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“The Room Exploded”: Teen Tries To Hide Allergic Reaction And It Doesn’t End Well
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“The Room Exploded”: Teen Tries To Hide Allergic Reaction And It Doesn’t End Well

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When you’ve gone through poverty and homelessness, you know what it’s like to go to bed hungry. Wasting food or money probably isn’t your favorite pastime. And you’re careful about how you spend your pennies.

A teen has told how she barely scrapes together $5 every week to be able to contribute to Sunday dinners with her friends. They take turns hosting, but one particular home always seems to serve up problems for the young, cash-strapped woman.

When the hosts recently made food the teen was allergic to, she decided to eat it anywayinstead of wasting money or causing a scene. Her attempt to be polite quickly backfired and now friendships are at stake.

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    But they could soon be a thing of the past after one of them deliberately ate food she was allergic to

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    The young woman provided more info when prompted by netizens

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    Food allergy or food intolerance… What’s the difference?

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    Even a tiny amount of an allergy-causing food can trigger symptoms such as hives, swollen airways and digestive problems, warn the experts at Mayo Clinic. And in some people, a food allergy can be fatal.

    An estimated 8% of children under age 5 and up to 4% of adults have at least one food allergy. But some people confuse a food allergy with a much more common reaction known as food intolerance. This is a less serious condition that doesn’t involve the immune system.

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    “A food intolerance or a reaction to another substance you ate may cause the same symptoms as a food allergy does — such as nausea, vomiting, cramping and diarrhea,” explains Mayo Clinic. “Depending on the type of food intolerance you have, you may be able to eat small amounts of problem foods without a reaction.”

    If you have a true food allergy, even a trace amount of the food may trigger an allergic reaction.

    “When you have a food allergy, your immune system mistakenly identifies a specific food or a substance in food as something harmful. In response, your immune system triggers cells to make an antibody known as immunoglobulin E (IgE) to recognize the allergy-causing food or food substance, called an allergen,” notes the site.

    When you next eat that same food again (even a small amount), IgE antibodies sense it. They raise the alarm and signal to your immune system to release a chemical called histamine, among other chemicals, into your bloodstream. These chemicals are what cause allergy symptoms. Sometimes the symptoms are so severe that they result in a life-threatening reaction known as anaphylaxis.

    Conditions that get mistaken for food allergies

    There are a few conditions that can mimic a food allergy. One is when you don’t have enough of some of the enzymes needed to digest certain foods.

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    “Insufficient amounts of the enzyme lactase, for example, reduce your ability to digest lactose, the main sugar in milk products. Lactose intolerance can cause bloating, cramping, diarrhea and excess gas,” Mayo Clinic explains.

    Similarly, some people have digestive reactions and other symptoms after eating certain food additives. “For example, sulfites used to preserve dried fruit, canned goods and wine can trigger asthma attacks in people with sensitivity to food additives,” notes the site.

    That reaction you had to last night’s fish might not have been due to an allergy. According to the Mayo Clinic, certain fish (like tuna or mackerel) that aren’t refrigerated properly and have high levels of bacteria can contain a lot of histamine. This can trigger symptoms similar to those of a food allergy. This isn’t an allergic reaction, but rather something known as histamine toxicity or scombroid poisoning.

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    Celiac disease is sometimes also mistaken for a food allergy. While it’s sometimes referred to as a gluten allergy, it does not result in anaphylaxis. While it does involve an immune system response, celiac disease is a bit more complex.

    “This ongoing digestive condition is triggered by eating gluten, a protein found in bread, pasta, cookies and many other foods containing wheat, barley or rye,” the Mayo Clinic explains. “If you have celiac disease and eat foods containing gluten, an immune reaction happens that causes damage to the surface of your small intestine. This leads to an inability to absorb certain nutrients.”

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    Experts advise seeing a doctor or allergist if you have food allergy symptoms shortly after eating. “If possible, see a care professional when the allergic reaction is occurring,” suggests the Mayo Clinic site. “This can help make a diagnosis.”

    “Homelessness and food insecurity”: People sympathized with the teenager

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    A few netizens felt everyone played a part in the situation

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    “What did you expect him to do?”: Some people had harsh words for the teen

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    Spencers slave no more
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I notice the whole homelessness sailed right over some heads, including here. Every other parent of kids in this group made sure ALL of them could eat safety. There are two ar,se,holes in this: Carla and her father, and he's the bigger one. He DELIBERATELY cooked food knowing one of the kids has food allergies. How TF he maintains a food business with this attitude baffles me. He's an arrogant, ignorant tw.at.

    Nadine Debard
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was my first reaction but OP admitted she never spoke to dad, she only gave a list to Carla. Maybe he didn't know about it and was shocked, or maybe he knew and deliberately cooked food she couldn't handle to make her leave, and was horrified to see she would eat anyways, risk her life and make him a potential mùrderer.

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    Roberta Surprenant
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The YTA have never been "dumpster diving" poor, that is obvious.

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    moggiemoo
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Presumably, when Carla's dad kills a customer through negligence he'll just give them their money back? I'm not sure it works that way.

    Jay Scales
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes - he runs a food business & doesn't care about allergies...???

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    Spencers slave no more
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I notice the whole homelessness sailed right over some heads, including here. Every other parent of kids in this group made sure ALL of them could eat safety. There are two ar,se,holes in this: Carla and her father, and he's the bigger one. He DELIBERATELY cooked food knowing one of the kids has food allergies. How TF he maintains a food business with this attitude baffles me. He's an arrogant, ignorant tw.at.

    Nadine Debard
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was my first reaction but OP admitted she never spoke to dad, she only gave a list to Carla. Maybe he didn't know about it and was shocked, or maybe he knew and deliberately cooked food she couldn't handle to make her leave, and was horrified to see she would eat anyways, risk her life and make him a potential mùrderer.

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    Roberta Surprenant
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The YTA have never been "dumpster diving" poor, that is obvious.

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    moggiemoo
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Presumably, when Carla's dad kills a customer through negligence he'll just give them their money back? I'm not sure it works that way.

    Jay Scales
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes - he runs a food business & doesn't care about allergies...???

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