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Woman Plays Dirty To Steal Her Sister’s Guy, Sibling Finds Out And Plans To Expose Her
Woman Plays Dirty To Steal Her Sister’s Guy, Sibling Finds Out And Plans To Expose Her

Woman Plays Dirty To Steal Her Sister’s Guy, Sibling Finds Out And Plans To Expose Her

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Sibling rivalry is very common and as old as time. I mean, Cain and Abel are quite a big example, aren’t they? However, there are a few people who always want to upstage their siblings, always want what they have, and shamelessly snatch it away, too.

Just look at the sisters in this Reddit story, where the younger sister lied to the elder sister’s crush just so she could have him. Now, they are engaged to be married, but their sibling finds out what she did and wants to rat her out to her fiance!

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    Woman chatting with a handsome man in an office, holding coffee and phones.

    Image credits: wayhomestudio / Freepik (not the actual photo)

    The poster’s older sister (Kay) had a crush on a guy (Matt) from work, so her siblings urged her to invite him for her birthday party

    Sister's handsome crush drama, text screenshot with names Kay, Jay, and Matt discussing lies about relationships.

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    Text excerpt about Kay and Matt meeting as colleagues, hinting at a potential crush at work.

    Text about woman lying to her sister's crush regarding her relationship status.

    Text discussing Kay talking about her crush, Matt, and being encouraged to invite him to a party.

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    Text revealing a woman's initial hesitation, later resolving to approach her sister's handsome crush.

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    Text conversation reveals lie; woman deceives sister’s handsome crush.

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    Text about a misunderstanding in romantic interest, involving a sister's handsome crush and a lie about a boyfriend.

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    Four friends celebrating with a birthday cake and champagne, smiling for a selfie.

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    However, after the party, he was angry with Kay and distanced himself from her, but a few months later, their younger sister (Jay) started dating him

    Text discussing a woman feeling heartbroken, highlighting issues with sister's handsome crush.

    Text message revealing one sister's lie to win her sibling's handsome crush.

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    Text about a shy man misinterpreting a woman's interest, deciding not to pursue her.

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    Text describing relationship dynamics and secrets involving a woman's handsome crush and lies.

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    Text on a white background asking if revealing the truth would make them the antagonist.

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    Woman with man's crush, both smiling outdoors, holding a glass, enjoying a sunny day.

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    The poster found out that Jay had lied to Matt at the party that Kay already has a boyfriend, all because she wanted the handsome guy for herself

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    Text conversation about revealing a lie to sister's fiancé regarding her past relationship.

    Text discussing sister's handsome crush, relationships, and consequences of actions.

    Text about doing right by Kay and introducing a girlfriend to family.

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    Text excerpt about a woman teasing her sister regarding her relationship status and past breakup.

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    Text exchange about a sister's crush and relationship drama.

    Text conversation revealing sister's handsome crush and deceptive claims about her having a boyfriend.

    Text message describing a woman angry at Jay for lying to sister's handsome crush about her existing boyfriend.

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    Text image discussing a tense moment between people, involving silence, daggers, and embarrassment, linked to sister's crush.

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    After Jay and Matt got engaged to be married, the poster found out what she had done to Kay and decided to call her out in front of everyone

    Text conversation revealing a lie about a sister's boyfriend causing shock.

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    Text about a woman discussing her sister's heartbreak over a handsome crush who ghosted her.

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    Matt was furious and broke up with Jay, but she turned her anger on her siblings and blocked them everywhere

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    Today, we dive into a conflict that sparked drama between siblings because of what the younger sister did to the elder one. It all started when the poster’s elder sister (Kay) started liking a guy (Matt) from work, so the family encouraged her to invite him to her birthday party. However, things turned sour after the party as Matt was angry towards Kay, while she had no clue why.

    Fast forward to six months later, OP’s younger sister (Jay), who met Matt at the party, declared that they are a couple! Kay was very hurt by this, but she didn’t really show it to anyone, and OP felt really bad for her. One day, the poster found out that Jay wanted handsome Matt for herself, so she lied to him at the party that Kay had a boyfriend!

    It all made sense now about why Matt had got all distant with Kay suddenly, and then Jay had been in touch with him and asked him out. Things went well between the two, and now they are engaged to be married. Here’s the conundrum: the poster feels awful about what Jay did to Kay, and they are contemplating whether to tell Matt about the whole thing or not. 

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    After they had sought advice online, many people encouraged them to reveal the whole truth to Matt before he married her, as he deserved to know. Well, they did do it when they introduced their girlfriend to the family, and all hell broke loose! They passed it off as an innocent comment about how Jay had also stolen Kay’s boyfriend before, and everyone had thought that Kay had a crush on him. 

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    Woman in brown shirt talking emotionally to another person, discussing a handsome crush.

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    When the whole truth was revealed to the family, Kay and their mom were completely shocked by what Jay had done. Guess what happened with the couple? Matt broke up with her and apologized to Kay for everything. Apparently, now Kay and Matt are quite good friends, meanwhile, Jay is angry with everyone, including OP. 

    She has removed OP from all her social media but completely blocked Kay, while saying terrible things about her on Instagram about how she’s a “man stealer”. However, despite everything, OP is glad that they told Matt about her lies and did good by Kay. Folks online also applauded them for standing up for their sister and claimed that this was a case of sibling rivalry as Jay was clearly jealous of Kay.

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    It has been observed that sibling rivalry stems from children competing for their parents’ love. A survey of 2,000 adults in the UK showed more than half of respondents still feel they’re in competition with their siblings. 51% of these adults report a lasting, competitive relationship with their siblings, and said they compete over everything, and some experts agree these conflicts drag on.

    Well, looks like Jay was indeed dragging some rivalry with Kay because she had previously snatched away Kay’s first boyfriend as well. We really hope that this was the last time ever that she does this to Kay and that she will stop ruining even her own relationship with the rest of the family. 

    What are your thoughts on the story? Also, if you were in the poster’s shoes, how would you have handled the situation? We would love to hear your thoughts, so type them away in the comments!

    Folks online applauded the poster for taking a stand for Kay and also telling Matt the truth before he married Jay

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    Janelle Collard
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jay deserved to be outed re: lying about Kay having a BF. oh yeah - and all the *other* boyfriend-stealing she's done to Kay over the years.

    🇺🇦 🇵🇸 TribbleThinking
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. Jay needs to have her thieving bite her in the rump.

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    Joey Jo Jo Shabadoo
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So this guy had a crush on the sister, didnt tell her, was told she had a bf, didnt ask her about it and then got MAD at her? What is the loss here exactly? Kay doged a bullet.

    Romy Rösli
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And also he didn’t notice there was no bf of Kay’s around when he started dating Jay.

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    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And Kay was right too. Matt should have talked to her before ghosting her. Kay does deserve better. Both Op and Kay need to exorcise Jay and Matt out of their lives.

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    Janelle Collard
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jay deserved to be outed re: lying about Kay having a BF. oh yeah - and all the *other* boyfriend-stealing she's done to Kay over the years.

    🇺🇦 🇵🇸 TribbleThinking
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. Jay needs to have her thieving bite her in the rump.

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    Joey Jo Jo Shabadoo
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So this guy had a crush on the sister, didnt tell her, was told she had a bf, didnt ask her about it and then got MAD at her? What is the loss here exactly? Kay doged a bullet.

    Romy Rösli
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And also he didn’t notice there was no bf of Kay’s around when he started dating Jay.

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    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And Kay was right too. Matt should have talked to her before ghosting her. Kay does deserve better. Both Op and Kay need to exorcise Jay and Matt out of their lives.

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