Theoretically, most folk understand that people around the world do things differently. However, it’s pretty easy to fall into the assumption that, by and large, we all have the same assumption about, say, pineapple on pizza or if one can casually ask someone what their salary is.
Someone asked “What's something that's acceptable and widely done in your country that would be considered offensive in many countries?” and people from across the globe shared their examples. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to add your own thoughts and stories to the comments section down below.

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Openly carrying a firearm.
I would be terrified if I saw anyone other than a police officer carrying a gun (Australia). I'd assume I was in the presence of a dangerous lunatic
If I saw an armed police officer I'd assume there was a dangerous lunatic in the vicinity
Load More Replies...This has been a blessing since I moved to France 4 years ago. I hadn't realised how nervous I was just driving to and from work day to day. I worked at a psychiatric hospital with a forensic ward and I wasn't ever as nervous there as I was out in traffic, even though many of our individuals were hospitalised for physical violence. I can deal with a very large man threatening me with physical aggression, but a person with a gun is another story.
I feel the same about emigrating to the UK. I never have to worry about being shōt at for just existing.
Load More Replies...Not a change in hell in Germany. There are really just 3 groups of people who would even be allowed to use a gun: sport shooters (and only in the designated areas, you can't take the gun anywhere else), forester / forest ranger / huntsman (also strictly regulated) or police. "civilians" don't get to own guns and openly carrying firearms will get you arrested pretty quickly.
I know this will probably go against many people's preconceptions, but I have lived in rural Texas my whole life, and people don't go around openly carrying a firearm if they aren't law enforcement, or actively hunting, target shooting, etc. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but it's rare. I can't remember ever seeing it.
I'd be so afraid if I knew that the next person to cross my path could be an a****r who just lost his girlfriend and wants to take revenge on all women, and that he could have a gun that shoots who knows how many rounds per second. That I'm not safe in the cinema, shopping halls etc. Is the risk small? Yes. So are many other risks I take measures against.
I must say, I've lived in very gun friendly states. I don't generally walk around thinking I'm going to get shot. Although I do always check for exits in any building I enter. But that's probably just PTSD. I'm glad my son is going to a private school that really focuses on emotional development. I think he's much less likely to get shot there.
Load More Replies...I'm American, and I'm disturbed and concerned about people being openly armed.
Although we all know the country on this one. It would be nice if people included the country in their post. Those that don't should be excluded.
The majority of police officers don't even carry guns in the UK.
Which is bizarre to me. But I guess if no one else has a gun you don't need one. Much easier to keep guns off an island than a whole continent where everyone has been allowed to have guns forever.
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Switzerland 😅 just the other day I talked to my husband about how weird it must look to foreigners to see someone drive by on a bike with their service weapon strapped to their back 🤣 granted nowadays it's rarer than it used to be now that you can leave your weapon at the armory. However from time to time it still happens. Edit: on the other hand, when we had a replica made from a medieval mace my husband had to get a weapon permit 😅🤦🏻♀️
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Advertising prescription meds on television.
Not allowed in Germany. We have an actual law that forbids this (Heilmittelwerbegesetz).
Do I actually need to add that the original poster is from the US or is it abundantly clear to the rest of the world?
At least the ads are hilarious. Love how the people with all the a e complicated medical issues are very outdoorsey
Love how they run through the 45 seconds of side effects or purposely make that text white, size 2 font on a white background
And they always say, "Including death" as one of the possible side effects.
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Having an affair in the US can break your life, in France this is « only » considered as private and none of your business.
The story at the Coldplay concert which broke internet for days reminds me this cultural difference.
This is especially true in politics. In Germany nobody cares if an important politician has been divorced three times. They are there to do a job.
In US we dont care about divorce either, its about affaird. Our current president is on his third wife for example
Load More Replies...It was their reaction, once they realized they were on camera. If they acted like nothing happened, i think no one would notice.
For the French, this kind of story always seems to take on insane proportions; it's something we truly don't understand. Nevertheless, there have been a few recent stories that have interfered with the public lives of certain people (politicians), especially when there's a conflict of interest. That said, the vast majority of people don't care.
Putting banana on pizza.
Banana Curry Pizza is a real thing in Sweden, apparently.. I'd give it a try, for sure.
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It most definitely is unusual in Sweden. Not non existent but very unusual
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I wouldn't say its completely acceptable and there are obviously situations where you should not do it at all.....but generally, swearing is extremely common here and you'd have to be a really special person to be offended by it.
You’re talking about Australia, right?! I’m Aussie and not offended by it, though it does make us sound pretty trashy sometimes.
A French comedian say that in Marseilles, swearing is basically punctuation 😄
I like a bit of swearing - can be humorous and colourful. Maybe not in front of small children though
I've always allowed my young child to swear. Just not at school. Sometimes a swear word conveys meaning in a way that a non-swear would not. But we talk about where it's appropriate. And if it's truly the best way you could express yourself. If it coveys the meaning most clearly I'm all for it.
Load More Replies...The c-word is offensive, but you'd be cautious to point that out to the sort of person who uses it.
It's super offensive in the US. Not so in other English speaking countries. Australians use it all the time.
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Walking around in bare feet in public.
You're doing good work adding this. Thank you.
Load More Replies...In Germany there is no law against this (why would there be one) if you do this outside - but store owners have the right to set up rules for their store, which can include having to wear shoes. In most cases this is a question of hygiene.
Ok... but why are soles of feet more unhygienic than shoe soles?
Load More Replies...I have seen signs in stores with wooden floors that say "Barefoot at your own risk". It seems like a reasonable option.
Being late. it's so past the point of being accepted that punctuality in social events is actually frowned upon in Brazil.
I know a lot of Tongan and Cook Islanders (in Australia), and they all go by 'island time', which means they will turn up a couple of hours after starting time. My brother also found this was the case when he was in Borneo and went to a local church service.
Hindu weddings are notorious for this. Know a guy who used to supply the white horses for them. He told me some great stories.
I work in a predominantly Indian office, and have gotten invited to several personal/family events. It amazes me that guests wait 30-45 minutes past the scheduled start time for the hosts to show up!
Load More Replies...Try it in the Midwestern US. Fifteen minutes early is on time and on time is late.
I hate being late. I would rather be 30 minutes early than one second late.
*Not* showing any especial respect for elders, religious figures or politicians.
I’m not saying everyone hates on those groups here but we’re a less hierarchical culture and that knee jerk respect isn’t common.
From the original post the person appears to be from Australia. ---> "cewumu - Australia - Not showing any especial respect for elders, religious figures or politicians. I’m not saying everyone hates on those groups here but we’re a less hierarchical culture and that knee jerk respect isn’t common."
Load More Replies..."respect your elders" is so weird to me. Why should they get more respect than anyone else just for being older than me? Nobody seems to have an actual reason other than "it's traditional" or "it's respectful", which aren't real reasons
Read my post above. Older people are actually going through a s**t ton of c**p. Basic human decency says it doesn't hurt to be a little more thoughtful about them.
Load More Replies...I respect them if they respect me. The problem is, those who demand respect rarely earn it.
Somewhere in the "far east", like Vietnam, China, Cambodia,...? Although I have no idea about the stand on politicians.
Being naked in sauna with strangers.
Finland would be my first guess, though saunas even in Germany are often mixed náked.
Leaving a party without saying goodbye to anyone?
Yeah, this is an American phrase. Even on the Reddit thread this comes from there are lots of people from Ireland saying "We don't do this". My partner is from Ireland and my experience is certainly that saying goodbye in Ireland takes forever! Even on the phone, talking to his family he's like "Ok, bye now..bye...bye...bye..talk soon..bye..bye now..etc"
Load More Replies...I just don't see it worth interrupting everybody to say I'm leaving. I thank the host and scoot out behind that couple that just shared the 'goodbye look' I was waiting on.
Nope. Growing up in France you had to go around and say goodbye to everyone. I hated it as we had to give a kiss to everyone.
Load More Replies...Irish goodbye. I mean - it depends on the party? If you don't know the host or anyone else present really well, nobody will demand that you announce your exit.
What kind of party is it where you don't know anyone, even the host?
Load More Replies...Taking my shoes off as I enter my house. And guests do that as well. They may or may not be offered anything to eat or drink if it’s not an invitation and it’s perfectly fine.
I always offer something, but not by culture. Just by how I was raised. When I went over to friend's I was rarely offered food, unless I was there for a sleepover. My mom always offered drinks and snacks for me and my friends. Even offering to let them stay for dinner. One thing is for certain, take your shoes off at the door, unless told otherwise, which is not often we make exceptions. If you have your shoes on, ready to go out but forgot something, we'll gladly get it for you. The main reason being, shoes and the debris can wreck the floors. Sand, gravel, road salt, water, gum, Canada geese p**p, dog p**p (although you would smell it, likely.) and who knows what else. It's incredibly rude to track that all into someone's freshly cleaned home.
In Armenia you will be forced to drink coffee and eat sweets at an absolute minimum, if it's mealtime there will be a huge meal and vodka shots. Even people who are desperately poor will give you their last bit off coffee and some walnuts off the tree in the yard if they have nothing else. You also take your shoes off and will be provided with slippers to wear.
I live alone and it eventually dawned on me that everything on the floor comes in on my shoes, so I always drop them at the door. It greatly reduced, but did not eliminate, the random things I'd pick up.
Teaching children to use firearms. Common in the US, horrifying to many.
Uh oh, you're suggesting that not every American is a gun-loving, racist redneck. We can't have that now, can we? But you're right, it's not nearly as common as the idiots who think all Americans are violent gun fanatiics would like to think.
Load More Replies...I wonder when the US will realise that this whole gun debacle is basically a circle that never ends and will only get worse? Guns are much easier to get your hands on than in almost any other country. Why? So that you can "defend yourself" against other people who also had no real problem to get their hands on guns. Kids are taught how to use guns. One kid decides to take a gun to school and goes on a rampage. To "defend yourself" against school shooters, your country decides you need MORE guns. Rinse and repeat.
America was born out of a revolution against a tyrannical government. The right to bear arms was established in the Constitution so that citizens could protect themselves from the government, if it became tyrannical. Unfortunately, some people use guns for other reasons.
Reread it. "An armed militia being necessary for the defense of the state".
Load More Replies...Yet not teaching them how to cross a road safely and instead making all traffic (in both directions) stop whilst they get on and off a bus. One extreme to the other!
And you have a problem with basic safety? I’ve witnessed a student hit by a car before the “stop in both directions” law. The driver got impatient and tried to pass the bus while the student was in front of the bus trying to cross the street. The student couldn’t see the car and vice versa. Student had a broken nose and other minor injuries, but it could have been worse.
Load More Replies...My Swedish friend told me that in her country children learn to use a firearm in order to defend themselves against big animals like moose. But this comes along with a responsibility training, not "if you knock on my door and I don't know you, I'll shoot you" mentality.
A quick search of the Swedish police site says you have to be 18 years old, among other requirements, to get a firearm license.
Load More Replies...No, America doesn't teach kids how to use guns, or give them gun safety training. That's why so many people get hurt when they handle one. They don't know what they're doing! If they knew what they were doing (gun safety training) they wouldn't accidentally hurt themselves or others.
I gather this is also common in Switzerland - I recall hearing on the radio that it's something which they do in schools? Perhaps I misunderstood. But things are very, very different there.
No, they do not. You have been misinformed. Gun ownership among adult males is quite high, as they've all (well 90% or so) done army service. It's not very long ago that many of them would be required to keep their army issue weapon at home.
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FKK stands for Freikörperkultur (free body culture)
Part of a beach or sea where you have to go naked, everyone.
Naturism is not limited to German-speaking nations. Although TBF it is perhaps more common therein.
Yep. Our most popular beaches also have parts set aside for that
Load More Replies...You don't "have" to go there at all if you don't want to - plenty of other beaches around. But FKK people are somewhat sensitive to Karens and clothed creeps looking for "entertainment", hence the assigned beaches. (Germany, BTW)
That’s not what was meant. Of course you don’t have to go to that area of a beach if you don’t want to. However, if you do go into those areas, you *have* to be (go) naked, just like everyone else.
Load More Replies...As a 60+ yo American man speaking for/about himself..."Ain't NOBODY wants to see that".
State’s control of individual religion. We’re a multicultural country with 4 big religions, but born-muslims and (official) muslim converts are not allowed to leave Islam officially (on paper), which dictates many aspects of our life.
most muslim countries its illegal to switch religions if you are Muslim. As far as I know, Morocco, UAE, Turkey, Albania and Azerbaijan, are the only Muslim countries that its legal. In some like Qatar, Palestine, Pakistan, etc, its a felony with serious Jail Time assuming a mob doesnt l***h you first
American work culture with European taxes and salaries. It’s bad.
Smoking grass in public and the ability to buy almost anywhere legally.
LGBT rights and protections.
Original poster is from Canada and Jamaica - interesting combination.
If you factor in that Canadians have universal healthcare vs what it costs in the US plus all the other pros & cons, i'd still choose Canada. It's often a toxic lie we tell ourselves that the grass is always greener on the other side. Nobody and nowhere's perfect.
Canada? I'm just confused by the first part. We don't have really have the same work culture. Not exactly the same as Europe, either. European taxes and salaries?
Maybe they mean American companies operating in Europe?
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Finnish Sauna where everyone is naked. Especially mixed with men and women together.
The transphobes who think that "men" should stay out of women's restrooms would have a heart attack upon hearing this
Can't believe BP censored the picture of everyone is naked, especially mixed with men and women together.
In mixed sauna you usually actually do wear a towel. so "naked" as not wearing swimwear. If non mixed sauna or only family nobody would wear a towel of course. A third kind- the sauna party, is mixed, naked and with lots of vodka. But thats invitation only
Load More Replies...I was going to use the sauna at the Icehotel but decided not to because you had to wear a cozzie.
Australia: Stealing road signs (?)
China: Beijing bikini (?) Actually, no. Smoking in restaurants, directly in front of a "no smoking" sign.
Apparently it's a Chinese practice of men rolling up their shirts yo expose their midriff.
Load More Replies...I've seen this around the equator and tried it briefly. It certainly is cooler than the shirt down in the normal fashion but I had to wear to two pair of sunglasses to avoid being blinded by a big white belly.
lmao an old mate of mine who stole an "Authorised Personnel Only" sign near his house and let me have it when he was drunk
Being American, from my experience. I'm being a little facetious there but it does get old when people get mad at me for stuff our government does. Trust me, I don't like them either. I wish they weren't doing that either.
I pity the sensible, everyday American citizens who didn't vote for that orange fart-face. They're just being dragged along for the ride.
I don't admit it. When people ask, I say I'm from Canada.
Load More Replies...If you would keep you facist gouvernement to yourself I could just ignore the US, but you have elected some people that are trying to spread that facism to the world, unless I know you personally I'm going to be mad at you for being a US american, just like I'm mad at russians, and just like my grandparents were mad at Germans.
Go ahead, be mad. Acknowledge that we ARE trying to change it though.
Load More Replies...You voted for them. You created the society where they could come into power. In most countries saying "grab them by the pus*sy" would end political careers, but not so in the USA. Who do you think is responsible? And I can't remember that any American said Germans were NOT responsible for what the N**i.s did.
In fairness, it's likely just rigged. As if he's constantly screaming about it being rigged because he didn't rig it. I doubt the majority of Americans voted for it.
Load More Replies...It's the self-loathing is what drives people up the wall, and the constant inserting US politics and problems into every topic. We get it. Trump s***s, obviously. You have problems in your country. Every country has it's problems. Some more than others. Some worse than the USA, believe it or not. The defaulting every reference to being about the USA, too.
This affects people outside the USA as well, remember, especially now.
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Trying to bring thousands of year old religious doctrine into law.
"Congress shall make no law establishing a religion, nor the free exercise thereof" The US founders weren't dopes, they KNEW most wars are fought over 'whose God is better'.
US? Ed: Just looked up the original post and in fact it was from the US.
Nationalist Christians (NatCs for short) strike again.
Load More Replies...Consider by the way that if Christians and Jews never existed, weekends wouldn't be a thing
Well bc of a Jew, Jesus, you get Sundays off, and because of a Jew, Moses, Saturday was a viable option, though we owe a different Jew, Gompers, for codifying it into Union Contracts and making it the standard in the world
Load More Replies...if the OP is from the US, what thousands of years old religious doctrine is trying to be brought into law. Bc I cannot find that in any US State or Federal level. Unless the person is trying to claim anti-Abortion laws are due to religious doctrine only, in which case, Humanists for Life, the third largest anti-Abortion org in the US would like to talk with them.
Eating raw pork maybe?
This is from Denpasar, Denpasar City, Bali, Indonesia - original poster.
I mean, minced meat mixed with onions, old bread and spices on a fresh bread roll is delicious.
Yeah that`s germany. Raw pork mince with onions on a bun half. The german sushi
Depends VERY MUCH on local health and food safety standards. "Mettbrötchen" (a bun with raw minced pork, onions, salt and pepper to taste) is a regular German breakfast food, available in most bakeries.
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Pushing someone's face into their birthday cake. Stupid tradition but still pretty widespread and expected that it'll happen to you on your birthday.
At what point did it become a "tradition"? I've never been to a birthday party where anyone's face gets shoved into the cake. Personally I think it is disrespectful to the person who made the cake, humiliating for the person who's face ends up in the cake, and disgusting to waste food like that.
I'm from US where this also happens but if someone ever did that to me I'm throwing hands 🤣 but I don't think I have to worry about that because I don't do birthday cakes anymore. Never been much a fan of frosting in general. I do my birthday Bloody Mary lol
I don't know about *many* countries, but every now and then on reddit I see an American have a meltdown because we let our pet cats roam outside whenever they want and no one minds.
Well, considering how many species of animal are still getting made extinct due to feral cats in Australia, it's not just Americans who have meltdowns.
Yes, I bet there's thousands of endangered species in downtown Melbourne. *facepalm*
Load More Replies...Outdoor cats k**l (literally) billions of wild animals every year - they are frowned upon in my town (Australia)
In the UK (and Europe in general) the bird and rodent population is largely self-regulating, limited by food and environment rather than predation, so those that do get k****d by cats are effectively replaced and population levels are not much affected.
Load More Replies...Going outside is good for cats. Cat goes for a wonder, climbs a few trees, has a nap on the roof of a car and goes home.
A lot of Americans let their cats wander freely too. Cats k**l millions of songbirds and small mammals yearly, and get k****d themselves by foxes, coyotes, fisher cats, and the like.
Don't start that topic please, people lose their minds if someone tells them that unless you have a farm and an actual rodent problem, house cats don't really have a place in the current day food chain. Foxes and other small predators still exist and have taken over from the missing wild cats in most countries, but that is often ignored to justify why house cats should happily hunt outside. Downvote away, IDGAF.
I know. I live in the country in southwest France surrounded by vineyards, corn fields, sunflower fields, etc. (specific crops rotate yearly except for the grapes), and we have an old barn attached to our house. To say that we normally have a swarm of mice around would be underplaying it. We ended up with three cats and they keep the house and barn rodent free, but they are inside when they want (most of the time) and outside when they want. Our first year here we just had our dog who was too large to chase after the many mice, and even with traps, our house was swarming with rodents. Our cats have gotten rid of this problem (except when the two older girls bring in live mice to teach the little boy how to hunt). When I asked our vet what he thought about having the cats outside he laughed and told us he recommended it heartily, especially given where we live.
Load More Replies...Ever since the christian neighbour k****d my cat when I was 11 (early 90's), and adding that a second, also christian neighbour threatened to do the same to my cats recently, during the 2010s, I believe that cats should not be outdoor animals in North America. Also, I live in a triangle formed between three of the largest avenues in my city. Death sentence, absolutely. This being said, I have a very large walled garden. I don't think I'd have cats if I had a small apartment.
I'm not trying to sound tough, I'm not and never have been. But if someone k****d my cat I'd k**l them. Simple as that.
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Eating with hands
Just look at Zohran Mamdani's hand eating discourse.
And interesting that OP mentioned Mamdani (Indian-Ugandan origin).
Load More Replies...That was not "eating with hands" - which we all do with certain foods - that was just plain racism.
I agree, Mamdani has a long history of racism against East Asians, Jews, and others. He is plain racist
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In Poland, there's a custom called "Jew for good luck." It involves hanging a portrait of the most stereotypically looking Jewish man counting coins in home, hoping it will bring financial success to the family. Of course, it's based on the classic anti-Semitic trope that Jew = money hoarder.
And if that's not bad enough, sometimes the tradition is to regularly turn the painting upside down so that the money the Jew has accumulated will fall out of his pocket into the hands of his owners.
This one is such appallingly bad taste that, erm, I laughed. Turn the rácist Jewish stereotype upside-down so you can steal all his money? Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear.😬🤣
Oh dear. Surely they could find a better symbol instead? A money tree or something.
Oh wow, as a Jew, I dont know whether to laugh or be offended at this. I've been to Poland a few times, and I never saw this, so I wonder how common it is. But to be fair, Jewish Money tropes are common in Europe. Back when Zelensky in Ukraine was elected, nearly a third of those who voted for him did so bc he was Jewish and their economy was bad and they thought a Jew would be good for their economy.
Just a simple thing : dip a toast/biscuit/cake/pastry in our coffee/tea. Some think it's disgusting, but here in France, we think that's better well soaked.
Dunking biscuits in tea (proper strong black tea with milk, though, none of the dreadful weak teas and infusions so common in France) is almost a religion among many British people. (I hate it myself, always have, even back when I used to drink tea all the time like most other Brits).
You're not supposed to leave them until they're soaking wet ^^
Load More Replies...I like doing this but will get unreasonably mad if pieces stay in my drink. 😂
We dip biscuits in tea in Australia, which has led to the 'Tim Tam Slam' where you suck the tea through the biscuit. I'm not a fan of them though.
I had a British grandmother and I grew up on tea and Toast! One of my favorite ways to enjoy a quiet morning.
I guess kissing each other on the cheek to say hello.
This took me, a reserved Brit, took me by suprise in Spain when people I'd just met were kissing me on the cheek.
Greece also. Men kissing men (on the cheek) is quite normalised.
Load More Replies...Original poster is from France. Since I moved from the US to France I have also adopted this practice ("faire la bise"). The first year I was here Covid was still going on, so I got into the habit gradually. The second year when all the masks were off I was sick a lot, especially since I wasn't used to the local strains of flu and colds, being from the US. The last 2 years I haven't had as much as a sniffle, and I do this (faire la bise) with literally everyone I meet. I think it's the same as when I worked in public education and mental health facilities. Because so many people come in there and you have so much physical interaction, after a while you become immune to almost everything out there. I was rarely sick when I worked in these places after an initial settling in, and I did as much personal hygiene (hand washing, glove use when indicated, etc.) as possible. And we had high turnover of "patients" in the community mental health settings and frequently of people who were "off the street."
This is everywhere in Europe - and depending on the country you start either on the left or right cheek - this is very confusing if you travel a lot.
Definitely not everywhere, try doing it to someone from the Nordic countries, you will see them recoil if they are taken by surprise.
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We compliment others on how small their heads are.
From the original post: "One of my exes is Korean and upon meeting their mom, she kept saying, "she's so pretty! Her head is soooo small!!" Also my Korean friends compliment my small head all the time. I feel like my head is famously small amongst my Korean friends. It's such a weird but endearing feeling haha. And here I am sometimes self conscious about my small head. My face has the proportions of an anime character. My eyes take up 1/3 of my face. I sometimes feel like my hair covers up what little face I do have. But at least Koreans appreciate it lol"
My best friend is a Japanese; I am an Indian. First time she met me, she said she was jealous of how my head and face were so small. I found that weird but since then I know people in that part are conscious of the relative size of their head and faces.
Load More Replies...Apparently Korea (plus surroundings). Judging from a couple of unrelated videos in my pinterest feed it seems to fit, because the heavily edited heads were minuscule (and also bleached into near córpse bride chic, and with enormously magnified eyes)
Load More Replies...Seems to be Korea, or at least south east Asia. Explains any number of random pinterest videos where Asian women/girls photoshopped their heads halfway out of existence (plus bleaching the skin and enlarging the eyes enormously. Looked like pimped up Roswell aliens)
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The Israeli style of speech can be perceived as an insult in other countries.
Direct questions like "What is your salary?"
Any style of humor is also accepted here.
I once told a Hitler joke at a party in Germany, and some German was offended by me.
Why was he offended? His grandfather tried to end my grandfather. If anyone should be offended, it's me.
One of the first things to learn if you go to Germany: don't joke about the Nazis or the war or anything related to those.
1) What's irony? When a näzi dies in a car crash driving through a right-hand bend because he was to hard on the gas. 2) What do you call 90 näzis in a corner? Answer: a right angle 3) 1945, Hitler looks out the window and says "This weather is the bömb!" Btw: I'm german, you're welcome.
Load More Replies...Israel is a very blunt culture and straight to the point. If you want to know how deep it runs, its acceptable for am employee to be blunt to their boss about a bad idea and no repercussions. Even in the Israeli military, enlisted can back talk to officers bluntly, etc. Its a fast paced culture, where bluntness helps with the pace
Yes, tracks for an Israeli not to understand, nor to care about others' feelings. Germans don't like jokes about Hitler because we are aware of the suffering he (and our grandparents) caused, we don't want to make like of that suffering. But hey, explain that to someone from the people who cheered on a ra.pist on TV.
really? what tracks for Israelis not to care or understand feelings? bc Israel is usually ranked as one of the most caring and charitable societies in the world. Being blunt isnt the same as not caring, in many ways, its more caring bc it cuts out the BS
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Homophobia.
Sorry to whomever downvoted me, but that is what the person who posted this indicated.
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Eating licorice.
Oh, proper liquorice is delicious! Not the cheap stuff you get in Britain. Katjes for the win!
Somewhere in the European north, I gather. It could be anywhere between Sweden, Norway, Finland, Denmark, the Netherlands and parts of Germany.
to the commenters... pictured are liquorice roots, the actual, rooty, flakey, errhhh... roots. And they are delicious to chew all day. No sugar, just pure liquorice juice. As a kid, 50 years ago, had them often. Nowadays hard to find, but when I do find them, they are hard to resist. Belgian, by the way.
As might be expected, the original poster is from Sweden. Was this you, Windy? ;-)
Maybe not that offensive anymore in other parts of the world, but we pretty much always address teachers by their first name.
I worked in a special education school where all the children called us by our first names, and we then got saddled with a regular education principal who forced the children to call us Ms., Mrs., or Mr. I had one youngster who couldn't get the hang of it. We had a secretary named Deloris and my young man couldn't change from Deloris to Miss Deloris (he literally didn't understand how), even though the principal insisted, and the absolute best he could do was calling her Miss-ter Lors. To this day when I meet someone named Deloris I have to refrain from chuckling and calling her Mr. Lors.
That's really sweet and awesome of you to do that good work.
Load More Replies...Here in the US, I use the Southern honorific of (example) Mr Jason, Ms Marci. Blows the kids mind they can call adults by the 1st name so long as Mr/Ms/Mrs is used.
Up north, I'll see that done a lot but only outside of schools, like with people the parents know.
Load More Replies...I had a teacher insisted we call him by his first name sid Mr made him feel old .
Original poster is from Sweden. So, Windy Swede, hopefully I haven't been upsetting you by occasionally calling you "Windy"? ;-)
We addess every one by their first name (not royalty) Doctors, professors, ect. No sir, mama, miss or misses. We are all equal
Men walking around with their shirt off in public in the summer. In supermarkets, pubs etc. .
Not from Scotland anyway....we have our one day of summer and it sure as hell isn't warm enough to go topless.
Load More Replies...They have to put a shirt on in stores there are signs that say no shirt no service
But a lot of them don't follow the posted policy and sometimes store staff are reluctant to get into a confrontation.
Load More Replies...In scotland when the sun comes out it's known as "taps of weather" which basically means men will remove their top and spend the entire heatwave topless (and drunk)) doesn't happen often but when it does it's crazy.
Not smiling on the streets.
I would definitely smile if I crossed the loverly girl in the picture...
Atheism.
I am happy to say (writing from France) that this poster is French. NO ONE talks about God here - no one. Well, sometimes except when we swear, but it's usually more realistic terms like putain, merde, and bifler. ;-)
Putain = whóre. Merde = shít (Scheiße is a common swearword in Germany, too). I'll leave you all to google bifler for yourselves.
Load More Replies...Large swathes of the US are not insanely religious. Unfortunately, it's the loudest voices that always seem to be held up as representational of the US, and they are not.
Load More Replies...In parts of the country, wearing shoes inside the home is common. Due the weather in my area, it is rarely done.
Sorry to whomever downvoted me, but that is what the person who posted this indicated.
Load More Replies...Here in Germany, pretty much everyone I know (and who isn't hailing from a culture where barefoot/socks is the norm) wears Birkenstock-style shoes inside their home. We literally call them house shoes (Hausschuhe). Outside shoes inside are really frowned upon.
Most people with this rule are very cool about my orthotics and just handing me some Clorox wipes. Tried putting the little pull over things on the bottom and ate s**t within five steps on some tile so came up with the compromise.
Load More Replies...It would help a lot if the countries were mentioned in every item, not just some.
I added in several by going back to the original posts.
Load More Replies...Let's see, what do we have in Britain? Queuing, obvs; not making 'a scene', which includes complaining when one should; mixing football with religion, consideration towards others on the street; bowing to 'royalty' and "good breeding"; pub = everyone is equal, relaxed work culture...
Putting milk in your tea, having a day dedicated to pancakes, having fireworks to celebrate a failed attempted to blow up Parliament over 400 years ago, talking about the weather, Mother's day celebrated on the fourth Sunday in Lent rather than May, our general attitude towards tea being the cure for everything, our inability to handle snow.
Load More Replies...I'm Italian and something I realized is very rude in some other countries but totally normal in Italy is that we interrupt conversations. You aren't supposed to let someone finish before speaking, actually conversation in Italy is really dynamic, like a ping pong match with multiple players, where people go back and forth offering points of view and asking questions about whatever it's spoken about. I've never realized it was considered rude before reading about how many people were annoyed by it (not Italian people of course). EDIT: missed word
Lived in China for years and it's full of stuff that's totally normal there, but would horrify anyone else. Like hoarding up phlegm and spitting in public, small children in bumless pants squatting on the sidewalk to do number 1s and 2s and honking horns at EVERYTHING. (Actually started to appreciate the kids thing, despite it being disgusting. No diapers needed, therefore no toilet training needed. Kids learn from infancy what they need to do)
I'd rather have kids in diapers than step into s**t everywhere.
Load More Replies...We Canadians are polite with LGBTQ rights, religion, gender... until you go to Alberta. As far as I'm concerned, it's just there to beef up the landmass
It would help a lot if the countries were mentioned in every item, not just some.
I added in several by going back to the original posts.
Load More Replies...Let's see, what do we have in Britain? Queuing, obvs; not making 'a scene', which includes complaining when one should; mixing football with religion, consideration towards others on the street; bowing to 'royalty' and "good breeding"; pub = everyone is equal, relaxed work culture...
Putting milk in your tea, having a day dedicated to pancakes, having fireworks to celebrate a failed attempted to blow up Parliament over 400 years ago, talking about the weather, Mother's day celebrated on the fourth Sunday in Lent rather than May, our general attitude towards tea being the cure for everything, our inability to handle snow.
Load More Replies...I'm Italian and something I realized is very rude in some other countries but totally normal in Italy is that we interrupt conversations. You aren't supposed to let someone finish before speaking, actually conversation in Italy is really dynamic, like a ping pong match with multiple players, where people go back and forth offering points of view and asking questions about whatever it's spoken about. I've never realized it was considered rude before reading about how many people were annoyed by it (not Italian people of course). EDIT: missed word
Lived in China for years and it's full of stuff that's totally normal there, but would horrify anyone else. Like hoarding up phlegm and spitting in public, small children in bumless pants squatting on the sidewalk to do number 1s and 2s and honking horns at EVERYTHING. (Actually started to appreciate the kids thing, despite it being disgusting. No diapers needed, therefore no toilet training needed. Kids learn from infancy what they need to do)
I'd rather have kids in diapers than step into s**t everywhere.
Load More Replies...We Canadians are polite with LGBTQ rights, religion, gender... until you go to Alberta. As far as I'm concerned, it's just there to beef up the landmass
