If You’re Dreaming Of Traveling Solo, These 22 Tips By This Experienced Traveler May Help You
InterviewWith the world slowly but surely fighting back against the Covid-19 pandemic, travel is becoming an ever more alluring possibility to many of us once again. Of course, our health is paramount and you shouldn’t be taking too many risks, but with vaccination campaigns continuing, it’s becoming far safer to travel than before. Though, certain other safety issues are still lingering in the shadows! Especially if you’re traveling alone and staying at hotels.
In a series of viral TikTok videos, former scientist, lifestyle expert, and content creator Cathy Pedrayes gave her followers a whole host of tips to keep in mind when traveling and they’re spot-on if you’ve got a trip coming up.
When you’re done upvoting the best traveling safety tips, check out our earlier article about Cathy, who has over 1.7 million followers on TikTok, right over here. What did you think of her tips? Do you have any of your own to share? Let us know in the comment section, dear Pandas!
Bored Panda went into detail about safety and security while traveling with Cathy herself. According to the content creator, being aware of our surroundings is vital. "It's something we're probably most aware of when walking through a parking lot late at night or getting cash from the bank, but we should practice awareness regularly," she said, noting that we should all practice people watching.
"Don't hesitate to look around you. Who's behind you while you're walking? Next to you? Is there a hazard up ahead like a pothole? Also, awareness goes beyond our physical experiences. Many of us are interacting in our digital worlds more than ever and it's important we're careful with how trusting we are online and teach our children good digital habits." You'll find our full interview with Cathy below.
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Not to mention that if you don't speak the language, you can just hand the card to the cabbie and you'll get back to your hotel.
I have a funny story on this one. Like 20 years ago a riend of mine travelled with his dad to China for holidays (no google maps tech back then). They were staying in a 3 stars hotel. Before leaving to walk around, they decided to write on a paper what was written in chinese on the hotel sign as they were told taxi drivers may not understand english or english writing. When they were done for the day, they stopped many taxis, showed the sign and all drivers made a "no" gesture. They had to walk all the way back. When they went to reception nd showed the sign to the receptionist, she bursted into laughs. They copied the part that said "free parking" 🤣🤣🤣
Physically orient yourself when you arrive. 1) Pick a widely known location (a transit stop or major landmark that is known throughout the area - perhaps even throughout the region) that is near your lodging. 2) Find a middle object that can be seen from the landmark and also that is close by your lodging - like a tall building or other easily visible object. 3) All you memorize is how to get from the middle object to your lodging, which is close by (should not be more than a few blocks away). Here's an example: I landed in a foreign country. Noticed that the transit stop was near a major university - that became my first landmark - everyone knows the university by name. Then I went to my lodgings - on the way I noted a tall building that could be seen from the university and was pretty close to my lodgings. I memorized the few blocks from that tall building to my lodgings. Presto - now you can get to your lodgings from anywhere in the country or region confidently.
I do this in the food court at the mall, never mind travelling. Keep my bag strap around my arm.
And NEVER travel in heels. You need to be able to move if you need to - heels are uncomfortable, your feet swell on airplanes, and you are always at risk of falling.
Mos times I never had to worry when I was alone inside the hotel, they have security and there's always kind guests during breakfast that will try to make conversation. I'd say this is more useful for the streets or tourist spots
If you travel alone and you check in the hotel, why would you be interested in that they "don't know" you are? It's for your insta pics?
it's so random people hanging around the hotel lobby or in front of the hotel don't see you are alone and then follow you to rob/rape you.
Load More Replies......don't sit at the hotel bar alone. Order two glasses of wine (or other drinks) and take them back to your room. "Two" implies there might be someone else traveling with you where "one" is painfully obvious.
Cathy shared that from her chats with travel agents and meeting planners (in this case, Tracy Weldon with Goldman, Michelle Donson, and Laura Krueger with Kleinfeld Hotel Blocks who book weddings and do corporate events) there appears to be some good news: "It seems travel is back, and people are anxious to get out."
Before traveling, you ought to take into account all of the pandemic travel and healthy advice. However, Cathy shared with Bored Panda a whole host of additional tips and tricks to make your life easier and safer whether you're traveling for business or for pleasure. One of Cathy's pieces of advice (and we can't stress enough how important this is!) is looking up known scams so that you're prepared for potential problems. Forewarned is forearmed after all.
Cathy also suggests looking up travel advisories ahead of time, reading hotel reviews, and bringing your own portable lock because some hotel doors might not be secure, depending on the country you're traveling to.
that's my favorite. It can be very difficult to get thru, and makes a lot of noise in the effort
Load More Replies...a banana skin works just as well, with less cleaning up after someone has slipped ;-)
Sadly, common sense just isn't very common anymore
Load More Replies...mehh put a bill in another place than a purse. If the purse is gone so is your pocket mirror/tampon bag/whatever. Keep one one your body.
Down a sock or in a shoe is a favourite of mine. Works for both money and feet.
Load More Replies...The best thing is to not stand out when visiting touristy areas. Don’t go out dressed all fancy, check maps before you go, don’t ever look lost. If you need to double check information, don’t pull out a travel book, take photos of pages of where you plan to go. It helps to not look like a tourist, especially one who is lost.
Strange advice from my step dad but he always said a woman should keep her valuables in her bra. I've yet to lose/have anything stolen.
And then they say: you only booked for 1 person, the other person has to register too.
I've never had them question the second key -- I just say "My wife's flying in later tonight" (which is usually the truth)
Load More Replies...it's more to give the illusion you are not alone. a second key means you might be with someone.
Load More Replies...They will charge extra for extra keys. And losing that key cost a fortune. Brilliant
I always ask for two keys, and have never been charged extra. And I've travelled extensively.
Load More Replies...It’s impressive how different things are in two highly developed parts of the world: I never ever felt unsecure when traveling alone in Europe, but you are charged by a hotel per person, not by room, so the question for another key would be slightly pricey.
I travel extensively, ALWAYS ask for a second key (get one too close to your cell phone and it can malfunction), have NEVER been asked for the name of the second guest, NEVER been charged.
Most hotels I've stayed at recently have just said, "Here are your keys, Ma'am," and automatically give me two.
According to the safety and security expert, we should also "plan transportation ahead of time (some countries have limited taxis), have copies of your passport and leave a copy with someone back home should yours get lost, [and] communicate your travel itinerary with someone back home."
What's more, Cathy warned people to "dress the part." For example, if you know that you'll be traveling to a high-theft area, you shouldn't be walking around with expensive jewelry on or swinging designer handbags. "Minimize how often you take our expensive electronics like your camera or smartphone. One way I do that is by mapping out locations in advance and downloading the map to my phone as well as getting a rubber watch, so I don't have to take out my phone as often. You can also change the straps on your cameras to something that doesn't show off the brand name," she told Bored Panda.
I always wondered ... I know there are a lot of nasty people out there, but does your room really need to be cleaned every day?
Load More Replies...This tip doesn't work, I've stayed at numerous hotels and the cleaning workers will always try to clean your room if they were not able to do it for some time. They will check if you're not in the room and they will clean it, even if the do not disturb sign is on the door.
I guess "do not disturb" only applies to there being someone in there to disturb, so fair enough. I imagine there are people who forget to remove the sign when they go out for the day too, then complain when their room isn't made up. This is still good advice for when you're in the room though.
Load More Replies...Actually, I used to put a chair right against the door, with the back of it beneath the handle. If anyone tries to enter it'll make noise and the chair will make them stop for a few seconds since it's blocking the door
Sensible. Are you going to add 'bells' to your hotel security next time you go away? The chair would stop the door from opening and the bells would have a pleasant calming effect as you frantically fumbled for your phone and pepper spray. Handy, no?
Load More Replies...Most hotels I've been to in recent years - which isn't many - have a latch on the door (the modern version of the door chain) so you can prevent anyone entering.
If you're worried about this, you can place a door wedge/stop on the inside of the door to stop someone opening it. I've always just used the deadlock though, even in questionable hotels the deadlocks seem to work just fine
And don't wear ugg boots going out - they are harder to run in that heels!!
And don't wear your pearls outside of your clothing. Tuck them in. I suspect that OP is getting more tips than she's giving us! lol
Load More Replies...There is so much wrong with these photographs, First she looks like a tourist second she looks lost or like she’s waiting for somebody third she standing by her self with a purse out by a doorway. She has made herself look like bait she should be wearing her purse inside of her jacket she should be standing next to the counter not the doorway
Something else that you should avoid doing is traveling with all the contents of your wallet. You really shouldn't be putting all of your eggs in one basket in case it goes the way of the dodo. "Only bring what's necessary and split up your cash so if your wallet is pickpocketed or lost, you don't lose everything. Also keep inventory of what's in your wallet so if anything gets lost, you know who to call to stop credit cards, etc."
Finally, Cathy advised us to be prepared with a handful of go-to lies in case you come across some nosey people who ask personal questions, like where you're staying, if it's your first time visiting, if you're traveling alone, and others. "These questions may seem innocent but sometimes they're not, so be prepared with go-to answers. The large hotel chain with hundreds of locations is a response if someone asks where you're staying and don't admit to traveling alone. Of course, you can always say no, but a lie is a good alternative when you're not sure if it's just friendly banter."
Someone is taking her pics. And she travels alone. So... Photographer probably wasn't in her bubble.
Load More Replies...In any half-decent hotel this will not work, as you will unlock the electricity with your key.
Load More Replies...This is just being polite. It's not even advice and it works whether or not travelling alone.
Make sure your firewall is on and stick to using https for everything, plus don't access your online banking and you will be fine. Also, many modern routers have a VPN function, so you can VPN into your home router and then go back out onto the internet - free and secure - you do need either a static IP or a dynamic DNS service though.
Also if you’re worried about your laptop information getting stolen for some reason say you work for the government you’re definitely gonna want to put in passwords to bypass people being able to access your information on your computer via a USB card. Check YouTube for those videos
Don't be looking at a map in public in certain parts of a city. I used to go to the toilet or a cafe to do that. I was once doing that on a street corner but constantly glancing up and looking around me and saw a thug making a beeline straight for me with an aggressive and determined look on his face so I got away very quickly. So now I know why they would suddenly appear once I got a map out.
Earlier, my colleague had a chat with Cathy about other safety habits and her as a content creator. She shared how she takes the topic of safety very seriously and, for example, took a 4-month-long first aid course when she realized that she didn’t know how to react in most emergency situations. That’s how dedicated Cathy is.
“I was taught about safety from an early age, probably not much different from what most parents teach their kids but I always had an interest in being prepared,” the video creator shared with Bored Panda during an earlier interview.
What's the point of taking it, then hiding it? Just leave it at home.
.... when you are on the bus or train. When in transit or walking. I twist the jewel setting around to my palm. Then, back when I get to my family's house.
Load More Replies...Generally, dress to blend in with the locals. Which means no sports team T-shirts, etc., when traveling abroad. And in European cities, men almost NEVER wear shorts. It sets you off as a tourist from dozens of meters away.
Honestly I just leave any jewelry in my wallet, that way it's always with me when I wear it or when I don't
A lock will work, unless it's a hotel employee with a key. Like a maintenance guy who wants to get in when he shouldn't be there.
Load More Replies...This is a much better suggestion than either a ceramic mug or jingle bells.
When using a zipped bag, the foot/runner of the zip should be facing towards your body when the bag is closed (which is exactly what the woman in this picture is NOT doing). This means any potential purse/wallet snatcher would have come into your body space to get the bag open rather than be able to dip into it from behind. They'll probably look for a easier mark.
“I thought I was being a good citizen, learning good habits, but my awareness changed when I started working as a host on national television. Suddenly I was exposed to risks, threats, and some extreme stalking cases, which opened my eyes to a new world of safety and security,” she opened up about just how necessary it was to educate the public about safety and security.
“When TikTok saw how overly prepared I was, they dubbed me the Mom Friend of the Group, and that helped me realize I had a lot to share,” Cathy said that she took the nickname and embraced it fully, even calling her website by that name. In her videos, she touches upon all aspects of security, ranging from physical all the way to how to stay safe online in the digital age.
I also recently spoke about hotel security with Allie Lovegood, a TikToker who aims to protect women and victims of abuse. One of the things that Allie told me is that we should always be aware of our surroundings. “Paying attention to other people’s behavior and mannerisms has allowed me to stay safe and leave quickly if I feel something is off.”
Most of the ones I've seen have a little metal flap on the inside that you swivel to look through them.
Load More Replies...A better suggestion is to make sure the peephole has been installed the right way 'round. This is more of a problem with low-cost motels, though.
Take a pad of small sticky notes. You can also put one one on the sensor of an automatic toilet so you can control when it flushes and you won't get all wet from the spray.
But maybe the don't have enough time to look for unusual hiding places and just go through the room as fast as possible
Load More Replies...Take a photograph of where you have hidden things and set your alarm on your phone for the morning before you leave reminding you where things are and to take them before you leave the hotel
Load More Replies...My sister once used the safe. Couldn't follow the directions to make the code to lock/unlock the safe. The hotel manager came and helped her. He got in the safe with a default code set up for these type of situations. If he can do that, anyone who knows how can also do it. I have a bag that I just take stuff with me or use the trunk of my vehicle.
Load More Replies...i wouldnt put your own lock on. hotel people have ways to access your room for cleaning, emergencies, ETC. just put an alarm so you know, they are in your room.
I once was at an airbnb where there was no lock on the room, I did not sleep the entire night. Wish I had had a lock like this
Load More Replies...Sounds like a great way to forget your valuables when you leave. Better idea not to take more than you need, and keep your most important things like cards and passport about your person if there is no safe.
The bonus is this you can take a photograph of the things that you hid and set your alarm on your phone the day you’re going to leave reminding you to get those things that you left and where you left them. these phones are awesome for stuff like that
Load More Replies...Yes but they block your private information from random people looking
Load More Replies...Why use luggage tags at all? I have never used one and never had a problem with my luggage. Airlines etc will tag any checked in luggage with their own labels, which have your name and a barcode which can be used to trace you should they lose/misplace the bag. I just keep my dogs old collar wrapped round the handle of my bag so I can always identify it in baggage reclaim.
Also put a business card inside your bags in case the outside one gets broken off.
NEVER put your full name and address on your luggage. Don't give thieves a way to find you when you get home. Most people use a business card with only a phone number and email address.
I always thought it was the opposite way around. The bad guys get your address at the airport from your tag and burgle you will you're away.
Load More Replies...I would only put my phone number and/or a p.o. box. The airline can call or has my addy from the bar code. If no p.o. box, then I'd just use a phone number.
And now we have to find new random spots, and not post them for the bad guys to read
Except that everybody, including burglars, knows about these tricks.
Load More Replies...When traveling I'm also more alert, less naïve, but these 'tips' are borderline fear mongering...
There is a fine line between giving reasonable tips to make people "stree smart" and fearmongering. The pure dose here suggests the latter, particularly in the light that BP has taken up so many of these posts recently. Moreover, security advice better comes from experts than from influencers. According to BP, we have a "lifestyle expert and content creator" here. In others words: someone who tells people what they want to hear, not what would be well-researched. Sorry to be that harsh, but social media is full of non-experts voicing their opinion as if they have years-long experience, a scientific backing and statistical support at hand.
Load More Replies...I get feeling secure, but those tips are for someone that is being stalked (or an MI6 agent) not for a normal person on holiday. WTF if I know I'm stressed so much that I have to use such tricks to feel safe I'm not fu*king traveling.
I've travelled a lot on my own, in a lot of different countries. Whilst it's good to be alert, these tips seem to be assuming the very worst of everyone in every scenario and set a message of being fearful of everything.
What about "travel alone safely by not looking paranoïd and insecure"? I travelled alone in many so called "dangerous" countries alone as a tiny woman and was not paranoïd. I think that if you look insecure and always alert it's more like an invitation to problems.
I have traveled solo all over the world. Most of these tips are completely pointless. I could make a much better list. Just soome essentials: photocopy all your IDs and credit cards. If anything gets lost or stolen, you have the photocopy to prove identity and/or have the numbers to call. If you are a single woman, do not accept "help" or "travel advice/assistance" from men who approach you for this purpose. When out and about, use bags with zips and feel free to put a luggage padlock on the zip to make extra sure you don't get pickpocketed. Do not wander alone at night unless it's a busy downtown area with lots of people. Learn to say things like yes, no, thank you, please, go away and help in the language of the country you are visiting, at the very least. Do NOT ever put phones in your pockets or on tables. Use a lanyard and keep it close to your body. Do not attempt to do currency exchanges anywhere but official places. Stay sober enough to take care of yourself.
I hate to say it, but this woman is an idiot. She can't tell the difference between airport luggage tags and designer ones (they do the same thing!), her suggestions for hiding valuables almost ensure that you'll forget them, ditto having money on your person (different locations in your purse won't help), and putting anything other than a doorstop under your door is ridiculous. Ceramic cup, jingle bells? Excellent, I've got a two-second notice that my door is being opened. Putting your own lock on a door - but only if it doesn't hurt the lock! - means that you're traveling through airport security with suspicious electronics that you might not even use. The rest is common sense - pay attention to your surroundings! I do that in my home town.
The things that we consider common sense aren't always the case. Many people don't have these "common senses" and need someone to make them aware of it. The jingle bells are a louder, more distinct sound to hear. Also, If you hide your things in the same place at a hotel you won't forget them and that's only if you're staying at a place with no safe, which is usually not that often. These tips aren't all meant to be used at the same time, they are there to just help make people more aware.
Load More Replies...If you haven't any common sense or street smarts then just don't travel alone (if possible). And don't go somewhere you don't feel safe, get out of there! Some of these are a bit silly/paranoid really.
When traveling I'm also more alert, less naïve, but these 'tips' are borderline fear mongering...
There is a fine line between giving reasonable tips to make people "stree smart" and fearmongering. The pure dose here suggests the latter, particularly in the light that BP has taken up so many of these posts recently. Moreover, security advice better comes from experts than from influencers. According to BP, we have a "lifestyle expert and content creator" here. In others words: someone who tells people what they want to hear, not what would be well-researched. Sorry to be that harsh, but social media is full of non-experts voicing their opinion as if they have years-long experience, a scientific backing and statistical support at hand.
Load More Replies...I get feeling secure, but those tips are for someone that is being stalked (or an MI6 agent) not for a normal person on holiday. WTF if I know I'm stressed so much that I have to use such tricks to feel safe I'm not fu*king traveling.
I've travelled a lot on my own, in a lot of different countries. Whilst it's good to be alert, these tips seem to be assuming the very worst of everyone in every scenario and set a message of being fearful of everything.
What about "travel alone safely by not looking paranoïd and insecure"? I travelled alone in many so called "dangerous" countries alone as a tiny woman and was not paranoïd. I think that if you look insecure and always alert it's more like an invitation to problems.
I have traveled solo all over the world. Most of these tips are completely pointless. I could make a much better list. Just soome essentials: photocopy all your IDs and credit cards. If anything gets lost or stolen, you have the photocopy to prove identity and/or have the numbers to call. If you are a single woman, do not accept "help" or "travel advice/assistance" from men who approach you for this purpose. When out and about, use bags with zips and feel free to put a luggage padlock on the zip to make extra sure you don't get pickpocketed. Do not wander alone at night unless it's a busy downtown area with lots of people. Learn to say things like yes, no, thank you, please, go away and help in the language of the country you are visiting, at the very least. Do NOT ever put phones in your pockets or on tables. Use a lanyard and keep it close to your body. Do not attempt to do currency exchanges anywhere but official places. Stay sober enough to take care of yourself.
I hate to say it, but this woman is an idiot. She can't tell the difference between airport luggage tags and designer ones (they do the same thing!), her suggestions for hiding valuables almost ensure that you'll forget them, ditto having money on your person (different locations in your purse won't help), and putting anything other than a doorstop under your door is ridiculous. Ceramic cup, jingle bells? Excellent, I've got a two-second notice that my door is being opened. Putting your own lock on a door - but only if it doesn't hurt the lock! - means that you're traveling through airport security with suspicious electronics that you might not even use. The rest is common sense - pay attention to your surroundings! I do that in my home town.
The things that we consider common sense aren't always the case. Many people don't have these "common senses" and need someone to make them aware of it. The jingle bells are a louder, more distinct sound to hear. Also, If you hide your things in the same place at a hotel you won't forget them and that's only if you're staying at a place with no safe, which is usually not that often. These tips aren't all meant to be used at the same time, they are there to just help make people more aware.
Load More Replies...If you haven't any common sense or street smarts then just don't travel alone (if possible). And don't go somewhere you don't feel safe, get out of there! Some of these are a bit silly/paranoid really.
