Worker Sees Backpack Being Used By Someone Else At Work, Takes It Back And Receives An Angry Message
Have you ever cleaned out a closet and rediscovered something you completely forgot you owned? It’s practically a universal experience, and it’s as though sometimes forgotten belongings patiently wait to be found. Other times, though, they seem to start living an entirely new life without you.
That’s essentially what happened to today’s Original Poster (OP), who went looking for a backpack they had left hanging in a shared workspace for months, only to discover it had become someone else’s daily bag. It seemed like a simple case of reclaiming personal property, but they were left wondering whether they handled the situation poorly.
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We’ve all had that one item we swear we’ll come back for eventually, until the moment we finally decide to go back for it and it’s been taken
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The author left a backpack hanging in a shared workplace storage area for months and forgot about it
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After renovations move extra items into the space, they realized the backpack was missing and asked coworkers about it in a group chat
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They later found the backpack being used by a cleaner and, not knowing the owner of the items inside, removed them and took the backpack home
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The cleaner later contacted the author, upset, explaining they had been using it temporarily after assuming it was abandoned and criticizing how the situation was handled
The OP explained that their backpack had been hanging inside a small storage room and workspace in the department corridor since the beginning of the school year. Although they had meant to take it home several times, they kept forgetting. The room was shared by coworkers and cleaning staff, making it a place where many people stored various belongings.
When another room was emptied for renovations, extra equipment was moved into the already crowded storage area. Around that time, the OP finally remembered the backpack and decided to take it home, only to realize it had disappeared. They asked coworkers whether anyone had seen it, but no one responded. Some time later, they entered the same room and spotted the missing backpack.
However, the backpack now contained someone else’s belongings. Because they were in a hurry to take their child to an appointment, they removed the contents, neatly placed everything together nearby, and took their backpack home. Later, it was revealed that one of the school’s cleaners had been using the backpack after finding it hanging untouched for a long time.
According to the cleaner, their own backpack had broken, so they assumed the unattended bag was no longer being used and began carrying it to work every day. They stressed that they never tried to hide the fact they were using it, arguing that if they had intended to steal it, they certainly wouldn’t have carried it around openly.
The cleaner later sent the OP a direct message expressing disappointment over how the situation had been handled. They said that if the backpack truly belonged to them, they could have simply asked for it back instead of removing the contents and leaving them behind. This then left the OP wondering if they were wrong for reclaiming their own backpack without first trying to locate the owner of the belongings inside.
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Incidents at work like this are surprisingly common when shared spaces are involved. VPod Smart Solutions notes that areas like communal storage rooms can quickly become confusing when personal items are left behind for long periods. Therefore, they recommend clearly marking personal items and checking with coworkers before moving or using anything that doesn’t clearly belong to you.
This kind of confusion is often made worse by how people naturally interpret what they see. According to VOC Associates, humans tend to rely on quick, context-based assumptions when deciding whether something is still in use. If an item sits untouched for months in a shared area, it can easily be perceived as forgotten or no longer needed, even if the owner simply hasn’t retrieved it.
Once misunderstandings do occur, how people respond matters just as much as how they started. Coworkers highlights that most conflicts are best resolved through calm and direct communication rather than assumptions or indirect action. They then advised that raising issues early and clearly is especially important in shared environments, where ownership is not always obvious.
Some netizens argued that leaving the backpack unused for so long contributed to the situation, while others defended the OP and focused on the cleaner’s responsibility to verify ownership before using personal items. What do you think about this situation? At what point does forgotten property become abandoned in a shared workplace? We would love to know your thoughts!
Some netizens criticized the author for leaving their bag for so long, while others blamed the cleaner for using something that didn’t belong to her
Laughing my a*s off at the audacity of the YTA people, if it's not yours, LEAVE IT ALONE. I don't know how other people were raised but it doesn't matter how long something has been there, it doesn't belong to anyone but the person it belongs to, so, leave it alone! W*f
If it was abandoned property, then it should have gone to the school lost and found. That stuff is kept for a set period, then discarded or donated. That’s the policy at most schools and prevents problems like this. The policy is not “I see something nobody appears to be using for few months so I will help myself to it.”
Op asks "Am I the AH?" Many people reply "Yes, you are." OP replies "No, I am not" and makes excuses. Why ask if you already have your mind made up?
It's not a binding vote. And it seems reasonable to be skeptical about responses that seem to ignore details explained in the post, for example.
Load More Replies...NTA. What’s wrong with all the YTAs?? You don’t take other people‘s belongings without asking, period. OP didn’t throw the stuff away, they simply left it in the closet, so what’s the big deal?
I don't get the YTA's. The backpack belonged to OP. Period. That is the end of the story.
Why didn't you put your name on it? Then they would have known whose backpack it was! Then the person wouldn't have thought they could use it. But I don't think you're an AH.
This very clearly should have been taken to Lost Property because Noone with half a brain cell leaves a bag for a YEAR In a communal area. As for the adhd thing, utter bollocks. I have adhd and Autism, you DON'T leave a bloody bag Abandoned for a year. She was lucky it wasn't chucked in the bin.
I would have replied to that email : "It is also impolite, not to mention illegal, to STEAL something that is not yours no matter how long it seems to have been unused and no matter how entitled you believe yourself to be."
"I found it rude how you took your backpack without asking me about it" even though I also did that to start using it while knowing it actually belonged to someone else. I'd have gone off on that alone. How dare you shame me for reclaiming what's mine when you couldn't have asked permission in the first place. Literally a thief trying to take the high road when they got caught. Nah, f off.
Aww, it's so cute when you try to get all high and mighty, Binky. Obviously can't read yourself.
Load More Replies...She is NTA for reclaiming her bag. I would argue at that point it would've been better if she left a note on the backpack asking the unknown user to return it after the next class, and not handle someone else's stuff (IDs, purse, cards, etc.)
In defense of the coworker and all the YTA votes, it seems perfectly reasonable to see a backpack that's been left in a public space for months at a time and presume it to be abandoned. The correct thing to do then might have been turn it in to the school's lost and found before you commandeer it for yourself, but I'd still argue that OP is in the wrong for creating the situation in the first place.
I've seen many backpacks literally fall apart, while in use. Depending on what the bag is made from and the quality of the materials, can drastically change the length of it's life. I've seen many straps completely detach from weak or worn threading, zippers break off or just don't zip closed any longer. Daily use in a variety of weather conditions, combined with the excessive amount of weight of all the books we needed to lug around for school/home work, definitely contributed to how long the backpack lasted for.
Load More Replies...How the hell is the cleaner supposed to know that a random item left in a cleaning supplies cupboard actually belongs to someone? Stupid OP has just left it there for an extended period, seem perfectly reasonable for the cleaner to assume it's been abandoned. Does the teacher not have a locker, desk, cupboard or whatever of her own?
Immaterial. Here's a simple way for the cleaner to know. "Did I buy that backpack?" "Don't remember doing so, so I guess it's not mine."
Load More Replies...Laughing my a*s off at the audacity of the YTA people, if it's not yours, LEAVE IT ALONE. I don't know how other people were raised but it doesn't matter how long something has been there, it doesn't belong to anyone but the person it belongs to, so, leave it alone! W*f
If it was abandoned property, then it should have gone to the school lost and found. That stuff is kept for a set period, then discarded or donated. That’s the policy at most schools and prevents problems like this. The policy is not “I see something nobody appears to be using for few months so I will help myself to it.”
Op asks "Am I the AH?" Many people reply "Yes, you are." OP replies "No, I am not" and makes excuses. Why ask if you already have your mind made up?
It's not a binding vote. And it seems reasonable to be skeptical about responses that seem to ignore details explained in the post, for example.
Load More Replies...NTA. What’s wrong with all the YTAs?? You don’t take other people‘s belongings without asking, period. OP didn’t throw the stuff away, they simply left it in the closet, so what’s the big deal?
I don't get the YTA's. The backpack belonged to OP. Period. That is the end of the story.
Why didn't you put your name on it? Then they would have known whose backpack it was! Then the person wouldn't have thought they could use it. But I don't think you're an AH.
This very clearly should have been taken to Lost Property because Noone with half a brain cell leaves a bag for a YEAR In a communal area. As for the adhd thing, utter bollocks. I have adhd and Autism, you DON'T leave a bloody bag Abandoned for a year. She was lucky it wasn't chucked in the bin.
I would have replied to that email : "It is also impolite, not to mention illegal, to STEAL something that is not yours no matter how long it seems to have been unused and no matter how entitled you believe yourself to be."
"I found it rude how you took your backpack without asking me about it" even though I also did that to start using it while knowing it actually belonged to someone else. I'd have gone off on that alone. How dare you shame me for reclaiming what's mine when you couldn't have asked permission in the first place. Literally a thief trying to take the high road when they got caught. Nah, f off.
Aww, it's so cute when you try to get all high and mighty, Binky. Obviously can't read yourself.
Load More Replies...She is NTA for reclaiming her bag. I would argue at that point it would've been better if she left a note on the backpack asking the unknown user to return it after the next class, and not handle someone else's stuff (IDs, purse, cards, etc.)
In defense of the coworker and all the YTA votes, it seems perfectly reasonable to see a backpack that's been left in a public space for months at a time and presume it to be abandoned. The correct thing to do then might have been turn it in to the school's lost and found before you commandeer it for yourself, but I'd still argue that OP is in the wrong for creating the situation in the first place.
I've seen many backpacks literally fall apart, while in use. Depending on what the bag is made from and the quality of the materials, can drastically change the length of it's life. I've seen many straps completely detach from weak or worn threading, zippers break off or just don't zip closed any longer. Daily use in a variety of weather conditions, combined with the excessive amount of weight of all the books we needed to lug around for school/home work, definitely contributed to how long the backpack lasted for.
Load More Replies...How the hell is the cleaner supposed to know that a random item left in a cleaning supplies cupboard actually belongs to someone? Stupid OP has just left it there for an extended period, seem perfectly reasonable for the cleaner to assume it's been abandoned. Does the teacher not have a locker, desk, cupboard or whatever of her own?
Immaterial. Here's a simple way for the cleaner to know. "Did I buy that backpack?" "Don't remember doing so, so I guess it's not mine."
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