Gen X’ers Share The Unglamorous Adult Things They Love To Do, Here Are 30 Of The Most Relatable
A horrible part of growing up that many people never talk about is the fact that you will, inevitably, discover that you actually like something you detested as a child, or even worse, that your parents are ultimately vindicated about some “absurd” opinion they held.
Well, one netizen was curious to hear from Generation X, now that they are all firmly into adulthood, what activities, experiences, and things they discovered that they actually liked. So bookmark this article if you have skeptical children, otherwise, get comfortable as you scroll, be sure to upvote your favorite “things” and comment your thoughts below.
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When you get all your errands/chores done during the week so you can spend the weekend doing jack s**t is what I live for. Great feeling.
Older GenX here, I would love just one damn day off from being a wife, mother of a disabled young adult, worker and household chores. JUST ONE.
And you definitely deserve it. I hear you, and feel much the same.
Load More Replies...It's called taking a break and I wish that the stupid "hustle" culture never became a thing. You know what those people have? Anxiety. They can't relax for s**t. Relaxation is vital to recharging and isn't "dOiNg NoThIng". Relaxation and rest are different for many and are almost never gonna look the same even in the same category.
yessss! I work extra hard during the week so on the weekends I don't have to get out of my pajamas.
I wish! I still put everything off until Sunday night at which point I am anxious and annoyed. And then I'm tired all day Monday because I stayed up too late cleaning. :(
I'm even "sadder". I keep my place pretty tidy so I have very little to do in domestic chores but I do it all on Saturday morning when I get up, put on music and vacuum, mop, and dust blah. I absolutely love it. I look forward to deciding what tracks to put on and singing or humming along. If someone had told me this would be a pleasure back in my twenties I'd have laughed in their faces and yet here we are.
Personally I like to rest as much as I can during the week and do my chores on my only day off. I've tried doing the opposite but I end up even more tired during the week , physically and mentally, and so eager for my day off that it feels like I'm living and doing everything just for that single day.
There's no such beast as "Doing Jack Squat"! Even as kids (and yes, I'm Gen X), we were ALWAYS doing SOMETHING with our time! Sitting on the couch? We're reading, drawing, or watching TV. Lazing in bed? We're sleeping, reading, or talking on the phone. Outside? We're playing pretend (yes, some of us never outgrew this), enjoying the weather, or hanging out with friends and/or family. We're ALWAYS doing SOMETHING with our time.
The unutterable joy of having all your errands line up to be on the same side of town
As long as it's the right side of the street. I actually plan my routes so that I only have to make right turns into shops.
Load More Replies...I lined my errands up so they were mostly right turns that I could make on red lights. Smoother drive that way.
Same side, within five minute drives, dont have to get out of car maybe once or twice, and on the way home tacos or pizza an easy pick up! You get home with the huge Wonder Woman feeling (dudes get Superman) so accomplished then the cherry on top....you did it all in under an hour! Win Win. Time for streaming movies!
I have nothing to do today and this is THRILLING.
even if my mom doesnt have to do anything she always look for something to keep herself busy
I can relate, I do the same. Being totally idle bugs me.
Load More Replies...Having nothing to do bothers me so much! I cannot shake the feeling that, even though I graduated 27 years ago, I have homework.
Then do some self care. Give yourself a spa day. Take a nap in the afternoon. Read a book. All of those things are doing "something." You should never feel guilty for taking care of your own mental and physical health.
Load More Replies...And this is when you can tell if you got PTSD from school or a job. If you have nothing to do, and you feel panicked because you think you're missing something, congrats, you got PTSD. It's not just for extremely difficult and mentally damaging experiences. Sometimes, it's just from being in something so long, you don't know anything else.
In a fun little factoid, sure to delight and amuse any gen-x history buff, the term generation x was actually coined by none other than famed Hungarian photographer Rober Capa, possibly best known for his work documenting the Spanish Civil War and the Second World War. His 1950 photo essay about the generation who had grown up during the war was titled “Generation X,” representing their alienation.
While the term didn’t stick to this group in particular, the idea of a generation alienated from everything by the time they could read survived and was applied to the cohort that was born in the late 1970s to early 1980s.
My kids are grown. I'm done adulting. I just smoked some weed and walked to the gym today. I did run the dishwasher though.
Sounds like me. Except for the walking to the gym and running the dishwasher parts.
Weed, mountain bike, book, sleep. Summer time 😎
Load More Replies...Sounds super liberating :) my oldest just started school so... it'll be a while until I can go back to partying all night in the weekends and that sorta stuff again. At least my bf and I go to at least one annual metal fest in the nearest city. It's only 2 days and his parents look after the kids then. But we got to have a little bit of that pre-kids feeling. Lol. It's nice.
Oh I walk to the gym frequently....but going in is a whole other story...
Started the kids late and paying the price of still dealing with HS child while my peers are enjoying the grandkids
Sounds like you pulled your weight in life, this is a fair and reasonable stance! :)
I still have to work. So,until I retire, I still have some adulting to do.But not on weekends
You people are weird. I need to see what the colony of woodpeckers are up to.
We have a huge woodpecker who is too big to sit on our birdfeeder perch. (It's meant for finches and other small birds) So he hangs off of it upside down while shaking the feeder and lets the food fall in to his mouth. It crazy to watch! :)
The Merlin app is a great tool, it can identify birds by listening to their songs and sounds.
Just sitting on a deck chair watching the hummingbirds come by is amazing for me.
O...M...G... I found some binoculars at a thrift store a few years back and got them for my hubby. We are both GenX.. he is older genX and I am younger but both of that generation. We use those things so much to look at the neighbors, look at birds, look at animals. Well anything. I bought them as a joke and we use the heck outta those things!! So much so that I might invest in a second pair so we don't have to share!
I think you're old ;) (said by a panda sleeping with socks all year round in her 30s because - I'm too old to sleep with cold feet)
Load More Replies...I live on Lake Erie, a migration hotspot brother looked at me when I said my mom and I had picked up birdwatching, until we said it's like Pokemon Go in real life, we want to see how many different species we can find.
My grandparents lived near Lake Erie (Huron, OH) and we'd spend every summer there. I loved it!
Load More Replies...I wake up early on Saturday mornings during the woodpeckers' mating season because one of them has figured out that he can make more noise to attract a female simple by banging away on my stainless steel chimney pipe on the roof. A noise that gets amplified as it is telescoped down into my fireplace in the bedroom. Sheesh.
Just wait, you haven't felt the satisfaction or excitement at getting a *good* pair of socks for Christmas or your Birthday, yet. It's on par with a quality pillow or super soft bed sheets.
My mil gave me super soft and comfy home-socks to wear in winter. They are hand knitted with a hyper soft lining sewed inside and they were my favourite gift! But to be honest, I'd loved them just as much as a child. I always have freezing cold feet in winter. It's so bad it's painful. So I always loved warm and comfy socks
The joy of hand knit socks is something I never considered before knitting my first pair.
I found 10 ish pairs of beautifully hand knitted socks at a thrift store a couple of years ago. Brand new and .99 cents each. Wool. I grabbed all of them. So fluffy and warm
Load More Replies...I work for a company that makes all kinds of pop culture things and socks is a huge part of our business. When we get samples of the thick socks I am grabbing them up so quick! My middle baby loves them too. She may only be 16 1/2 but being raised by a couple of GenXers means she acts just like us!
Oh yes I do. I spent a s**tload of money on high quality wool socks for our winter vacations and I have a drawer full of them. They are my pride and joy. :D
Ohhh. Mam got me Sweaty Betty socks this year. I bought three more pairs after. I love them.
& here I thought I was the only person who gets excited over super soft bed sheets.
I was just commenting on this last Xmas. How when you are a kid and you get fuzzy socks you are bummed and when you are an adult they are the best. Gift. Ever.
The X, incidentally, represented a sort of unknown value, as one would see in a simple math problem. This was an interesting change in pace from the baby boomers and the greatest generation, whose names contained some more useful descriptors, which is potentially why, when it comes to generational discourse, Gen X remains the least talked about, compared to millennials and Gen Z.
The knew I fully settled into my forties when I was so excited about how well my steam mop cleaned my kitchen tile floor.
I knew I was fully into my forties when I opened up the mailbox, found a fairly large bag of prescription meds that had been shipped to me, I audibly said, "YES," and made a fist pump gesture in the air. They weren't even good sleeping pills or pain meds, just cholesterol meds and fish oil. I glanced around and realized I was old AND lame.
You know you are older GenX when your pill bottles have to go in a gallon ziplock bag because there are too many for the quart size.
Load More Replies...I want a steam mop. Does it have additional parts so you can also clean windows and tubs?
For me it was the vacuum I bought on clearance for $94 because it was the only one in stock with a retractable cord. That was literally my sole purpose in buying it. Ended up being the best vacuum I’ve ever had
ive been wanting it for like almost 2 months. but we broke lol and we dont have tiles here in our home
I found my favorite garbage bags at the store today. Bought all three packages they had because I’m bitter they were out the last couple times I was there. I had to use a different brand and that’s unacceptable.
Now someone else gets to be bitter that they're out. And so the world turns.
That's why I always try to leave at least one of something. I know how it feels to not be able to get what I want.
Load More Replies...Not sure why you were downvoted, so here’s my upvote
Load More Replies...I just get irrationally angry about having to buy them in the first place. Every. Single. Time.
Wait till they change the packaging and you stand there for what seems like hours trying to find them and there right there in front of your face.
Yep. I’ve got an excursion planned with a friend to go scope out a new grocery store that opened in my neighbourhood :-) apparently it’s really awesome! 😉
And then you memorize the layout and BAM, three months later they change it and you're walking around the store wondering why you can't find your favourite cereal. 😂
Now this is real. A new grocery store can be a fun experience. Alas most are just like other grocery stores!
My husband and I have a plan to go check out this little grocery store next to one of the nearby marinas... I'm excited!
Don’t underestimate the awesomeness that is a good grocery store in walking distance. I’d be excited too
Studies of Gen X behavior suggest that many of the “simple” pleasures are listed here due to this generation's appreciation for a work-life balance. While chores are obviously not the same as work, doing some daily tasks efficiently is its own reward, while some weekend shopping is a relaxing getaway, the ability to walk around, take one’s time and just enjoy not being on the clock.
When I bought a Dyson vacuum cleaner that picked up pet hair, I was in heaven. I lost it in the divorce, so I’m saving up for a new one. 😆
"Could have had the kids and cars but NOOO....."
Load More Replies...Like I said about laundry: I'll do it, but I won't be happy about it.
Load More Replies...My ex was ready to fight for the Dyson. I didn't push it. My new girlfriend already had a better model. That's how I knew she was the one. :p
in anyone else is as sad as I am and notices this is not a dyson here is a link to the vacuum cleaner shown in the image https://www.amazon.com.mx/Electrolux-Ergorapido-ERG12-Aspiradora-Vertical/dp/B013X03HEE
When I was a teenager, my parents were like “Get in the car. We’re going to Costco today” and I couldn’t think of anything more boring.
These days, I can’t think of a better way to spend Saturday.
Especially by the cart full or they may have just been during covid.
Load More Replies...Who needs a fancy weekend brunch - just walk the aisles for yummy samples (think of it as tapas style!)
Nope. Like kid and now I just hate shopping. Such a duking waste of my precious time.
I hate when I have to go to Costco, doesn't matter what day it is. The droves of people mindlessly moving at half their usual rate while hanging on the cart for full support, the clueless individuals who stop their giant cart perpendicular to the shelving in the middle of the aisle so they can have a chat...and it's absolutely DISGUSTING to see everyone act as if the samples are there to make a meal out of, then they lick and suck their greasy digits, and grab the handle of the shopping cart again! 🤮🤮🤮 They won't make out with or lick the palms of a stranger but they'll swap spit via a shopping cart with everyone who shopped that weekend. 🤮🤮🤮
I think it's funny how many people will line up for a 1/4 inch slice of a hot dog or whatever. 1 oz of juice, 4 kernels of popcorn... I guess free is free, but it's all just so...ok.
Load More Replies...For gods sake pull over to the side of the aisle, when talking with the friend you ran into.
When I was around 50, I was visiting my parents when they asked if I wanted to go to Ikea with them. I was so excited LOL.
We don't have Costco but a DIY store is also fine for that. Well, my account has a different opinion but it is how it is.
oh yeah i like (big) supermarkets when i have the time to explore. Not when im in a hurry.
We deep cleaned the main floor of the house together yesterday. That was so exciting I went and started cleaning the basement while he did laundry and watched football.
Made spaghetti and went to bed at 8:15.
Day 2 of Wisconsin monsoon season, I’ll be in my sewing room ALL day.
...this is making me feel old by association! I'm a youngish Gen X and I'm not ready to let go of youth yet. But then I wasted a lot of my youth to the lie that delayed gratification is better for you. F**k that. You can't delay living. And every day I have less time left to make up for the time I wasted.
Load More Replies...This appreciation for the simple things in life might be the reason Gen X, at least in the US, reports a relatively high level of life satisfaction. They also tend to not care as much about what other people think of them, which probably allows them to openly admit that, for example, a trip to Home Depot is a good weekend activity. Unburdened by Boomer’s old-fashioned perspectives and Millenial’s and Zoomer's constant comparison to people online, Gen X appears content to just relax.
Going to Costco wit the masses on a weekend really is a risky venture. I’m suddenly at the age where I’d rather venture out after work so I don’t have to deal with so many people.
I go grocery shopping when the store opens early in the morning. Pure heaven, nobody is there.
I go late at night since I'm a night owl. No one is there at that time either. I'm dysfunctional early in the morning. :)
Load More Replies...I grocery shop at night before they close to avoid people with unruly children. To avoid ALL people, really.
Picture this: weekend sample eating starting at 10am, lasting 'til 8pm. That's 12 hours of people having their hands in their mouths and then grabbing the shopping cart handles. So for every sample you eat, you're also sucking down the saliva you've picked up off your cart! Might as well lick the handle! Nuuuum!
Load More Replies...Ours opens at 9:30 on Saturdays. I get to the parking lot at 9:20. Might sound silly, but by 11am, shopping will take 3 times as long. And people are sooooooo slow.
One of the few joys of having a job with a "weird" schedule (not a Monday to Friday job) is going to the grocery store in the middle of the day on a weekday. It's mostly retirees and the occasional stay at home parent with their children and it is so much better than shopping on the weekend with everyone and their brother
I go to the grocery shop almost every day, since it is only two houses away, there is no need to conquer the masses on Saturday.
Lidl on a Saturday is just rage inducing. Thursday is the best day to do the weekend shopping and maybe even see a film first
I stayed home last night and did my laundry. If you told me 20 years ago that I would have been happy about staying home and doing laundry on a Saturday night, I would have looked at you like you had two heads.
Agreed. The whole societal pressure to use Saturday night for forced or unforced socialization starts to wear off after a while.
Yes! And for me, it was the best part of getting older
Load More Replies...Restaurants usually have two ago groups of people working there, youngin's or 40's-ish and they often intermingling over drugs and alcohol after work. I was glad when they stopped inviting me to go out. "Guys, I'm almost twice your age so I'm gonna go back to living under my rock now. I'll see y'all here tomorrow, have fun, be safe, don't get pregnant." 🤘🏾
Wait until you are retired and arthritis hits every joint. You will be thrilled to even be able to still fold your own laundry.
I love that staying in on a Friday and Saturday is no longer filled with FOMO although of course when I was young we didn't have a name for it, just the fear of being seen as a bit of a sad sack.
Wow!! Gen X sounds like me and I'm 86. I thought I liked to stay home; sew or do nothing because I worked really hard for 65 years. But maybe I'm just a natural gen xer?
Saturday morning is for cartoons. Saturday afternoon is for finishing weekly chores. Saturday night is for vegging in front of the tube with popcorn, root beer floats, and a good flick or Family Game Night!
We’ll be picking crabapples soon. We make jelly.
Dang, my mom used to have me pick up the crabapples that had fallen off the tree and throw them away and now you're telling me there could have been jelly?
Of course you can pick fruits that are fallen off a tree. Get rid of brown or rotten parts (no moldy parts) and then go along making jam,cake or whatever you like. Here in germany we call fruit on trees like apples or pears Fallobst which means falling fruits. They are supposed to fall off when they are ripe. But watch out for wasps, they also love a good ripe and slightly rotten fruit.
Load More Replies...Whose the jerk that downvotes comments? Here’s my upvote.
Load More Replies...So hopefully many of the concepts here serve as a reminder to not make far-reaching judgments as a child, who knows when cooking an entire meal with minimal clean-up requirements will spark joy. And on the flip side, it never hurts to remember that it’s possible to find satisfaction in smaller things in life if one is just willing to relax and enjoy.
One of the most exciting things I've experienced in the last year was getting a new shower for my home. It is like showering in a nice hotel now. Lol
Having a good conversation with a stranger at the hardware store over water heaters...
....ok, I do like a good shower head. I don't think that's an "adult" thing though. I just lived with a lot of s****y shower heads!
This morning's meeting: Did you do anything exciting this weekend? Me: We shopped at a different grocery store.
Yeah, there's nothing quite as satisfying as shopping at a new place. Bring your best glasses and a Sherpa to find your way around. 🤓
my client a few years back "did you do anything exciting this weekend?" me, still completely in awe "NEIL YOUNG!!" client "you went to New York? Cool!" (we live in Europe) me "do you think i just go to New York like that for a weekend?" client "yeah i wouldnt be surprised if you did, honestly" (its not that i have the money for it, though) I hope i never ever join the "i shopped at a different grocery store" excitement crowd -_-
As I get older, I love to get up and put super early. Less of a crowd. Best pick of everything, and of course, home before 2:00 to relax.
Impressive! It's a good day if I get up before noon on Saturday/Sunday. Can't help it - I'm a night owl. Always have been.
Load More Replies...It's an interesting challenge finding the right time to shop. Even if you have all day it can be problematic. Go too early and stuff isn't put out yet, they probably won't have any cooked chickens for example. Go at 9:30ish and you run into all the parents shopping after dropping kids at school, go at 3:30ish and you run into all the parents shopping after picking up the kids from school. After 5:30ish and you run into all the people shopping on the way home from work. Leave it til later and you get the red light specials where things are about to expire, but it's fine balance because if you leave it too late everything is sold out. Yes, I have too much time to analyze when I should be doing the shopping.
I do that when visiting some of the malls that are far off. Early bus and just roam about... then when the crowds come in, we eat since most people first roam around and then eat. When we finish the meal and come out, people are going to eat. And we get the places to look
Hey, I celebrated my daughter's hours-long softball practice being canceled by day drinking and food prepping for the week. It doesn’t take much for me to have a good time these days, and I like it.
I, for one, enjoy a coffee with some Bailey's or Kahlua in it from time to time on my days off.
Cancelled plans are the best. Just had my Saturday plans cancelled, probably shouldn't be as happy as I am.
Don't project, they definitely phrased it as a rarity. Your own problems don't define the context of other peoples actions.
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My bf convinces me to leave the house by promising that I can browse appliances as long as I want. I usually have a 45 minute limit.
ive been to ikea once here, i was having so much fun but i got lost lol 100% would go there again and again and again
Last time I went to IKEA, we went to the restaurant and THEY WERE OUT OF MEATBALLS!!!
Load More Replies...Pre-marriage advice: Before you get married, try walking with your mate through IKEA. If you don't end up killing each other, you're good to go.
No… the true test of a marriage is putting IKEA furniture together. ;)
Load More Replies...Once, I lost my ex-hubby in Cabella’s (a giant outdoorsy type store… hunting stuff, fishing stuff, camping stuff, they even sell boats). I was so frustrated when I couldn’t find him. He had a tendency to buy weird stuff we totally didn’t need. Then it dawned on me… Ah! This must be how he feels when he loses me in IKEA!!! Side note: I found him at the registers paying $350 for a legit deli quality meat slicer. :/ It took up more space on our countertops than the stove top did. Now, ask me if he ever used it… once, sort of… he sliced the pad off three fingers. He hadn’t even put any food on it yet. :/
My bf's dad get so insanely aggressive and angry when he's in IKEA so his wife swore to never ever go to IKEA with him again. My bf once went there with his dad to fetch aomething real quick that he knew exactly where was. The whole trip was 10min max. And still his dad was so angry and aggressive that he slammed the super angry button at the exit (the first few years the IKEA was open they had some buttons by the exit for the customers to push, ranging from happy to super angry) and he didn't say a word in the car home. Lol.
Our nearest IKEA is almost 2 hours away & Home Depot is only 20 minutes. But I do still get to browse the appliances!
My wife and I almost called off our wedding while in the store because she kept picking up odds and ends and going, "Do you think this (item) would go with our (item) at home?" After what felt like the 10,000th time she asked this, I was done and needed to leave. We argued about it, because there were still numerous sections to peruse, and finally left very angry at one another. Now, she goes alone and spends as much time there as she wants!
My garden is all I did for the last 7 years after my midlife crisis was over and I was healed from my plastic surgery.
I’m a recent (young) widow. Gardening, and our family/friends have kept me alive, but the dogs are why I get up in the morning. 🐶❤️😍
So sorry for your loss. Keep kissing those pups and growin' flowers while you heal. ❤️
Load More Replies...I removed the grass from my front lawn and planted trees, natives and flowers. It’s nice to water the plants in the morning after my early morning meetings
On Fridays at the gas station by my work has fresh burritos. They don't have many and it's a personal victory if I get there in time to get one.
Yes! There's a gas station by me where a little old lady makes super delicious breakfast burritos but only from like 5:30 AM to 8 AM. You gotta get there early and quick!
Yesterday I found out there is a discount Stoffers store about an hour away. I am tickled pink to go get discount lasagna next weekend.
It's basically spaghetti cake in the best possible way. I make my own these days. It's super easy and you can make food for a week, or feed a family and still have leftovers.
Load More Replies...Campbell's soup and Swanson's frozen meals used to both have production facilities in town and their employees would buy discounted food from the employee stores and trade with each other. A number of my friends parents worked for both companies and they were definitely prepared for a lockdown, had one happened.
Stouffers isn't as good as it used to be. I've tried different brands that were a bit better, but you can't beat home made.
Hopefully the discount is more than the travel cost!
Load More Replies...Heck Yes!!!! Make your own if you can in the area you live in. Use Cottage Cheese instead of Ricotta Cheese. Heck use a lot of ANY CHEESE!!! So many great internet recipes for so many types. Vegetarian/Vegan/Spicy/SuperCheese/SuperMeat/SeaFood. Bad Lasagna is like Bad Sex…..it’s still pretty good. And leftover Lasagna. Like Garfield say….never heard of such thing.
Ugh! Cottage cheese instead of Ricotta is a cheat on lasagna. I make mine with sage sausage instead of ground beef, several cloves of fresh minced garlic, ricotta(never cottage) cheese with basil mixed in, sweeten the sauce a bit with some sugar to lighten the tanginess of meat, use real Parmesan, lots of mushrooms, and unruly amounts of mozzarella. " Heck use a lot of ANY CHEESE!!!" For real!?!? I know I wouldn't want brie or bleu, and certainly not pepperjack or Velveeta. "Bad" lasagna can be made VERY badly, and some of your suggestions leave me wondering just what your tolerance level is for poorly-prepared dishes.
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I am shopping for a new raincoat to wear. The weather has been rainy this year and I have has the same coat since 2003.
Then I am going to wear it when I drive to a nice beach to meet my special friend, walk on it and then buy a cup of coffee.
Busy weekend plans :-) I also have my book club book as an audio book to listen to. Don't know when I will find the time.
I've got a new raincoat too! It's a highly reflective 'grey' jacket, until direct light falls on it. Then is shines with the intensity of 50 suns!
My little one has a winter jacket like this. When the sun shines I can't look at my kid for she is too bright
Load More Replies...We ARE the audio book generation. Listening to them on tape in the car commuting to work.
I'm a dyslexic crafter, and love my audiobooks. Listen to the stories, and craft away. It's bliss.
Load More Replies...Sorry, you want to buy a new raincoat and then walk on it? So it will look 20 years old like your old one? Just curious.
Walk on the beach, not the coat I think. I was confused too at first
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Just picked up a case of Ensure. Gonna party hard, well until 8:30 anyways.
I love the stuff! I use the Max Protein. Low sugar and great for a skipped meal or a hangover!
I think it tastes like chalk personally but boost is good and glucerna is better. I'm not diabetic but I do get hypoglycemic pretty easily. Not as much now but puberty was rough for me. I had to eat and drink every two to three hours or I'd get headaches and dizzy spells. I passed out once after having a bout of stomach flu that put me in the hospital for three days, I was 13. I had to carry glucose tablets with me every where I went from age 13-20. Once I hit my 20's and I gained a little bit of weight (went from 117lbs to 125lbs) it seemed to get better. It wasn't for a lack of eating either my parents would joke about me eating them out of house and home. Never did find any specific cause either.
It's a meal substitute, targeted to elderly people who don't cook as often or as balanced or lack appetite. I only know it for the TV commercials.
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I just got excited over a charcuterie set my adult daughter gave me.
I’m about to head out front and wash my car before the sun goes down. I’m actually kind of excited about that fact TBH.
Last weekend I paid $24 at the carwash and they: vacuumed out the whole interior including my trunk, scrubbed my floor mats, rinsed/scrubbed off the exterior grime, sent it through the automated wash, and then cleaned all the hard surfaces on the inside - dash, windows, cup holders, etc. It's like a new car and all I had to do was sit and watch for 20 minutes or so. With the time I save I went and got a pedicure. :)
I look forward to weekend trips to Home Depot.
I think it was Home Depot that used to have commercials that said "It's the weekend. Now the real work begins." Yes, thanks for reminding that my job is mostly b******t that I have to put up with so that I can spend all my money and free time doing the "real work" of homeownership.
I know how that feels. I'm maintenance man at a privately owned community. In the summer I spend most days mowing grass. Then, on the weekends I have to mow the grass, weeds and clean up at my house which is about a 4 hour job. I hate mowing grass now.
Load More Replies...My husband and I go to Home Depot, Lowes and Harbor Freight and even ACE on occasion almost every Sunday and we sneak in some thrifting here and there and that's our Sunday morning ritual. I love it!!!!
In the last 18 months I have put on new vinyl siding, new roof shingles, new laminant flooring, and painted my kitchen. Home Depot for the win!
I never thought home improvement stores would be my favorite but, then we bought a house and the rest is history.
The day I woke up at 1:15am, got my chores done by sunrise, and decided “welp, nothing else to do I guess I’ll go to Lowe’s and look around” was the day I knew I had turned into my dad 😭
Me too. I love the way it smells, and it means the husband is starting a new project for our home. Double win.
Going to Target is a common date night event.
That was the same in high school. All the kids hung out in the parking lot and revved their engines.
No ya don't. You're not missing anything aside from another mega corporation that will pay your countrymen as little as humanly possible.
Load More Replies...Seeing a trend in your comments. There's no need to judge someone's simple pleasures.
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I was so excited to see Costco had grapefruit cups again I talked about it the whole way back in the car.
I wish I could celebrate with you! Alas, if I eat grapefruit, it negates a couple of my meds.
The grapefruit that comes peeled, sectioned, and floating in juice. OMG, I could eat it every single day!
Grapefruit cups? Really? Triple the price, not as healthy cuz I guarantee that there's additives, and produces a shīt ton of landfill waste. Enjoy...I guess?
Exciting weekend for my husband and me is piling into our car to hit a coffee shop. Then hit Wegmans for groceries and get coffee afterwards. And if we're still up for it...hit HMart so I can restock our pantry with international staples. And hit their coffee/bakery for another beverage and snack. And mad props for the folks who brave Costco on the weekends. Went on a Saturday and that level of bedlam was a Pope of Nope card for me.
I had to stop shopping there because it took me too long. I just had to look at EVERY damn thing in the fancy premade section, even if I wasn't planning to buy it. :)
Load More Replies...I'll have to remember to try an HMart next time I go to NYC or Philly.
I’m looking forward to going to the international store and it’s always a party when I go. I get to buy cool stuff.
I love finding new stuff to eat and drink, esp since it will add up. A single occasion of having a nice cup of coffee? Pretty good, sometimes great. Having that every day, and knowing it will continue? Just plain great.
A new thing to spend money on every day? Isn't /that/ a kick in the wallet?
Sure, but if makes you happy? I know my coffee is expensive but boy does it make my days better...and cheese, decadent cheese
Load More Replies...And getting a Costco hot-dog and poutine at 14h30 on a weekend feels as rebellious as sneaking cookies for early “breakfast” as kids while watching Saturday morning cartoons.
Yes. Yes they do. I don’t eat them very often because the calorie count is absurd but they’re soooo good
Load More Replies...Wow. There's so much more to life than consumption. Although I am very excited about my new to me chest freezer.
It's amazing how much further a little goes when you're older than when you're younger. I guess that's why corporations love to target that 18-35 demographic.
Dude, 90% of these posts are about buying s**t! And now you tell me there's more to life than consumption???
And if you go to Costco at the right time it’s also snack time with the food samples.
I just can't get that excited by a few pieces of cereal or half a gummy vitamin. I mean, I do have depression, which skews my sense of things, but I don't think it's just me...
I think it's more about like, being handed a fresh lil snack in a place where such things are not usually present. It's the novelty.
Load More Replies...We had a grocery store that did samples on Saturdays. We would go and eat lunch on the way through the store.
Our neighbours have 3 mini-sheep. They have two pastures. One is at the side of their house, where I can't see them, the other is between our houses, a bit higher than my home office window. One of my greatest enjoyments is when they put those cute little sheep on that pasture and I get to watch them all day. It's so enjoyable to see those cuties play all day, stealing leaves and fruit from the cherry tree smack in the middle of the pasture in summer. It's so peaceful.
I live in the country. I love to get he a hot cup of coffee, go outside on the back porch, and just sit and enjoy the show nature puts on at dusk. The sounds are incredible, the smell is wonderful, and the stars are beyond compare.
I am 46 years now and I enjoy doing the wildest things. Giving the kitchen a good deep cleaning, having nice and clean windows or buying a fancy thing for our apartment like a brand new table cloth or a nice kitchen utensil. And sitting down with a new book, reading in it for hours and smell the new book smell on every page! Yes, life is wild.
Trust me: you aren't missing much. Target is just Wal-Mart with better PR and cleaner floors. They have a lot of variety but most goods are in the middle of the road when it comes to quality. Costco is fun until the appeal of five pound bags of chips wears off. (Pro tip: you *will* eat the whole bag of chips in a day. Save yourself future problems and just get regular sized bags of chips.) Also, there seems to be an unwritten rule that you must spend at least $200, even though you only bought three things.
Load More Replies...No big warehouse stores within a reasonable distance of my home, I love this fact, it’s hills and fields for miles, no motorways, all country roads. No big warehouse stores nearby, this sends me nuts, I want cheap stuff, I need to buy massive quantities of things, just things, no idea what but I hate living in the countryside….
I'm a millenial and most of these apply. HELP. (No, just kidding, don't, I'm loving it)
I don't think there are any "boring adult things" that I genuinely enjoy doing. I have the opposite problem: things that used to be fun are becoming less so. I'm going to see if there are any new(ish) posts on depression or introversion...
That's called anhedonia. Classic symptom of depression.
Load More Replies...Not Gen-X, but i do enjoy most of these. Also you can enjoy doing nothing, housework hacks, new kitchen utensils, going to sleep early AND going out to a bar/restaurant, having fun with friends, travel and being active all at the same time (on different days of course). Life is about variety - at any age (in my opinion) and everyone can enjoy life the way he/she wants as long as you really enjoy it. I find it sad how many people i know pretend they‘re happy with grocery shopping on weekends and then doing nothing, when in reality it‘s because their friends stopped going out with them or because they are too tired because of work. But if this is what you truly enjoy, great ☺️🥳.
Our neighbours have 3 mini-sheep. They have two pastures. One is at the side of their house, where I can't see them, the other is between our houses, a bit higher than my home office window. One of my greatest enjoyments is when they put those cute little sheep on that pasture and I get to watch them all day. It's so enjoyable to see those cuties play all day, stealing leaves and fruit from the cherry tree smack in the middle of the pasture in summer. It's so peaceful.
I live in the country. I love to get he a hot cup of coffee, go outside on the back porch, and just sit and enjoy the show nature puts on at dusk. The sounds are incredible, the smell is wonderful, and the stars are beyond compare.
I am 46 years now and I enjoy doing the wildest things. Giving the kitchen a good deep cleaning, having nice and clean windows or buying a fancy thing for our apartment like a brand new table cloth or a nice kitchen utensil. And sitting down with a new book, reading in it for hours and smell the new book smell on every page! Yes, life is wild.
Trust me: you aren't missing much. Target is just Wal-Mart with better PR and cleaner floors. They have a lot of variety but most goods are in the middle of the road when it comes to quality. Costco is fun until the appeal of five pound bags of chips wears off. (Pro tip: you *will* eat the whole bag of chips in a day. Save yourself future problems and just get regular sized bags of chips.) Also, there seems to be an unwritten rule that you must spend at least $200, even though you only bought three things.
Load More Replies...No big warehouse stores within a reasonable distance of my home, I love this fact, it’s hills and fields for miles, no motorways, all country roads. No big warehouse stores nearby, this sends me nuts, I want cheap stuff, I need to buy massive quantities of things, just things, no idea what but I hate living in the countryside….
I'm a millenial and most of these apply. HELP. (No, just kidding, don't, I'm loving it)
I don't think there are any "boring adult things" that I genuinely enjoy doing. I have the opposite problem: things that used to be fun are becoming less so. I'm going to see if there are any new(ish) posts on depression or introversion...
That's called anhedonia. Classic symptom of depression.
Load More Replies...Not Gen-X, but i do enjoy most of these. Also you can enjoy doing nothing, housework hacks, new kitchen utensils, going to sleep early AND going out to a bar/restaurant, having fun with friends, travel and being active all at the same time (on different days of course). Life is about variety - at any age (in my opinion) and everyone can enjoy life the way he/she wants as long as you really enjoy it. I find it sad how many people i know pretend they‘re happy with grocery shopping on weekends and then doing nothing, when in reality it‘s because their friends stopped going out with them or because they are too tired because of work. But if this is what you truly enjoy, great ☺️🥳.
