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Dad Says His Illegitimate Son Will Be Kicked Out, In Tears After DNA Shows It’s His ‘Golden Child’
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Dad Says His Illegitimate Son Will Be Kicked Out, In Tears After DNA Shows It’s His ‘Golden Child’

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Sometimes, I think that family and trauma are synonymous, considering how much parents and kids can damage each other. Unfortunately, children get punished for the sins of their fathers and mothers, or even vice versa. All that comes out of it is pain and suffering.

Just like the tortured original poster (OP), who was always the unfavored child, while his elder brother was the golden one. However, his mother’s affair shook his life as the parents decided to kick out the illegitimate son. Read on to find out what the DNA tests revealed and what OP did about it!

More info: Reddit

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    The poster was always the unfavored child, while his elder brother (Junior) was the golden one that their parents doted on

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    When his mom’s affair was discovered, the couple agreed to stay together only after DNA tests of both kids, as the legitimate one was going to inherit the grandpa’s business

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    The poster was terrified of being the affair child as he would be kicked out, but much to his relief, the tests revealed that it was Junior

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    After the big reveal, his dad tried to mend things, but the poster insisted on kicking out his half-brother, as they had intended to do with the illegitimate child

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    However, even after they kicked out Junior, they kept trying to reason with the poster to mend things with him, but he refused to budge

    Today’s story begins as a tragedy with quite a satisfying end, but it nonetheless traumatized the Reddit user u/Slight_King3996. The thing is, he never had a good relationship with his father, who ignored and dismissed him, while his elder brother (Junior) was the golden child of the family. However, all hell broke loose when his dad found out about his mom’s affair through her old diaries!

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    After a lot of arguing, the couple decided to stay together, only on the condition that both sons would do a DNA test. The reason is that OP’s grandpa had a successful business, and only the legitimate child would inherit it, not the father, as he was not to be trusted with finances. Another terrifying thing is that the couple decided to kick out the illegitimate child, who would be revealed after the results.

    Before the big reveal, Junior kept taunting OP that he was the affair child, and the scared poster made arrangements to stay elsewhere if that was true. Much to everyone’s surprise, however, the results showed him to be the legitimate son, while Junior wasn’t. How ironic, right? OP’s parents were devastated, and his dad tried to mend things with him.

    He clapped back by telling them to kick out Junior, since it was their plan all along. His parents begged and cried to no avail, but OP refused to budge. They also tried to get him to patch things up with Junior, but he reminded them that they wouldn’t even consider it if he were the affair child. When he vented online, netizens were stunned by how miserably they treated the guy.

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    It is truly heartbreaking, isn’t it? I think the problem started when the parents decided to favor one child over the other and isolated OP. It has been observed that when parents play favorites, it can have lasting effects on the unfavored kids, while also increasing sibling tension. That’s exactly what happened with the poster, because even Junior was awful to him.

    Also, facing harassment from a sibling is no joke. Research suggests that it can have detrimental and lasting effects on the victims. On top of it, finding out about a parent’s affair can also trigger quite a few mental health issues. Both sons must’ve felt the impact when their mom’s infidelity was uncovered, and even their parents’ fights could’ve further harmed them.

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    As if this drama wasn’t enough, OP also had to go through the terror of finding out whether he was the illegitimate child or not. The poor fellow was just 17 then, and the thought of being homeless must have terrified him. We can’t even begin to imagine all the painful things that went on in his life, one after another, like a domino effect of sadness. 

    Although he was cleared as the legitimate one, let’s not forget that the damage was already done, and a whole lifetime will also not suffice to forget what he suffered. Well, at least he has his grandpa’s business to look forward to, as many netizens pointed out. They also said that maintaining distance from his toxic parents would be better for his future.

    Do you agree with them? Also, if you were in his shoes, what would you do? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

    Netizens were shocked by how miserably the whole family treated the poster, and they advised him to maintain a distance from all the toxic members

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    arthbach
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only person coming out of this story well is the mentor in the company who asked if the biological son is doing it to hurt his family, or to prevent them hurting him. This whole dysfunctional mess of people need therapy. If they don't, they are just going to keep spreading hate.

    LilliVB
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. And as OP isn't exactly in good terms with his parents, I don't understand why he keeps living with them. As he works it's quite safe to assume that he can find a place of his own, alone or with roommates. Some distance from that mess of a family plus some therapy can maybe help him to put everything into perspective and overcome the bitterness. If after that he doesn't want to have anything to do with his parents and/or halfbrother it's totally fine, but at least he would be better off himself.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, Grandpa was a bit of a d!ck as well, IMO. ONLY leaving your assets to "legitimate children" even though BOTH sons were raised as the children of their parents? That's sh!tty. I'm adopted and my dad treated me EXACTLY as what I was - his daughter. It didn't matter that I didn't have his DNA, I was his child. OP's mom was obviously a bad person to cheat and have an affair, but Grandpa was also pretty sh!tty to be like "sorry, you won't count as my grandson if you don't have my DNA in you, even though you've been raised as my grandson for 20+ years!"

    LollyLaLu
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sis was the Golden child, just the 2 of us. It was obvious to myself but not to my sis at the time. She can see it now & says she feels bad about it. She doesn't really as she still wears that princess tiara of being better. However, it made me resilient, independent, my hubs (of 49 yrs this yr), says I am the strongest person he's ever known! So while sis is on her 3rd divorce, I straighten my crown of strength & carry on. Not all that glitters is gold, just say'in.

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    arthbach
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only person coming out of this story well is the mentor in the company who asked if the biological son is doing it to hurt his family, or to prevent them hurting him. This whole dysfunctional mess of people need therapy. If they don't, they are just going to keep spreading hate.

    LilliVB
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. And as OP isn't exactly in good terms with his parents, I don't understand why he keeps living with them. As he works it's quite safe to assume that he can find a place of his own, alone or with roommates. Some distance from that mess of a family plus some therapy can maybe help him to put everything into perspective and overcome the bitterness. If after that he doesn't want to have anything to do with his parents and/or halfbrother it's totally fine, but at least he would be better off himself.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, Grandpa was a bit of a d!ck as well, IMO. ONLY leaving your assets to "legitimate children" even though BOTH sons were raised as the children of their parents? That's sh!tty. I'm adopted and my dad treated me EXACTLY as what I was - his daughter. It didn't matter that I didn't have his DNA, I was his child. OP's mom was obviously a bad person to cheat and have an affair, but Grandpa was also pretty sh!tty to be like "sorry, you won't count as my grandson if you don't have my DNA in you, even though you've been raised as my grandson for 20+ years!"

    LollyLaLu
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sis was the Golden child, just the 2 of us. It was obvious to myself but not to my sis at the time. She can see it now & says she feels bad about it. She doesn't really as she still wears that princess tiara of being better. However, it made me resilient, independent, my hubs (of 49 yrs this yr), says I am the strongest person he's ever known! So while sis is on her 3rd divorce, I straighten my crown of strength & carry on. Not all that glitters is gold, just say'in.

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