Woman Gets In A Fight With A Friend Because She Reminded Her She Actually Didn’t Buy Her House, Her Parents Did

Honestly, please stop with these pathetic stories BP. Two 28 year old's having a squabble in a shop about how they aquired their houses.

Everyone has that one friend who is always trying to "one up" their friends. It's odd that she chose to act superior when neither of them bought their own house.

It really doesn't matter how someone gets a house as long as they have somewhere to live. People in this world don't realize how blessed they are to have a home at all and then have stupid little squabbles. I think all of this drama is why I don't have a lot of friends.

Poor salesperson. That will probably pop up in a Reddit thread sometime!

This friend Is not a friend. She's a major A hole. She can dish it out, but when it comes back on her, she goes all Karen on her friend. I say flush it, and go listen to the Joan Jett song, Fake friends, because that's what this woman is.

Anyone who says "ESH" is the type of person who takes crap from people and doesn't say anything. The friend got mad because they got called out. I'll bet that friend is constantly trying to undervalue people to make themselves seem superior.

It was totally unnecessary to add anything. It almost seemed spiteful. Find another friend.

I'm hoping this post will teach the young people reading it what is appropriate behaveour. Ofciurse OP is NTA. She doesnt owe anyone a deescalation of the situation,she is not a psychotherapist nor a social worker,she is not a emotional support animal, or babysitter who takes punches from the spoiled kid. The employee asked whether the woman is renting or buying so he can try to figure out what kind of appliances to offer to her. And her son called friend didnt even read that and for apsolutely no reason went on a string of thoughts so she can talk about how she can afford to buy a house. No she cant,and maybe her parents cant ether and had to take a mortgage or a loan to help out.maybe even the parents of her partner chipped in etc...this is what narcissism looks like folks. When you see it,run in the opposite direction as fast as you can.

It was clear from the title, confirmed throughout the article: Both 28yr olds reached adulthood without maturing. It's simply impossible to dodge these people permanently. it's important to remember that when your livelihood or education are dependent on the outcome of interactions with them, assume the mental age of the person you are interacting with is half of their physical age. Be prepared!

First the employee even though this person was making small talk it wasn’t his or her business. The friend definitely was wrong to interrupt and say anything regarding how the house was acquired it is not the business of the employee and definitely not her business to tell.

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NTA, this is ridiculous! All the people who would do this don't matter and the ones who truly care for you THIS won't matter to them! How dare she act as such an elitest when in fact SHE was the one who not only PROVED she was an A**hole but also showed you her TRUE colors and this could have saved you a lot of heart ache down the way. It's not cool acting better than people but it tells what kind of human you are when you not only put your "friends" business out to strangers but belittle over YOUR situation!! To me there is a huge difference between INHERITING and having mommy and daddy pay for it!! I know some said she opened the door and you walked through, in my eyes we all should stand up for ourselves and being like THAT. Living in this day of ACCOUNTABILITY as they say, she should probably not throw stones living in a glass house, she could lose what she has real quick, Karma is a b*tch sometimes YOU ARE NOT CRAZY though girl, just need a better friend 💕

Where is the appreciation and gratitude by either friend for the fact that millions of Americans two and three times their age pay rent every month and live in places that are substandard and can't be renovated because it is coat prohibitive for the occupant as a tenant. Instead of basking in their good fortunes they are engage in this pettiness? They sound like twonself entitled posers who would never be homeowners if it were left to their own devices. I blame our politicians for not making homeownership more accessible to all Americans. They are too busy taking cash and gifts from landlords.

The only one who isn't an A-hole here is the poor clerk. They should have talked about it in private.

NTA. Your so called friend certainly is though. Ditch that so called friend of yours, and the morons who are split. They are not good friends.

Friend is the a'hole. All the employee needed to know is own or rented as you can do things in your home you can't in a rented. Also being pissed about exposure she couldn't buy a house by herself? She didn't buy the house at all.

Well, that's five minutes I'll never get back

This is a teaching experience for retail people to be more circumspect. "Own or rent?" is how the question should be posed. The woman who asserted "the record" was a thing is a toxic c***.

I mean I don't mind most of the AITA stories but this one is no good.

She sounds like a psychopath to be honest.

If you're both 28 and can't tell who TA is, that's your real problem. And if you're friends, why would you treat each other this way? Friends don't take cheap shots at one another. ESH.