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Body positivity is a term many people are embracing with open arms nowadays. After all, the social movement promotes feelings of acceptance and love, regardless of anyone’s size, shape, or appearance.

In fact, this new mindset is so widely used and known that there are content creators who blow up by simply sharing their journeys of what it’s like to be a plus-size person in a vastly different and constantly changing world.

They aren’t afraid to call others out for ‘fatphobic’ behavior, rooting for inclusivity for everyone. But as many know, sometimes audience members aren’t the big fans of what influencers create. Here are 11 times plus-size customers spoke their mind and shared it on social media — whether it seems reasonable or logical remains up to you!

#1

Discrimination Within Bollywood

Plus-size person in a blue outfit, expressing confidence against societal norms in outdoor urban setting.

Actress Anjali Anand believes it to be unfair that Bollywood has given her the “plus-size” tag when actors such as Govinda and Rishi Kapoor were never labeled as such.

She told Fever FM, “Nobody would call [Govinda] a plus-size actor. Nobody would call Rishi Kapoor a plus size actor. He is an actor. But for a woman, I’m always called Anjali Anand — a plus size actor. I hate talking about it.

“We need to normalize it. People ask me why I don’t promote plus-size representation on the internet, and it’s because I don’t want to.”

She later went on to describe how society treats women in a harsher light than men.

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K
Community Member
8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The 7% who said no.. probably men.

Pyla
Community Member
8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Truthfully after watching a metric shīt tonne of Bollywood movies, men can look like a decaying corpse and still be a star. Women have a much higher standard.

Emy Loves
Community Member
8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men can look like trash, yet still be valued. Women who “supposedly” look like trash are treated as such. We still live in a disgusting, male dominated world. She is absolutely gorgeous.

BeesEelsAndPups
Community Member
8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The problem is in who has the levers of power to make those valuations. Because men control these industries, we control who is valued more than others. And as men are inclined to value other men based on performance, and women based on appearance, this is what happens. I'm not saying it's right, please don't think I am justifying. But this is why I believe it's nearly impossible to have a woman that looks like Steve Buscemi in the movies. For even just a normal looking woman to get roles, she has to be an actress of impossible caliber. Eg Kathy Bates.

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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I said no. And I’m a woman. If you are an overweight man you have to be insanely talented - comedian, etc. overweight women can be a plus sized influencer and little else. Show me the overweight men influencers.

Emilu
Community Member
8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

See, this is a beautiful woman. You don't need a butt the size of a barn to be pretty.

BrunoVI
Community Member
8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No example of the "wrath of the internet?" I mean, you can't say you like M&Ms without some flake calling you a genocidal idiot, so I'm sure she got some negative comments but the article title suggests we'd get examples of how horribly someone was mistreated.

William Teach
Community Member
8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, doesn't she herself make a big deal about being a plus sized actress?

michael reid
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men and women are judged on different criteria, for obvious reasons

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    #2

    Denied Entry From A Party Bus

    Plus-size person in a stylish black top poses confidently, challenging conventional beauty norms.

    Miami Beach in Florida is known for its vibrant nightlife and creative parties, and that’s exactly what 27-year-old body positivity advocate Fallon Melillo wanted to take advantage of.

    Unfortunately, when she and her friends decided to take a party bus to get to a pool party, things took a turn.

    Although the pool party itself said on Eventbrite, “Sorry No Big Girls for this party!” the promoter themselves did not disclose this information to the girl who bought the tickets for the party bus.

    Thinking things would be okay, Fallon decided to go, only to be turned away

    “There’s no law, but it’s just downright awful and rude and humiliating,” the advocate told Bored Panda.

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    Emilu
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Granting or denying someone access to a party based on their size is gross. Be grateful you weren’t allowed to go to that s**t show!

    Ge Po
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In fact, unless there's a valid reason to exclude people with certain body types, like for safety reasons, (like: you have to be this high to ride the rollercoaster), it's discrimination.

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    Steven Lohmann
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I weighed well over 300 pounds for years, but I never once was offended that overweight people were represented. Why? Because we were/are overweight. Am I the only one who thought that way? If you want bigger clothes then you go to the big and tall section. Never felt offended by it. And I was massively overweight for 20+ years. I'm no longer overweight, but I was for for over 2 decades.

    Say No to Downvoting
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s fine but were you ever told that you specifically were not welcome at a party because you are a “big boy”?

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    Archanae
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok but why is there a 3 way highway in between her b***s? I've never seen a space like that

    Megalodon Meg
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guessing maybe you haven't seen many then

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    Kathrin Pukowsky
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honest question: Is that how bras with wires are supposed to be worn? I've always felt like they are way too uncomfortable for me, but I've put the band that goes around the ribcage, and thus the wires, right under the point where the breasts protrude from my chest. That led to a lot of being poked/"stabbed" by the wires. The way it is in the picture looks like it has less stabbing potential, but also kinda wrong.

    ElfVibratorGlitter
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure the wire is supposed to sit directly under the breast? That's how I wear mine, but if I slid it down my b***s would just slide down too ... Oh gravity!

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    Annabel Again
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got real guys having party sound like total jerks who wants to chill w ppl like that anyway

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No big girls, but no mention about big boys. Was this an event solely for women? I doubt it. You can't let fat men in and refuse fat women.

    Arenite
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wondering if her friends supported her or got on the bus and left her there. What a way to find out who is a true friend.

    Rathoren
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The stupid thing is, shes not even that big?!?? Like she has curves and shes beautiful, i wish my chubby rolls and belly fat looked half as good!! :'(

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The party bus seems reprehensible, but this seems like a setup by the "body positive advocate." "Although the pool party itself said on Eventbrite, “Sorry No Big Girls for this party!” the promoter themselves did not disclose this information to the girl who bought the tickets for the party bus."

    Julia Cargile
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would never share a story about my weight because I got fat all by myself.

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    #3

    Inclusivity In Target

    TikTok content creator Samyra has always been loud and proud when it comes to showcasing different kinds of bodies. 

    She recorded a video where she attempted to shame Target for only marketing their clothes towards thin people.

    Samyra picked up a women’s jacket with the tip: “Go up a size or two on your purchase for an easy, effortlessly cool vibe.”

    “This is a clear example of how brands center on thinness. How can someone who is 3X of 4X go up a size or two?” she argued.

    But the comments were anything but understanding and forgiving.

    “Very few people are built like you. Market moves corporations, not your feelings,” one person stated.

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    Hippopotamuses
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As one of the commentator pointed out. 'Market moves corporations...'. That's the reality. To achieve economies of scale, they cater for the majority, and the majority has been conditioned to expect smaller sizes.

    Toothless Feline
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thing is, they're not actually catering to the size people really are. They're catering to the size people wish they were, the size Hollywood tells us we "should" be. There's a number of online stores that cater to a broader range of sizes than most brick-and-mortar stores, but they're mostly small businesses, and the selection is usually limited.

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    Archanae
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lose weight or get your clothing elsewhere. I'm also a bit bigger than what 'normal-sized' stores propose and yet you don't see me being all dramatic about it 😂 and I still can dress just fine...

    Bob R
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'M THIN AND ALL CLOTHES i TRY TO BUY ARE FOR SHORT FAT PEOPLE 125 5'10'

    Autumn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. I was gonna say. Target clothes are short and very wide.

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    Katy Bell
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even when main stream companies size up often the clothes don't fit around the bust, while they assume your waist is massive. As a result baggy across the middle and bottom tight at the top.

    Rathoren
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or worse is they think everyone plus size is short, no b***s and apparently micro thin arms?!? Im tall, biggish b***s and almost half the shirts i like have these tiny arm holes or are ridiculously shooort sleeves?!

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    Floor V
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mainstream fashion brands cater mainstream people, aka 'normal sized' people. I'm plussize and I know I have to shop elsewhere. My problem, not theirs.

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where is the "shouldn't be expected to cater to outliers" option? There is no money in it for them.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Orrr, since you could go down several sizes, maybe go down one or two yourself - the health benefits would be outstanding.

    Suby
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They cater to average height, too. There are very few options for tall women. Sleeves are always too short.

    Sparkle
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've found that stores carry more size 6 up pants/skirts. I'm skinny and it is becoming harder to shop at Old Navy in store and be able to find 2/0. Not to mention some stores don't even carry 2/0 in stores. I think it's more of a getting the same amount of clothing in each size.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The few times that I've found something at target that fits i have to get a bigger size because their sizes are 1 or 2 sizes smaller than what I wear. Any shorts or pants I've ever ever gotten there are an 18 instead of a 14 or 16.. I love Cato but everything in that store is a size smaller than others.

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    #4

    Handrails In Swimming Pools

    @jaebaeofficial No handrails at pools? That’s not inclusive. Demand accessibility for all. ⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ #EqualAccess #PlusSize #PlusSizeTravel #PlusSizeTravelBlogger #Fyp ♬ Not my fault sped up - Abby :)

    And Jaelynn Chaney stirs the pot of controversy once more.

    She claims that public swimming pools that don’t feature handrails are “not inclusive” in a video from July 2024, repeatedly stating that “obesity is not a disability.” 

    For the 27-year-old, handrails are a crucial part of helping her stabilize as she gets out of the water. 

    “Accessibility isn’t optional,” she shared. “Make handrails mandatory at all pools for swimmers of every size and ability.”

    Chaney continued, “Without handrails, we’re excluding so many from enjoying pools safely. It’s time to ensure everyone can swim with confidence. Demand mandatory handrails now!”

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with weight exclusively, IMO. Handrails should be a safety feature in most pools?

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially for older people. My mom swims a lot to stay healthy, but she's older and needs a handrail to get out of the pool.

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    Roger9er
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife had a stroke half a year ago and luckily she got out of the wheelchair. Still, she needs a brace for her leg and walks with a cane. She's only 48. She wants to get in a pool too this summer. But it has to be safe, and a handrail is very necessary! Access to a pool should ALWAYS be available to people with a disability.

    Lee Banks
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a small adult with wicked balance issues. Handrails are amazing.

    Ruth Watry
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need handrails because of knee issues - kids need them to stay safe - have never been in a public pool, hotel pool, etc. without handrails (in US)

    Marie Adamson
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait, I thought handrails were mandatory anyway?

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What has weight got to do with handrails that would be used by so many different types of people. I'll bet older people or disabled people would like handrails. This is not a weight issue. It's a safety issue.

    KnightOwl
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with weight, all pools should have handrails for safety! Everyone would be safer with handrails not just the people that people think of, (the elderly, people with disabilities, children and parents of young babies/infants) everyone would benefit from extra support and stability. Not having handrails can be dangerous at the best of times but not having them on wet, slippery surfaces puts people at risk of serious injury.

    Ginger ninja
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have spinal cord injuries, I need the handrails to help get in and out of a pool because I cant use the ladders

    Steïcy Gya
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Handrails should be included in pools. I love to swim but is pretty much afraid of depth. Anytime I go inside of a pool for the first time, I am anxious and needs to hold onto something so as to be able to get in as my legs are shaky. Handrails really helps in these situations.

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    #5

    Quitting A Job After Being Told To “Cover Her Stomach”

    Plus-size woman in a casual outfit expressing frustration in a home setting, addressing uncomfortable spaces.

    Abigayle Canterbury was just doing what she needed to do when she was dress-coded at her job… that did not have a dress code.

    She was indirectly told by her manager that she needed to “dress something nicer and cover the stomach,” to which she responded with “So no crop tops, got it.”

    But after talking to her other co-workers, some who had been there significantly longer than she had, she realized they had never been dress-coded — even though a few were wearing something “inappropriate,” by the manager’s standards.

    After all, what drew Abigayle to this job was the “laid-back environment,” and how the employees could wear whatever they wanted. 

    “That sh–t really not only caught me off guard but kind of hurt my feelings,” she said. 

    Her response? Quitting.

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    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A crop top is not acceptable for work even if it's part of some slutty uniform like at Hooters. I refuse to go there because of the uniform. They can call it a family restaurant all the want to but I call BS on that! If there is a dress code it should apply to everybody!

    Alex Boyd
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed. I don't think a crop top is appropriate for the workplace, but if a workplace does allow them, then they need to be allowed for everybody, not just people the manager likes looking at in a crop top.

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    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Crop tops, shorts, and flip flops are beach attire, not office attire. I don't care how "laid-back" the business is. Grow up.

    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only place I want see someone's midriff is at a pool party or beach. No one, regardless of size should so their torso skin at work.

    ElfVibratorGlitter
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in a conservative field where most people would wear a suit, so showing your tummy would be absolutely bizarre, but otherwise...🤔

    Marnie
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The poll question is wrong. The question is, "Is it okay for a business to have one dress code for thin people, but a more restrictive dress code for overweight people?" (And the answer is "No".)

    MalayDragon
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Question is perfectly adequate is is generalising the "dress code" or in this case lack of one. I agree that it is not ok to impose a more restrictive dress code on people of a certain body type vs another that is 100% discrimination and could lead to legal action. However the Question refers only to a workplace having labelled themselves as "Laid-Back" and if crop tops in particular are acceptable, which I agree is not acceptable especially in an office environment. There are obvious exceptions to this such as Gym's and places like that were a crop top would be considered normal attire for working out.

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    Barbara Wilcock
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look professional. I dont care what size you are

    Mtn Lungta
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The entitlement and vested interest in not understanding is truly stunning.

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A crop top is an acceptable unless you work at hooters or something come on. If you work in a business , office something like that you don’t wear one. It is bad as these women who are wearing the goddámn pyjamas to work these days. Stop being so dàmn lazy have a bit of class and put some clothes on —actual clothes.

    azubi
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand the poll question to this - obviously crop tops where not the problem, as long as the manager wanted to see the person in it?

    Jon Steensen
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even though there is no official dress code, there is always implicit decency rules that you better follow. E.g. you can't show up in a thong and a bra only, in an office environment and simply expect everyone to accept your choice without at least commenting on it. Applying common sense can solve a lot of issues, and saving a lot of time writing office policies, trying to foresee every stupid action the employees might take.

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    #6

    A Look Of Disgust In An Airplane

    Plus-size customer in two contrasting moments: looking upset indoors and joyful at a theme park wearing Mickey Mouse ears.

    A Brazilian plus-size influencer known as Sidney recorded an emotional video for his social media followers, recounting a particularly unpleasant experience he had while traveling.

    As he was heading to Rio de Janeiro on a plane, he recounted having a difficult time passing through the aircraft aisle and accidentally bumping into a woman.

    “When I passed by her and unintentionally, because of my size, my belly touched her, she looked at her arm, wiped it off, and gave me a disgusted look,” he said. “I felt like the worst human being alive.” 

    The small incident also triggered his anxiety. 

    “I had never gone through something like this, never in my life. I don’t give room for anyone to disrespect me, but this time it was completely different,” he concluded.

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    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find planes extremely narrow regardless of someone's size, I get anxious every time

    K
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, OP this! Regardless of size the aisle is way too narrow

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    Deborah B
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't matter what size someone is - a stranger rubbing against you is unwelcome. Chances are he would have gotten a dirty look if he'd been average sized. Yeah, maybe she's a b***h. Maybe she just doesn't want people touching her, and this guy pushed past her instead of saying "Excuse me."

    lenka
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tend to agree. Planes are hideous cramped spaces and they seem to encourage/invite poor behavior. I once had a man, while putting baggage in the overhead, rub his d**k in my face. When I pulled back, in shock and horror, he just shrugged and smirked at me as if to say, I dare you to make a big deal out of this. Men who stand right behind you, like up against your back while trying to board, and men who spread their legs so their thighs are touching you. And they KNOW that they do it. This is not inadvertent behavior. This is intentional encroaching on personal space because they are in an environment where they can plead innocence. (and yes, yes, not all men. But strangely enough... only ever men. Women don't try and touch me like this). I glare at any man who unnecessarily touches me - no matter how skinny or fat they are.

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    Riley Quinn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, let's redesign everything - planes, trains, restaurants, hospitals, grocery stores... all to accommodate excessively large people who simply can't accept their limitations in public.

    Gozer LeGozerian
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where does the person ask for everything to be accommodating to their size?

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    Barbara Wilcock
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Down vote if you want. But I had a middle seat between very large ladies. It was impossible to use the toilet as one said she couldn't get up . Not nice

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then they are not fit to fly in that seat - what if there was an emergency and you had to get past? If they can't get up unaided, they shouldn't be in that seat.

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    KnightOwl
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah i would probably react the same way if some stranger rubbed against me, even if we were in a very tight, narrow space and it was an accident. I dont want random person's (probably sweaty) body touching me, i don't care what size they are.

    B
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The more people airlines can cram in (especially budget airlines), the more money they make. Don't expect changes any time soon.

    Christina A Davis
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have a section for those enormous people. When it's full--they wait till the next flight. Same as when first class is full--and you want to fly first class. It is VERY uncomfortable for them AND the person forced to sit next to them. NEITHER can relax, eat, read, perform the slightest movement without disturbing the other. SOO-yeah, they need a special section.

    cerinamroth
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they are this enormous, they pose a safety risk in the event of an emergency, as with any disabled person. If you are unable to get up unassisted, or might block the gangways, they should have a special section for those people to get the help they need without stopping anyone else from exiting the plane.

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    Cynthia Cross
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You've 'never' gone through something like this? Find that hard to believe.

    Royal Stray
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On one hand planes are way to cramped. On the other hand, I would probably have done the same if someone bumped into me like that.

    StumblingThroughLife
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The whole idea of an airline is to fit as many people in the plane (sardines) to make more money. They are getting smaller as Capitalism grows larger. Guaranteed, if they began to make them plus-size-friendly, the ticket prices would bleed us dry, due to them not wanting to make a loss. The difference between now & the 60s in one photo: the-60s-67...642868.jpg the-60s-67e9050642868.jpg

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    #7

    Lyft Driver Refuses To Let A Plus-Size Woman In His Car

    Plus-size individual standing confidently between two men in suits, emphasizing inclusive spaces.

    When Dajua Blanding, known as ‘Dank Demoss’ ordered a Lyft ride to the Lions playoff game, she was met with rejection over her weight

    In a video posted on January 19, Dajua captured the whole conversation between her and the driver.

    When he showed up, he allegedly took one look at her and immediately locked the car’s doors, denying her entry into his Mercedes-Benz sedan.

    “I can fit in this car,” Dajua said in the clip. 

    “Believe me, you can’t,” replied the driver. “I’m sorry. I’m going to cancel. You’re not going to be charged,” and added, “I’ve been in this situation before.”

    Shocked, Dajua asked, “So every big person, you turn down because they can’t fit in your car?”

    The driver apologized and then suggested she order herself a bigger vehicle, such as an Uber XL, for easier access. 

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    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's hardly just plus size. I'm overweight and wear plus sizes, but I still fit in to normal airplane seats and cars. She's super morbid obese.

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has been discussed a lot. She's not plus size, she's morbidly obese, and the weight would have damaged the driver's car.

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    Beth Wheeler
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus size my a*s, she is MORBIDITY OBESE! The driver would definitely know if she would fit in his car or not. She should order a minivan for rides so that she will fit. Unfortunately none of the seatbelts will be long enough for her. My son used to weigh 500 lbs and the seatbelts in his 97 truck weren't long enough when we got it. I had to search online for seatbelt extenders. He has lost 200 lbs so far after having bariatric surgery.

    Danielle Lee
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is about little different, I seen the video and the Uber driver was being as polite as he could and she's not just overweight, she's morbidly obese and it would have been a safety hazzard having her in his car and she would have been better off ordering an xl car to accommodate her

    Skywitness
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many smaller cars have a load limit of 700lbs. That's not discrimination. That's physics.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In addition, that is distributed weight, not 700# all on one suspension assembly.

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    Mad McQueen
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I drive a 2002 ford Taurus and even with the seat in front fully up she would not fit in my backseat. And it is hard to say but she would drop my suspension in the back if she sat there too. I don’t care how big or small someone is but there is a square hole round peg situation there. The driver knows his car an if he knew she wouldn’t fit he was better off not to take her. But this just gave her more FaceTime on the internet a from what ive Seen none of it’s going her way. Except her stupid lawsuit for discrimination. If that’s the case she should buy her own car an drive it or hire someone to take her places so she knows she will have transportation.

    Maria Maria
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She isn't "plus size." She is so huge she risks a very premature death.

    Santiago
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Risks? At that point it is certain that she is facing premature death.

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    K
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some vehicles are only made.to hold certain weight and if you are a big person you should respect that.. Their car their rules. If your not charged then be grateful. And UBER XL that is a thing tho? First time hearing that

    Bi.Felicia
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, it is a legit option. Uber XL is an SUV or a van, a larger more spacious vehicle with higher payloads.

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    Robin Roper
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lyft/Uber should have an option to request larger vehicles for those who are overly large.

    Calunii
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw the video that belongs to this article and that is actually what the Lyft driver suggested she do. He told her in a polite manner that his car wouldn't be able to fit her and that she needed to request a larger vehicle

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    Jan Kovář
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The woman on the picture is not plus size. I am not plus size. I am obese. But I am still half her size. And I am aware of the fact that I am the only one to blame for my obesity and consequences of it. Just accept it. This is not body positivity. This is an excuse for reckless behavior towards own body.

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    #8

    Bigger Car Seat Size

    Plus-size customer in colorful dress standing by a car, highlighting discomfort with inadequate space.

    “Supercars should be for everyone,” stated Panamanian plus-size influencer Gracie Bon as she posted a video demanding that the luxury sports car McLaren should increase the size of their seats to accommodate her 55-inch hips.

    Unsurprisingly, users online slammed her and suggested she go for bigger cars that have bigger spaces.

    But Gracie has labeled herself a “body positivity advocate,” despite the fact that many people have claimed her body is the result of numerous surgical procedures.

    “It’s not my fault to have an a– this big,” said the 27-year-old in a viral video from last year. 

    One person countered, “There’s no way that’s natural. It’s absolutely your fault.”

    graciebon Report

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    B***h modified her body, that's not natural. She should admit she's a publicity hound.

    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disagree with the rude term used for this woman, but agree that this behind is not natural or normal.

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    Hippopotamuses
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty sure McLaren would be would be happy to supply larger seats. All you need it to pay for them, and for the appropriate modifications. She's just trying to find something to say.

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Super cars are NOT for everyone. If they were for everyone, the people who can afford to spend $1 million on a car wouldn't want them. McLaren likely wouldn't want to do this too one of their cars.

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    K
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come on! If you choose to surgically alter your body in anyway.. it is your fault for any repercussions of it. What is with nobody taking accountability for their actions! Parents we MUST start raising our children better than this! Accountability accountability accountability!

    Zophra
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure it is her fault to have an as- this big.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That chick needs to stop wearing those horrible pants and put on some freaking underwear so that it doesn't look like the pants are gonna split her in half.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gracie Bon needs to get a van or a bus. Or maybe stop with the BBL and implants. Maybe really tall people should raise a stink about sports cars being too small. Body positive! No you're just whinging to get attention.

    Mel in Georgia
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm short (5') and have a really hard time with visibility in modern cars. Didn't used to be a problem, but now since people are bigger car manufacturers have accommodated to them. Not sure I should be catered to since I'm an outlier, but it's just not safe when I'm crammed against the steering wheel and can barely see above the dash!

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can’t stand this woman. Can’t stand anything about it. This is the second time I’ve seen this twit and I cannot stand her. Last time I saw her was about her trying to trying to get them to extend the size of plane seats or some bullshït She’s an idiot. All natural my arsê!

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sports cars are not known for their accommodating seats. Perhaps remove the silicone from your head and a*s and try again.

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    #9

    “Why Do You Need Two Chairs?”

    Once again, Gracie Bon has sparked a viral debate. After posting a video where she demanded two chairs for her body — where most of her weight remains in her lower half — to sit comfortably at a restaurant. 

    In the clip, a person who appeared to be the restaurant owner laughed with her as they helped her arrange the seats.

    Since then, it’s received over 5 million views and 80K comments, with some saying there was no natural way for Gracie to achieve her specific physique. 

    “She isn’t plus-sized; she is surgically altered,” stated one person.

    But Gracie has made it clear that her body is not a product of any cosmetic procedure, writing, “Life changes when you love yourself. I’m happy to have you all witness my evolution, and to those who criticize me: no, I have never done any procedure to my face.”

    She added, “This body is literally what God gave me. And I have to embrace every single part.”

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    Maisey Myles
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poll Question: Should people lie about their a$$es being god given?

    Ruth Watry
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have managed restaurants and would NEVER let a person sit on two chairs. All that it takes is one of the chairs shifting and the person falling to the floor to result in the restaurant being sued

    Kathrin Pukowsky
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Erm, "No, I have never done any procedure to my face," says nothing about whether her posterior was surgically altered.

    MalayDragon
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly, "Never had any procedures done to my face", Ain't nobody talking about procedures on your face.

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    Hippopotamuses
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The poor woman looks deformed. Imagine having that procedure done, just to be noticed.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's more of a "bench" girl than a "chair" girl

    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The waiting area of my General Practitioner now has larger single seats for plus size patients. There are a few bench type seats as well. That said, the US really needs to do something about the obesity problem.

    Pyla
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Girl, Target dumped their DEIA faster than a Jan 6 traitor got pardoned, why are you shopping there?

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LMFAO! She hasn’t done anything to her hips and ârşe!! Ahahaha!! Yeah, okay! Sure, yeah that’s totally natural just like her face is totally natural. Like Michael Jackson‘s face was totally natural. I don’t like this list it’s pişşing me off how stupid these people are. I’m leaving now. Have a great night, everybody.

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no way that body isn't heavily modified.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is someone at BP who wants us to humiliate Gracie Bon because this is the 3rd time she's popped up on here. And now that I read that, it is a pun. Imagine deep sea fishing with a bobber like that popping up on the surface!. She could be used as a floatation device in an emergency. I've got more...

    Emilu
    Community Member
    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m going to hell cos I laughed at using her as a floatation device.

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    #10

    Paying Extra To Fly

    @jaebaeofficial 🤬 Want to fight fatphobia with me?⁣ Donate to my GoFundMe and sign the petition to support the Fat Equality Bill of Rights and the Fat Accessibility Act! 💥 Link in bio to donate and sign the petition! ✊⁣ ⁣ Let’s break down these fatphobic “solutions” once and for all: ⁣ ❌ Lose weight⁣ ❌ Upgrade to first class⁣ ❌ Don’t fly⁣ ❌ Flying isn’t a right, it’s a privilege⁣ ❌ I pay extra for luggage, so fat people should too⁣ ⁣ These aren’t solutions, they’re excuses to keep fat people from having equal access and rights. 🚫 It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect. ✊⁣ ⁣ I’m fighting for fat justice, body equality, and accessibility for all! Let’s make the world more inclusive and stop letting corporations and society get away with fatphobia. 🛑⁣ ⁣ Donate and sign to help push for the change we need to see! 🔥⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ #FatEquality #FatAccessibilityAct #BodyJustice #FightFatphobia #Donate #EqualityForAll #FearlessFatAdvocacy #FatEqualityBillOfRights #PlusSizeTravel #BodyEqualityInTravel #FlyingWhileFat #FlyingWhilePlusSize #GoFundMe #SignThePetition #PlusSizeTravelBlogger #FatActivist #Fyp ♬ Drake style/HIPHOP beat(1491552) - Burning Man

    Airplanes are known to have uncomfortable, small spaces in order to use the most of the room available. But this wasn’t working for 28-year-old Jaelynn Chaney

    As a plus-size woman, she often took up more space than one seat could hold, and so she demanded airlines give free tickets to customers like her.

    This solution was met with a wave of hate comments saying it wasn’t an airplane’s job to accommodate her size. A few netizens came up with the “suggestion” that she should be “charged by weight” in the way someone pays “extra for luggage.”

    “So my body is being compared to luggage?” she asked. “Charging by weight is fatphobic and dehumanizing,” adding that she wasn’t a suitcase. 

    The influencer closed the debate with, “It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect.”

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    Marnie
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure what the solution is to this, but one thing that is NOT as solution is to bump someone else off the plane in order to give someone two seats. People have plans. It's NEVER okay to bump someone from the seat they paid for (except for obviously some poor behavior by the person themselves).

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you take up two seats, for God's sake pay for two seats! I don't want to buy a seat and end up having to share it with part of someone else's body.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're so big that you know that you need 2 or 3 seats shut up and pay for them.

    K
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe if you take more than one seat you pay for more than one seat. Not anyone's fault people are as big as they may be. Reality check needed.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't consider myself fatphobic, but these people who have maimed their bodies because they lack self-control shouldn't expect a dämn thing from any company or person. Medications can cause a weight gain of 40-50 pounds, but this level is self-induced. Instead spending so much time buying food, she should be spending it on a psychologist. BTW, she ain't plus-size. She past that a couple hundred pounds back.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Charging by weight would actually be most fair way to do it. Weight is directly proportional to fuel used.

    Bob Brooce
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a very good physics argument for making weight a factor for every ticket. Every pound requires fuel, and even if they fit in one seat somebody who weights 20o or 250 pounds (or more) costs the airline more than an average passenger. Even with a car seat, if you buy a seat for a toddler it costs the airline less than either of the parents.

    Shoopyfloop Roundbird
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Used to be policy to purchase 2 seats. Somewhere along the way that was deemed unfair practice

    Lily Robertson
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my mom passed, i had to take the one seat left on the plane to get back home. I was put next to a plus sized woman on a five hour flight. I had to sit sideways the whole trip, while she glared at me for being in the seat next to her. I was grieving and didn't have the capacity to put up a squall about it, but it got so bad that at one point, one of the flight attendants snuck me into her seat for a bit just so i could have a break from being twisted the whole way. Buy two seats if you can't fit into one instead of tormenting the person next to you.

    Lola July
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is,demanding special allowances for her over indulging herself. If she sits next to another person she invades their space. That is rude! She feels that fat people have a "Right" to occupy as much space as they want. What's next? 3 seats at no extra charge? Should airlines be made to provide more than just a wheelchair? Perhaps electric carts, special sized vehicles to transport the ones that can not fit in a regular car? Should hotels be made to provide people to bathe them, to wipe their butts? These,people cannot do these things alone, they can't reach, I was a home care worker. I speak from experience.

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    #11

    Flying Private Is The Solution

    Plus-size woman in black outfit at an airport, highlighting discomfort in 'fatphobic' airline spaces.

    For the third time, Gracie Bon is standing up for what she believes is right.

    After campaigning for bigger seats on aircrafts, the plus-size model said she was now banned from a few select airlines. But to her, this wasn’t a problem as she’s now decided to fly with her own private jet.

    “Some airlines banned me so this is how I have to travel,” Gracie said in a video showcasing her experience flying privately. 

    “Everytime I travel, I used to buy two or three seats. So I started a campaign requesting bigger seats and they didn’t like it. Now flying private is my only solution,” later saying that being banned was the “best thing” to ever happen to her. 

    “Is flying private the solution for big girls like me?” she asked.

    Gracie Bon Report

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not plus size, I have no sympathy for people who modify their bodies like this and claim discriminations.

    Joe Publique
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She modified her body for attention and deliberately goes to places she knows she 'won't fit' and posts content for more attention. Rinse and repeat. People like her cheapen the discussion.

    talliloo
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    for someone who claims that is a natural tush she sure seems to showcase it in her pics. as for a private plane...i find it hard to believe that she could afford to do this on a regular basis or that anyone would be able to do so. as for her being banned from certain airlines - makes me think that she did not handle the issue in a constructive manner and was banned for that reason and not because of the size of her bottom

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know. I'm surprised by how much these OF girls make. It's an insane amount of money if you've got the profile, and clearly she does. Also, Panama is a money laundering mecca. So there are plenty of Russian billionaires willing to fund a woman like this.

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    Mad McQueen
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    P***o in pubic. Oh no people are taking photos of my butt oh no. Wears pants skin tight with a butt splitting seam.

    Maria Maria
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does anyone find that attractive?

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No way that ads is natural. Wonder if she had fat transferred from other parts of her body or if it's silicone implants.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She denies having implants, which is insulting to everyone with sight. Obese people gain weight all over, not just on their butts and hips. She's a liar who created her situation and shouldn't be taken seriously.

    Say No to Downvoting
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does this woman really earn this McLaren riding, private plane flying lifestyle just from making Insta videos? I cannot wrap my head around these influencers that earn SO much just from producing such utter bollocks.

    Bob Brooce
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here being able to afford to fly privately shows that the world is badly broken.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't assume she got on that plane. There are companies that set up shop for these pictures. Probably the same for the McLaren shot.

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