Boomer Doesn’t Understand How Technology Works, Annoys Hospital Worker For 20 Minutes
We all worry about the privacy of our personal data in this day and age. However, Baby Boomers are particularly concerned about digital security, as Euromonitor found in 2022. In fact, one in ten people over the age of 55 avoid online shopping because they’re worried about companies sharing and selling their personal information. And while taking precautions is commendable, you sometimes need to disclose at least some things about yourself.
Like when you’re making an appointment at a doctor’s office. You have to give them your name – otherwise, the receptionist won’t be able to register you, right? Well, this boomer didn’t think so. She refused to give out her name and got into a 20-minute altercation with the receptionist, insisting that her information should be “in the system.” Frustrated beyond reason, the receptionist decided to share the story with people online.
Making an appointment by phone can be hard for Boomers too, not just for millennials and Gen Zers
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This receptionist butted heads with a boomer who refused to disclose her name because she feared for her privacy
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The older generation actually has better data privacy practices than young people
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Contrary to what many people from the younger generations believe, Baby Boomers are quite tech-savvy. They might not know (or be interested in) the same content that millennials and Gen Z consume online, but they do have better online privacy practices than the younger generation.
Boomers are actually less likely to reuse passwords and not save their credit card information in their online accounts. Granted, other research shows that boomers don’t always use complex passwords. When it comes to safeguarding their private information, the older generation prefers old-school methods. Instead of using Multi-Factor Authentication or a VPN, boomers opt not to shop online at all, as they tend to mistrust websites.
Perhaps it shouldn’t come as such a surprise – many boomers were at the forefront of developing computers and the Internet. Bill Gates and Steve Jobs were both born in 1955, making them members of the elite boomers club. People aged 65 and older actually spend more time on the Internet than any other age group, research shows.
However, they’re the highest percentage of people who never use social media. For them, the Internet is for keeping in touch with friends and family through other channels, such as emails. In a way, that can be safer as they don’t disclose their personal information easily. On the other hand, that makes them targets of phishing or scams more often.
But don’t fear: boomers have great radars when it comes to recognizing fraud. They’re the least likely to engage in potentially unsafe online behavior. The risky behaviors boomers shy away from include opening an email from an unknown sender, logging into more than five social media accounts, connecting to a public Wi-Fi, or saving personal information online.
We ought to have more compassion and patience for seniors
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Encounters with the elderly can tax one’s patience, as evident from this story. The Internet is ripe with stories of miscommunication between older folks and young adults. People aged 65+ make up around 17.3% of the population in the U.S., so you’re bound to run into them. The truth is that communication with a senior person might require particular skills.
When it comes to healthcare workers, knowing how to communicate with elderly people is extremely important. “Because ‘unclear communication can cause the whole medical encounter to fall apart,’ physicians should pay careful attention to this aspect of their practice,” Dr. Thomas E. Robinson, II, Ph.D., writes for the AAFPA.
He recommends that physicians and their staff employ such communication techniques as allowing older patients extra time, listening without interrupting, speaking slowly, clearly, and loudly, and giving them the chance to ask questions.
Melanie Donohue, LCSW, writes that it’s important not to be condescending toward older people. “There’s a fine line between speaking clearly and speaking like you’re talking to a child. Slower and deeper speech is easier for seniors to understand, but you don’t have to use infantile language when you communicate with seniors.”
As different generations have differing opinions on things like the privacy of personal information, arguments such as the one in this story can quickly arise. “Be careful with your tone of voice, word choices, and facial expressions,” Donohue recommends. “Even if you’re frustrated, do everything you can to stay calm and civil during the conversation.”
Lastly, diffusing the situation with humor always works. “No one is too old for humor,” Donohue writes. Instead of getting into an argument with the elderly person over something as simple as telling their name, try making a joke (not condescending!) about it.
People ridiculed the lady for making a simple registration for an appointment so hard
Many people shared similar stories where they had a hard time dealing with the older generation
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Fed up with the anti boomer sentiment. If we're going to hate on people based upon when they were born we might as well start having a go at Leos. Stupid northern-hemisphere-summer babies.
"I hate boomers and old people in general". Says it all. If you're like that, then healthcare is not the profession for you. I am so sick of this whole "Boomers are bad, they ruined the world for us" fight against younger people. So, what are you going to do when you get old? Or are you going to set up a system like Logan's Run? I'm sure most millennials would drag their old parents out into the snow to die if they could. I'd rather put up with boomers than the whinging, milquetoast millennials.
I was with you till you started bitching about millennials. Maybe we could just stop with the in-group out-group thinking?
Load More Replies...Why is this even a story, sounds like just about every day dealing with the general public. And it comes from all ages, not just boomers. I wouldn't even say they're nearly as bad as the silent generation.
There are 2-3 "writers" who make it their life's work to pump out at least one of these and at least one anti US per week.
Load More Replies...boomers = elderly. Shame on you. This is just another ageist story, and would have worked perfectly well without adding “boomer.” And the way all the commenters jumped on the bandwagon is stunning. That’s OK though, one day they’ll get old, and karma’s a bit¢h.
Weren't you guys splooging all over the place in excitement yesterday as you bashed gen Z for their "generational traits"? If they are whiny or lazy snowflakes, you guys are narcissistic buttsniffers. The moral of the story is you people suck. Do better.
Load More Replies..."Anyone can write on Bored Panda." And apparently do. Clicked in, clicked the "Comments" button - no ad impressions for you - to say that I'm nearly done with BP. I'm here for stories of people dealing with a-holes, not people being a-holes. Enough with the group hate. Boomers, Zoomers, or any category that people are inherently a part of and can't help.
This older lady was making it difficult, but it might also be a starting dementia or something similar. My grandma had alzheimers, and she have few similar episodes. She had worked her whole life in a bank, and of course everyone there know her. But after years of retirement at least 95% of the workers had changed and didn't have any idea who she was. Alzheimers kinda blurred the ears and persons in my grandma's head, so she was extremely insulted when she wasn't recognized in her bank anymore. Those few times I was there with her I could de-escalate the situation on focusing how the worker was young so she probably was new and that all the older ones must be on holiday/lunchbreak or something. As grandma was really a sweet old lady, she started treating the worker nicely after getting over the fact of not being recognized. (miss you grandma...)
Someone suggested that in the comments, but OP wasn't having it. It makes me sad, because a receptionist on their toes could have actually noted the behavior on the appointment as a point of concern. There's ALSO a possibility of it being a symptom of a UTI, as elderly patients can often exhibit delirium during UTIs and behave completely out of their usual nature.
Load More Replies...This person needs to find a new line of work if they so vehemently hate the patients. That kind of attitude can get people killed. Humans aren't great at listening when they don't like someone, and this receptionist's whole JOB is to listen closely and record the reason for a patient's appointment request. I also don't like how they didn't even consider that one commenter's suggestion of dementia, which would require a moment of compassion in a situation that frustrated them. Instead they essentially stated no person with dementia, even early onset, would ever be able to give a straight answer like this woman eventually did; it's just better that they instead be able to continue justifying their hate.
Front desk workers like this is sadly common. My mom worked the front desk and billing in doctors offices and the stories I heard about her coworkers. Please tell the doctors if there are issues with staff members, many people switch docs because they don't want to deal with the office staff
Load More Replies...Whats the obsessed with boomers. Just call them old guy or gal. Makes everything sounds stupid after that.
Fed up with the anti boomer sentiment. If we're going to hate on people based upon when they were born we might as well start having a go at Leos. Stupid northern-hemisphere-summer babies.
"I hate boomers and old people in general". Says it all. If you're like that, then healthcare is not the profession for you. I am so sick of this whole "Boomers are bad, they ruined the world for us" fight against younger people. So, what are you going to do when you get old? Or are you going to set up a system like Logan's Run? I'm sure most millennials would drag their old parents out into the snow to die if they could. I'd rather put up with boomers than the whinging, milquetoast millennials.
I was with you till you started bitching about millennials. Maybe we could just stop with the in-group out-group thinking?
Load More Replies...Why is this even a story, sounds like just about every day dealing with the general public. And it comes from all ages, not just boomers. I wouldn't even say they're nearly as bad as the silent generation.
There are 2-3 "writers" who make it their life's work to pump out at least one of these and at least one anti US per week.
Load More Replies...boomers = elderly. Shame on you. This is just another ageist story, and would have worked perfectly well without adding “boomer.” And the way all the commenters jumped on the bandwagon is stunning. That’s OK though, one day they’ll get old, and karma’s a bit¢h.
Weren't you guys splooging all over the place in excitement yesterday as you bashed gen Z for their "generational traits"? If they are whiny or lazy snowflakes, you guys are narcissistic buttsniffers. The moral of the story is you people suck. Do better.
Load More Replies..."Anyone can write on Bored Panda." And apparently do. Clicked in, clicked the "Comments" button - no ad impressions for you - to say that I'm nearly done with BP. I'm here for stories of people dealing with a-holes, not people being a-holes. Enough with the group hate. Boomers, Zoomers, or any category that people are inherently a part of and can't help.
This older lady was making it difficult, but it might also be a starting dementia or something similar. My grandma had alzheimers, and she have few similar episodes. She had worked her whole life in a bank, and of course everyone there know her. But after years of retirement at least 95% of the workers had changed and didn't have any idea who she was. Alzheimers kinda blurred the ears and persons in my grandma's head, so she was extremely insulted when she wasn't recognized in her bank anymore. Those few times I was there with her I could de-escalate the situation on focusing how the worker was young so she probably was new and that all the older ones must be on holiday/lunchbreak or something. As grandma was really a sweet old lady, she started treating the worker nicely after getting over the fact of not being recognized. (miss you grandma...)
Someone suggested that in the comments, but OP wasn't having it. It makes me sad, because a receptionist on their toes could have actually noted the behavior on the appointment as a point of concern. There's ALSO a possibility of it being a symptom of a UTI, as elderly patients can often exhibit delirium during UTIs and behave completely out of their usual nature.
Load More Replies...This person needs to find a new line of work if they so vehemently hate the patients. That kind of attitude can get people killed. Humans aren't great at listening when they don't like someone, and this receptionist's whole JOB is to listen closely and record the reason for a patient's appointment request. I also don't like how they didn't even consider that one commenter's suggestion of dementia, which would require a moment of compassion in a situation that frustrated them. Instead they essentially stated no person with dementia, even early onset, would ever be able to give a straight answer like this woman eventually did; it's just better that they instead be able to continue justifying their hate.
Front desk workers like this is sadly common. My mom worked the front desk and billing in doctors offices and the stories I heard about her coworkers. Please tell the doctors if there are issues with staff members, many people switch docs because they don't want to deal with the office staff
Load More Replies...Whats the obsessed with boomers. Just call them old guy or gal. Makes everything sounds stupid after that.































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