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Wife Meets Her Free Pass Celebrity, Pouts Through Trip As Hubs Asks Her To Respect the Man’s Privacy
John Krasinski in a light gray suit, sitting and smiling during a late-night talk show interview.

Wife Meets Her Free Pass Celebrity, Pouts Through Trip As Hubs Asks Her To Respect the Man’s Privacy

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Couples often joke about having a “celebrity free pass,” which is that one famous person your partner totally understands you’d risk it all for, if the universe somehow aligned. It’s harmless, until you’re suddenly sitting in a restaurant watching your wife act like a lovestruck teenager who just spotted John Krasinski in the wild.

Yes, we’re referring to the favorite prankster from The Office and husband to real-life goddess Emily Blunt. Today’s Original Poster (OP) ran into him outside a restroom and even heard him politely turn down a fan photo request. So when he stopped his wife from asking for a photo, he didn’t expect her to be extremely furious over it.

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    While out with his wife, the author unexpectedly ran into actor John Krasinski and overheard him politely declining fan photos to spend time with his wife

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    When he told his wife, who jokingly often called Krasinski her “free pass”, she became overly excited and insisted on getting a picture despite his warning

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    Woman tries to take a pic with John Krasinski, but her husband stops her from getting a photo with the actor.

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    He stopped her, explaining that John Krasinski didn’t want to be disturbed, which led her to become upset and accuse him of ruining her chance

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    Alt text: Wife takes free pass with John Krasinski but mad husband forbids photo, causing awkward and tense moment between them

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    After suggesting they could wait for their exit and eventually missing it, she sulked in anger, leaving him feeling awkward but convinced he did the right thing

    The OP noted that his wife had always stated that her “free pass” was John Krasinski, but he had always thought about it as a joke between them during the 5 years of their marriage. While out of town with her one day, he then happened to bump into John Krasinski at a restaurant.

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    After making sure it was really the star from The Office and giving a slight nod, he watched a woman go up to him and ask for a picture, to which he politely told her that he was “100% with his wife today” and wouldn’t be taking any photos. Still, out of excitement, the OP told his wife who, despite being hungover, instantly sobered up with the news.

    She spotted John Krasinski and practically levitated from her chair, phone in hand, ready to go and ask for a picture, but that was where the OP stopped her. He explained what he’d heard the actor tell the other woman, but his wife wasn’t having it and accused him of “ruining it” for her. She also insisted the other fan “wasn’t as big a fan” as she was.

    The OP tried to calm her down and suggested waiting until the couple left to maybe catch them outside politely, but before they could even order food, John Krasinski and Emily Blunt were gone. His wife bolted out of the restaurant to chase after him, but when she didn’t find him, she returned sulking and furious, which left the rest of their outing awkward.

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    Celebrity Worship is a real thing, and Verywell Mind explains that it can range from casual admiration to extreme obsession, and is categorized by three levels: the entertainment-social level, which is the mildest, the intense-personal level, which reflects a deeper emotional involvement, and the borderline-pathological level, which can involve obsessive behaviors.

    Building on this, the concept of a “celebrity free pass” might reflect an intense-personal level of celebrity worship. Evie Magazine explains this as an agreement between romantic partners that allows each person to imagine or hypothetically be intimate with a chosen celebrity without it being considered cheating.

    Regardless, Faster Capital emphasizes that proper etiquette is necessary when dealing with a celebrity in public. They emphasize that fans should balance admiration with respect for personal boundaries, as treating celebrities like regular people while respecting their time and privacy ensures a more courteous and enjoyable encounter.

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    They highlight asking permission before taking photos or requesting autographs, respecting them if they seem busy or uninterested, and observing body language like crossed arms or avoiding eye contact, which can help determine whether it’s appropriate to approach. Physical contact should only occur with consent, and a polite “thank you” leaves a positive impression.

    Netizens agreed the OP did nothing wrong and that his wife had crossed the line from admiration into disrespect. They praised him for protecting both her dignity and John Krasinski’s privacy, also pointing out that interrupting a celebrity’s personal time would’ve been rude and embarrassing.

    Who do you side with here? The OP trying to be rational or the wife just trying to live her dream? We would love to know your thoughts!

    Netizens expressed understanding about not meeting a favorite celebrity, but insisted that the author did nothing wrong and that his wife was simply being immature about it

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    Ifeoluwa Adesina

    Ifeoluwa Adesina

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    I'm a writer and bookworm (eyes glued to an e-book, more accurately) who happens to have a suspiciously deep knowledge about pop culture. When I'm not writing, I can most likely be found taking yet another online quiz to find out which soda matches my personality.

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    Ifeoluwa Adesina

    Ifeoluwa Adesina

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    I'm a writer and bookworm (eyes glued to an e-book, more accurately) who happens to have a suspiciously deep knowledge about pop culture. When I'm not writing, I can most likely be found taking yet another online quiz to find out which soda matches my personality.

    What do you think ?
    TCW Sam Vimes
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll never understand how ppl have a crush on celebs. Like, what you see is never the real person. Also, why would any sane person accept ther SO to be infatuated with someone else?

    Romy Rösli
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. I mean I find Daniel Craig super hot but I don’t have a crush on him since I don’t know him as a person.

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    Rimjabbathehutt
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I fu.cked my celebrity crush. Got arrested after. Apparently digging up Betty White's grave was frowned upon.

    Ashtophet
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up in an NYC adjacent town and was taught to just disregard celebrities. There are a few I would have to say “love your work”…

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    TCW Sam Vimes
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll never understand how ppl have a crush on celebs. Like, what you see is never the real person. Also, why would any sane person accept ther SO to be infatuated with someone else?

    Romy Rösli
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. I mean I find Daniel Craig super hot but I don’t have a crush on him since I don’t know him as a person.

    Load More Replies...
    Rimjabbathehutt
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I fu.cked my celebrity crush. Got arrested after. Apparently digging up Betty White's grave was frowned upon.

    Ashtophet
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up in an NYC adjacent town and was taught to just disregard celebrities. There are a few I would have to say “love your work”…

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