Guy Left In Tears After Trying To Grope Woman, But Not Everyone Agrees She Has Right To Fight Back Like That
Ladies, too many of us have been there. We’re just having a drink at the bar, or dancing at the club, and some jerk comes over and starts putting his hands wherever he pleases. It just happened to Krystal Olsen, a bartender from New York who works in Arizona, but the way she handled it is something we all need to take notes on.
In the aftermath of the incident, the creep ended up arrested and, hilariously, crying on the ground. His impromptu phone camera mugshot has gone insanely viral on Twitter, with almost 80 thousand retweets and over 355 thousand likes. Though some negative reactions have rolled in from people who clearly don’t understand the meaning of sexual assault, Krystal has been overwhelmingly praised, and her experience is highly teachable.
It’s horrible and shameful that women in 2017 still live with the constant threat of sexual assault, but it’s a reality we don’t have to accept quietly. Learning to defend ourselves is an indispensable skill that can stop attackers in their tracks, and these 5 simple moves are a great place to start. Find out what Krystal did below, read the Internet’s reactions, then add yours at the end!
This NY woman bartending in Arizona had a rough Saturday night, and the result of it has gone viral
The overwhelming majority of the Twittersphere gave her a well-deserved standing ovation…
… But some people were a little unclear on the definition of sexual assault, and had other thoughts
With sexual assault still a top concern for women in 2017, self-defense is more necessary than ever
What do you think? Was she right to fight back, or did she go too far? Tell us in the comments!
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Share on FacebookDid she have a right? I think she had a right, then a left, followed by a quick right-left combo.
Indeed! It is called "self defense".She has the right to defend her PRIVATE parts. She has also avoided the typical "misunderstanding" according to which speaking the word "no" is not enough to stop an unwanted behavior. No one would argue about her reaction had he tried to steal her wallet. She has the right to protect her body and preserve her well-being, she could do it by herself and I hope the moron sitting on the sidewalk has learned a lesson.
Load More Replies...Maybe it seems imbalanced but enough is enough. Even if she used a chokehold, she is doing it for all the other poor girls that have been groped by him. All the men thinking it is an extreme reaction - Well I wonder how they would react with another man groping his junk. I can tell you its a pretty horrific feeling.
Perfect comment.... for those guys who say its only a grope... WWYD if a guy grabbed your junk... just slap him and say don't touch me? bwahaha... yeah right.....
Load More Replies...Serves him right. I totally do not get this modern comprehension and sympathy with criminals and perverts. Thumbs up, Krystal
He will probably never do that again = she did right! I am so sick of people saying that we should just accept the fact that our asses/boobs are there for other people to grab. I was riding the metro on New Year's Eve. It was full of people. A guy tried to put his finger up my assh*le. No kidding. His f*cking finger up my assh*le. "Lucky for me" (and i HATE saying that) I was wearing pants so he didn't succeed. When I confronted him, he genuinely didn't understand what was wrong with his behaviour. He just stood there, smiling like an idiot, saying "it was just for fun". And I did nothing except yelling at him in front of everybody. The worst part is that when people asks me if I've ever been sexually assaulted, the first thing I say is "Never have been" because I genuinely forget that it happened, and that what happened is a serious offence.
If we call groping like it is -- and it IS -- sexual assault, then I have been sexually assaulted hundreds of times in my life. If women begin to answer that question honestly (instead of assuming that "sexual assault" only means forced penetration, which has its own word: rape), the statistics will begin to show it, which may lead to some real education for boys in school. Because groping can certainly lead to rape, as "locker room talk" leads to groping. It is a matter of teaching men respect while they are still boys. And women (and girls) should definitely be encouraged to fight back.
Load More Replies...It is all about consent. Without it you're a criminal, it's that simple. This is one thing that is perfectly black or white, there is no gray area.
"The difference between boxing and physical assault is consent"
Load More Replies...I'm a barmaid and I've had men grab my a*s, look down my top wen I'm cleaning tables and making me purposely get the item on the lowest shelf soo I'll bend over! I've had inappropriate things sed to me and wen I've challenged these people I'm told I'm the one wit the problem cause it's jus banter or that it's what I brought on myself cause I was nice while serving them or smiled and laughed at them! Even tho its part of my job! It's sexual assault wen u put ur hands on someone without permission n it's not ur problem it's the person doing it! Everyone should respect others personal boundaries! I personally think this guy had what he deserved! Women r not playthings r a*****e men who believe they can get away everything! Good on her i say
Ok so there was a restaurant in Scotland where the waiters used to wear kilts. Women kept going there and lifting up the men's kilts to get a look at what lurked beneath because they believed that the men weren't wearing any underwear. The women claimed all the things you say men said to you and eventually the waiters uniforms were changed. So long as you agree that men aren't playthings either and that the waiters would have had the same right to violently retaliate against the women who had sexually assaulted them then you and I are on the same page. So do you agree?
Load More Replies...Choose the behavior you choose the consequences. He chose unwisely.
I don't care who the parties involved are. You do NOT grab, fondle, rub or otherwise inappropriately touch another person without permission. If you do then you deserve whatever happens to you.
I guarantee if the roles were reversed ie he put her in a choke hold after she grabbed his a*s HE would be getting arrested !
Load More Replies...Here in Israel, people are constantly advised to take Krav-Maga lessons. While it's meant more often as a measure of defense against terrorists, we are also taught not to be gentle with perverts, either. I encourage all women to learn self-defence. It can no only prevent rape, it can save lives.
I want to take krav-maga lessons but I'm pretty flimsy lol I'll probably end up hurting myself.
Load More Replies..."Did she go too far???" Honestly, I find that to be rather a stupid question (and yes, I get that it's intended to incite discussion). Only if she put him in the hospital with his life on the line. If ALL he did was grope her, that's going too far. But by simply responding and giving him a whooping? No, not too far at all. I would have approved his getting knocked out cold.
There was a news article about the Tour de France, where several hostesses came out talking about being groped and treated horrible by the people there. Several of the reactions on the article were "If you can't handle being touched, get another job." or "They probably asked for it by the way they dress." There's a very big difference between an accidental touch, or actually grabbing someone boobs or butt. Seriously, there seems to be this sickening trend on blaming the victims here. Serves this guy right though. Men like him should learn that you don't grope women (or men!). Even if someone is naked, that doesn't give anyone the right to touch them.
I wonder if anyone's been grabbing the cyclists's d***s, see as they are asking for it judging by how they dress...
Load More Replies...that is sexual assault. period. the guy who said that "he only touched you once" should be stabbed. once. it;s not a crime it it only happened one time right?
It is a crime, but should you commit a crime in response?
Load More Replies...It's the year 2017 and we are discussing if a woman has a right to defend herself when a man wants to grab her a*s. :-(
What she did was what every woman should do. If a guy doesn't know the definition of sexual assault he will by the end of that response. And maybe the dumb a*s won't sexually assault someone again.
In "stand your ground" states, she could have killed him. I think she showed remarkable restraint.
All the comments that she went too far to defend herself... No. She didn't. Not even close. He. Sexually. Assaulted. Her. She defended herself. When he didn't take the hint that his b******t was not tolerated and instead escalated the situation by SLAMMING HER INTO A WALL. He got arrested. He. Got. What. He. Deserved. And he is damn lucky the bouncer didn't get hold of him or he'd be even worse off. NO Man is allowed to just help himself to a woman's body. At Best that is assault. At worst it can be Rape. So No. She didn't go too far. If anything she was cool under pressure and did not actually hurt him. But he sure did when he slammed her into a wall like an immature little sex offender didn't he?
Serious question for the guys: Would you prefer being in a chokehold, or a hard knee to the balls?
So Lil Bobby Blade if I come grab your wife's a*s,that's ok then is it.Send us a pic of her so I can see what she looks like,just to see if it's worth me coming over to the states.Dumbass.
Wish I have of had the guts to do that to the guy who put his hand up my skirt when I was 22 & at a bar. Sometimes pushing away isn't enough
Of course he deserved it! I bet the only people who said he didn't are guilty of doing the same thing to other people.
It was wholly appropriate and the same would be for females who grab males, sexual assault on anyone is NEVER okay!
Straight dudes, gay dudes... it's all the same game.. they see something they like and their hands do the talking sometimes. I've been groped myself in gay bars. When I was young horny all the time it was fine but as I matured I would just either give them shade or I'd say "my body and your not invited" and they would look at me like there was something wrong with me. NOPE, you have the problem. Woman or man, gay or straight, you keep your hands to yourself unless your invited too touch. PERIOD! Dude got what he deserved, choke hold and the arrest .... tears of one that knows he wasn't on the right side of history with his groping hands. Embarrassed? GOOD, learn you lesson BOY!
Can't do the time? Then don't do the crime! How about the guy just takes responsibility Foa a change!
All you guys asking if it would've been ok if the roles were reversed don't understand what it's like to feel threatened by a man.
@Leni It could easily be argued that you don't know what it's like for a man to be threatened by a woman. Men have 0 support when it happens
Load More Replies...Serves the prick right, gets away with it once he'll do it again and push it further and further until one day he will full on rape a woman. Slappinging a guy does nothing and for the 2 particular males in this story that commented and obviously think rape culture is ok, I'll shove my hand up your a*s and I won't deserve to be jailed because come on I only touched you once. F**king scumbags.
Well done! My daughter is 14 years old and I am very happy that she is this kind of Girl too!
Men are told all the time (in media, in school, with their pairs) that they deserve to have a woman, like women are things that you can HAVE. That's the origin of this behavior... sad but true...
In the 80s this happened to me ... the first "grab" got a look and a warning not to do it again. The second grab got him a broken nose. Unless you are invited to do so, do not touch the breasts or a*s! 'Nuff said.
Unwanted, touching on private body parts is wrong. However, instead of just simply fighting back against the attackers, why isn't there more education on why its wrong, what it does to the other person, how it make them feel and would they like it done to members of their own family ? All this talk of only fighting back just misses the point - people do this because they believe it's a harmless bit of fun and there's no victim because they feel it's not a crime. Well educate the beliefs and you'll get better results. Hopefully.
There should be more education on why its wrong. No one is minimizing the necessity of that. What we're discussing here is if she was in the right fighting back or not.
Load More Replies...How this was handled is a bit rough and sudden for sure. However, it is hard to understand if you rarely if ever experience it. Its happened to loads to of times personally even when I am with my amle buds. But then again, I learned very quickly how to shut these individuals down with words. She did good, extreme but good.
You say this is extreme okay but extreme. Then you go on to say this has happened to you loads of times, even with male friends present, but you have learned to shut them down with words. Tell me if your words are so effective, why is it happening loads of times, even with other men present?
Load More Replies...Imagine it's an action movie and she's a big, sweaty guy, and the grabber walks up and just pokes him in the chest with a finger while making a smart remark. Grabber gets his throat ripped out, audience feels satisfied. Nobody says, "All he did was poke you and use some words."
Because, guys, let's face it... if some random guy grabbed your a*s, you'd defend your right to punch him with your last breath.
Way to go, girl! When my daughter was 7 she began having trouble with a boy in her class trying to choke her & kiss her at the same time. I thought about what I would do if this boy's dad did that to me, and told her what my reaction would be. Next day I asked, How did it go with [that boy] today, and she replied confidently, "I did what you said. I belted him." Don't mess with my girls!
Thirty years ago, I was assaulted in a subway station on my way to work, in broad daylight, : the guy came up behind me and put a hand over my mouth and dragged me behind a pillar. I left him bleeding, doubled over, and crying like a b***h. Did I feel good about it? No, I threw up. But I'd do it again, and again, and again. She did what she had to do, good for her.
Excellent, well done. It isn't nice, though, is it? I hate violence, not least because I get mad at someone for making me resort to it. Stay safe.
Load More Replies...I agree she should kick his ask but what about when I met my girlfriends Nanna, when we met she hugged me gropped my a*s and looked at my girlfriend and said you've got a cute one here! Should I have gone hulk on Nanna?
Did he have the right to grope her a*s? No. Did she have the right to defend herself? Sure. Could it be argued that there is a thin line between defending yourself and going on the assault? Probably. BUT: Is it ok, to take a picture of a guy against his will and post it all over the internet? Certainly NO. I even think a bit less of Bored Panda now for taking part in violating his personal rights that way. He doesn't lose those because he groped someone's a*s.
And come on people, don't tell me you don't get that she's very proud of how she humiliated him. That goes waayyy beyond "Pew, I'm glad I could defend myself."
Load More Replies...While I think this kid is a piece of s**t, let's spin this 180. If a woman grabs my a*s in a bar, do I have the right to put her in a choke hold, and drag her outside? If you think I have that right, who do you think will be arrested when the police arrive? Don't even give me the "Oh, you wouldn't mind", or "women don't do that" b******t. I've worked in bars off and on for the better part of my adult life. Nasty, skanky, drunk bitches do this s**t, and guys don't want them to touch them, at all. It's not a big problem, but it happens. So who is going to stand up and say, "You are within your rights, and are morally correct, if you grab a woman in a choke hold, and drag her outside, for touching your a*s."?
Well, most woman would be psychically weaker and there might be no need to get them in choke hold. It might be enough to hold their hands to physically prevent groping. The level of power she used most likely is related with difference between their physical sizes and strength. However, if other ways fail, I would accept that you have a right to protect yourself as you need (e.g., if she starts fighting you while you hold her hands, or if she goes for attach after you release her hands and tell her now - get the choke hold by any means...).
Load More Replies...Hey he groped...she responded. Karma. His parents should have raised him better, her parents raised her right. He should be happy she decided to leave him 'intact', shows restraint on her part.
If everything else was the same but she was a big, sweaty guy from an action movie, nobody'd bat an eye if she throat-punched him into an intensive care unit.
Love this. Let me tell u my story. 1982. Freshman in college visiting my bf at osu. He's on crutches from knee surgery. We r on high st in a bar as we walk in I get a full hand on my a*s from a guy who says "it's my bday". I go right to my bf and say " get me outta here". He knows something is wrong by my demeanor. We followed me toward the exit. The guy that grabbed me says "there's the b***h". My bf hears him and clocks him. Needless to say after the cops arrived from the altercation I did knee him I'm the groin. Longer story but you get it
Have you ever seen the reaction a straight man has when a guy grabs his a*s? So guys if you don't
I have seen females groping other females without consent, do they deserve to get chocked out and publicly shamed? Seems harsh.
Load More Replies...well, a bouncer would have did the same thing, no? I kind of hate violence unless no choice in the matter, and there was a choice here. no wonder I don't go in gin mills.
Yeah there was a choice, he had a choice not to grab her and show what little rapist piece of s**t he is. Sexual assault is violence and a way for a man to have power over someone else be it man or woman, if he had a groped a guy no one would have said anything about how an extreme reaction it was, but women are expected to be weak, accepting little things. Well f**k that a guy ever gropes me he'll end up on life support where he belongs.
Load More Replies...A woman absolutely has the right to defend herself. To address Ibuki's concern; if a woman makes it up, she needs to be charged and punished.
Protecting oneself from unwanted touching is absolutely a must. I am martial arts trained in self-defense. A man actually grabbed my arm when I was walking across a lobby..my guy was waiting across the lobby for me. I looked across to my guy and shook my head at him. I quietly said the man who had my arm...see that man over there? That is my man and he is an ex-police officer but it is not him you have to worry about...it is me. Now, I can put you on the floor and embarrass you in front of all these people or you can let go of my arm and let me go on my way. I think it was my calmness...he looked at my guy and then looked at me and released my arm. I told him to think twice next time before grabbing a strange woman...she might not be as nice as me and then told him to have a nice evening.
Nice handling of the situation. One of my former girlfriends (nice girl, married one of my good friends) used to respond to unwanted contact by grabbing the guy's finger--"How far I bend this back depends on what you say next". Very effective.
Load More Replies...I think she was in her right to defend herself. What upset me the most about this discussion yesterday morning was the comment Gretchen gave. She "implied" that because of the ''situation'', ( a woman drinking in a bar?), that it is an expected behavior. I'm sorry. Not all women are at a bar having a drink to pick up men or get groped for that matter. As a woman, I found this comment offensive. That is almost like saying a woman deserved to be raped because of the way she was dressed and ''asked for it." ANY physical "sexual" contact is assault. I would have done the same thing and teach my daughters to act as well! Gretchen should be ashamed of herself for comment. As a woman. As a mother. As a human being!
As a father I already have shown my 10 year old daughter on how to deal with people like that. He was lucky, my daughter would have poked an eye out. Well done, ignorant people need to shown where the line is.
Slapping him would have given him a chance to retaliate. She did as Sensei Kreese told his students on the Karate Kid. "Sweep The Leg. No Mercy". :) I don't understand when people make excuses or try to defend people like this. This is NOT okay and I'm not sure why that line is so blurry to people.
When I was 20 years old (this was in the 60s), a man came up behind me and grabbed my a*s. Then he blantantly sauntered in front of me, and I kicked the s**t out of him in his a*s. It was such a lovely visual, and remains imprinted in my brain, to see him lifted in the air a bit.
"Ok so there was a restaurant in Scotland where the waiters used to wear kilts. Women kept going there and lifting up the men's kilts to get a look at what lurked beneath because they believed that the men weren't wearing any underwear. The women claimed all the things you say men said to you and eventually the waiters uniforms were changed. So long as you agree that men aren't playthings either and that the waiters would have had the same right to violently retaliate against the women who had sexually assaulted them then you and I are on the same page. So do you agree?" -Candice Goddard 2 hours ago I like where this lady is coming from. So, I have had my butt grabbed, pinched and even my front junk groped before by random females. Would that give me the right to escalate things to a physical confrontation??? In this one way "equal rights" society we are living in, hell no. If I was to do so, I most definitely would have been the one going to jail instead of the handsy ladies.
I think a back hand around his face would have been enough in the first instance because I have to wonder how twitter would react if a man threw a woman into a choke hold for lifting up his kilt, grabbing his a**e or even his genitals. Men get sexually assaulted by women too and it's almost socially acceptable, they're even taught to never hit back. There should be one standard for everyone, that's equality.
I had my a*s grabbed by chicks on a hen night, i wonder how Twitter might react if i had put the future bride in a chokehold and dragged her outside?
Why don't you give it a try and let us know how it goes?
Load More Replies...NOT ENDER SPECIFIC, BUT IF YOU MRSS WITH THE BULL YOULL GET THE HORNS. CANT SAY I BLAME HER MY DAUGHTER HAD THE SAME THING HAPPEN WHEN SHE WAS 9 MONTHS PREGNANT AND SHE COLD-COCKED THE GUY ANDS LAID HIM OUT LIKE A STONE SLAB. GOOD FOR YOU YOUNG LADY.
What am I supposed to do if a guy does this? Do i call 911, does it even count as an emergency? If the guy runs off is there anything they can/will do?
If that ever happens to me, I'd like to think I'd wait, hen wait for him to look at me, and then say to him, ok, my turn, go for his nuts and twist and pull down. No more acorns for him.
Kudos to you! Men, you do NOT have the right to put your hands wherever you want.
I bet this guy will think twice before doing it again with an other.I say great if he learned his lesson and it stops the behaviour if not he is sick and eventually will fall for it.
i think only perverse and sick people Defends a sick like him let him go to jail and be a A lesson for those who consider
So if a girl grabbed my a*s, I can shove a glass jar up her, and break it?!? (hypothetical) Seems kind of harsh...
Load More Replies...I doubt it. Thinking is probably outside his skill set.
Load More Replies...That should make him think twice next time he decides to grab a lady where aught not to hehe
Yeah she had a right! He assaulted her. Not her fault the police agreed it was assault and arrested him...
Karma! I punched a girl in the gut once, because she slapped my a*s in da club. B***h had it coming.
Agreed you didn't want it and she didn't ask, it's sexual assault.
Load More Replies...So maybe I've misread, but it seems to me like this girl is a bartender and was working at the time. In trying to see this from a different angle, I am going to disregard the sexual assault, and genders involved. As a bartender, you absolutely have the right to physically restrain and remove any individual who is acting inappropriately. Regardless of your gender/the offenders gender, it is part of your job as a bartender to maintain a safe (as safe as possible) environment for the rest of your patrons. If she was indeed working at the time of the incident, I would have expected her to do the exact same thing if she had even witnessed this man groping one of her patrons. I am a female and was a bartender for almost 5 years. I have physically restrained and removed many individuals, both male and female, for less than groping.
To the person who said ..I don't think one touch is a reason to attack and arrest him, I know when a man is touc hing me accidently ....like when squeezing by in a crowd....and when it's a sexual touch! Case closed. He deserved what he got.
About four years ago--I'm having dinner with the niece of one of my friends. Strictly platonic (sad to say--she's terrific), I was helping her with a tax problem her ex-husband had created. We're waiting for our table, standing in the bar area. Some yuppie scum type grabs her rear. Definitely intentional--out of the corner of my eye I'd seen him move his beer from one hand to the other right before he groped her. Doesn't know she's a brown belt in karate. She disarms him quickly. He's on the ground, looks at me, and has the nerve to say, "Aren't you going to do anything about her?" So I looked at her and said, "Attagirl!" and told him, "Be glad you're in one piece". She just got married again to a great guy who knows she can kick his a**.
The pindick asswipes complaining that she was in the wrong are most likely spouting this c**p because they're now scared of not being able to get away with groping women in bars ... the only contact they can manage with females.
If you intentionally touch a person you don't know in a bar, consider yourself lucky if you leave with only an a*s kicking.
Dude, you learned a hard lesson. You can't go putting your hands on someone's a*s. That's her body, not yours. She would've been justified in grabbing you by the balls in a death squeeze, so consider yourself lucky. To the other jerks who think grabbing someone is cool without his/her permission..remember what happened to this idiot.
The dude learned a hard lesson..you can't just put your hands on someone's a*s just because you feel like it. You would've deserved it if she went for your balls in a vise-grip.
AWESOME!! Way to go Girl, don't blame you one bit and if More women would react that way these "Stupid Idiots" might really think of their consequences Before they pull the BS!! No Honest Man that Honestly Respects Women would pull the bs, because they Don't want any female family members treated like that!! I would have ROFLMBO If She Tazzed the sack of c**p after the choke hold, yes just so he would "Wiz" on himself"
Glad she kicked the c**p out of him. Choke hold was awesome. Bet he will think twice before he tries that on another woman. Cuddos to you. Yes send his button to jail and see if he likes being grabbed at...don't drop the soap!
Smart girl!!! Hope my daughter reacts the same if ever needed. I'm not very big, about 5'2", had to take down a guy a foot taller and nearly 3x my weight once. Throat punch and knee to the groin and he was done.
She had every right to defend herself very aggressively. If she didn't, all the naysayers would be complainingthat she wasn't clear about NOT wanting his hands on her butt. Don't touch uninvited and you won't risk a punch in the mouth.
Good for his a*s. Bet he won't do that s**t again...You can look Mothersucka, but don't touch.
I think you're giving him credit for intelligence he does not possess. Odds are, he'll think he didn't do anything wrong and that he has the right to grope women.
Load More Replies...He touched her without her explicit permission, and it looks like the only things injured were his feelings and maybe his sense of masculinity. And for the people in the story saying they didn't why he had to go to jail? He touched someone without their consent, that is assault, pure and simple. Commit assault go to jail, period.
As a father I have taught my 10 year old daughter how to defend herself from people like that. He was lucky, my daughter would have poked his eyes out and left him like a blind eunuch, never seeing where to grope again. Well done. Respect!
To all the people posting something along the lines of "Oh, but is it okay for women to do it to men?" Two wrongs don't make a right. Sexual assault is defined as any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient. That happens to men, and it's wrong, because it's sexual contact towards the man without his consent. Anyone of any gender who has sexual contact occur without their consent has been sexually assaulted.
What do you suppose these men like Little Bobby Blade who think she overreacted would say if a guy casually reached over and grabbed their 'package'. Would they just 'move away' 'tell him to stop groping them' or punch the living c**p out of them?? Would they think that it was too harsh to send him to jail just for touching him?
I just wish several of the women sexually assaulted by Trump had done this, then he'd have a criminal record which might have kept him from getting where he is! - ruining the country and embarrassing himself daily (and us).
Ok, so I'm ready for the ridicule but I just gotta say...turn this around and a girl grabs a guys *ss and he'd take the same action?! Big problems for the dude...what he did wasn't right but he'd be facing jail time and we are praising her?! Just doesn't sound like equality to me...
It may seem a bit extreme but I fully agree with it, firstly, it IS sexual assault and this woman knows full well she can defend herself any way she feels necessary, therefore she should. And secondly, the reason most men do this is that either they don't realise it's actually sexual assault, or they know most women will not defend themselves with anything more than a slap, if more women defend themselves in the extreme way this woman did, then maybe more men will think again before they touch us without our permission.
Don't touch anyone without their consent or suffer the consequences. He learned this the hard way.
He decided to put his hands on her the way he wanted to - and she responded in kind.
Slap a Tiger on the a*s and see what happens!!! If she'd have just slapped him, individuals would be crying about that too. Now, I believe that he got off lucky. Because, if he'd have touched my wife or daughter like this he would also have a few knots in his head!!! Good job young lady. I've been teaching my daughters the same principles. Someone touches you inappropriately, pound the c**p out of them. That is the only response that these idiots understand.
You give them too much credit for understanding. They SHOULD understand, but then again, they SHOULDN'T indulge in that kind of behavior in the first place. An obvious lesson--is wasted on those who need to learn it the most.
Load More Replies...If a female touches a male inappropriately it's fine for him to do the choke hold thing too?
If any person intentionally touches a stranger in a public place, they should consider themselves lucky that an a*s beating is all they get.
Load More Replies...I feel like people here on bored panda are american. Just react wuth violence....eye for an eye.... its better to teach en prevent than just self defence in a hard way. In play grounds we teach our children to say " stop it i do not like that" and then try to explain why...teach!! In a non violent way. Yes she can defend herself ...but there is more sides to a story... maybe they where danceng / twerking in front of him, to him, and he smacked her a*s... always need to hear both sides of the story! I live in the netherlands. I am a woman. I have girlfriends and we are all touched on the a*s ... and no we did not try to choke the boys/men. We just say : stop, no, go away! Never felt the need for using violence. And yes many times we have got an sorry. Sometimes we liked it... 2 sides of the story..... we do not no the setting ... i can only say it is an american way of defending/re-acting
I've had my a*s groped by women many times, does that mean I could had put them in a chokehold?
1. Turn around and say to him you do not like that...1 chance for apoligize....2 if he does not say sorry... than explain it....3. Still no sorry.... than action.... man must be teached ...they are stupid....
I can guarantee you the guy saying "he only groped her once" is probably a groper himself. It's the only reason why anyone would defend a sack of garbage like that.
What the f**k? We get asked why we don't defend ourselves, and then asked why we DO defend ourselves? This a*****e has heard the word "no" 400 times and never respected it, it´s time to speak HIS language then.
Of course she had a right to take him out. Unwanted touching deserves a quick and sharp response, either verbal or physical. This guy got his just desserts and I hope (but I doubt) he learned something from it.
So. . . .if a woman were to grope a man the same way, we can choke hold her and slam her into a wall too?
If he can't stand the heat, he should have stayed out of her kitchen. :)
She had every right to do whatever it took to get that guy's hands off her a*s. He should be grateful she didn't know krav maga.
Yes!! She did exactly what she should have done! He had no right grabbing her a*s or anything else...he got what he deserved!! She was awesome and I hope my daughter would react in the same manner!
You probably shouldn't have killed him. I understand the self-defense angle from when he slammed you against the wall, but still, taking a person's life was going too far... Wait, you didn't kill him? You just punched him a few times? Why the heck would anybody complain about that? I wouldn't mind if you'd cracked his skull with your elbow or kicked him so hard in the 'nads he threw up. Someone attacks you without cause or warning, you have a right to defend yourself, period. The only bad part about this is that he's likely only going to get probation for this.
I have had girls grab my a*s, i remember a hen do in a bar opposite my old place of work, each time i passed them they all had a grab, i wonder what the reaction would have been if i as a guy put on of them in a chokehold and dragged her outside, you know just for equality.
There is something called REASONABLE FORCE, you idiots. You cannot kill someone if he punches you, claiming self-defense. She pushed it too far, you don't torture or humiliate someone that way for any reason whatsoever, that's sadistic at least. You crazy people please stay in the comment section.
How do you know that she was not way smaller and lighter, and could not use different way to defend, or if he did not assault her with words before?
Load More Replies...I agree it was assault and she had every right to defend herself. I'd like to know how the justice system handles this case. its the general lack of formal consequences in such situations that lead men to think its no big deal.
Damn right that serves him. Had a guy inappropriately grab my a*s and refuse to let go even when I said I had a boyfriend. Said something along the lines of "Sure you do." Even if I didn't he should've let go. So because he didn't I threatened to break his finger.
Statistically, this was NOT his first time assaulting a woman. She reacted correctly to his criminal (illegal) behavior.
This guy most likely won't do it again, so I think it was the appropriate response. Men need to start treating women as fellow human beings, and not as objects here for their personal titillation. Women have to deal with this s**t all their lives, starting from a young age. It's gotta stop.
did anyone else noticed that the people that do not agree with the way this woman defended herself are men?...lol
This human being (cannot call him a man) got what he deserved, and hope the girl got an appology.
As a young teenager, I and several other girls my age had to put up with this very behavior from boys in school. It was a game to them - walk up behind us while we were walking down the hall and grab a handful of backside or worse, stick their hand between our legs from behind and grab us there. School administrators would do *nothing* - "boys will be boys, don't do it again" was the usual response. I started carrying a heavily loaded backpack full of books everywhere I went, and more than one boy felt the full weight of it against their head as I swung it at them with all my might when they grabbed me. This young woman did not deserve to be groped without consent and her reaction may seem over the top to some, but I think she taught him a sorely-needed lesson.
he tried to play victim looks like and got more than he bargained for, if it was me i prob would of done worse, its self defense, thank god she defended herself!
She had every right to punch him, choke hold him what ever it took, he should not have grabbed her a*s, or any part of her PERIOD!
Well done girl. I'd have done the same. And probably kicked him where it hurts too.
You go, girl! For all the people out there who said she overreacted, c'mon. Nobody would be saying that if he'd tried to grab her wallet. But he grabbed something worse- her body. She had a right to protect herself, and to be honest, she probably said no at first, but he didn't listen. So what did he expect?
Good on her! Whup his a*s! If he had groped another guy and got his a*s kicked, no one would say a word.
You F@#$%k'n a**l whores make it a big deal because you all think you're goddesses. To guy's it's just a way of playing around, similar to when a girl touches a guy's chest or arms. If she attempted to do this to me she would have her tits kicked in.
Load More Replies...Once I was waiting in a tram station and this gay dude came standing very close to me. I kept moving and he kept following and just before getting in the tram he came running and grabbed my butt. Didn't even get in. Obviously I was asking for it wearing a purple shirt. Next time anyone who touches me unwantedly, male or female I'll make sure to beat the s**t out of them!
He seems to still have all of his teeth... I feel that she was in her right to take at least a couple of them as souvenirs...
I disagree. Unlike what you see on TV or in movies, hitting someone in the head is a great way to hurt your hand.
Load More Replies...Just wondering if I could go full Chokehold if a girl grabs my a*s without my consent?? I mean... equal rights, no?
Theoretically, yes I suppose. Has a girl grabbed your a*s without your consent?
Load More Replies...Want someone your not attracted to grabbing yours stay away from ours. Unless invited.
To the (few) guys who think she overreacted: how would you react if he fondled your balls?
lol.. at some of these comments. He groped her a*s, she 'groped' his neck very firmly! I think that's a fair deal. Everyone wants her to dish out a slap like a "girl"..lol Better be careful dear assaulting men.. you never know whose grown balls outta nowhere
Maybe if enough guys get whatever they got coming to them, after grabbing a women or girl, maybe just maybe "they" will stop, cause they don't want it done to them and wind up on FB or some other social media.....Men( or boys) need to keep hands off unless told otherwise!
I'm PROUD of you , I'm a Hubby , Dad & Grandpa of ladies , I've taught them all good moves & hope they never have to use them , but they , like you , will stand their ground .
I made my daughter take a self-defense course before she started dating for just such a time as this.
If a guy had his manly package grabbed by a stranger im sure he would feel the same, he was just sexually assaulted. The idiots that dont get you cant grope a female [or any stranger] without consent is indeed sexual assault are also e same baboons that go around groping women and tting choked out.
If a guy had his package grabbed or groped, what would he call it and how would he feel?
What a crying wimp. Mama raised a real jackass there. He should thank his lucky stars he didn't grab MY a*s. He'd still be eating with a straw, his jaw wired shut. #KeepEmToYourself
Holy hell yeah, she did just fine thank you. My daddy taught me defense moves and I'll be passing those on to my daughter!
This is my body, and NOBODY has the right to touch it without my permission! That should be the motto of every female!
He's the face of the Men's Rights movement, looking through tears at a long career online whimpering how 'all the ladies beat him up' and 'all he wanted to do was check the goods before buying her drinks' and on and on and on. The inability to understand simple assault is just a bonus. She should have curb-stomped him.
I would have ripped his face off and shoved it up his a*s. Don't put your hands on me. Especially if I don't know you.
not only did he grab her, but he slammed her into a wall. yes! he is lucky all he got was choked out! more women need to react like this so maybe men will learn to keep their hands to themselves!
She was well within her rights to respond physically when accosted physically. What was she to do? Turn the other cheek? If I had daughters, they would all know how to do this.
She has every right to respond physically to someone who accosts physically. What was she to do? Turn the other cheek? She was well within her rights and if I had daughters, whey would all know how to do this.
Same thing would have happened if he grabbed a guys a*s. So, he got what he deserved, whether he did it to a man or a woman. Hopefully, he will THINK next time.
they're right. she shouldn't have put him in a choke hold, she should have grabbed his d**k and ripped it off tbh.
Serves that dude right. Now let's all hope he'll get his a*s grabbed in jail.
Ok Bobby Blade if a man walked by and grabbed your crotch do you think you would put him on the ground face-first? And don't say he's a guy so yeah! It was the "grabbing" that did it and got the reaction from you, or her. So knock off, she did what she did to protect herself, it is her right as a human being and a woman. And to you wonderful woman if I had a daughter I would want you to teach her how to feel about herself and boundaries. Good on ya'
Wonder if all the guys saying she went to far would do the same to a man who felt up their girlfriend? I'm betting they would and they just can't stand a woman having agency instead of needing a man to protect her. Just sayin.
I reckon she did what every woman should do in that situation, no guy has the right to touch a woman in that way..
She should have kicked his nuts up into his Adam's Apple, he would have been easier to subdue then. lol. You gave him what he asked for Lady, nice job. Now all he is is a cryin' little b***h.
Times should be changing. Unfortunately, women and girls throughout this world are daily raped, killed, burned alive, have acid thrown at them, and least but not last we have to put up with thugs who touch us when are going about our lives. You, men, would you agree to live through this all your life, fearing that a woman would harm you in the ways described above? I think surely not.
Full Name, hope that several times in your lifetime you get your genitals squeezed until you yell Mama. This type of male behavior is not permissible. Women, girls, and females as we are called the States, are not your play objects. Would you do this to your mother, grandmother, sister, niece, aunt or your own daughter, grasp them by the pussy'? wOULD YOU Really DO THIS TO A MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY? Just try to think about it. You are not a gentleman, so sorry for you that you have not been brought up to be one.
She had the right NOT to be groped by some creep! I would have done the same. Bravo! Ladies - we *have* to stand up for ourselves!
Yes a woman absolutely has the right to defend herself. To address Ibuki's concerns; if a woman makes it up, than she needs to be charged and punished.
I'm confused by all the men in the comments who seem to think they're leaving a shocking comment by saying they should also beat up a woman if a woman touched them. Why yes, if I grabbed a strange man's a*s or balls without consent, I'd fully expect a fist in the face. Thing is, however, MOST males are attention seeking little bitches with NO self esteem who'd probably feel honored I deigned pay such humongous attention to them... it's sad, really.
Anybody who thinks he didn't deserve it needs to reevaluate their moral standards! This needs to be stamped out, make an example of anybody caught doing it, and castrate them as well!! If a bloke touched me I would turn round and knock him out, so why shouldn't a woman be allowed to............idiots........
Good on you! :-) although you could have slapped him around a little more! He deserved it!
To anyone that disagrees with her actions that has a Daughter or Wife, Please tell me where they are because I would love to go grab their C**t now that I know all I'll get is a slap in the face. Then I'll go jerk off to it. YOU STUPID MOTHER F*****S! Anyone that disagrees with her actions is a godamn f****n pervert and would probaly do the same. You just labeled yourself a PERVERT! DUMB F***S!
To anyone that says this is wrong and has a daughter or wife. Please tell me where they are. I would love to go grab there c**t now that I know all I'll get is a slap in the face. Thank you for letting me know sexual groping is ok with out consent. YOU STUPID M***********S!
He got his just desert. No one has the right to touch another. I hope he learned his lesson. I think all women should learn some type of marshal arts so they can protect themselves from idiots like this one.
Damit girl! you just ruined his chances of becoming the next US president. Poor guy.
Hell yes she had a right to defend herself! (Unless ofcourse he was rich or famous...according to the president)
Proud of her - chokehold, marvelous idea! I would have just broken his hands and jaw - - will remember the "hold" for the next asswipe!
She did him a favor. Maybe it was a wakeup call. The judge will explain it to him.
"Couldn't you have slapped him?" No, the amount of unstableness in a person can be very dangerous and knock out anybody who tells them "don't touch me". A slap is never enough.
A slap CAN be enough, but an a**-whuppin' is more likely to have the desired effect on someone's future conduct.
Load More Replies..."I don't agree with...sending someone to jail..." lol "I don't understand it! I mean I was just standing there, minding my own business, holding the gun I just shot the guy with and--can you believe it?--all of a sudden some cop sent me to prison! Out of the blue!"
UH. IS THIS THE USA? I THINK IT IS AND SHE SO HAD A RIGHT TO KICK HIS A*S TO THE CURB AND BACK. IF YOU DISAGREE YOU ARE FREE TO LEAVE OUR COUNTRY. WE WONT BE UPSET AT ALL.
Just a question. If the genders were reversed, would the positive response still be the same? I have seen videos women have posted of themselves touching men without consent. If the man responded by choking out the woman, would everyone be for that? Just curious as to what everyone thinks.
The dudes getting mad saying she overreacted are also the type to openly admit - no BRAG - that if a dude grabbed their a*s they'd beat the s**t out of them.
How many free touches does a sexual assailant get before his victim gets to react?
Although rare, i've had my a*s grabbed by women exactly 3 times in my life. Should i have given any of them the Stone Cold Stunner? Or maybe a chokeslam? If the idea of me getting violent on a woman for touching my a*s makes you cringe.. but you're fine with this.. congrats. You're the problem.
So this is what we have with feminism in XXI century :( So sad. If the guy later decides to rape her, in my opinion no one in the internet will blame him for this. If he grabbed your a*s (there's no proof for that as I understand) , you can grab his a*s back, but not start a fight. But hey, we are now living in the age of Trump, and of course if president grabs them by the p****, so the feminist start to attack people at random
She was completely within her rights. If more women defended themselves like this, men would get the message.
The guys who need to learn this the most are the least likely to learn, even after multiple a**-whuppin's.
Load More Replies...I would have grabbed his package and put a vice grip on it to bring him to his knees in a heap. I am glad she handled him. Kudos to her.
I just wish one of the women Trump had assaulted over the years had done the same, then maybe he would have had a well deserved criminal records to keep him out of politics!!!
This is a cautionary tale for any guy who can't keep his hands to himself. Desperate, creepy males with no self-control... beware!!!!!! Not responding with a clear "F___ NO!" is an invitation for him to do it to someone else.
He would've gotten a lot worse from me let me tell ya. There wouldn't be cops involved, but he'd of wished there were. Losers.
So Lil Bobby you're saying he should get a free pass? This guy has probably done this before, this is just the first time he got caught.
Every woman has the right to defend yourself, and guys shouldn't be pigs like that. I would've given a verbal warning first.
If more men received this kind of treatment for their grabby hands, the problem might stop. But until then, by any means necessary. Well done.
I think job well done, if people don't understand what sexual assault is they will find out just like this guy did. Don't go touching people! He got what he deserved and all these guys that at saying they didn't feel that reaction was warranted it's not the body not their decision and none of their business. Let someone do this to their daughter and then let's see how they feel about it.
I applaud this intelligent woman! She should be proud of herself for her actions and the negative comments she's getting only go to prove how lame and permissive macho American culture is.
I agree with what she did but I wondered how many SJW's would feel the same way if a gay man grabbed a straight mans a*s and the straight man reacted the same way?
I have a 24 year old daughter and believe me if he had done that to her he would have wound up in the hospital, not jail
Lil Bobby Blade seems to believe that grabbing a woman's a*s is ok. Tell me it's ok when a female in your life, someone you love and care about tells you someone did that to her. You will be singing an entirely different song. I had an a*****e grab my a*s while on a dance floor, I slapped him so hard he fell flat on his back, and I will do it again if someone touches me inappropriately.
I don't understand how a man can in any way speak for a woman as to what an assault is. He may like having his butt fondled and this is his choice. I slapped a man silly for grabbing my while on a dance floor. Knocked him right off his feet. No one condemned me or whined that it is not assault. It is assault. No one has the right to touch another persons body. I mean, tap their shoulder if you want to talk, don't grab their a*s then cry like a b***h after you get a good beating, a well deserved beating. So, you guys that think this isn't assault, lets see what happens when your daughter, wife, sister or even your mother tells you the same thing happened to them.
If a straight guy had his a*s grabbed by another guy, few would flinch if the grabbed punched the grabber in the face. This girl was 100% in the right to physically defend herself the way she did.
A man (or woman) who has learned self-defense properly knows that you do not hit people in the face. It's a smaller target than the torso and is harder. You might hurt your hands. One to the solar plexus, one to each kidney, a boot to the crotch.
Load More Replies...Lil Bobby Blade, what would your response be if some random came up to you and groped your "package"? I doubt it would be a mere slap.
She defended herself against a man who obviously doesn't yet accept women as humans worthy of respect. He got what he deserved and I hope this is a wake-up call to all men who think it is ok to just grab any woman's body and expect to get away with it!
Well hell... this happened in Arizona. He should be glad she wasn't carrying. Good for you GF.
What I find appalling is the 'people' on this post having a problem with how this female defended herself...the comments 'against' this female are disgusting!!!
Was her reaction too much? Would anyone ask this question if the guy was trying to rob her? Why is it, that our cell phone is more valuable than our body? Also, it might only sound too much for someone, because it happened with a stranger. If the guy grabbed your mom/sister/daughter/friend.... well well well...
For those that do not think he deserved what he got, would you think differently if he did it to your wife, girlfriend, mother, daughter or granddaughter? Our daughter has been taught to defend herself and we will back her to the end outcome. Mind you she just turned 7 and has numerous phone calls for punching boys in the face for touching her butt.
Please. If he had grabbed a guy's rear, he would have gotten punched in the face fast. Good for her.
maybe he had to shove a finger up on her a*s to "have the right to defend herself" my god, probably that other guys is also an offender... she did good!
LOL at the mansplaining of grabbing not being considered assault ... I truly hope these guys are not the future of our legal system ...
What I don't understand is why women feel like it's ok to grab a man sexually ! I guess a man isn't suppose to complain if that did happen. I've had some ugly-a*s girls grab me before and I would've smacked them but NO that would be wrong.
He was asking for it... luckily he barley got injured, I bet she ciul've done worse damage to the fool.
Well, what if a girl groped a guy's a*s and he put her in a choke-hold and had her arrested? When is sexual assault okay, and when is it okay to counter it with violence and public shaming on the internet?
Some guys ride subways and crowed buses just to grope and do a little jostling with the woman really close to him. I think he got what he deserved.
When I was in 9th grade, in the library of all places, a classmate groped my backside. Without thinking (seriously) I turned around and popped him hard in the face. He walked away rubbing his chin. I had never hit anyone like that before. It is a natural response women have that allows us to protect ourselves. Krystal absolutely did the right thing.
Guy got what he deserved. Lucky he didn't get two a*s whoopings before being arrested.
If he thinks he has the right to grab her any way he pleases, she has the right to do the same. Don't grab her, she won't grab you. Duh!
Got what he deserved. It was sexual assault, plain and simple. The picture of the prick crying like a little b***h afterwards...priceless!
So what if he didn't consent to or like being placed in a choke hold and then dropped like a brick, and then arrested. SHE didn't consent to him groping her a*s (or any other part of HER body) and honestly I think he's damned luck he didn't pull back a stump. If it had been me or one of my daughters, he'd be singing soprano permanently AND would have been removed from adding to the gene pool. What a stupid, self-entitled, spoiled rotten, egotistical child he is! How humiliated his MOTHER must feel!
No permission = assault Not 'entitled because I'm male' = assault Engaged in conduct of a reasonable level to prevent it continuing = DEFENCE Dudes it's really not a hard thing to understand. If you don't have permission right there and then, KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF
Good for her for defending herself. He is the one that went to far for touching her- he was lucky she did not have a gun too.
An easy way to spot sexism is to switch genders of all parties and think it through again: girl grabbed guys a*s, guy hits her, gets her in a choke and gets her arrested and proudly shames her by uploading a picture of her crying. how would that story make you feel?
and at which point did you think: that would never happen! let me guess: girl would not get arrested. make these posts about opposing sexual assaults in general, not about 'brave women beating men'.
Load More Replies...I can't believe this is even a debate? The guy got what he deserved. Keep your hands to yourself.
She is 100% right to do what she did. If it had been me he wouldn't have just been dragged out and arrested, he'd have found himself missing something that he had been thinking with...lol
Could be a dangerous response as most men are bigger and stronger than most women, so they very well might fight back if she does the chokehold thing or whatever. This guy was smaller and the bartender has skills but most would not.
He absolutely derserved to be chokeheld and arrested, these harassers get away without any consequences WAY TOO OFTEN! I would not have shamed him publicly on the internet though.
And what would´ve happend if a guy would be groped by a woman? Right if he would have defended himself he would be the a*****e too. PPl it´s just time to start with being nice with no gender boundaries. That´s what I have to say, an sexual assault is never right no matter what. Try to think first before your hormones get into overdrive....
It's a terrifying feeling to be grabbed where you don't want to be, or worse. Going for a chokehold seems instinctual (if you know how to do a chokehold, I mean), considering it's so terrifying that something of that measure happens. It's the kind of fear you have to experience to really get. If I'm being honest, I'm a pretty physically weak person. Anytime someone does something even lesser than that, I'm terrified of what can happen next. Her response is pretty reasonable.
If he was touching her without her consent, anyone would retaliate.No one has the right to grope anyone else.
You guys that don't think she should have messed him up so bad-- what do you think you should do if a dude grabs YOUR junk?
once a young disrespectful man gets away with it the first time he keeps doing it til he gets what he really wants ... the woman works there it is her job , he is the public & had no respect for those serving the drinks ... & drunkiness or any other time is not a ticket to act like that , gently playing around with a girlfriend is different & usually consenting cause she will usually know it will be within respect ...... I'm almost 70 now & dress appropriately & I still have to defend myself ... I hate it but it is a reality I have had to be aware of all my life ....
Dumbass b***h boy got what he deserved. How are people so stupid, I just will not understand
F--k that guy. Self entitled a******s like him should be punched and/or choked more regularly. Assault is unforgivable. Defense from assault, on the other hand... You go, girl!
This douchebags physically grabbing her is misdemeanor battery, she had every right to fight back, with limitations though. Once there is no longer a threat then she must stop, although in this case he probably would not have learned his lesson if she did, so a little more of an a*s whoopin' was in order.
If he SLAMMED HER AGAINST THE WALL, that is definitely assault. Sheesh.
Congratulations from a man who thinks men like that should be dipped in s**t. You gave him a preferable alternative. Good for you.
He touched her, she touched him. Where is the issue? Do people REALLY think a slap is better? I guarantee the little f****r doesn't grope again.
She definitely had the right. He touched her, she touched him. End of discussion. Bet the little f****r thinks twice before groping again.
I personally think that it's both right, and slightly wrong. I would have probably slapped him first, walked away than see what happened.
You had EVERY right to defend yourself and were NOT out of line in any way. Kudos to you!
Bravo, he got what he deserved, maybe from now on he will keep his hands to himself... She did exactly right, self defense to a sexual assault
Bravo! Maybe this will teach him to keep his hands to himself... Good job on her part...
She is AMAZING and I have done pretty much the same several times in my life. I was sexually abused as a child, ergo, I am EXTREMELY sensitive about men keeping their hands OFF OF ME! People dont even think about that aspect of it.
Some people not reading that he also slammed her against the wall after she defended herself.
As a grandfather of four girls I say she had the right to kick him in in his tiny little gonads and hopefully ruin his chance to pass on his stupidity to another generation.
Turn the tables and no one would say it was the right thing to do, would they? If people say it's not good when a guy choke holds a woman, then they have no right to praise what this woman did.
If he didn't touch her in the first place he would've gotten a chock hold or been arrested she did the right thing we need more girls like her well done Krystal
Way to go! He cried like a girl,so I'm surprised he actually had the nerve to do that!
did anyone else noticed that the people that do not agree with the way this woman defended herself are men?...lol
The douche doesn't fall far from the bag. Little b***h boy crybaby got what he deserved.
hes lucky to get off so lightly , dont touch what doesnt belong to yah haha
Should've kicked his nuts way up into his ears, teach him to not grope anything but his own anatomy.
As long as we all agree that the same actions would be okay if the genders were switched, then this is fine. If a woman grabs my a*s when I don't want it, I'll put her in a chokehold. If anyone complains, I'll explain that everyone here agrees that's an appropriate response. If that feels wrong to you while this news story feels right, you might have some re-evaluating to do. If you really agree with equality, then we're on the same page.
As someone who has, over many years, grown just sick and tired of being groped, grabbed, and "accidentally" rubbed up against by pervs who think they're just regular guys, I applaud this woman, and wish I had been more aggressive in my "hot babe" days. If more women would fight back, then word would get around, and maybe these guys will just quit it.
Fun fact: As a reporter, you're not supposed to take sides. You're supposed to report unbiased, complete information and let the reader take their own stance. Stella (the writer), congratulations on failing at this miserably. More to the topic at hand, what if a man had his butt grabbed by a woman? Would everyone be cheering and praising him if he grabbed her by the neck and threw her outside, then publically shamed her as she cried on the ground?
Okay, so … IF a woman assgrabbed a man, and he felt sexual harassed, could he also do that to her? 'Cause … Equal rights.
Yes she had the right. I think all women should be requiured to learn martial arts as children.
If women did this more often, maybe not a full on choke hold but follow up on it , getting the guy kicked out, I think it might help stop it from happening so often. No one has the right to touch you like that, it wasn't her arm, it was what we consider a private part, a no go zone.
then it would be ok if a female grabs a man´s butt and she gets hit in the face ?
The problem is that there are lots of women out there who want to have their asses grabbed. They might be prostitutes or other "loose women". It's hard to tell the difference. I think, if a guy grabs your a*s, and you don't want your a*s grabbed, you punch him in the face as hard as you can and kick him in the nuts a couple of times to get your point across. And then leave it at that. Anything after that is "assault". This b***h grabbed him in a chokehold, as she said, and dragged him outside. If a man did that to a woman, regardless of the reason, he would go to jail. When a woman does that, she's a heroine.
I wonder if he had been a rich football player Golfer or other well known person instead of a broke white boy should would have done the same.
I wonder if all on here would think it right if the roles were reversed and he smacked her like she did to him and posted it online
so clubs are usually pretty packed right, inb4 it was the guy next to him and he just got chokeholded out of f*****g nowhere XD but yeah nice job off here to get him but in my opinion a chokehold is a bit excessive if you are not in danger, people actually die in chokeholds...thats f****d... since for a choke she had to turn and walk al the way around him.. she coudve just slapped him or punched his chin wich wouldve gotten plenty of attention of people to hold him down if you really wanted cops.
What he did was wrong. Call the bouncer or police. Does she need to gloat? Social media pillory is as abusive and violent as mob justice.
OK so is she being charged for assaulting him or is it OK because she's a woman if the roles were reversed everyone would be carrying on about how he took it to far I'm not saying she shouldn't defend herself but going straight to a choke hold is overkill if a cop did that to a suspect it would be police brutality and people would be losing their minds
Personally, that's a great way to handle it. Howwwwweeeeeeever, what she did is also considered assault under the law. You have a right to defend yourself up to a certain point.
Just imagine if it was reversed and it was a girl that grabbed a guy's a*s, then he threw her outside in a chokehold, every single person here saying it was justified would suddenly be on the other side of the fence saying it was unwarranted. Double standards yet again lol
A bit too radical I would say... In other circumstances... this gesture would have been approved (if they were @ a party or smth..., I don't know)....Still TOO MUCH.
Once I was waiting in a tram station and this gay dude came standing very close to me. I kept moving andkept following and just before getting in the tram he running and grabbed my butt. Didn't even get in. Obviously I was asking for wearing a purple shirt. Next time any who touches me unwantedly, male or female I'll make sure to beat the s**t out of them!
I am not with him or anything, self-defence is a right thing to do, but if we think of all reasons why would he does that? I'm sure one of the possible reasons is how she is showing her beautiful body with her outfit!! cause and effect in everything our conscious comprehences,.... like "he had grabbed her @ss, he got panished", she pops up her boobs and wear cloths show the shape of her body is a cause to many effects, and many stuff happens cause of that, she might hurt others without she realizes how much, she might even hurts herself without realizing cause of that. my idea has more deep explanations it is still vague, it can even lead to a biiiiiig debate and some deep philosophie, it is just we need to know how much we can hurts others without realizing, and how much can be selfish, and out of controle, One-self is a tough thing to lead perfectly. Thought I like how strong her personality is.
You F@#$%k'n a**l whores make it a big deal because you all think you're goddesses. To guy's it's just a way of playing around, similar to when a girl touches a guy's chest or arms. If she attempted to do this to me she would have her tits kicked in.
You really need to get over yourself. You keep calling females "whores", is this because your mother was/is one herself? LEARN SOME MOTHER F*****G RESPECT YOU PIECE OF S**T! A WOMAN GAVE YOU LIFE AND BROUGHT YOU INTO THIS WORLD! Your attitude is gonna land you where he landed one of these days.
Load More Replies...Oh my God... Am I the only one who thinks she went over board? OK, I hate when guys do this, but it doesn't mean I go full karate on them... Most of the times I just do what they do, the reaction on their faces is priceless. But this time i think she went waaaay over board.
Frankly, I would totally blame the guy for doing that. However, as the girl pic gives a hint of how she dress and I'm certain of any presence of impure intention. So, yes to self-defense by the girl, but not to chokehold. I don't like when some people 'overpunish', that is not just. Assuming there's no personal issue between them, I also think the guys should not act 'harshly' to the girl. I bet they do know each other, at least, have one conflicting issues. As she chokehold, that somewhat trigger man's tendency to overpower, even if a man chokehold another man, it would end up in a boxing match. And finally, yeah, a man shall ignore her instead of slapping or groping even if she dress provocatively. They both shall learn, I'll learn too :)
She is probably dressing how the bar bosses want her to dress, as well as dressing comfortably for work in a hot environment.
Load More Replies...The bottom line of sexual assault: if you can't do it to your momma, then don't do it to a stranger! On the other hand, if you can imagine doing that to your momma, then you got bigger problems than not understanding sexual assault tho'!
Yeah, some things aren't cool even if your momma is consenting!
Load More Replies...Complete b******t. It never happened. The photo proves nothing. Where is the police report? Names? What was he CONVICTED OF? Have you a*****e forgotten the concepts of a legal system? Innocent until proven guilty? This is some b******t story that ANYONE could make up, toss of a picture of any random person, and you morons think its real and "she's" a hero. Stop being media click bait sheep you retards.
It doesn't say he was convicted. We don't know what happened later. Maybe they just kept him in overnight and no charges were pressed.
Load More Replies...I cut...but somebody bit me on the a*s on the dance floor...couldn't determine who it was I should cut.
she sexually assaulted him in a choke hold what he did was sexual harassment big differents
Take it as a compliment. If a man grabs your a*s it's probably because you have a good a*s. If you slap Him and yell at him that's fine! He probably ment no harm to you. But going for something as the throat, he had a right to slam you agenst the wall.
You're a disgrace to your screen name with that kind of attitude.
Load More Replies...Wow if every guy that groped your a*s whilst on a night out got arrested there would be some very full cells lol
As a man I have had women grope my butt a few times, which I chose to simply ignore. It happens a lot more to women and I totally understand she didn't ignore it, but it really seems to me she overreacted. A slap I would understand but a chokehold? Really? I wonder how people would react if a man used a chokehold on a woman who had grabbed his butt. This is just a classic case of reverse sexism; because it was a woman who was violent towards a man, and not the ohter way around, it is seen as justified. But of course I have the "wrong" opinion on this, so you can go ahead and down vote my comment now.
I agree with you to a point. As most men are physically stronger than women, and women in their equal arrogance assume men will "like" it, a simple slap from the man would probably more than suffice. However, if she's persistent, then I'm all for a man's right to defend himself as well. A man should not have his person touched without permission either.
Load More Replies...What she did was right, but it's a little extreme to put a guy in a chokehold for that, just kick him in balls, run away, and call the cops
Not extreme at all Aidan, he touched her, she has the right to do anything to him, including a choke hold!
Load More Replies...We shouldn't be living in a world where we're glad we only got freaking felt up! When I was 14, I was raped! I felt like I was just an object, someone's new toy, like I was a piece of dog s**t. It's a horrific feeling, just groping. How she chooses to show herself should not effect how she is treated and if you're drunk enough to commit sexual harassment, you are too drunk.
Load More Replies...B******T Igor, what he did was sexual assault, he did not ask and then slammed her into a wall so get off your high horse and know that if you touch someone, or some girl, that you too may get choked and sent to jail, its against the law a*****e!
Load More Replies...Not a lotta Muslims in my rural county (a division of s state), but a lot of white Christian men here treat women like meat.
Load More Replies...Well mannered women AND men do NOT go around grabbing people's bodies! This is crude, vulgar behavior!!
Load More Replies...No. This is why they are allowed to do it an constantly get away with it. Because people go 'oh its just a spank'. How many times does he have to slap/grab a girl's a*s until its considered enough? How many girls has he sexually assaulted until this happened? I believe this is more about sending a message anyways. It would be nice for boys to think twice about this.
Load More Replies...Did she have a right? I think she had a right, then a left, followed by a quick right-left combo.
Indeed! It is called "self defense".She has the right to defend her PRIVATE parts. She has also avoided the typical "misunderstanding" according to which speaking the word "no" is not enough to stop an unwanted behavior. No one would argue about her reaction had he tried to steal her wallet. She has the right to protect her body and preserve her well-being, she could do it by herself and I hope the moron sitting on the sidewalk has learned a lesson.
Load More Replies...Maybe it seems imbalanced but enough is enough. Even if she used a chokehold, she is doing it for all the other poor girls that have been groped by him. All the men thinking it is an extreme reaction - Well I wonder how they would react with another man groping his junk. I can tell you its a pretty horrific feeling.
Perfect comment.... for those guys who say its only a grope... WWYD if a guy grabbed your junk... just slap him and say don't touch me? bwahaha... yeah right.....
Load More Replies...Serves him right. I totally do not get this modern comprehension and sympathy with criminals and perverts. Thumbs up, Krystal
He will probably never do that again = she did right! I am so sick of people saying that we should just accept the fact that our asses/boobs are there for other people to grab. I was riding the metro on New Year's Eve. It was full of people. A guy tried to put his finger up my assh*le. No kidding. His f*cking finger up my assh*le. "Lucky for me" (and i HATE saying that) I was wearing pants so he didn't succeed. When I confronted him, he genuinely didn't understand what was wrong with his behaviour. He just stood there, smiling like an idiot, saying "it was just for fun". And I did nothing except yelling at him in front of everybody. The worst part is that when people asks me if I've ever been sexually assaulted, the first thing I say is "Never have been" because I genuinely forget that it happened, and that what happened is a serious offence.
If we call groping like it is -- and it IS -- sexual assault, then I have been sexually assaulted hundreds of times in my life. If women begin to answer that question honestly (instead of assuming that "sexual assault" only means forced penetration, which has its own word: rape), the statistics will begin to show it, which may lead to some real education for boys in school. Because groping can certainly lead to rape, as "locker room talk" leads to groping. It is a matter of teaching men respect while they are still boys. And women (and girls) should definitely be encouraged to fight back.
Load More Replies...It is all about consent. Without it you're a criminal, it's that simple. This is one thing that is perfectly black or white, there is no gray area.
"The difference between boxing and physical assault is consent"
Load More Replies...I'm a barmaid and I've had men grab my a*s, look down my top wen I'm cleaning tables and making me purposely get the item on the lowest shelf soo I'll bend over! I've had inappropriate things sed to me and wen I've challenged these people I'm told I'm the one wit the problem cause it's jus banter or that it's what I brought on myself cause I was nice while serving them or smiled and laughed at them! Even tho its part of my job! It's sexual assault wen u put ur hands on someone without permission n it's not ur problem it's the person doing it! Everyone should respect others personal boundaries! I personally think this guy had what he deserved! Women r not playthings r a*****e men who believe they can get away everything! Good on her i say
Ok so there was a restaurant in Scotland where the waiters used to wear kilts. Women kept going there and lifting up the men's kilts to get a look at what lurked beneath because they believed that the men weren't wearing any underwear. The women claimed all the things you say men said to you and eventually the waiters uniforms were changed. So long as you agree that men aren't playthings either and that the waiters would have had the same right to violently retaliate against the women who had sexually assaulted them then you and I are on the same page. So do you agree?
Load More Replies...Choose the behavior you choose the consequences. He chose unwisely.
I don't care who the parties involved are. You do NOT grab, fondle, rub or otherwise inappropriately touch another person without permission. If you do then you deserve whatever happens to you.
I guarantee if the roles were reversed ie he put her in a choke hold after she grabbed his a*s HE would be getting arrested !
Load More Replies...Here in Israel, people are constantly advised to take Krav-Maga lessons. While it's meant more often as a measure of defense against terrorists, we are also taught not to be gentle with perverts, either. I encourage all women to learn self-defence. It can no only prevent rape, it can save lives.
I want to take krav-maga lessons but I'm pretty flimsy lol I'll probably end up hurting myself.
Load More Replies..."Did she go too far???" Honestly, I find that to be rather a stupid question (and yes, I get that it's intended to incite discussion). Only if she put him in the hospital with his life on the line. If ALL he did was grope her, that's going too far. But by simply responding and giving him a whooping? No, not too far at all. I would have approved his getting knocked out cold.
There was a news article about the Tour de France, where several hostesses came out talking about being groped and treated horrible by the people there. Several of the reactions on the article were "If you can't handle being touched, get another job." or "They probably asked for it by the way they dress." There's a very big difference between an accidental touch, or actually grabbing someone boobs or butt. Seriously, there seems to be this sickening trend on blaming the victims here. Serves this guy right though. Men like him should learn that you don't grope women (or men!). Even if someone is naked, that doesn't give anyone the right to touch them.
I wonder if anyone's been grabbing the cyclists's d***s, see as they are asking for it judging by how they dress...
Load More Replies...that is sexual assault. period. the guy who said that "he only touched you once" should be stabbed. once. it;s not a crime it it only happened one time right?
It is a crime, but should you commit a crime in response?
Load More Replies...It's the year 2017 and we are discussing if a woman has a right to defend herself when a man wants to grab her a*s. :-(
What she did was what every woman should do. If a guy doesn't know the definition of sexual assault he will by the end of that response. And maybe the dumb a*s won't sexually assault someone again.
In "stand your ground" states, she could have killed him. I think she showed remarkable restraint.
All the comments that she went too far to defend herself... No. She didn't. Not even close. He. Sexually. Assaulted. Her. She defended herself. When he didn't take the hint that his b******t was not tolerated and instead escalated the situation by SLAMMING HER INTO A WALL. He got arrested. He. Got. What. He. Deserved. And he is damn lucky the bouncer didn't get hold of him or he'd be even worse off. NO Man is allowed to just help himself to a woman's body. At Best that is assault. At worst it can be Rape. So No. She didn't go too far. If anything she was cool under pressure and did not actually hurt him. But he sure did when he slammed her into a wall like an immature little sex offender didn't he?
Serious question for the guys: Would you prefer being in a chokehold, or a hard knee to the balls?
So Lil Bobby Blade if I come grab your wife's a*s,that's ok then is it.Send us a pic of her so I can see what she looks like,just to see if it's worth me coming over to the states.Dumbass.
Wish I have of had the guts to do that to the guy who put his hand up my skirt when I was 22 & at a bar. Sometimes pushing away isn't enough
Of course he deserved it! I bet the only people who said he didn't are guilty of doing the same thing to other people.
It was wholly appropriate and the same would be for females who grab males, sexual assault on anyone is NEVER okay!
Straight dudes, gay dudes... it's all the same game.. they see something they like and their hands do the talking sometimes. I've been groped myself in gay bars. When I was young horny all the time it was fine but as I matured I would just either give them shade or I'd say "my body and your not invited" and they would look at me like there was something wrong with me. NOPE, you have the problem. Woman or man, gay or straight, you keep your hands to yourself unless your invited too touch. PERIOD! Dude got what he deserved, choke hold and the arrest .... tears of one that knows he wasn't on the right side of history with his groping hands. Embarrassed? GOOD, learn you lesson BOY!
Can't do the time? Then don't do the crime! How about the guy just takes responsibility Foa a change!
All you guys asking if it would've been ok if the roles were reversed don't understand what it's like to feel threatened by a man.
@Leni It could easily be argued that you don't know what it's like for a man to be threatened by a woman. Men have 0 support when it happens
Load More Replies...Serves the prick right, gets away with it once he'll do it again and push it further and further until one day he will full on rape a woman. Slappinging a guy does nothing and for the 2 particular males in this story that commented and obviously think rape culture is ok, I'll shove my hand up your a*s and I won't deserve to be jailed because come on I only touched you once. F**king scumbags.
Well done! My daughter is 14 years old and I am very happy that she is this kind of Girl too!
Men are told all the time (in media, in school, with their pairs) that they deserve to have a woman, like women are things that you can HAVE. That's the origin of this behavior... sad but true...
In the 80s this happened to me ... the first "grab" got a look and a warning not to do it again. The second grab got him a broken nose. Unless you are invited to do so, do not touch the breasts or a*s! 'Nuff said.
Unwanted, touching on private body parts is wrong. However, instead of just simply fighting back against the attackers, why isn't there more education on why its wrong, what it does to the other person, how it make them feel and would they like it done to members of their own family ? All this talk of only fighting back just misses the point - people do this because they believe it's a harmless bit of fun and there's no victim because they feel it's not a crime. Well educate the beliefs and you'll get better results. Hopefully.
There should be more education on why its wrong. No one is minimizing the necessity of that. What we're discussing here is if she was in the right fighting back or not.
Load More Replies...How this was handled is a bit rough and sudden for sure. However, it is hard to understand if you rarely if ever experience it. Its happened to loads to of times personally even when I am with my amle buds. But then again, I learned very quickly how to shut these individuals down with words. She did good, extreme but good.
You say this is extreme okay but extreme. Then you go on to say this has happened to you loads of times, even with male friends present, but you have learned to shut them down with words. Tell me if your words are so effective, why is it happening loads of times, even with other men present?
Load More Replies...Imagine it's an action movie and she's a big, sweaty guy, and the grabber walks up and just pokes him in the chest with a finger while making a smart remark. Grabber gets his throat ripped out, audience feels satisfied. Nobody says, "All he did was poke you and use some words."
Because, guys, let's face it... if some random guy grabbed your a*s, you'd defend your right to punch him with your last breath.
Way to go, girl! When my daughter was 7 she began having trouble with a boy in her class trying to choke her & kiss her at the same time. I thought about what I would do if this boy's dad did that to me, and told her what my reaction would be. Next day I asked, How did it go with [that boy] today, and she replied confidently, "I did what you said. I belted him." Don't mess with my girls!
Thirty years ago, I was assaulted in a subway station on my way to work, in broad daylight, : the guy came up behind me and put a hand over my mouth and dragged me behind a pillar. I left him bleeding, doubled over, and crying like a b***h. Did I feel good about it? No, I threw up. But I'd do it again, and again, and again. She did what she had to do, good for her.
Excellent, well done. It isn't nice, though, is it? I hate violence, not least because I get mad at someone for making me resort to it. Stay safe.
Load More Replies...I agree she should kick his ask but what about when I met my girlfriends Nanna, when we met she hugged me gropped my a*s and looked at my girlfriend and said you've got a cute one here! Should I have gone hulk on Nanna?
Did he have the right to grope her a*s? No. Did she have the right to defend herself? Sure. Could it be argued that there is a thin line between defending yourself and going on the assault? Probably. BUT: Is it ok, to take a picture of a guy against his will and post it all over the internet? Certainly NO. I even think a bit less of Bored Panda now for taking part in violating his personal rights that way. He doesn't lose those because he groped someone's a*s.
And come on people, don't tell me you don't get that she's very proud of how she humiliated him. That goes waayyy beyond "Pew, I'm glad I could defend myself."
Load More Replies...While I think this kid is a piece of s**t, let's spin this 180. If a woman grabs my a*s in a bar, do I have the right to put her in a choke hold, and drag her outside? If you think I have that right, who do you think will be arrested when the police arrive? Don't even give me the "Oh, you wouldn't mind", or "women don't do that" b******t. I've worked in bars off and on for the better part of my adult life. Nasty, skanky, drunk bitches do this s**t, and guys don't want them to touch them, at all. It's not a big problem, but it happens. So who is going to stand up and say, "You are within your rights, and are morally correct, if you grab a woman in a choke hold, and drag her outside, for touching your a*s."?
Well, most woman would be psychically weaker and there might be no need to get them in choke hold. It might be enough to hold their hands to physically prevent groping. The level of power she used most likely is related with difference between their physical sizes and strength. However, if other ways fail, I would accept that you have a right to protect yourself as you need (e.g., if she starts fighting you while you hold her hands, or if she goes for attach after you release her hands and tell her now - get the choke hold by any means...).
Load More Replies...Hey he groped...she responded. Karma. His parents should have raised him better, her parents raised her right. He should be happy she decided to leave him 'intact', shows restraint on her part.
If everything else was the same but she was a big, sweaty guy from an action movie, nobody'd bat an eye if she throat-punched him into an intensive care unit.
Love this. Let me tell u my story. 1982. Freshman in college visiting my bf at osu. He's on crutches from knee surgery. We r on high st in a bar as we walk in I get a full hand on my a*s from a guy who says "it's my bday". I go right to my bf and say " get me outta here". He knows something is wrong by my demeanor. We followed me toward the exit. The guy that grabbed me says "there's the b***h". My bf hears him and clocks him. Needless to say after the cops arrived from the altercation I did knee him I'm the groin. Longer story but you get it
Have you ever seen the reaction a straight man has when a guy grabs his a*s? So guys if you don't
I have seen females groping other females without consent, do they deserve to get chocked out and publicly shamed? Seems harsh.
Load More Replies...well, a bouncer would have did the same thing, no? I kind of hate violence unless no choice in the matter, and there was a choice here. no wonder I don't go in gin mills.
Yeah there was a choice, he had a choice not to grab her and show what little rapist piece of s**t he is. Sexual assault is violence and a way for a man to have power over someone else be it man or woman, if he had a groped a guy no one would have said anything about how an extreme reaction it was, but women are expected to be weak, accepting little things. Well f**k that a guy ever gropes me he'll end up on life support where he belongs.
Load More Replies...A woman absolutely has the right to defend herself. To address Ibuki's concern; if a woman makes it up, she needs to be charged and punished.
Protecting oneself from unwanted touching is absolutely a must. I am martial arts trained in self-defense. A man actually grabbed my arm when I was walking across a lobby..my guy was waiting across the lobby for me. I looked across to my guy and shook my head at him. I quietly said the man who had my arm...see that man over there? That is my man and he is an ex-police officer but it is not him you have to worry about...it is me. Now, I can put you on the floor and embarrass you in front of all these people or you can let go of my arm and let me go on my way. I think it was my calmness...he looked at my guy and then looked at me and released my arm. I told him to think twice next time before grabbing a strange woman...she might not be as nice as me and then told him to have a nice evening.
Nice handling of the situation. One of my former girlfriends (nice girl, married one of my good friends) used to respond to unwanted contact by grabbing the guy's finger--"How far I bend this back depends on what you say next". Very effective.
Load More Replies...I think she was in her right to defend herself. What upset me the most about this discussion yesterday morning was the comment Gretchen gave. She "implied" that because of the ''situation'', ( a woman drinking in a bar?), that it is an expected behavior. I'm sorry. Not all women are at a bar having a drink to pick up men or get groped for that matter. As a woman, I found this comment offensive. That is almost like saying a woman deserved to be raped because of the way she was dressed and ''asked for it." ANY physical "sexual" contact is assault. I would have done the same thing and teach my daughters to act as well! Gretchen should be ashamed of herself for comment. As a woman. As a mother. As a human being!
As a father I already have shown my 10 year old daughter on how to deal with people like that. He was lucky, my daughter would have poked an eye out. Well done, ignorant people need to shown where the line is.
Slapping him would have given him a chance to retaliate. She did as Sensei Kreese told his students on the Karate Kid. "Sweep The Leg. No Mercy". :) I don't understand when people make excuses or try to defend people like this. This is NOT okay and I'm not sure why that line is so blurry to people.
When I was 20 years old (this was in the 60s), a man came up behind me and grabbed my a*s. Then he blantantly sauntered in front of me, and I kicked the s**t out of him in his a*s. It was such a lovely visual, and remains imprinted in my brain, to see him lifted in the air a bit.
"Ok so there was a restaurant in Scotland where the waiters used to wear kilts. Women kept going there and lifting up the men's kilts to get a look at what lurked beneath because they believed that the men weren't wearing any underwear. The women claimed all the things you say men said to you and eventually the waiters uniforms were changed. So long as you agree that men aren't playthings either and that the waiters would have had the same right to violently retaliate against the women who had sexually assaulted them then you and I are on the same page. So do you agree?" -Candice Goddard 2 hours ago I like where this lady is coming from. So, I have had my butt grabbed, pinched and even my front junk groped before by random females. Would that give me the right to escalate things to a physical confrontation??? In this one way "equal rights" society we are living in, hell no. If I was to do so, I most definitely would have been the one going to jail instead of the handsy ladies.
I think a back hand around his face would have been enough in the first instance because I have to wonder how twitter would react if a man threw a woman into a choke hold for lifting up his kilt, grabbing his a**e or even his genitals. Men get sexually assaulted by women too and it's almost socially acceptable, they're even taught to never hit back. There should be one standard for everyone, that's equality.
I had my a*s grabbed by chicks on a hen night, i wonder how Twitter might react if i had put the future bride in a chokehold and dragged her outside?
Why don't you give it a try and let us know how it goes?
Load More Replies...NOT ENDER SPECIFIC, BUT IF YOU MRSS WITH THE BULL YOULL GET THE HORNS. CANT SAY I BLAME HER MY DAUGHTER HAD THE SAME THING HAPPEN WHEN SHE WAS 9 MONTHS PREGNANT AND SHE COLD-COCKED THE GUY ANDS LAID HIM OUT LIKE A STONE SLAB. GOOD FOR YOU YOUNG LADY.
What am I supposed to do if a guy does this? Do i call 911, does it even count as an emergency? If the guy runs off is there anything they can/will do?
If that ever happens to me, I'd like to think I'd wait, hen wait for him to look at me, and then say to him, ok, my turn, go for his nuts and twist and pull down. No more acorns for him.
Kudos to you! Men, you do NOT have the right to put your hands wherever you want.
I bet this guy will think twice before doing it again with an other.I say great if he learned his lesson and it stops the behaviour if not he is sick and eventually will fall for it.
i think only perverse and sick people Defends a sick like him let him go to jail and be a A lesson for those who consider
So if a girl grabbed my a*s, I can shove a glass jar up her, and break it?!? (hypothetical) Seems kind of harsh...
Load More Replies...I doubt it. Thinking is probably outside his skill set.
Load More Replies...That should make him think twice next time he decides to grab a lady where aught not to hehe
Yeah she had a right! He assaulted her. Not her fault the police agreed it was assault and arrested him...
Karma! I punched a girl in the gut once, because she slapped my a*s in da club. B***h had it coming.
Agreed you didn't want it and she didn't ask, it's sexual assault.
Load More Replies...So maybe I've misread, but it seems to me like this girl is a bartender and was working at the time. In trying to see this from a different angle, I am going to disregard the sexual assault, and genders involved. As a bartender, you absolutely have the right to physically restrain and remove any individual who is acting inappropriately. Regardless of your gender/the offenders gender, it is part of your job as a bartender to maintain a safe (as safe as possible) environment for the rest of your patrons. If she was indeed working at the time of the incident, I would have expected her to do the exact same thing if she had even witnessed this man groping one of her patrons. I am a female and was a bartender for almost 5 years. I have physically restrained and removed many individuals, both male and female, for less than groping.
To the person who said ..I don't think one touch is a reason to attack and arrest him, I know when a man is touc hing me accidently ....like when squeezing by in a crowd....and when it's a sexual touch! Case closed. He deserved what he got.
About four years ago--I'm having dinner with the niece of one of my friends. Strictly platonic (sad to say--she's terrific), I was helping her with a tax problem her ex-husband had created. We're waiting for our table, standing in the bar area. Some yuppie scum type grabs her rear. Definitely intentional--out of the corner of my eye I'd seen him move his beer from one hand to the other right before he groped her. Doesn't know she's a brown belt in karate. She disarms him quickly. He's on the ground, looks at me, and has the nerve to say, "Aren't you going to do anything about her?" So I looked at her and said, "Attagirl!" and told him, "Be glad you're in one piece". She just got married again to a great guy who knows she can kick his a**.
The pindick asswipes complaining that she was in the wrong are most likely spouting this c**p because they're now scared of not being able to get away with groping women in bars ... the only contact they can manage with females.
If you intentionally touch a person you don't know in a bar, consider yourself lucky if you leave with only an a*s kicking.
Dude, you learned a hard lesson. You can't go putting your hands on someone's a*s. That's her body, not yours. She would've been justified in grabbing you by the balls in a death squeeze, so consider yourself lucky. To the other jerks who think grabbing someone is cool without his/her permission..remember what happened to this idiot.
The dude learned a hard lesson..you can't just put your hands on someone's a*s just because you feel like it. You would've deserved it if she went for your balls in a vise-grip.
AWESOME!! Way to go Girl, don't blame you one bit and if More women would react that way these "Stupid Idiots" might really think of their consequences Before they pull the BS!! No Honest Man that Honestly Respects Women would pull the bs, because they Don't want any female family members treated like that!! I would have ROFLMBO If She Tazzed the sack of c**p after the choke hold, yes just so he would "Wiz" on himself"
Glad she kicked the c**p out of him. Choke hold was awesome. Bet he will think twice before he tries that on another woman. Cuddos to you. Yes send his button to jail and see if he likes being grabbed at...don't drop the soap!
Smart girl!!! Hope my daughter reacts the same if ever needed. I'm not very big, about 5'2", had to take down a guy a foot taller and nearly 3x my weight once. Throat punch and knee to the groin and he was done.
She had every right to defend herself very aggressively. If she didn't, all the naysayers would be complainingthat she wasn't clear about NOT wanting his hands on her butt. Don't touch uninvited and you won't risk a punch in the mouth.
Good for his a*s. Bet he won't do that s**t again...You can look Mothersucka, but don't touch.
I think you're giving him credit for intelligence he does not possess. Odds are, he'll think he didn't do anything wrong and that he has the right to grope women.
Load More Replies...He touched her without her explicit permission, and it looks like the only things injured were his feelings and maybe his sense of masculinity. And for the people in the story saying they didn't why he had to go to jail? He touched someone without their consent, that is assault, pure and simple. Commit assault go to jail, period.
As a father I have taught my 10 year old daughter how to defend herself from people like that. He was lucky, my daughter would have poked his eyes out and left him like a blind eunuch, never seeing where to grope again. Well done. Respect!
To all the people posting something along the lines of "Oh, but is it okay for women to do it to men?" Two wrongs don't make a right. Sexual assault is defined as any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient. That happens to men, and it's wrong, because it's sexual contact towards the man without his consent. Anyone of any gender who has sexual contact occur without their consent has been sexually assaulted.
What do you suppose these men like Little Bobby Blade who think she overreacted would say if a guy casually reached over and grabbed their 'package'. Would they just 'move away' 'tell him to stop groping them' or punch the living c**p out of them?? Would they think that it was too harsh to send him to jail just for touching him?
I just wish several of the women sexually assaulted by Trump had done this, then he'd have a criminal record which might have kept him from getting where he is! - ruining the country and embarrassing himself daily (and us).
Ok, so I'm ready for the ridicule but I just gotta say...turn this around and a girl grabs a guys *ss and he'd take the same action?! Big problems for the dude...what he did wasn't right but he'd be facing jail time and we are praising her?! Just doesn't sound like equality to me...
It may seem a bit extreme but I fully agree with it, firstly, it IS sexual assault and this woman knows full well she can defend herself any way she feels necessary, therefore she should. And secondly, the reason most men do this is that either they don't realise it's actually sexual assault, or they know most women will not defend themselves with anything more than a slap, if more women defend themselves in the extreme way this woman did, then maybe more men will think again before they touch us without our permission.
Don't touch anyone without their consent or suffer the consequences. He learned this the hard way.
He decided to put his hands on her the way he wanted to - and she responded in kind.
Slap a Tiger on the a*s and see what happens!!! If she'd have just slapped him, individuals would be crying about that too. Now, I believe that he got off lucky. Because, if he'd have touched my wife or daughter like this he would also have a few knots in his head!!! Good job young lady. I've been teaching my daughters the same principles. Someone touches you inappropriately, pound the c**p out of them. That is the only response that these idiots understand.
You give them too much credit for understanding. They SHOULD understand, but then again, they SHOULDN'T indulge in that kind of behavior in the first place. An obvious lesson--is wasted on those who need to learn it the most.
Load More Replies...If a female touches a male inappropriately it's fine for him to do the choke hold thing too?
If any person intentionally touches a stranger in a public place, they should consider themselves lucky that an a*s beating is all they get.
Load More Replies...I feel like people here on bored panda are american. Just react wuth violence....eye for an eye.... its better to teach en prevent than just self defence in a hard way. In play grounds we teach our children to say " stop it i do not like that" and then try to explain why...teach!! In a non violent way. Yes she can defend herself ...but there is more sides to a story... maybe they where danceng / twerking in front of him, to him, and he smacked her a*s... always need to hear both sides of the story! I live in the netherlands. I am a woman. I have girlfriends and we are all touched on the a*s ... and no we did not try to choke the boys/men. We just say : stop, no, go away! Never felt the need for using violence. And yes many times we have got an sorry. Sometimes we liked it... 2 sides of the story..... we do not no the setting ... i can only say it is an american way of defending/re-acting
I've had my a*s groped by women many times, does that mean I could had put them in a chokehold?
1. Turn around and say to him you do not like that...1 chance for apoligize....2 if he does not say sorry... than explain it....3. Still no sorry.... than action.... man must be teached ...they are stupid....
I can guarantee you the guy saying "he only groped her once" is probably a groper himself. It's the only reason why anyone would defend a sack of garbage like that.
What the f**k? We get asked why we don't defend ourselves, and then asked why we DO defend ourselves? This a*****e has heard the word "no" 400 times and never respected it, it´s time to speak HIS language then.
Of course she had a right to take him out. Unwanted touching deserves a quick and sharp response, either verbal or physical. This guy got his just desserts and I hope (but I doubt) he learned something from it.
So. . . .if a woman were to grope a man the same way, we can choke hold her and slam her into a wall too?
If he can't stand the heat, he should have stayed out of her kitchen. :)
She had every right to do whatever it took to get that guy's hands off her a*s. He should be grateful she didn't know krav maga.
Yes!! She did exactly what she should have done! He had no right grabbing her a*s or anything else...he got what he deserved!! She was awesome and I hope my daughter would react in the same manner!
You probably shouldn't have killed him. I understand the self-defense angle from when he slammed you against the wall, but still, taking a person's life was going too far... Wait, you didn't kill him? You just punched him a few times? Why the heck would anybody complain about that? I wouldn't mind if you'd cracked his skull with your elbow or kicked him so hard in the 'nads he threw up. Someone attacks you without cause or warning, you have a right to defend yourself, period. The only bad part about this is that he's likely only going to get probation for this.
I have had girls grab my a*s, i remember a hen do in a bar opposite my old place of work, each time i passed them they all had a grab, i wonder what the reaction would have been if i as a guy put on of them in a chokehold and dragged her outside, you know just for equality.
There is something called REASONABLE FORCE, you idiots. You cannot kill someone if he punches you, claiming self-defense. She pushed it too far, you don't torture or humiliate someone that way for any reason whatsoever, that's sadistic at least. You crazy people please stay in the comment section.
How do you know that she was not way smaller and lighter, and could not use different way to defend, or if he did not assault her with words before?
Load More Replies...I agree it was assault and she had every right to defend herself. I'd like to know how the justice system handles this case. its the general lack of formal consequences in such situations that lead men to think its no big deal.
Damn right that serves him. Had a guy inappropriately grab my a*s and refuse to let go even when I said I had a boyfriend. Said something along the lines of "Sure you do." Even if I didn't he should've let go. So because he didn't I threatened to break his finger.
Statistically, this was NOT his first time assaulting a woman. She reacted correctly to his criminal (illegal) behavior.
This guy most likely won't do it again, so I think it was the appropriate response. Men need to start treating women as fellow human beings, and not as objects here for their personal titillation. Women have to deal with this s**t all their lives, starting from a young age. It's gotta stop.
did anyone else noticed that the people that do not agree with the way this woman defended herself are men?...lol
This human being (cannot call him a man) got what he deserved, and hope the girl got an appology.
As a young teenager, I and several other girls my age had to put up with this very behavior from boys in school. It was a game to them - walk up behind us while we were walking down the hall and grab a handful of backside or worse, stick their hand between our legs from behind and grab us there. School administrators would do *nothing* - "boys will be boys, don't do it again" was the usual response. I started carrying a heavily loaded backpack full of books everywhere I went, and more than one boy felt the full weight of it against their head as I swung it at them with all my might when they grabbed me. This young woman did not deserve to be groped without consent and her reaction may seem over the top to some, but I think she taught him a sorely-needed lesson.
he tried to play victim looks like and got more than he bargained for, if it was me i prob would of done worse, its self defense, thank god she defended herself!
She had every right to punch him, choke hold him what ever it took, he should not have grabbed her a*s, or any part of her PERIOD!
Well done girl. I'd have done the same. And probably kicked him where it hurts too.
You go, girl! For all the people out there who said she overreacted, c'mon. Nobody would be saying that if he'd tried to grab her wallet. But he grabbed something worse- her body. She had a right to protect herself, and to be honest, she probably said no at first, but he didn't listen. So what did he expect?
Good on her! Whup his a*s! If he had groped another guy and got his a*s kicked, no one would say a word.
You F@#$%k'n a**l whores make it a big deal because you all think you're goddesses. To guy's it's just a way of playing around, similar to when a girl touches a guy's chest or arms. If she attempted to do this to me she would have her tits kicked in.
Load More Replies...Once I was waiting in a tram station and this gay dude came standing very close to me. I kept moving and he kept following and just before getting in the tram he came running and grabbed my butt. Didn't even get in. Obviously I was asking for it wearing a purple shirt. Next time anyone who touches me unwantedly, male or female I'll make sure to beat the s**t out of them!
He seems to still have all of his teeth... I feel that she was in her right to take at least a couple of them as souvenirs...
I disagree. Unlike what you see on TV or in movies, hitting someone in the head is a great way to hurt your hand.
Load More Replies...Just wondering if I could go full Chokehold if a girl grabs my a*s without my consent?? I mean... equal rights, no?
Theoretically, yes I suppose. Has a girl grabbed your a*s without your consent?
Load More Replies...Want someone your not attracted to grabbing yours stay away from ours. Unless invited.
To the (few) guys who think she overreacted: how would you react if he fondled your balls?
lol.. at some of these comments. He groped her a*s, she 'groped' his neck very firmly! I think that's a fair deal. Everyone wants her to dish out a slap like a "girl"..lol Better be careful dear assaulting men.. you never know whose grown balls outta nowhere
Maybe if enough guys get whatever they got coming to them, after grabbing a women or girl, maybe just maybe "they" will stop, cause they don't want it done to them and wind up on FB or some other social media.....Men( or boys) need to keep hands off unless told otherwise!
I'm PROUD of you , I'm a Hubby , Dad & Grandpa of ladies , I've taught them all good moves & hope they never have to use them , but they , like you , will stand their ground .
I made my daughter take a self-defense course before she started dating for just such a time as this.
If a guy had his manly package grabbed by a stranger im sure he would feel the same, he was just sexually assaulted. The idiots that dont get you cant grope a female [or any stranger] without consent is indeed sexual assault are also e same baboons that go around groping women and tting choked out.
If a guy had his package grabbed or groped, what would he call it and how would he feel?
What a crying wimp. Mama raised a real jackass there. He should thank his lucky stars he didn't grab MY a*s. He'd still be eating with a straw, his jaw wired shut. #KeepEmToYourself
Holy hell yeah, she did just fine thank you. My daddy taught me defense moves and I'll be passing those on to my daughter!
This is my body, and NOBODY has the right to touch it without my permission! That should be the motto of every female!
He's the face of the Men's Rights movement, looking through tears at a long career online whimpering how 'all the ladies beat him up' and 'all he wanted to do was check the goods before buying her drinks' and on and on and on. The inability to understand simple assault is just a bonus. She should have curb-stomped him.
I would have ripped his face off and shoved it up his a*s. Don't put your hands on me. Especially if I don't know you.
not only did he grab her, but he slammed her into a wall. yes! he is lucky all he got was choked out! more women need to react like this so maybe men will learn to keep their hands to themselves!
She was well within her rights to respond physically when accosted physically. What was she to do? Turn the other cheek? If I had daughters, they would all know how to do this.
She has every right to respond physically to someone who accosts physically. What was she to do? Turn the other cheek? She was well within her rights and if I had daughters, whey would all know how to do this.
Same thing would have happened if he grabbed a guys a*s. So, he got what he deserved, whether he did it to a man or a woman. Hopefully, he will THINK next time.
they're right. she shouldn't have put him in a choke hold, she should have grabbed his d**k and ripped it off tbh.
Serves that dude right. Now let's all hope he'll get his a*s grabbed in jail.
Ok Bobby Blade if a man walked by and grabbed your crotch do you think you would put him on the ground face-first? And don't say he's a guy so yeah! It was the "grabbing" that did it and got the reaction from you, or her. So knock off, she did what she did to protect herself, it is her right as a human being and a woman. And to you wonderful woman if I had a daughter I would want you to teach her how to feel about herself and boundaries. Good on ya'
Wonder if all the guys saying she went to far would do the same to a man who felt up their girlfriend? I'm betting they would and they just can't stand a woman having agency instead of needing a man to protect her. Just sayin.
I reckon she did what every woman should do in that situation, no guy has the right to touch a woman in that way..
She should have kicked his nuts up into his Adam's Apple, he would have been easier to subdue then. lol. You gave him what he asked for Lady, nice job. Now all he is is a cryin' little b***h.
Times should be changing. Unfortunately, women and girls throughout this world are daily raped, killed, burned alive, have acid thrown at them, and least but not last we have to put up with thugs who touch us when are going about our lives. You, men, would you agree to live through this all your life, fearing that a woman would harm you in the ways described above? I think surely not.
Full Name, hope that several times in your lifetime you get your genitals squeezed until you yell Mama. This type of male behavior is not permissible. Women, girls, and females as we are called the States, are not your play objects. Would you do this to your mother, grandmother, sister, niece, aunt or your own daughter, grasp them by the pussy'? wOULD YOU Really DO THIS TO A MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY? Just try to think about it. You are not a gentleman, so sorry for you that you have not been brought up to be one.
She had the right NOT to be groped by some creep! I would have done the same. Bravo! Ladies - we *have* to stand up for ourselves!
Yes a woman absolutely has the right to defend herself. To address Ibuki's concerns; if a woman makes it up, than she needs to be charged and punished.
I'm confused by all the men in the comments who seem to think they're leaving a shocking comment by saying they should also beat up a woman if a woman touched them. Why yes, if I grabbed a strange man's a*s or balls without consent, I'd fully expect a fist in the face. Thing is, however, MOST males are attention seeking little bitches with NO self esteem who'd probably feel honored I deigned pay such humongous attention to them... it's sad, really.
Anybody who thinks he didn't deserve it needs to reevaluate their moral standards! This needs to be stamped out, make an example of anybody caught doing it, and castrate them as well!! If a bloke touched me I would turn round and knock him out, so why shouldn't a woman be allowed to............idiots........
Good on you! :-) although you could have slapped him around a little more! He deserved it!
To anyone that disagrees with her actions that has a Daughter or Wife, Please tell me where they are because I would love to go grab their C**t now that I know all I'll get is a slap in the face. Then I'll go jerk off to it. YOU STUPID MOTHER F*****S! Anyone that disagrees with her actions is a godamn f****n pervert and would probaly do the same. You just labeled yourself a PERVERT! DUMB F***S!
To anyone that says this is wrong and has a daughter or wife. Please tell me where they are. I would love to go grab there c**t now that I know all I'll get is a slap in the face. Thank you for letting me know sexual groping is ok with out consent. YOU STUPID M***********S!
He got his just desert. No one has the right to touch another. I hope he learned his lesson. I think all women should learn some type of marshal arts so they can protect themselves from idiots like this one.
Damit girl! you just ruined his chances of becoming the next US president. Poor guy.
Hell yes she had a right to defend herself! (Unless ofcourse he was rich or famous...according to the president)
Proud of her - chokehold, marvelous idea! I would have just broken his hands and jaw - - will remember the "hold" for the next asswipe!
She did him a favor. Maybe it was a wakeup call. The judge will explain it to him.
"Couldn't you have slapped him?" No, the amount of unstableness in a person can be very dangerous and knock out anybody who tells them "don't touch me". A slap is never enough.
A slap CAN be enough, but an a**-whuppin' is more likely to have the desired effect on someone's future conduct.
Load More Replies..."I don't agree with...sending someone to jail..." lol "I don't understand it! I mean I was just standing there, minding my own business, holding the gun I just shot the guy with and--can you believe it?--all of a sudden some cop sent me to prison! Out of the blue!"
UH. IS THIS THE USA? I THINK IT IS AND SHE SO HAD A RIGHT TO KICK HIS A*S TO THE CURB AND BACK. IF YOU DISAGREE YOU ARE FREE TO LEAVE OUR COUNTRY. WE WONT BE UPSET AT ALL.
Just a question. If the genders were reversed, would the positive response still be the same? I have seen videos women have posted of themselves touching men without consent. If the man responded by choking out the woman, would everyone be for that? Just curious as to what everyone thinks.
The dudes getting mad saying she overreacted are also the type to openly admit - no BRAG - that if a dude grabbed their a*s they'd beat the s**t out of them.
How many free touches does a sexual assailant get before his victim gets to react?
Although rare, i've had my a*s grabbed by women exactly 3 times in my life. Should i have given any of them the Stone Cold Stunner? Or maybe a chokeslam? If the idea of me getting violent on a woman for touching my a*s makes you cringe.. but you're fine with this.. congrats. You're the problem.
So this is what we have with feminism in XXI century :( So sad. If the guy later decides to rape her, in my opinion no one in the internet will blame him for this. If he grabbed your a*s (there's no proof for that as I understand) , you can grab his a*s back, but not start a fight. But hey, we are now living in the age of Trump, and of course if president grabs them by the p****, so the feminist start to attack people at random
She was completely within her rights. If more women defended themselves like this, men would get the message.
The guys who need to learn this the most are the least likely to learn, even after multiple a**-whuppin's.
Load More Replies...I would have grabbed his package and put a vice grip on it to bring him to his knees in a heap. I am glad she handled him. Kudos to her.
I just wish one of the women Trump had assaulted over the years had done the same, then maybe he would have had a well deserved criminal records to keep him out of politics!!!
This is a cautionary tale for any guy who can't keep his hands to himself. Desperate, creepy males with no self-control... beware!!!!!! Not responding with a clear "F___ NO!" is an invitation for him to do it to someone else.
He would've gotten a lot worse from me let me tell ya. There wouldn't be cops involved, but he'd of wished there were. Losers.
So Lil Bobby you're saying he should get a free pass? This guy has probably done this before, this is just the first time he got caught.
Every woman has the right to defend yourself, and guys shouldn't be pigs like that. I would've given a verbal warning first.
If more men received this kind of treatment for their grabby hands, the problem might stop. But until then, by any means necessary. Well done.
I think job well done, if people don't understand what sexual assault is they will find out just like this guy did. Don't go touching people! He got what he deserved and all these guys that at saying they didn't feel that reaction was warranted it's not the body not their decision and none of their business. Let someone do this to their daughter and then let's see how they feel about it.
I applaud this intelligent woman! She should be proud of herself for her actions and the negative comments she's getting only go to prove how lame and permissive macho American culture is.
I agree with what she did but I wondered how many SJW's would feel the same way if a gay man grabbed a straight mans a*s and the straight man reacted the same way?
I have a 24 year old daughter and believe me if he had done that to her he would have wound up in the hospital, not jail
Lil Bobby Blade seems to believe that grabbing a woman's a*s is ok. Tell me it's ok when a female in your life, someone you love and care about tells you someone did that to her. You will be singing an entirely different song. I had an a*****e grab my a*s while on a dance floor, I slapped him so hard he fell flat on his back, and I will do it again if someone touches me inappropriately.
I don't understand how a man can in any way speak for a woman as to what an assault is. He may like having his butt fondled and this is his choice. I slapped a man silly for grabbing my while on a dance floor. Knocked him right off his feet. No one condemned me or whined that it is not assault. It is assault. No one has the right to touch another persons body. I mean, tap their shoulder if you want to talk, don't grab their a*s then cry like a b***h after you get a good beating, a well deserved beating. So, you guys that think this isn't assault, lets see what happens when your daughter, wife, sister or even your mother tells you the same thing happened to them.
If a straight guy had his a*s grabbed by another guy, few would flinch if the grabbed punched the grabber in the face. This girl was 100% in the right to physically defend herself the way she did.
A man (or woman) who has learned self-defense properly knows that you do not hit people in the face. It's a smaller target than the torso and is harder. You might hurt your hands. One to the solar plexus, one to each kidney, a boot to the crotch.
Load More Replies...Lil Bobby Blade, what would your response be if some random came up to you and groped your "package"? I doubt it would be a mere slap.
She defended herself against a man who obviously doesn't yet accept women as humans worthy of respect. He got what he deserved and I hope this is a wake-up call to all men who think it is ok to just grab any woman's body and expect to get away with it!
Well hell... this happened in Arizona. He should be glad she wasn't carrying. Good for you GF.
What I find appalling is the 'people' on this post having a problem with how this female defended herself...the comments 'against' this female are disgusting!!!
Was her reaction too much? Would anyone ask this question if the guy was trying to rob her? Why is it, that our cell phone is more valuable than our body? Also, it might only sound too much for someone, because it happened with a stranger. If the guy grabbed your mom/sister/daughter/friend.... well well well...
For those that do not think he deserved what he got, would you think differently if he did it to your wife, girlfriend, mother, daughter or granddaughter? Our daughter has been taught to defend herself and we will back her to the end outcome. Mind you she just turned 7 and has numerous phone calls for punching boys in the face for touching her butt.
Please. If he had grabbed a guy's rear, he would have gotten punched in the face fast. Good for her.
maybe he had to shove a finger up on her a*s to "have the right to defend herself" my god, probably that other guys is also an offender... she did good!
LOL at the mansplaining of grabbing not being considered assault ... I truly hope these guys are not the future of our legal system ...
What I don't understand is why women feel like it's ok to grab a man sexually ! I guess a man isn't suppose to complain if that did happen. I've had some ugly-a*s girls grab me before and I would've smacked them but NO that would be wrong.
He was asking for it... luckily he barley got injured, I bet she ciul've done worse damage to the fool.
Well, what if a girl groped a guy's a*s and he put her in a choke-hold and had her arrested? When is sexual assault okay, and when is it okay to counter it with violence and public shaming on the internet?
Some guys ride subways and crowed buses just to grope and do a little jostling with the woman really close to him. I think he got what he deserved.
When I was in 9th grade, in the library of all places, a classmate groped my backside. Without thinking (seriously) I turned around and popped him hard in the face. He walked away rubbing his chin. I had never hit anyone like that before. It is a natural response women have that allows us to protect ourselves. Krystal absolutely did the right thing.
Guy got what he deserved. Lucky he didn't get two a*s whoopings before being arrested.
If he thinks he has the right to grab her any way he pleases, she has the right to do the same. Don't grab her, she won't grab you. Duh!
Got what he deserved. It was sexual assault, plain and simple. The picture of the prick crying like a little b***h afterwards...priceless!
So what if he didn't consent to or like being placed in a choke hold and then dropped like a brick, and then arrested. SHE didn't consent to him groping her a*s (or any other part of HER body) and honestly I think he's damned luck he didn't pull back a stump. If it had been me or one of my daughters, he'd be singing soprano permanently AND would have been removed from adding to the gene pool. What a stupid, self-entitled, spoiled rotten, egotistical child he is! How humiliated his MOTHER must feel!
No permission = assault Not 'entitled because I'm male' = assault Engaged in conduct of a reasonable level to prevent it continuing = DEFENCE Dudes it's really not a hard thing to understand. If you don't have permission right there and then, KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF
Good for her for defending herself. He is the one that went to far for touching her- he was lucky she did not have a gun too.
An easy way to spot sexism is to switch genders of all parties and think it through again: girl grabbed guys a*s, guy hits her, gets her in a choke and gets her arrested and proudly shames her by uploading a picture of her crying. how would that story make you feel?
and at which point did you think: that would never happen! let me guess: girl would not get arrested. make these posts about opposing sexual assaults in general, not about 'brave women beating men'.
Load More Replies...I can't believe this is even a debate? The guy got what he deserved. Keep your hands to yourself.
She is 100% right to do what she did. If it had been me he wouldn't have just been dragged out and arrested, he'd have found himself missing something that he had been thinking with...lol
Could be a dangerous response as most men are bigger and stronger than most women, so they very well might fight back if she does the chokehold thing or whatever. This guy was smaller and the bartender has skills but most would not.
He absolutely derserved to be chokeheld and arrested, these harassers get away without any consequences WAY TOO OFTEN! I would not have shamed him publicly on the internet though.
And what would´ve happend if a guy would be groped by a woman? Right if he would have defended himself he would be the a*****e too. PPl it´s just time to start with being nice with no gender boundaries. That´s what I have to say, an sexual assault is never right no matter what. Try to think first before your hormones get into overdrive....
It's a terrifying feeling to be grabbed where you don't want to be, or worse. Going for a chokehold seems instinctual (if you know how to do a chokehold, I mean), considering it's so terrifying that something of that measure happens. It's the kind of fear you have to experience to really get. If I'm being honest, I'm a pretty physically weak person. Anytime someone does something even lesser than that, I'm terrified of what can happen next. Her response is pretty reasonable.
If he was touching her without her consent, anyone would retaliate.No one has the right to grope anyone else.
You guys that don't think she should have messed him up so bad-- what do you think you should do if a dude grabs YOUR junk?
once a young disrespectful man gets away with it the first time he keeps doing it til he gets what he really wants ... the woman works there it is her job , he is the public & had no respect for those serving the drinks ... & drunkiness or any other time is not a ticket to act like that , gently playing around with a girlfriend is different & usually consenting cause she will usually know it will be within respect ...... I'm almost 70 now & dress appropriately & I still have to defend myself ... I hate it but it is a reality I have had to be aware of all my life ....
Dumbass b***h boy got what he deserved. How are people so stupid, I just will not understand
F--k that guy. Self entitled a******s like him should be punched and/or choked more regularly. Assault is unforgivable. Defense from assault, on the other hand... You go, girl!
This douchebags physically grabbing her is misdemeanor battery, she had every right to fight back, with limitations though. Once there is no longer a threat then she must stop, although in this case he probably would not have learned his lesson if she did, so a little more of an a*s whoopin' was in order.
If he SLAMMED HER AGAINST THE WALL, that is definitely assault. Sheesh.
Congratulations from a man who thinks men like that should be dipped in s**t. You gave him a preferable alternative. Good for you.
He touched her, she touched him. Where is the issue? Do people REALLY think a slap is better? I guarantee the little f****r doesn't grope again.
She definitely had the right. He touched her, she touched him. End of discussion. Bet the little f****r thinks twice before groping again.
I personally think that it's both right, and slightly wrong. I would have probably slapped him first, walked away than see what happened.
You had EVERY right to defend yourself and were NOT out of line in any way. Kudos to you!
Bravo, he got what he deserved, maybe from now on he will keep his hands to himself... She did exactly right, self defense to a sexual assault
Bravo! Maybe this will teach him to keep his hands to himself... Good job on her part...
She is AMAZING and I have done pretty much the same several times in my life. I was sexually abused as a child, ergo, I am EXTREMELY sensitive about men keeping their hands OFF OF ME! People dont even think about that aspect of it.
Some people not reading that he also slammed her against the wall after she defended herself.
As a grandfather of four girls I say she had the right to kick him in in his tiny little gonads and hopefully ruin his chance to pass on his stupidity to another generation.
Turn the tables and no one would say it was the right thing to do, would they? If people say it's not good when a guy choke holds a woman, then they have no right to praise what this woman did.
If he didn't touch her in the first place he would've gotten a chock hold or been arrested she did the right thing we need more girls like her well done Krystal
Way to go! He cried like a girl,so I'm surprised he actually had the nerve to do that!
did anyone else noticed that the people that do not agree with the way this woman defended herself are men?...lol
The douche doesn't fall far from the bag. Little b***h boy crybaby got what he deserved.
hes lucky to get off so lightly , dont touch what doesnt belong to yah haha
Should've kicked his nuts way up into his ears, teach him to not grope anything but his own anatomy.
As long as we all agree that the same actions would be okay if the genders were switched, then this is fine. If a woman grabs my a*s when I don't want it, I'll put her in a chokehold. If anyone complains, I'll explain that everyone here agrees that's an appropriate response. If that feels wrong to you while this news story feels right, you might have some re-evaluating to do. If you really agree with equality, then we're on the same page.
As someone who has, over many years, grown just sick and tired of being groped, grabbed, and "accidentally" rubbed up against by pervs who think they're just regular guys, I applaud this woman, and wish I had been more aggressive in my "hot babe" days. If more women would fight back, then word would get around, and maybe these guys will just quit it.
Fun fact: As a reporter, you're not supposed to take sides. You're supposed to report unbiased, complete information and let the reader take their own stance. Stella (the writer), congratulations on failing at this miserably. More to the topic at hand, what if a man had his butt grabbed by a woman? Would everyone be cheering and praising him if he grabbed her by the neck and threw her outside, then publically shamed her as she cried on the ground?
Okay, so … IF a woman assgrabbed a man, and he felt sexual harassed, could he also do that to her? 'Cause … Equal rights.
Yes she had the right. I think all women should be requiured to learn martial arts as children.
If women did this more often, maybe not a full on choke hold but follow up on it , getting the guy kicked out, I think it might help stop it from happening so often. No one has the right to touch you like that, it wasn't her arm, it was what we consider a private part, a no go zone.
then it would be ok if a female grabs a man´s butt and she gets hit in the face ?
The problem is that there are lots of women out there who want to have their asses grabbed. They might be prostitutes or other "loose women". It's hard to tell the difference. I think, if a guy grabs your a*s, and you don't want your a*s grabbed, you punch him in the face as hard as you can and kick him in the nuts a couple of times to get your point across. And then leave it at that. Anything after that is "assault". This b***h grabbed him in a chokehold, as she said, and dragged him outside. If a man did that to a woman, regardless of the reason, he would go to jail. When a woman does that, she's a heroine.
I wonder if he had been a rich football player Golfer or other well known person instead of a broke white boy should would have done the same.
I wonder if all on here would think it right if the roles were reversed and he smacked her like she did to him and posted it online
so clubs are usually pretty packed right, inb4 it was the guy next to him and he just got chokeholded out of f*****g nowhere XD but yeah nice job off here to get him but in my opinion a chokehold is a bit excessive if you are not in danger, people actually die in chokeholds...thats f****d... since for a choke she had to turn and walk al the way around him.. she coudve just slapped him or punched his chin wich wouldve gotten plenty of attention of people to hold him down if you really wanted cops.
What he did was wrong. Call the bouncer or police. Does she need to gloat? Social media pillory is as abusive and violent as mob justice.
OK so is she being charged for assaulting him or is it OK because she's a woman if the roles were reversed everyone would be carrying on about how he took it to far I'm not saying she shouldn't defend herself but going straight to a choke hold is overkill if a cop did that to a suspect it would be police brutality and people would be losing their minds
Personally, that's a great way to handle it. Howwwwweeeeeeever, what she did is also considered assault under the law. You have a right to defend yourself up to a certain point.
Just imagine if it was reversed and it was a girl that grabbed a guy's a*s, then he threw her outside in a chokehold, every single person here saying it was justified would suddenly be on the other side of the fence saying it was unwarranted. Double standards yet again lol
A bit too radical I would say... In other circumstances... this gesture would have been approved (if they were @ a party or smth..., I don't know)....Still TOO MUCH.
Once I was waiting in a tram station and this gay dude came standing very close to me. I kept moving andkept following and just before getting in the tram he running and grabbed my butt. Didn't even get in. Obviously I was asking for wearing a purple shirt. Next time any who touches me unwantedly, male or female I'll make sure to beat the s**t out of them!
I am not with him or anything, self-defence is a right thing to do, but if we think of all reasons why would he does that? I'm sure one of the possible reasons is how she is showing her beautiful body with her outfit!! cause and effect in everything our conscious comprehences,.... like "he had grabbed her @ss, he got panished", she pops up her boobs and wear cloths show the shape of her body is a cause to many effects, and many stuff happens cause of that, she might hurt others without she realizes how much, she might even hurts herself without realizing cause of that. my idea has more deep explanations it is still vague, it can even lead to a biiiiiig debate and some deep philosophie, it is just we need to know how much we can hurts others without realizing, and how much can be selfish, and out of controle, One-self is a tough thing to lead perfectly. Thought I like how strong her personality is.
You F@#$%k'n a**l whores make it a big deal because you all think you're goddesses. To guy's it's just a way of playing around, similar to when a girl touches a guy's chest or arms. If she attempted to do this to me she would have her tits kicked in.
You really need to get over yourself. You keep calling females "whores", is this because your mother was/is one herself? LEARN SOME MOTHER F*****G RESPECT YOU PIECE OF S**T! A WOMAN GAVE YOU LIFE AND BROUGHT YOU INTO THIS WORLD! Your attitude is gonna land you where he landed one of these days.
Load More Replies...Oh my God... Am I the only one who thinks she went over board? OK, I hate when guys do this, but it doesn't mean I go full karate on them... Most of the times I just do what they do, the reaction on their faces is priceless. But this time i think she went waaaay over board.
Frankly, I would totally blame the guy for doing that. However, as the girl pic gives a hint of how she dress and I'm certain of any presence of impure intention. So, yes to self-defense by the girl, but not to chokehold. I don't like when some people 'overpunish', that is not just. Assuming there's no personal issue between them, I also think the guys should not act 'harshly' to the girl. I bet they do know each other, at least, have one conflicting issues. As she chokehold, that somewhat trigger man's tendency to overpower, even if a man chokehold another man, it would end up in a boxing match. And finally, yeah, a man shall ignore her instead of slapping or groping even if she dress provocatively. They both shall learn, I'll learn too :)
She is probably dressing how the bar bosses want her to dress, as well as dressing comfortably for work in a hot environment.
Load More Replies...The bottom line of sexual assault: if you can't do it to your momma, then don't do it to a stranger! On the other hand, if you can imagine doing that to your momma, then you got bigger problems than not understanding sexual assault tho'!
Yeah, some things aren't cool even if your momma is consenting!
Load More Replies...Complete b******t. It never happened. The photo proves nothing. Where is the police report? Names? What was he CONVICTED OF? Have you a*****e forgotten the concepts of a legal system? Innocent until proven guilty? This is some b******t story that ANYONE could make up, toss of a picture of any random person, and you morons think its real and "she's" a hero. Stop being media click bait sheep you retards.
It doesn't say he was convicted. We don't know what happened later. Maybe they just kept him in overnight and no charges were pressed.
Load More Replies...I cut...but somebody bit me on the a*s on the dance floor...couldn't determine who it was I should cut.
she sexually assaulted him in a choke hold what he did was sexual harassment big differents
Take it as a compliment. If a man grabs your a*s it's probably because you have a good a*s. If you slap Him and yell at him that's fine! He probably ment no harm to you. But going for something as the throat, he had a right to slam you agenst the wall.
You're a disgrace to your screen name with that kind of attitude.
Load More Replies...Wow if every guy that groped your a*s whilst on a night out got arrested there would be some very full cells lol
As a man I have had women grope my butt a few times, which I chose to simply ignore. It happens a lot more to women and I totally understand she didn't ignore it, but it really seems to me she overreacted. A slap I would understand but a chokehold? Really? I wonder how people would react if a man used a chokehold on a woman who had grabbed his butt. This is just a classic case of reverse sexism; because it was a woman who was violent towards a man, and not the ohter way around, it is seen as justified. But of course I have the "wrong" opinion on this, so you can go ahead and down vote my comment now.
I agree with you to a point. As most men are physically stronger than women, and women in their equal arrogance assume men will "like" it, a simple slap from the man would probably more than suffice. However, if she's persistent, then I'm all for a man's right to defend himself as well. A man should not have his person touched without permission either.
Load More Replies...What she did was right, but it's a little extreme to put a guy in a chokehold for that, just kick him in balls, run away, and call the cops
Not extreme at all Aidan, he touched her, she has the right to do anything to him, including a choke hold!
Load More Replies...We shouldn't be living in a world where we're glad we only got freaking felt up! When I was 14, I was raped! I felt like I was just an object, someone's new toy, like I was a piece of dog s**t. It's a horrific feeling, just groping. How she chooses to show herself should not effect how she is treated and if you're drunk enough to commit sexual harassment, you are too drunk.
Load More Replies...B******T Igor, what he did was sexual assault, he did not ask and then slammed her into a wall so get off your high horse and know that if you touch someone, or some girl, that you too may get choked and sent to jail, its against the law a*****e!
Load More Replies...Not a lotta Muslims in my rural county (a division of s state), but a lot of white Christian men here treat women like meat.
Load More Replies...Well mannered women AND men do NOT go around grabbing people's bodies! This is crude, vulgar behavior!!
Load More Replies...No. This is why they are allowed to do it an constantly get away with it. Because people go 'oh its just a spank'. How many times does he have to slap/grab a girl's a*s until its considered enough? How many girls has he sexually assaulted until this happened? I believe this is more about sending a message anyways. It would be nice for boys to think twice about this.
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