boyfriend Hates and if you like the pictures, fire up Bored Panda's earlier piece on the series as well!
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Don’t mind me, just squinting & working at home in my bright pink boilersuit! Oh how much my boyfriend hates this one. Think he made a joke about looking like a fluorescent mechanic when I first got it, ironically I now work in the automotive industry (but definitely not anywhere near the underneath of cars!)
My mind went to fluorescent mechanic too.... not that that's a bad thing
Jackson wanted to, and still aims to, empower women to dress for themselves rather than for others around them. And it's working. She regularly gets messages from women thanking her for inspiring them to be a bit braver with their fashion choices, which she absolutely loves.
The blogger herself gets her wardrobe inspiration from a lot of different places, particularly from the brilliant women who are on Instagram.
"I definitely inherited my love of bright colors from my mum and my grandma!" Jackson told Bored Panda. "I don't follow any specific rules or concepts—I just wear what makes me happy. I try to shop from lots of different places, mostly on the high street, but I'm always discovering new smaller brands to try. My more recent favorite discovery is Leim; functional jumpsuits you can go to the toilet in without taking them off!"
As you all know, spotty baggy dresses with trainers are usually #clothesmyboyfriendhates but a two year old said I was a princess whilst wearing it which he agreed with so this ones a winner!
Jackson's posts often include what she calls "sarcastic tones," which can be confusing for some viewers.
She said that very occasionally, the tone of her Instagram and blog posts is misinterpreted to mean that her boyfriend is controlling what she wears, which is absolutely not the case. After all, Olivia's partner still comes out with her wearing a hospital gown or a mechanic's outfit and is totally supportive.
"It's fair to say the sarcastic comments haven't stopped, and he still rolls his eyes at my fashion choices; I don't think that will ever stop!"
A throwback because I love this (hated) dress I also love the fact this photo was taken about 7/8pm and it was LIGHT! I find the dark mornings/afternoons of the winter really hard & horrible. I don’t mind the cold at all, but as soon as it starts getting dark at 4pm at work I’m pretty sure my brain decides its time to shut down and I have to try 10x harder to focus. Anyone else!?
"Neither [me nor my boyfriend] thought my project would be this popular! I think he's very proud of the community of empowered women I've built and is happy that I'm enjoying posting the clothes he hates," Jackson said.
Wearing clothes that she feels truly comfortable in, Jackson found that her friends and family love her new style. Now, she encourages everyone to do the same.
Boyfriend famously called this the technicolour dream dress.
oooh! the boyfriend description made me laugh but i think the dress is really pretty
When he rolls his eyes at your dress.. then his sister turns up at ours also in a spotty dress. We didn’t even plan it
I ~might~ have bought the most hated item yet!? I loved wearing this on New Year’s Eve. J came in when I was getting ready and said, ‘oh I thought you were wearing that new dress tonight’ ‘yes but I felt too overdressed’ ‘so you put on a velvet smoking jacket to wear INSIDE?’ Well...
In all seriousness it’s going to be a jacket which lasts me years I’m sure.
Just another pair of leather trousers he hates ‘but not as much as the other leather trousers, they’re awful’ so I’m taking this as a win.
These leather trousers are defo the most hated item at the moment. I love this outfit for work though - a good balance of feeling smarter than jeans but still super comfy and fashionable.Despite layering up, I was still freezing in them today though - anyone else feel the cold easily!?
Your boyfriend obviously has taste because look at you, but not in fashion!
A baggy dress and jacket he hates but we’re relaxing by the sea and life is good.
I’m sure you can imagine the granny/Princess Margaret-based comments this @andotherstories cardigan attracted. The magpie in me loves the buttons!
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT DAD SANDALS? Is that even what they’re called? Or dork sandals as me and my mum call them? These got an ‘absolutely NOT’ from the boyfriend but I love them. They’re @johnlewisandpartners (popped a link on my stories) and are soo comfy. I’ve also lusted after many a @teva and @arizona.l.o.v.e pair too. They’ve been perfect for long coastal walks this weekend, as well as for pottering around town, much to my boyfriend’s dismay. I’ll share some of my fave accounts who rock a chunky sandal on my stories too! X
Oh these matching pyjamas are definitely #clothesmyboyfriendhates. I’m not sure if it’s cos they’re matching (and matching my phone case); the pattern; or the fact I am wearing them on repeat that he hates. They’re so comfy though. Something I’ll miss when life goes back to ‘normal’ is being ready for bed, make up off, skincare routine done and in some jazzy pyjamas at 9pm. As much as I LOVE an early night I probably only used to have one once a month or so. Having a (busy) full time job, this wonderful account, and various other bits to keep me busy I probably didn’t take enough time to just *chill*. That being said I am also very ready for a big night out / rosé on the beach somewhere hot at lunchtime / just an after work beer. For now I’ll stay in these dreamy jammies and watch desperate housewives with a tea.
A hated polka dot dress: winter edition. I wore this a lot in spring and summer with a tee underneath (swipe across) but today I popped it on with a roll neck underneath with some tights and boots and ta-dah! A winter outfit. J even asked me if it was new.
Can’t wait to get this ‘dressing gown’ coat back on now the colder weather is coming! He reeeeally hates this one. I have no idea why ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Put on a bright jumper and spotty headband on Saturday I know if J was about he’d defo be taking the piss out of my headband matching my phone case / my bright jumper / the fact I was even bothering to get dressed when we are going nowhere! It’s been three weeks now & I think I might miss his sarcastic comments 🤪 surely not!
My total guilty pleasure, this onesie. I hate that I love it. It’s so comfy. I miss it when it’s in the wash. Perfect for the unpacking I’ve been doing this evening. Anyone else got guilty pleasure house clothes? (This isn’t even one he hates, he bought it for me years ago )
Went for my daily walk in my nightie ‘but it doesn’t look like you’re going out in a nightie, it just looks like one, y’know?’ - I’ll take that as a win. I’ll link this on my stories as it’s in the sale and dreamy. Pearl straps and jewel print - what more could you want!? Will wear with a t shirt under it in spring too, and a roll neck in winter👌And yes, I am working on getting my chest the same colour as my arms and getting rid of the watch strap tan line
When we move I’ll treat you guys to a new mirror and a tidy hallway (lol, ok, I’ll treat myself) but for now you’ve got this my gold spot dress paired with biker boots from Saturday night are totally
Lovely dress & boots! I'm curious about the boyfriend's looks though ... good on this girl to keep wearing what she likes and mock the BF at the same time with her account :-D
Not worn these in a while but think it’s time to bring back what he calls the CLOWN TROUSERS . They basically feel like wearing trackies outside the house though - which is win win, right? Do you have any clothes which feel super comfy but don’t look slobby?
Ha, I have pants like these in jeans coloured tencel. Pinocchio trousers, according to my husband. Too bad for him I love them :-P
I’M SO HAPPY TO BE IN BOOTS! Less happy that my boyfriend asked if I was going to a ‘funeral rather than dinner? I thought you were going to a Turkish restaurant?’ (I did have a spectacular chicken sis and halloumi chips). As nervous as I am about a long covid winter ahead, I’m pleased the hot weather has left, I was ready for a change! I looove jumpers and boots. How about you? What’s your favourite season? X
Even managed to wear something he hates to the gym I love this sweatshirt.
I even like this one, but it doesn't look too comfortable for the gym
How I feel about lockdown 3.0 oh what I’d give to be heading out in a totally fabulous, extra, coat to see friends without a care in the world (or a mask in sight!). But hey. Here we are - and I’m very aware that relatively I’m very lucky. If it’s ok with you, I’ll continue to share the clothes my boyfriend hates and hopefully making you smile during the next few weeks. That’s on the days I’m bothered to get dressed. They’re a bit scarce now, but happen occasionally, I promise...! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We’ve made it through another lockdown day & I did it smiling in toddler clothes. As my boyfriend took this photo he said ‘those slippers are truly ridiculous.’ Yes but they’re so fluffy and so pink (and a lovely gift from @thehomebeautylab ). Anyone else up for wearing ‘ridiculous’ clothes while WFH? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Still wishing I was going to the pub in this. Really miss Thursday and Friday night post-work drinks. But feeling more and more hopeful that it’ll happen soon! I don’t think I need to explain why he hates this jacket... ‘It’s not pink enough!’ bring on going out in bright clothes!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Patent coats my boyfriend hates even in all black I’m getting an eye roll as we’re leaving the house. He moaned then agreed to take a photo, background his choice (‘bet you’ve never posted a photo with a toilet above you ey! Let’s think of a good toilet pun for you to post!’) Despite the toilet jokes all the way home, it felt good to be out. We headed to a local outdoor market, I was on the hunt for a fresh wreath (didn’t find one so if you have any recommendations in NE London let me know!). Now on the sofa with a roast in the oven, a candle lit and a glass of red wine in hand. We made it through another lockdown weekend, friends
Huh. So he got to choose the background when you wanted your photo taken? Just wait until HE wants a photo of himself. Live in fear, bruh!
I got an eye roll this evening for my daily walk attire #clothesmyboyfriendhates
#ShinyToesMyBoyfriendHates - naturally. Sliders had to stay on so you wouldn’t see my twat tan 😬 hope you’ve all had a great weekend!
I seem unable to wear fully black! Clashing prints my boyfriend hates I wear this camo jacket with leopard quite a lot and really like the combo. When I was wearing this jacket last week not only my boyfriend, but also his friends, kept telling me I was wearing nothing but stripes on my arms 🤦♀️😂 can’t win (PS my boyfriend RATES masks and thinks you should wear one even if it is in a print he hates👌)
Leather trousers guarantee an eye roll. Every. Single. Time! I hope everyone had a lovely weekend! No settling snow here but we hunkered down today anyway (and pretty much every day at the moment, right!? ). Lockdown feels relentless at the moment - sending big love to everyone else who’s feeling totally meh! I’m watching musicals on BBC at the moment whilst eating cake which is helping.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Christmas party mode: on. Pretty sure my colleagues hated this feathery and organza combo too when I wore it to our party on Thursday night! I’m still undecided what I’ll wear on Christmas Day though.. do you get dressed up or stay casual?
Has anyone kindly suggested to this woman that she should get herself a new boyfriend who does not criticize her choices but loves her creativity? Constant criticism wears down a person's self esteem.
If there's 31 outfits your boyfriend is openly derisive of, it may be time to get a new boyfriend.
My bf has little nicknames for the items of clothing that he doesn't like (e.g. this guy calling the coat her 'dressing gown coat') and it's funny. I like wearing stuff that he doesn't like, I enjoy the little grumbles. I find it amusing and it's part of our dynamic. He would never actually try and stop me from wearing something.
Yeah I am very confused. Why would her partner hate one outfit and least 31? Maybe it is a joke between them (I hope so) but if not he sounds like an abusive man.
I hated my boyfriend's fashion sense. Now we're married. You sound immature. Clothes do not make a person, taste is subjective.
It's not immature to have concerns about what it means that the boyfriend criticizes her clothes. Maybe it's done jokingly, but we don't know that. How would you feel if every time you wore something, your partner or a friend said "that's ugly"?
If he hates her taste that much, why is he still with her?
I mean I think it's immature to insult someone for having a different opinion but you do you.
I had a boyfriend who complained about what I wore and tried to control what I wore when we went out together. I dumped the boyfriend and kept my clothes because everytime he insulted my outfit it would chip away at my self-esteem.
Well done
I had a girlfriend ages ago that would critique everything I wore. In such a condescending way, as if I should know better. I wasn't "fashion savvy" at all, and hadn't really worried about such things previously, so I just went along and took her advice... but I should have seen it as a big red flag. If someone starts to control one aspect of your life, they move on to others.
I had a boyfriend who always badgered me to dress "a little more sexy." I think I have always dressed a little bit sexy, so I deemed his version of what he wanted me to wear to be slutty. He got mad at me for calling clothes slutty because it shamed women. Since I couldn't win, I dumped him instead.
He sounds like an ass and I'm glad you dumped him, but "slutty" does shame women.
just a genuine question, is it normal for people to have over 31 outfits?
Why not?
I have more than 31. I really like clothes. Haha.
No new material? You posted this last year.
I don't think I even have 31 outfits total.
Me neither. I have two jeans, one formal trouser and like maybe 15 thsirts and shirts.
I'm not a big fan of your clothes either - BUT you are a very beautiful woman and should just wear whatever you like whenever you like - no matter what I og other people say!!!
Way to make a girl feel pretty! Imagine every time you show your new outfit to your partner, he/she shoots it down. But if she's fine about it, then good luck to them.
why your boyfriend hate ALL your clothes
I think a lot of people didn't read the entire description that was posted throughout this article- she says he's not serious about any of it, and he really does support her wearing whatever the hell she wants, no matter his opinion. That being said, though I wish they had made it a bit more obvious- I feel almost like they're baiting us with the placement of that little disclaimer....
Yet another thread where the OPs comments are cut off mid sentence.
What is missing here is context. I'm seeing a lot of "get rid of him" posts. She doesn't seem to be bothered by his opinion (just a guess, I could be wrong). It's been a tough year, and at this point, many people, myself included, are just looking for a little fun in anything. Personally, I can relate to this girl and this sounds like something I would do to poke fun at my boyfriend, if nothing else, just for a laugh. You do you girl!
Girl needs a new boyfriend.. unless this is for interweb-likes only
This is for interweb-likes only.
Is there anything he does like?
It doesn't sound like her boyfriend likes her very much.
The loathing for polka dots makes me wonder if he has trypophobia (fear or disgust of closely-packed holes).
Throw the whole boyfriend out
Keep the clothes, get a new boyfriend
Honestly, I didn't care for any of these outfits either. But who the hell cares, I'm not your boyfriend. But the way we dress is a part of our personalities, so if he hates everything you put on, he just might not be the right fit for you.
So what does he wear?
I think it's time to see the bf's clothing. I have a blouse that my husband hates, its sleeveless and floral with an empire waist and he says it looks too old for me and like something his aunt would wear lol...I still wore it.
I'm a woman and I side with the bf for almost every outfit they are pretty bad
It does not matter if they're bad. What matters is whether or not he supports what she feels comfortable in, and how she chooses to express herself.
Same. The bf has good eye; these are bad.
I wonder how many of her outfits her boyfriends likes? :)
You're beautiful, and you have a funky cool style. Your boyfriend sounds like an insecure controlling asshole. You can do better than him. In the future, what else will he say he doesn't like about you.
I don’t think my husband has ever said he “hates” anything I have ever worn. It’s super cool that you two can joke like that! :)
girl all of the outfits are cute
If you feel good in something, wear it. I'm guessing there are things your boyfriend wears that you hate. Do you comment on his clothes?
Where are the quotes?
I love how the reasons he hates most of the clothes aren’t really in a horrible way, but more a teasing kind of way. That’s what I got from it, at least.
Is it just me or would she look so much better if she pulled her shoulders back and didn't stand like she slightly embarrassed to be here. Be proud of your style, no matter what he says, sarcastically or otherwise.
Not even funny. Dump him! And stop promoting such behaviour as funny and instagram-worthy! This is unhealthy and you are sending a wrong message to millions of girls out there, who might begin to think that their boyfriends always giving them caustic comments on every outfit they chose are "funny" or "playful."
I suspect boyfriend has no fashion sense, no daring, not a "stand out from the crowd" attitude. Fine for him. Don't EVER let anyone hold you back from wearing what you want. My answer to anyone is "When you buy my clothes, I MIGHT wear what you want!"
To be honest most of the outfits where weirdly put together and don't fit her body type. She seems rather small with not a lot curves. That's of course not the problem. She is really cute but most of the clothes make her look stocky and that's a shame. Of course you can wear want you want. There are no rules but there are theories.
Don't change your style, change your boyfriend.
I guess no one knows what goes on behind closed doors in someone else's relationship. I think people are rightly concerned that the boyfriend is controlling or damaging her self esteem by being critical of her clothes. But we don't know if it's a running joke between the two of them, if she is confident enough to not care or if their relationship is good or bad in other ways. Those of us who have experienced abusive, controlling or gaslighting partners will maybe recognise this kind of behaviour and be concerned where as those who haven't may be more able to see this as humorous banter between a couple. If this is happening to you and it's making you unhappy then maybe the relationship isn't a good thing for you and you might need to consider leaving, however hard that might be. Protect yourself and your self worth.
However I support dress what you want and what is comfortable for you, by most of boyfriends judgements I agree with him.
Don't throw out the clothes. Throw out the boyfriend.
My partner only makes fun of me when I wear my Jeep shirts... because use Jeepers are like a "cult" haha
You are a beautiful young lady, but the choice of outfits are frumpy looking. They are not flattering. Boots don't go with everything. Doesn't matter what the boyfriend says. But you aren't in your 40s. Good luck .
Maybe he’d prefer you start wearing booty shorts and those horrid underboob crop top things. I don’t follow fashion, I do me. I have a variety of styles that I wear, from girly to androgynous to rock chick to downright quirky and out there. My husband doesn’t care what I wear, and even if he did, I’d tell him to STFU.
Where what you want girl! All of those outfits were STUNNING on you!!! Nobody can tell you what to do
I really didn't read it like that. He doesn't stop her from wearing anything. My bf is similar, makes little digs but I find it funny. In fact, the more he hates something the more I enjoy wearing it.
What DOES he like ? My bf hates hoop earings, lol.
She's a beatiful girl! But, she could luse someone to help her shop and pick out clothes. A few outfits were ok, but most were not.
Um, I guess I need to post mine because they are WAY wilder than this.. like onesies and frilly stuff and feather jackets that get in his face. MOST of these are super tame...the BF is just uptight
I think that everyone looks amazing. Honestly.
THIRTY. ONE. Beautiful outfits, he hates. Girl, throw the dude out! Those are v pretty and I swear, I frikin looooooove them and would wear. Every. Single. Day!
Your guy seems pretty lame....why does he have so many voiced opinions on how you clothes your body?
The only thing that annoys me, is that she seems to look great in anything. Whereas I have a choice of just 2 styles in just 2 colours or else I look stupid.
Does he even love you? Wonder what he looks like now.
Wear what you want but DON'T ask for an opinion (so many people do this, and especially when they're wearing something AWFUL)
She doesn't. Did you bother reading the post.
He’s just jealous. 😂
OMG I loved every single of her outfits her boyfriend must not have any good sense of style if he hates on his girlfriends outfits
Keep the clothes, lose the boyfriend. You look delightful in all of this.
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The guy is a gobshite! How dare he! I think he may have control issues. Time to go find a guy who's a little less sneery and critical.
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It's really sad that she's been gaslighted into thinking that it's ok for her boyfriend to tell her how stupid she is and how ugly her clothing choices are...and thinking it's something to brag about. ...///... He's an abusive asshole and she needs to get away from him as fast as she can.
Um... where did he call her stupid? My boyfriend grumbles about my clothes and has funny nicknames for the pieces that he especially hates, but it's all fun and in good humour. He would never tell me not to wear something, and he is FAR from abusive. I enjoy the dynamic, and I love wearing the clothes that he hates.
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There's a few ok things in there, but for the most part I have to agree with him. Potato sacks, pants that make you look like you're in diapers, granny vests and overall lots of cuts/models that are very unflattering on you. Sorry girl, if this is all there is in your wardrobe you have horrible taste
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None of the outfits were ugly. I think he just likes a certain type of clothes on her (shall we say sexy and feminine, typical bloke?) lol
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Um...are you sure your bf is straight? I don't know any men who do this to their ladies. I can understand that some pieces fit better than others, but most of these were really basic clothes, and there's a LOT of them.
If there's 31 outfits your boyfriend is openly derisive of, it may be time to get a new boyfriend.
My bf has little nicknames for the items of clothing that he doesn't like (e.g. this guy calling the coat her 'dressing gown coat') and it's funny. I like wearing stuff that he doesn't like, I enjoy the little grumbles. I find it amusing and it's part of our dynamic. He would never actually try and stop me from wearing something.
Yeah I am very confused. Why would her partner hate one outfit and least 31? Maybe it is a joke between them (I hope so) but if not he sounds like an abusive man.
I hated my boyfriend's fashion sense. Now we're married. You sound immature. Clothes do not make a person, taste is subjective.
It's not immature to have concerns about what it means that the boyfriend criticizes her clothes. Maybe it's done jokingly, but we don't know that. How would you feel if every time you wore something, your partner or a friend said "that's ugly"?
If he hates her taste that much, why is he still with her?
I mean I think it's immature to insult someone for having a different opinion but you do you.
I had a boyfriend who complained about what I wore and tried to control what I wore when we went out together. I dumped the boyfriend and kept my clothes because everytime he insulted my outfit it would chip away at my self-esteem.
Well done
I had a girlfriend ages ago that would critique everything I wore. In such a condescending way, as if I should know better. I wasn't "fashion savvy" at all, and hadn't really worried about such things previously, so I just went along and took her advice... but I should have seen it as a big red flag. If someone starts to control one aspect of your life, they move on to others.
I had a boyfriend who always badgered me to dress "a little more sexy." I think I have always dressed a little bit sexy, so I deemed his version of what he wanted me to wear to be slutty. He got mad at me for calling clothes slutty because it shamed women. Since I couldn't win, I dumped him instead.
He sounds like an ass and I'm glad you dumped him, but "slutty" does shame women.
just a genuine question, is it normal for people to have over 31 outfits?
Why not?
I have more than 31. I really like clothes. Haha.
No new material? You posted this last year.
I don't think I even have 31 outfits total.
Me neither. I have two jeans, one formal trouser and like maybe 15 thsirts and shirts.
I'm not a big fan of your clothes either - BUT you are a very beautiful woman and should just wear whatever you like whenever you like - no matter what I og other people say!!!
Way to make a girl feel pretty! Imagine every time you show your new outfit to your partner, he/she shoots it down. But if she's fine about it, then good luck to them.
why your boyfriend hate ALL your clothes
I think a lot of people didn't read the entire description that was posted throughout this article- she says he's not serious about any of it, and he really does support her wearing whatever the hell she wants, no matter his opinion. That being said, though I wish they had made it a bit more obvious- I feel almost like they're baiting us with the placement of that little disclaimer....
Yet another thread where the OPs comments are cut off mid sentence.
What is missing here is context. I'm seeing a lot of "get rid of him" posts. She doesn't seem to be bothered by his opinion (just a guess, I could be wrong). It's been a tough year, and at this point, many people, myself included, are just looking for a little fun in anything. Personally, I can relate to this girl and this sounds like something I would do to poke fun at my boyfriend, if nothing else, just for a laugh. You do you girl!
Girl needs a new boyfriend.. unless this is for interweb-likes only
This is for interweb-likes only.
Is there anything he does like?
It doesn't sound like her boyfriend likes her very much.
The loathing for polka dots makes me wonder if he has trypophobia (fear or disgust of closely-packed holes).
Throw the whole boyfriend out
Keep the clothes, get a new boyfriend
Honestly, I didn't care for any of these outfits either. But who the hell cares, I'm not your boyfriend. But the way we dress is a part of our personalities, so if he hates everything you put on, he just might not be the right fit for you.
So what does he wear?
I think it's time to see the bf's clothing. I have a blouse that my husband hates, its sleeveless and floral with an empire waist and he says it looks too old for me and like something his aunt would wear lol...I still wore it.
I'm a woman and I side with the bf for almost every outfit they are pretty bad
It does not matter if they're bad. What matters is whether or not he supports what she feels comfortable in, and how she chooses to express herself.
Same. The bf has good eye; these are bad.
I wonder how many of her outfits her boyfriends likes? :)
You're beautiful, and you have a funky cool style. Your boyfriend sounds like an insecure controlling asshole. You can do better than him. In the future, what else will he say he doesn't like about you.
I don’t think my husband has ever said he “hates” anything I have ever worn. It’s super cool that you two can joke like that! :)
girl all of the outfits are cute
If you feel good in something, wear it. I'm guessing there are things your boyfriend wears that you hate. Do you comment on his clothes?
Where are the quotes?
I love how the reasons he hates most of the clothes aren’t really in a horrible way, but more a teasing kind of way. That’s what I got from it, at least.
Is it just me or would she look so much better if she pulled her shoulders back and didn't stand like she slightly embarrassed to be here. Be proud of your style, no matter what he says, sarcastically or otherwise.
Not even funny. Dump him! And stop promoting such behaviour as funny and instagram-worthy! This is unhealthy and you are sending a wrong message to millions of girls out there, who might begin to think that their boyfriends always giving them caustic comments on every outfit they chose are "funny" or "playful."
I suspect boyfriend has no fashion sense, no daring, not a "stand out from the crowd" attitude. Fine for him. Don't EVER let anyone hold you back from wearing what you want. My answer to anyone is "When you buy my clothes, I MIGHT wear what you want!"
To be honest most of the outfits where weirdly put together and don't fit her body type. She seems rather small with not a lot curves. That's of course not the problem. She is really cute but most of the clothes make her look stocky and that's a shame. Of course you can wear want you want. There are no rules but there are theories.
Don't change your style, change your boyfriend.
I guess no one knows what goes on behind closed doors in someone else's relationship. I think people are rightly concerned that the boyfriend is controlling or damaging her self esteem by being critical of her clothes. But we don't know if it's a running joke between the two of them, if she is confident enough to not care or if their relationship is good or bad in other ways. Those of us who have experienced abusive, controlling or gaslighting partners will maybe recognise this kind of behaviour and be concerned where as those who haven't may be more able to see this as humorous banter between a couple. If this is happening to you and it's making you unhappy then maybe the relationship isn't a good thing for you and you might need to consider leaving, however hard that might be. Protect yourself and your self worth.
However I support dress what you want and what is comfortable for you, by most of boyfriends judgements I agree with him.
Don't throw out the clothes. Throw out the boyfriend.
My partner only makes fun of me when I wear my Jeep shirts... because use Jeepers are like a "cult" haha
You are a beautiful young lady, but the choice of outfits are frumpy looking. They are not flattering. Boots don't go with everything. Doesn't matter what the boyfriend says. But you aren't in your 40s. Good luck .
Maybe he’d prefer you start wearing booty shorts and those horrid underboob crop top things. I don’t follow fashion, I do me. I have a variety of styles that I wear, from girly to androgynous to rock chick to downright quirky and out there. My husband doesn’t care what I wear, and even if he did, I’d tell him to STFU.
Where what you want girl! All of those outfits were STUNNING on you!!! Nobody can tell you what to do
I really didn't read it like that. He doesn't stop her from wearing anything. My bf is similar, makes little digs but I find it funny. In fact, the more he hates something the more I enjoy wearing it.
What DOES he like ? My bf hates hoop earings, lol.
She's a beatiful girl! But, she could luse someone to help her shop and pick out clothes. A few outfits were ok, but most were not.
Um, I guess I need to post mine because they are WAY wilder than this.. like onesies and frilly stuff and feather jackets that get in his face. MOST of these are super tame...the BF is just uptight
I think that everyone looks amazing. Honestly.
THIRTY. ONE. Beautiful outfits, he hates. Girl, throw the dude out! Those are v pretty and I swear, I frikin looooooove them and would wear. Every. Single. Day!
Your guy seems pretty lame....why does he have so many voiced opinions on how you clothes your body?
The only thing that annoys me, is that she seems to look great in anything. Whereas I have a choice of just 2 styles in just 2 colours or else I look stupid.
Does he even love you? Wonder what he looks like now.
Wear what you want but DON'T ask for an opinion (so many people do this, and especially when they're wearing something AWFUL)
She doesn't. Did you bother reading the post.
He’s just jealous. 😂
OMG I loved every single of her outfits her boyfriend must not have any good sense of style if he hates on his girlfriends outfits
Keep the clothes, lose the boyfriend. You look delightful in all of this.
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The guy is a gobshite! How dare he! I think he may have control issues. Time to go find a guy who's a little less sneery and critical.
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It's really sad that she's been gaslighted into thinking that it's ok for her boyfriend to tell her how stupid she is and how ugly her clothing choices are...and thinking it's something to brag about. ...///... He's an abusive asshole and she needs to get away from him as fast as she can.
Um... where did he call her stupid? My boyfriend grumbles about my clothes and has funny nicknames for the pieces that he especially hates, but it's all fun and in good humour. He would never tell me not to wear something, and he is FAR from abusive. I enjoy the dynamic, and I love wearing the clothes that he hates.
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There's a few ok things in there, but for the most part I have to agree with him. Potato sacks, pants that make you look like you're in diapers, granny vests and overall lots of cuts/models that are very unflattering on you. Sorry girl, if this is all there is in your wardrobe you have horrible taste
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None of the outfits were ugly. I think he just likes a certain type of clothes on her (shall we say sexy and feminine, typical bloke?) lol
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Um...are you sure your bf is straight? I don't know any men who do this to their ladies. I can understand that some pieces fit better than others, but most of these were really basic clothes, and there's a LOT of them.