Woman Hears Radio Host Ranting About A New Neighbor, Turns Out It’s About Her
When you decide to move somewhere, there are so many things to consider, like the apartment or house itself, the location, how far you want to be from the center of the city, schools, stores, etc. These are the things you can control and choose, but even if everything else is perfect, the thing that doesn’t depend on you are the neighbors and they really can greatly impact if you’ll like living there.
It’s fun when you can become friends with your neighbors, but even greeting one another when you meet is fine too as long as they don’t blast music in the middle of the night. But some people don’t want to know their neighbors and have any small talk with them, which is not unusual. What is not very nice is going to your own radio show and complaining about a chatty neighbor on air. That is what happened to Sabina, who shared that she found out her neighbor was a radio host when she heard him complain about her.
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A woman went viral with 12.2M views on TikTok for sharing a recording from a radio show where the host is complaining about his new neighbor–her
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Sabina posted a video filming herself with a frustrated face as she was listening to a radio broadcast. She was not very happy about it because she realized that the radio show host was talking about her and not in a very nice way.
That is how Sabina found out that Justin, the host of 101.1 WKQX’s show Brian, Ali and Justin is her neighbor she chatted with. Turns out, Justin was actually annoyed by her and thought she talked too much. He found Sabina irritating and just wanted to live in the apartment building in peace.
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The radio host, who is Sabina’s neighbor, can be heard saying that his new neighbor talks very much and he is not about that life
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The whole situation really blew up as Sabina’s video went viral with 12.2 million views and 2.6 million people pressed ‘like’ on it. Even Justin himself saw the video and posted on his TikTok account announcing that he will be telling the whole story of what happened between him and Sabina and actually talking to her on the radio show.
At the beginning of the podcast, Justin explains that he really doesn’t like small talk and doesn’t want to talk to his neighbors after work. He also adds that Sabina is 23 and attractive and he is 34 and he has a girlfriend so he thinks it wasn’t appropriate for him to get friendly with her.
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After a while, Sabina joins in and says that she was just so excited when she first moved in and was hoping to make friends. So when she saw Justin, Sabina thought he looked friendly, so she approached him. Justin told Sabina right off the bat that he isn’t the one to be chatty with and he won’t be one of her friends who would show her the city and would go out with her. Actually, the words he used were “This isn’t a sitcom, this isn’t Friends.”
The TikToker admitted that the fact Justin wanted nothing to do with her made her want to talk with him even more. She told Justin, “So I just kept bothering you, because I was honestly just bored.”
Justin saw the video and invited Sabina to join his radio show where they could both clear the air
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Justin remembers a situation that really irritated him and made him dislike Sabina even more. He believes that Sabina knocked on his door asking to help with her package just so they could small talk. He thinks that the package wasn’t that heavy and Sabina just created an opportunity for herself to chat with Justin.
The radio host also asked why she did the video. Sabina thought it was good content and getting attention is nice. But she didn’t expect it to blow up so much and she definitely didn’t want people to start attacking him. Justin appreciated that Sabina didn’t mention his name in the video or the name of the radio, but the internet did its thing and the radio host started getting very mean messages from random people.
He also added that Sabina did apologize for making the video and even offered to delete it. But Justin thought that it would be better if she did a second part explaining the situation in more detail.
Sabina also made another video for those who didn’t hear the radio podcast that she didn’t want people going to him and sending hateful messages
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Sabina did upload an update video. She confirmed that what Justin was saying was true and that he didn’t deserve the hate that was going his way. She didn’t take the situation to heart and encouraged others to do the same as “It’s not that deep.”
However, most people under Sabina’s video felt otherwise and still were of the opinion that Justin was a real jerk and being nice to neighbors doesn’t cost anything. A lot of people felt like Justin was blaming Sabina for nothing as he started this whole thing first by talking about her on air.
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People on the internet were divided: those who know Justin say that he did nothing wrong and those who first saw Sabina’s video believe she didn’t need to apologize
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Also, during the podcast, his colleagues Brian and Ali listened to his side of the story too and were siding with him. They talked about how Justin is an overall good person as he is always helping random strangers and can’t go past a homeless person without giving them something.
The radio hosts wanted to hear some opinions from their listeners so they talked with a few people who called to say their verdict and they all agreed with Justin that he didn’t owe Sabina anything.
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On one hand, you should always be nice and polite with your neighbors or anyone, actually. But on the other hand, you are not always feeling up for a chat with a stranger, especially, when you are already home where you want to feel safe and just relax.
So we are very interested to hear what your thoughts are after listening to both sides of the story. Do you agree with Sabina’s followers that Justin was really rude and should also apologize to her, or you think Justin did nothing wrong and if he doesn’t want to talk to someone, he has the right to?
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Share on FacebookSmall talk has nothing to do with talking for a living! I also hate small talk I can barely say good morning to my neighbours! This doesn't mean i don't generally talk! It's this akward conversation that you feel you have to do with people you don't really know that i hate!
I can understand the radio host not being in the mood to talk when doing it all day.
Load More Replies...in my opinion Sabina was totally 100% in the wrong she even admitted that the talk host not wanting to have a conversation with her made her want to bother him more. If someone was constantly bothering me even after i told them i wasnt interested in small talk I too would be pretty annoyed. it was totally okay for him to rant about his new neighbor he didnt say any important details that would lead back to her (say her name, what she looks like, where she lives etc.) so really sabina was trying to look like a victim when in reality she was not. sucks that someone finds you annoying especially when you were 100% trying to be
Also if sabina was a male in the situation constantly trying to strt convo with the neighbor/talk host and constantly bothering the neighbor/talk host. if Sabina was male, Sabina would again, be 100% in the wrong and their actions would be seen as creepy, and kinda predatory
Load More Replies...I don’t understand why people hate this dude. I d hate the girl. Attention seeking and annoying.
...you're upset someone was talking about you on the radio, so you talk about them on tik tok? ...ok
My ex-husband is a morning DJ. I moved out of town after our divorce. Came back in town MONTHS later only to turn on the radio to hear him talking about me. I was like "WTH? Really? Move on, man." I called the hot line, told him it was me and that if I heard of him talking about me on the radio again that I would sue him. He never did it again. LOL
So she is told that the neighbour doesn't do the friendly stuff and would like to be left alone, yet she harrasses him anyway and now he's the a**e? Wow.
She was the one to abuse HIS FAME. She wanted to have everybody know her name, have a face with that story to go with. She could have stayed absolutely anonymous, if only she had wanted.
If you air your dirty laundry you should expect people to notice. I don't get the "don't send him hate don't send me hate" crap. You literally posted that to get noticed, don't complain when you do.
I would kill myself if I got a chatty neighbor out to get to know me. My apartment is my solitary hideaway and I don't want to make smalltalk with randos when I'm getting home from work
Maybe tell your neighbors you aren't chatty instead of expecting them to read your mind?
Load More Replies...Also if sabina was a male in the situation constantly trying to strt convo with the neighbor/talk host and constantly bothering the neighbor/talk host. if Sabina was male, Sabina would again, be 100% in the wrong and their actions would be seen as creepy, and kinda predatory
For real, if it was some dude constantly chatting with a woman neighbor and the guy was like “knowing that she doesn’t want to talk to me makes me want to just keep bothering her harder” then all those tik Tok comments would be all on the guy about being a serial killer or something.
Load More Replies...She is in the wrong. I'm quiet and very shy with strangers, but talk with people I know like I can't shut up! Everyone is different. People should respect that, and don't be an idiot to them just because they aren't like you!
People should know that not all people are like them especially extroverts they need to understand that there are introvert that exist among them in this world.
I'm not an introvert by any means but I still don't want to have to make awkward small talk with my neighbour
Load More Replies...Honestly, the talk show host deserved the blowback. He brought her into his show's content and he's now miffed when she does the same. Maybe he will think twice about using people for content. Maybe this is my eternal hate of radio talk show hosts talking.
He didn't, though. He literally vented about a neighbor, and she got so butthurt about it that *she outed herself*. The only person who 'used people for content' was Sabina.
Load More Replies...Yes he talks for a living…which could explain why he really doesn’t want to to more talking to new, annoying girl in the hall. Then she blows up his life and threatens his livelihood…he was probably right to want to avoid her in the first place.
Small talk=unpaid activity in leisure time while: Being a radio host=earning money for a living
I deal with the public for a living and when I get home all I wanna do is play video games next to my fiancee who is a very soft spoken and quiet dude and enjoy blessed silence. So just bc someone talks/ works with people all day doesn't mean they want to do it after work to. I feel ya my dude.
Edit for clarity - solo video games like Witcher 3 or Skyrim where I play alone not online with others.
Load More Replies...its hard to start a meaningful conversation with a stranger.. small talk is used to bridge that gap to find a point in common so they can stop being a stranger. i do totally understand that after talking for hours on the radio he would be talked out. its a shame social media makes misunderstandings and awkward interactions like this SO BIG. they are just different personalities and now that they know that, lets get out of their way so they can ignore each other in peace
Who is the a-hole? The ones who hated on him and/or her. Seriously, he hates his neighbor; she's offended and goes all TikTok; and suddenly it's a "thing"? Yeah, he was a bit of a jerk. So was she. Call it even, the end.
Nice that the two of them switched from negative talk to having an actual conversation where they acknowledged the other person's feelings and just chose to move forward. Pretty simple really- nobody is obligated to be besties with their neighbors, it's great when people can be friendly with acquaintances but if one party isn't into it then just leave it be and move on with your life.
Talking face to face and talking, basically, to yourself (you can't see the listeners) are two different things. I want to know if they talk more now though, talk about an ice breaker!🤣
she thought that justin looked nice? In that one picture he looked like a pretenious hipster to me...
Is that the word to describe his look? Whatever he's doing, it's unsettling to me. Probably because it's so foreign of a style...
Load More Replies...Both of you, get over yourselves and move on. All you idiots send hate/love responses, STOP and get on with your life! Justin, you're a TALK show host, you of all people, should know how to handle her attempts to converse in a polite effective manner. Sabina, once he advised you he's not into chatting, etc. you should have backed off and left him alone! I can relate to Justin not wanting a chatty neighbor after spending all day talking to people on the job. Once the workday is over the last thing you want to do is the very thing your job requires.
Their interactions sound more like a sitcom. He was tired and not in the mood for small talk and said so. She was happy to meet a neighbor which meant that she had someone she could talk to. I imagined grumpy young man meeting a lonely happy puppy who was saying yeah yeah wow i met someone its safe to chat about nothing or something.
Well i can be the talkative neighbor or the one who is tired coming home from work and not up to chit chat. Basically they know each other better now and should be friends for a long time. Sometimes you find friends because you have nothing in common just boundaries even one sided.
I just feel that and he said it up front about this ain't friends sitcom I get it he didn't want to be friends but she just moved there she young he could have been nicer about it and hey its Cool welcome to the building but I really don't want to be friends or have small talk but no he was a d**k about from the get go and I honestly think she did what she did to pass him off because he was a d**k so I really thing there both at fault and neither one of them even though they did not use names should have brought it up in any type of media
“He also adds that Sabina is 23 and attractive and he is 34 and he has a girlfriend so he thinks it wasn’t appropriate for him to get friendly with her.”——— Maybe he was just trying to avoid any misunderstanding with his girlfriend; sharing his aggravation on air may well have been his way of indicating to his (possibly jealous/possessive) girlfriend that there is no way he could be into some silly stalker-y *attractive 23-year-old* [insert nervous giggle HERE].———Sabina, in turn, may well have been initially attracted to Mr. Radio (How was Sabina supposed to know he had a girlfriend? It sure doesn’t sound like he mentioned it to Sabina.), and merely acted like the proverbial scorned woman, as manifested in the digital age.———Or, this could just be a case of two people dumb enough to drown in a glass of water. The girlfriend should lose this guy and find someone with more than just opposable thumbs and a smooth voice. Obvi Sabina and Mr. Radio are made for each other.
I think that both parties were a bit in the wrong. I talk often non-stop to neighbors because I rarely anyone and I honestly expect them to politely exit the conversation whenever they wish. I also live in a retirement community, so many of us are lonely and chatty. Our poor mailman looks like he's about to chew his paw off to escape every time someone approaches him. He keeps earbuds in and wears an enormous hat so that he can do his job without being bothered. It's important to take polite hints when approaching others, but people often forget. We also have people here who REALLY don't want to talk to anyone else. They go for walks and such, but it's not to socialize. Sometimes, they can be very rude in order to be left alone. If I pass someone in my neighborhood, I smile and wave. If they call me over, I go and chat. If they don't want to talk to me, they don't have to. But it does hurt my feelings a bit when I smile and wave as we pass one another and they look at me like I just turned into slime mold.
She's wrong. If a neighbour says they don't want to be chatty DON'T force it. Just a smile and a brief hello in passing.
The irony that he gets paid to talk and people not understanding that he doesn't want to do it for free or just cause he talked all damn day. I work with kids. When I worked telephone customer service the last thing I wanted to do was talk to people after talking to people all day.
People think he should literally be forced to come home from work and talk to someone when he doesn't feel like it. What does that say about these people?
this is why I am so glad I don't live in any city where people are hateful and cruel towards each other. They ignore their neighbor's and despise everyone around them believing themselves to be the "perfect" individuals in the world and seeing everyone else as worthless trash. City people suck as humans
she's so sute, wish i had a neighbor so cute, talk radio jocks are so over- rated,
He looks like he’s very arrogant and pompous. His behavior supports that assumption
So what does bothering a stranger who's asked you not to bother them make you?
Load More Replies...As someone who talks a great deal for a living, I am talked out by the end of the day. Completely understand.
As a mental health therapist, I also hate small talk. All I do is talk for my career. So I really enjoy the silence. I rarely greet strangers unless they greet me first. However I would not be a jerk if someone talks to me. I just don't want it to be a constant thing.
I am great at talking to strangers when I have info to impart, but I cannot do small talk. There is no point, no goal. I wrack my brains trying to come up with something bland and neutral and I just...can't. So in the end I'm much better talking with total strangers then with casual acquaintances. 😆
It's not strange that a person who talks to people for a living doesn't like small talk. It's actually quite understandable - having spent your working day talking to people, you get tires of it and want some peace and quiet.
She could have just let it go. Radio show hosts yap so much and very few people actually listen to the radio nowadays. I highly doubt anyone knew who he was talking about.
Don't know how she could perceive him as friendly...Justin looks like a complete douche without saying a word.
Seems like a normal dude to me. She's the one who looks insufferable, to me. Even more so now that I know that telling her you don't want to chat makes her want to bother you even more, like she's a literal spoiled child.
Load More Replies...He told her: "Justin told Sabina right off the bat that he isn’t the one to be chatty with and he won’t be one of her friends who would show her the city and would go out with her. "
Load More Replies...If he didn't want this to be an issue he shouldn't have made a public radio broadcast about it and then got mad when she made a tik tok as a rebuttal.
Blah blah blah something about fulworks, blah blah blah I basically earned $100 a week, blah blah something completely unrelated to the post to promote some buisness. Oh and there’s also a link: www.fakelinktofulworks.com. There, perfect
They both say that that he told her he didn't want to talk, that he wasn't chatty, but every comment you make is about how she "couldn't have known." He made it clear and she admitted she didn't want to listen or respect him, so she did it on purpose. She's not right just because she's a woman, and your sexist comments that you doubt he told her that he doesn't want to chat just show that you must be as disrespectful as her. She needs to learn that she doesn't always get what she wants.
Load More Replies...Because everyone here is a native English speaker who had the opportunity, means, talent and inclination to pay attention to this sort of stuff in school? Wind your neck in missus, this is a multi-national, multi-class, multi-educational standard platform. People's grammar or spelling is not your or anyone's concern.
Load More Replies...Small talk has nothing to do with talking for a living! I also hate small talk I can barely say good morning to my neighbours! This doesn't mean i don't generally talk! It's this akward conversation that you feel you have to do with people you don't really know that i hate!
I can understand the radio host not being in the mood to talk when doing it all day.
Load More Replies...in my opinion Sabina was totally 100% in the wrong she even admitted that the talk host not wanting to have a conversation with her made her want to bother him more. If someone was constantly bothering me even after i told them i wasnt interested in small talk I too would be pretty annoyed. it was totally okay for him to rant about his new neighbor he didnt say any important details that would lead back to her (say her name, what she looks like, where she lives etc.) so really sabina was trying to look like a victim when in reality she was not. sucks that someone finds you annoying especially when you were 100% trying to be
Also if sabina was a male in the situation constantly trying to strt convo with the neighbor/talk host and constantly bothering the neighbor/talk host. if Sabina was male, Sabina would again, be 100% in the wrong and their actions would be seen as creepy, and kinda predatory
Load More Replies...I don’t understand why people hate this dude. I d hate the girl. Attention seeking and annoying.
...you're upset someone was talking about you on the radio, so you talk about them on tik tok? ...ok
My ex-husband is a morning DJ. I moved out of town after our divorce. Came back in town MONTHS later only to turn on the radio to hear him talking about me. I was like "WTH? Really? Move on, man." I called the hot line, told him it was me and that if I heard of him talking about me on the radio again that I would sue him. He never did it again. LOL
So she is told that the neighbour doesn't do the friendly stuff and would like to be left alone, yet she harrasses him anyway and now he's the a**e? Wow.
She was the one to abuse HIS FAME. She wanted to have everybody know her name, have a face with that story to go with. She could have stayed absolutely anonymous, if only she had wanted.
If you air your dirty laundry you should expect people to notice. I don't get the "don't send him hate don't send me hate" crap. You literally posted that to get noticed, don't complain when you do.
I would kill myself if I got a chatty neighbor out to get to know me. My apartment is my solitary hideaway and I don't want to make smalltalk with randos when I'm getting home from work
Maybe tell your neighbors you aren't chatty instead of expecting them to read your mind?
Load More Replies...Also if sabina was a male in the situation constantly trying to strt convo with the neighbor/talk host and constantly bothering the neighbor/talk host. if Sabina was male, Sabina would again, be 100% in the wrong and their actions would be seen as creepy, and kinda predatory
For real, if it was some dude constantly chatting with a woman neighbor and the guy was like “knowing that she doesn’t want to talk to me makes me want to just keep bothering her harder” then all those tik Tok comments would be all on the guy about being a serial killer or something.
Load More Replies...She is in the wrong. I'm quiet and very shy with strangers, but talk with people I know like I can't shut up! Everyone is different. People should respect that, and don't be an idiot to them just because they aren't like you!
People should know that not all people are like them especially extroverts they need to understand that there are introvert that exist among them in this world.
I'm not an introvert by any means but I still don't want to have to make awkward small talk with my neighbour
Load More Replies...Honestly, the talk show host deserved the blowback. He brought her into his show's content and he's now miffed when she does the same. Maybe he will think twice about using people for content. Maybe this is my eternal hate of radio talk show hosts talking.
He didn't, though. He literally vented about a neighbor, and she got so butthurt about it that *she outed herself*. The only person who 'used people for content' was Sabina.
Load More Replies...Yes he talks for a living…which could explain why he really doesn’t want to to more talking to new, annoying girl in the hall. Then she blows up his life and threatens his livelihood…he was probably right to want to avoid her in the first place.
Small talk=unpaid activity in leisure time while: Being a radio host=earning money for a living
I deal with the public for a living and when I get home all I wanna do is play video games next to my fiancee who is a very soft spoken and quiet dude and enjoy blessed silence. So just bc someone talks/ works with people all day doesn't mean they want to do it after work to. I feel ya my dude.
Edit for clarity - solo video games like Witcher 3 or Skyrim where I play alone not online with others.
Load More Replies...its hard to start a meaningful conversation with a stranger.. small talk is used to bridge that gap to find a point in common so they can stop being a stranger. i do totally understand that after talking for hours on the radio he would be talked out. its a shame social media makes misunderstandings and awkward interactions like this SO BIG. they are just different personalities and now that they know that, lets get out of their way so they can ignore each other in peace
Who is the a-hole? The ones who hated on him and/or her. Seriously, he hates his neighbor; she's offended and goes all TikTok; and suddenly it's a "thing"? Yeah, he was a bit of a jerk. So was she. Call it even, the end.
Nice that the two of them switched from negative talk to having an actual conversation where they acknowledged the other person's feelings and just chose to move forward. Pretty simple really- nobody is obligated to be besties with their neighbors, it's great when people can be friendly with acquaintances but if one party isn't into it then just leave it be and move on with your life.
Talking face to face and talking, basically, to yourself (you can't see the listeners) are two different things. I want to know if they talk more now though, talk about an ice breaker!🤣
she thought that justin looked nice? In that one picture he looked like a pretenious hipster to me...
Is that the word to describe his look? Whatever he's doing, it's unsettling to me. Probably because it's so foreign of a style...
Load More Replies...Both of you, get over yourselves and move on. All you idiots send hate/love responses, STOP and get on with your life! Justin, you're a TALK show host, you of all people, should know how to handle her attempts to converse in a polite effective manner. Sabina, once he advised you he's not into chatting, etc. you should have backed off and left him alone! I can relate to Justin not wanting a chatty neighbor after spending all day talking to people on the job. Once the workday is over the last thing you want to do is the very thing your job requires.
Their interactions sound more like a sitcom. He was tired and not in the mood for small talk and said so. She was happy to meet a neighbor which meant that she had someone she could talk to. I imagined grumpy young man meeting a lonely happy puppy who was saying yeah yeah wow i met someone its safe to chat about nothing or something.
Well i can be the talkative neighbor or the one who is tired coming home from work and not up to chit chat. Basically they know each other better now and should be friends for a long time. Sometimes you find friends because you have nothing in common just boundaries even one sided.
I just feel that and he said it up front about this ain't friends sitcom I get it he didn't want to be friends but she just moved there she young he could have been nicer about it and hey its Cool welcome to the building but I really don't want to be friends or have small talk but no he was a d**k about from the get go and I honestly think she did what she did to pass him off because he was a d**k so I really thing there both at fault and neither one of them even though they did not use names should have brought it up in any type of media
“He also adds that Sabina is 23 and attractive and he is 34 and he has a girlfriend so he thinks it wasn’t appropriate for him to get friendly with her.”——— Maybe he was just trying to avoid any misunderstanding with his girlfriend; sharing his aggravation on air may well have been his way of indicating to his (possibly jealous/possessive) girlfriend that there is no way he could be into some silly stalker-y *attractive 23-year-old* [insert nervous giggle HERE].———Sabina, in turn, may well have been initially attracted to Mr. Radio (How was Sabina supposed to know he had a girlfriend? It sure doesn’t sound like he mentioned it to Sabina.), and merely acted like the proverbial scorned woman, as manifested in the digital age.———Or, this could just be a case of two people dumb enough to drown in a glass of water. The girlfriend should lose this guy and find someone with more than just opposable thumbs and a smooth voice. Obvi Sabina and Mr. Radio are made for each other.
I think that both parties were a bit in the wrong. I talk often non-stop to neighbors because I rarely anyone and I honestly expect them to politely exit the conversation whenever they wish. I also live in a retirement community, so many of us are lonely and chatty. Our poor mailman looks like he's about to chew his paw off to escape every time someone approaches him. He keeps earbuds in and wears an enormous hat so that he can do his job without being bothered. It's important to take polite hints when approaching others, but people often forget. We also have people here who REALLY don't want to talk to anyone else. They go for walks and such, but it's not to socialize. Sometimes, they can be very rude in order to be left alone. If I pass someone in my neighborhood, I smile and wave. If they call me over, I go and chat. If they don't want to talk to me, they don't have to. But it does hurt my feelings a bit when I smile and wave as we pass one another and they look at me like I just turned into slime mold.
She's wrong. If a neighbour says they don't want to be chatty DON'T force it. Just a smile and a brief hello in passing.
The irony that he gets paid to talk and people not understanding that he doesn't want to do it for free or just cause he talked all damn day. I work with kids. When I worked telephone customer service the last thing I wanted to do was talk to people after talking to people all day.
People think he should literally be forced to come home from work and talk to someone when he doesn't feel like it. What does that say about these people?
this is why I am so glad I don't live in any city where people are hateful and cruel towards each other. They ignore their neighbor's and despise everyone around them believing themselves to be the "perfect" individuals in the world and seeing everyone else as worthless trash. City people suck as humans
she's so sute, wish i had a neighbor so cute, talk radio jocks are so over- rated,
He looks like he’s very arrogant and pompous. His behavior supports that assumption
So what does bothering a stranger who's asked you not to bother them make you?
Load More Replies...As someone who talks a great deal for a living, I am talked out by the end of the day. Completely understand.
As a mental health therapist, I also hate small talk. All I do is talk for my career. So I really enjoy the silence. I rarely greet strangers unless they greet me first. However I would not be a jerk if someone talks to me. I just don't want it to be a constant thing.
I am great at talking to strangers when I have info to impart, but I cannot do small talk. There is no point, no goal. I wrack my brains trying to come up with something bland and neutral and I just...can't. So in the end I'm much better talking with total strangers then with casual acquaintances. 😆
It's not strange that a person who talks to people for a living doesn't like small talk. It's actually quite understandable - having spent your working day talking to people, you get tires of it and want some peace and quiet.
She could have just let it go. Radio show hosts yap so much and very few people actually listen to the radio nowadays. I highly doubt anyone knew who he was talking about.
Don't know how she could perceive him as friendly...Justin looks like a complete douche without saying a word.
Seems like a normal dude to me. She's the one who looks insufferable, to me. Even more so now that I know that telling her you don't want to chat makes her want to bother you even more, like she's a literal spoiled child.
Load More Replies...He told her: "Justin told Sabina right off the bat that he isn’t the one to be chatty with and he won’t be one of her friends who would show her the city and would go out with her. "
Load More Replies...If he didn't want this to be an issue he shouldn't have made a public radio broadcast about it and then got mad when she made a tik tok as a rebuttal.
Blah blah blah something about fulworks, blah blah blah I basically earned $100 a week, blah blah something completely unrelated to the post to promote some buisness. Oh and there’s also a link: www.fakelinktofulworks.com. There, perfect
They both say that that he told her he didn't want to talk, that he wasn't chatty, but every comment you make is about how she "couldn't have known." He made it clear and she admitted she didn't want to listen or respect him, so she did it on purpose. She's not right just because she's a woman, and your sexist comments that you doubt he told her that he doesn't want to chat just show that you must be as disrespectful as her. She needs to learn that she doesn't always get what she wants.
Load More Replies...Because everyone here is a native English speaker who had the opportunity, means, talent and inclination to pay attention to this sort of stuff in school? Wind your neck in missus, this is a multi-national, multi-class, multi-educational standard platform. People's grammar or spelling is not your or anyone's concern.
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