29 Answers To The Question “What’s A Women’s Thing Men Should Absolutely Start Doing?”

At first read I thought this meant men reporting other men for harassing women. Which would probably be a good idea as well.

My husband works in a female dominated industry and it happened to him twice (by females) He didn't even respond the first time out of pure shock. The second time I persuaded him to report it to his boss but he told me he did so almost apologetically. I don't know what it is about this subject but the stigma of calling this s**t out has to stop.

Are men going to get treated like women do? Called liars and false accusers?

Oo yes. Both if they are being harassed and if they see someone being harassed.

Truth.

Careful, women started using purses and they took away their pockets!

In Japan it’s normal for males to carry bags or satchels. But it starts from a young age regardless of gender. If you go out with your family to the mall or the park, if you’re of walking age, you have a little backpack for your stuff. Usually at that age it may just be a sippy cup and a little hand towel inside. Japan’s general idea is you take care of the many by taking care yourself. You are responsible for yourself.

I carry a backpack with me for this exact reason.

I do the same...it's a backpack. I probably carry more than most women do in their purse, except maybe the million miles of crumbling CVS receipts and the layer of solidified peppermint crumbs at the bottom. LOL!

My partner rocks a man bag, and doesn't care who knows lol

Yessss! Especially when bartending. Dude, my job is to be friendly and serve you to best of my ability. No, we did not have a connection. No, you cannot have my number. Do you see the wedding ring on my finger?

People aren't machines you put kindness coins into until sex falls out.

And that going out of your way to be "a nice guy" because you think it means a woman is obligated to have sex with you or date you, and acting like a martyr when they don't, makes you a creep!

I had to be real careful being too friendly with some guys, they read it as an excuse to put their hands in unwanted places then reared back in shock when I snarled at them. I hated having to be cold and emotionless with them but it was the only way for them to NOT think I was flirting. I'm told this is because they get so little affection from their own families, that they are STARVING for it but they are only told that it happens in sexual relationships. It's sad.

I know im not attractive. Just becos im nice to you doesnt mean im attracted to you. So u dont have to be rude to me just to give the message that u are not interested in me. 😑.

This. Also, it's not "had sex with", it's "raped".

No matter male or female, if someone is being vulnerable with you, it's because they trust you. Be there for them. And stop saying real men don't cry. Yes, yes they do. I have more respect for anyone who feels safe enough to cry in front of me. Let it out.

Yes. This!

Yeah, agreed. Me and my boy are always confiding in each other, so we're pretty good on this front. Of course, if my boy is flying high and celebrating, well then I'm just gonna celebrate with him.

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If you sprinkle, when you tinkle, be a sweetie, wipe the seatie!

This happens in women's washrooms, too. Today I had to clean piddle off the seat. When women are the type to wipe standing up we dribble. It's okay. It's normal. But for God's sake inspect the seat and clean up before you leave. Just as well after your kids use the toilet. Teach them to clean their mess.

I hate this one because the people who say it generally seem to assume all men p**s like an unmanned fire hose and gosh aren't you lucky it isn't dripping off the ceiling. I stand. I p**s in the toilet. If I do happen to drip I am mature enough to wipe it up. The men pissing all over the toilet are not likely to care you want them to sit. It isn't about "peeing like a girl". I empty out better when standing. Also - have been janitor / have known others who cleaned restrooms. Man jokes aside, it is the women's restroom that is usually the nastiest. EDIT: Laughing that BP censors the word PI_ss. Okay then, "urinate". Whatever.

Not always possible, for example if you have back problems, and sitting down empinches nerves that you use for doing what you came to do.

Force all men to clean public bathrooms as young adults for a yer or so. No one who has ever done that will think it's a good idea to stand up and pee.