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12 Times Women Brilliantly Shut Down Men’s Creepy Advances
Social media has plenty of downsides. One of the biggest ones is getting unsolicited messages on social media. It’s disturbing when someone you barely know or a complete stranger tries to ‘flirt’ with you in the creepiest way possible.
That’s where the ‘Creepy PMs’ online community comes in. Its members call out and shame the toxic guys who send women incredibly creepy private messages. Scroll down to see some of the very worst offenders.
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#1
Girl I Went On Two Dates With
I told her a week ago I wasn’t interested.
Finally blocked her today.
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#2
Older Guy I Used To Work With Asked Me (A Teenager) Out
A man I used to work with who was in his forties asked me out earlier this year when I was a teenager. I’m an adult teenager, but I’ve been told all the time that I look 16, so it was super, super creepy for him to want to go out with me. And a few months later, I saw him in a grocery store when I was with my mother, he smiled at me and it scared the H**l out of me, I thought I’d never see him again. His number has been blocked since January and the messages are from that time. I was also very dry with him over messages, but he didn’t get the hint.
It’s creepy when someone you barely (or do not even) know tries to make advances on you because they imagine that you’d be ‘perfect’ together. If their messaging is frequent, you might have a stalker on your hands.
According to SETDAB, one of the signs of stalking behavior is bombarding a person with texts.
Stalking through text messaging can be “brutal, emotional, and scary for the victim.” Just because the violence isn’t physical doesn’t make it less serious.
#6
I Left Him On Delivered For 3 Hours 😭
Made me laugh so I thought I’d share. Match with this guy on hinge literally yesterday. Immediately comes on wayyyy too strong and kept calling me pet names. I literally leave him on delivered for 3 hours while I do other stuff and this is his response. Bro we’ve not even been chatting 24 hours. 🚩🚩🚩
Stalking through text messaging includes behaviors like obsessive, inappropriate, and intimidating texting, as well as sending inappropriate pictures, and trying to get information about your activities or whereabouts.
It’s also a major red flag when someone continues to text you after you’ve made it crystal clear that you don’t want them to contact you.
#8
My Dad Sent Me This Text Tonight ..(I'm 34yo) 😐
I try my best to avoid my dad and have only visited him with my husband and brother during holidays. He lives with his mom out in the middle of nowhere taking care of her. (But also cuz he doesn't have a place to stay.)
Growing up he was never at home, he was a long-haul trucker so I was never close with him. Personally I see him more like that weird uncle you gotta see during the holidays but he is always trying to get me to visit him and if I don't he tries to randomly bribe me saying something like, "oh I bought you this at a p**n shop come over and pick it up when you get a chance."
This one's the creepiest one I've gotten and the last time I saw him in person he [angry] me off so much I was thinking of never visiting him again even if someone went with me. I don't think I will ever go over there again.
Stalkers also tend to obsessively call their targets. To be clear, unwanted calls are a sign of stalking, not just clinginess or showing interest.
“Many stalkers have obsessive personality traits and fixate on their victim. They may not take no for an answer and they may even think their constant contact is a sign of love and commitment,” SETDAB says.
#12
Received Today On My Main Account
Other stalker-like behaviors include sending the victims unwanted ‘romantic’ gifts to manipulate them, trying to ruin their reputation online, criminal damage to their property, and invading their privacy.
They might try to monitor your activity using advanced technology in order to track your every move. For example, they might turn up at locations that you frequent, use spyware on your computer, bug your home, track your movements with mobile devices and GPS, or fit your car with a tracking device.
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