These two guys have been pals for more than 60 years before discovering that they were actually brothers.
Walter Macfarlane and Alan Robinson grew up together in Honolulu, Hawaii and went on vacations with their families as adults. The pair decided to research their family histories when they were already in their 70s, as neither were raised by their birth parents—Alan was adopted, and Walter did not know who his father was. After using a DNA website, though, the life-long friends found out that they shared a birth mother. Once the answers came, the duo realized why they shared such a deep bond.
This one has a pretty awesome ending though. I love that even though they didn't know they were brothers, they still had an extremely close relationship with one another for so long.
This is fabulous. I was most fortunate to "be found" by a brother whom I did not know about. Unfortunately our mom has been dead for more than 45 years, she would have been so thrilled to have him back in her life. I am so thrilled to have him in our lives.
If one was adopted and they both shared the same mother AND took vacations together... didn't they... wait... so the mother knew they were brothers all along and just kept quiet? I am so confused.
Neither of them grew up with their birth parents, it says in the text. And the family holidays mentioned are obviously with the families they started : wives and children. They had no way of knowing.
Load More Replies...Siblings don't always have to look similar. They can but genetics are funny things and sometimes siblings can look vastly different. So you can guess by looking at appearances but it's not always accurate.
Load More Replies...My uncle's wife was adopted at birth by a wonderful couple. She was an adult and married by the time she started searching for her birth mother and living about an hour away from where she grew up. She had a friend at work who she became close with who had given a child up for adoption so they had this in common. Eventually, she received notification her birth mother had been found and they lived within a few minutes of each other. Turns out her mother was her friend she had worked with for 2 years. Talk about blown minds!
So they were like brothers already and the rest confirmed they were. Awesome ending
When a single mother of two and one on the way, Lydia Fairchild, ran into financial problems, she decided to apply for government assistance. According to the media, the woman was asked to take a DNA test to confirm that the children were hers. The results suggested that the kids she gave birth to… were in fact her nephews. When giving birth to her third child, Lydia decided to have a government witness present, and the DNA test was performed instantly. Again, the results showed that she was an aunt of the baby. Finally, scientists learned that Lydia was actually a chimera, meaning that she had absorbed her twin while still in the womb. Thus, it was her twin’s DNA that showed up in DNA results.
This one even made it into a scientific publication: https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa013452 While one organism built from two eggs does not seem to be totally seldom, the absorbed twin providing the womb (or, more importantly, the ovaries) sounds like an extremely rare coincidence!
By the way: why and how could a government agency order a DNC test? I would supect only a court can do so, and only in extreme cases...
Load More Replies...I remember that story! It was fascinating to learn about her being a chimera, and the difficulties she went through convincing the government that she'd really given birth to her kids. I'm really glad our scientific knowledge has advanced enough to resolve the whole crazy situation instead of being nasty to her.
Yep, I remember this. She was suing her soon-to-be ex for child support. The DNA thing was standard procedure. The government almost took her children, believing they weren't hers and that she was running a scam. Amazingly, the kids father stood by her, told the courts he was present for the birth of his children. Her lawyer just so happened to know about chimeras and suspected his client could be one. The lawyer was right. The mother didn't lose her children and she and their father got back together.
Well that makes a bit more sense than the title making it sound like they demanded a DNA test for WIC or food stamps.
Load More Replies...This happened not that long ago with a Man. He had a DNA test performed on his son, and the results showed he was the uncle. But the man had no brothers. Turns out he was a chimera.
Wow, what a story to tell your kids 😆 So when mummy was in the womb she had a twin, bu she was hungry and she ate the twin so now you have your auntie's DNA ✌️
dangerious game from mother nature if a human has to prove what´s said is right ... thanx to god she got a third child otherwise no one would have understood the DNA test for real ...
A family mystery of more than 100 years was solved by an online DNA test. Alice Collins Plebuch is a woman who identified as Irish American; however, the mail-in DNA test revealed a surprising truth—a mix of European Jewish, Middle Eastern, and Eastern European genes were found in her results. Having conducted family-wide DNA testing later, Alice learned that her father wasn’t the biological child of her grandparents. Further research finally revealed that her father had been sent home from the hospital with the wrong family.
Used to a lot more common than you would be comfortable with. Still happens on rare occasion
Load More Replies...There's a whole book on this: "The Lost Family: How DNA Testing Is Uncovering Secrets, Reuniting Relatives, and Upending Who We Are" by Libby Copeland
My hospital, as many others, never allowed you to leave your room even to the hallway, and nurses and dr's always asked you a question or two to confirm your identiy. Baby and mom got a band.
What does "Eastern european dna" mean? We're one? I know we are small, but there are more then 100.000.000 people in this part
They can trace back where your DNA came from. Mine is all Northern European They can even pinpoint what counties your ancestors came from!
Load More Replies...They have. This story starts in the early 1900s when hospitals themselves were very new, especially on OBGYN matters
Load More Replies...What the heck?! This is so weird. I guess babies look pretty similar, but I mean, come on.
The Maneages family had three children but wanted a fourth, so they adopted a 10-year-old girl named Elliana from China. The girl was diagnosed with a brain disorder. When they arrived home, the family shared their story with another family—the Galbierz—who went to the same church and had also adopted a daughter from China, Kinley, who had a similar brain disorder. The families decided to test their DNA, only to find out that the girls have a 99.9% match of being sisters.
This one is not that strange. The adoptive parents both adopted from China, lived in the same town, and more than likely, used the same adoption agency- or if different agencies, those companies could have used the same means to place the children. Easy to see them coming from the same area- especially given the treatment of China to its people- particularly girl children.
And the treatment of those with disabilities and disorders.
Load More Replies...My friend should take a test. All three siblings are adopted but think they may be biological brother and sisters.
Celebrate the new family. Two full sets of parents shared between two sibs. At least, that's what I would want to do. The girls have already had it rough enough and need both families
Load More Replies...A man named Steve Dennis was adopted as a toddler, and only in his teenage years did he find out that he was abandoned in a phone booth in Lancaster, Ohio after he was born. Back in the mid-'50s, two men discovered baby Steve inside a phone booth, put in a cardboard box, with blankets wrapped around him and a milk bottle nearby. However, no one found out who did it. More than 6 decades later, Steve’s children began showing interested in their heritage, so he submitted his DNA to the Ancestry.com website. The website was able to track Steve’s cousin, and then his half-sister, who told him about his birth mother. Turns out, she was 85 years old and was living in Baltimore, Maryland. It took some time for the woman to remember the precise details, but she recalled giving birth at 18. She said Steve’s father convinced her to do it, as he promised to marry her if she did. However, soon enough, he left and his whereabouts are unknown.
Yes but he was kinda lucky to be able to find out his mother at last, and that she was still alive.
Load More Replies...Has there ever been a happy ending for a couple where one was coerced into sacrifice their child by the other individual? Whether by deserting, adoption, abortion, etc, anyone who would insist you make this choice, ditch that individual, they do not care about anyone but their own wants.
Daddy was an asshole. He and his mother are actually better off for having dodged that bullet. And before you get your hackles up, in the 1950s unwed mothers did not do well in society. Their children were called bastards, and they were considered damaged goods and women of easy virtue (even if the pregnancy was the result to rape, forced birth, sexual coercion/manipulation, or incest). So she actually was better off allowing her son to be found and adopted. Of course, there’s the emotional toll. She had evidently spent years putting it out of her mind, as at 85 she had to dig deep to remember—-or did her best to pretend she had to (unless she’s gone senile).
Pro-lifers shame you if you have an abortion, but then shame you if you keep it. Then if you refuse to have sex they shame you for that. There’s no winning
"Pro-lifers" don't care about actually born people who are living. They only care about fetuses. And they only see women as incubators.
Load More Replies...He was better off without a selfish “mother” like her. She chose a boyfriend over her own flesh and blood, shameful!
My mom was born when my grandmother was 17 and she kept her.
Load More Replies...Imagine the surprise of two British women when their ancestry revealed Native American genes. Especially so when they knew that no members of their family had been to America. Finally, Doreen Isherwood and Anne Hall learned that they are descendants of Native Americans who were brought to the United Kingdom hundreds of years ago. They might’ve been brought here as slaves, translators, or tribal representatives, according to BBC
Yes, I know Pocahontas was brought to England, although she didn't love long thereafter. I'm sure other Native Americans were brought, too, to act in shows like Buffalo Bill's. What a terrible thing to do to such dignified people, dragging them so far from home and then using them as a money-making device! That's just speculation on my part, but I've read about the Wild West shows that toured Europe, so I'm sure they included natives.
there were also many inuit women that came over to the uk after getting married to sailors from the hudson bay company. I know of at least 4 families local to me that are decended from those women, and i'm sure the real number is much much higher
Load More Replies...A friend's husband is from Turkey and his DNA showed southwestern American Indian DNA. He and his parents have absolutely no idea how that happened, but now they're both getting theirs tested.
I watched a program in which half a dozen young Brits had their DNA tested. I'm from the southern U.S., yet I had a higher percentage of British ancestry than they did. Considering my people have been in the U.S. for almost 300 years, it was surprising.
Early European: That fellow looks interesting and exotic. Let's take him home!
Yep, we Native Americans/First Nations folk are everywhere...check out my name if you don't believe me...technically, I'm a Polish Jew...really.
many natives were brought back to the uk, and other contries (spain, portugal, etc) to show either the kings or others between 1492 and the the 1600's.. We never hear of what happened to all of them. Pocahontas is just the famous one.
The 1973 motion picture "The Three Musketeers" included a scene at the royal palace that included a heavily guarded contingent of Native Americans having dinner on the floor. I'm sure wealth individuals might have such 'visitors' around as novelty personalities. Ben Franklin, one of America's crowning intellects, knew this aspect of human nature and wore a raccoon skin cap while in France in order to appear more rustic, and thus more interesting to the aristocracy while seeking aid in American independence. Human nature being what it is... I can easily see a tryst with an "uncivilized native American" being a BIG bragging point with some. I hope the ladies were able to find more details. Such things could be fascinating to the right people.
A woman named Kelli Rowlette was perfectly aware she wasn’t related to her father, as her parents had used a sperm bank to conceive her. However, she wasn’t prepared for what the DNA testing showed. Apparently, the fertility doctor her parents worked with, Gerald Mortimer, used his own semen and was technically her father. Kelli has filed a lawsuit against the doctor, his wife, and his former medical group alleging “medical negligence, failure to obtain informed consent, fraud, battery, emotional distress, and breach of contract.”
When this happens, the scariest part is that these multiple children would be conceived and raised in the same area... and would then go to school together and BE IN THE SAME DATING POOL. The ultimate WTF moment when you find out your prom date is your half sibling...
Or worse, your spouse of ten years and parent of your three children
Load More Replies...This is shockingly common, my bff used as perm donor, but not the one she selected. Her doctor also fathered multiple children and a lawsuit is pending. Google Doctor Barwin in Ottawa Canada, hundreds of families effected
Can someone please tell me why he would do that? What did he hope to gain from this?
Like Jopie said, also some have a type of God complex
Load More Replies...I could see that in a movie : "b-b-but I dropped the semen sample accidentally and I had to replace it and I was in a rush and...". Ben Stiller could play that doctor, or if he's not available, Adam Sandler or Steve Carell could do the job.
The Backup Plan (except not a doctor, a drunk/jealous best friend) mediocre at best.
Load More Replies...This is similar to take as there was no consent. This Doctor has a real mental disorder. And this is not the only doctor to do this.
There was a Lifetime movie about this subject in the early 90s based on a true story. The fertility doctor used his own sperm for his patients without their consent. He had a genetic eye disease that was not very common, but it REALLY common in his area. I believe that's how he was found out, when all of these kids started showing up with a rare genetic condition all within the same area in a short time span.
Oh yeah, this. So, I understand that using your own sperm isn’t okay, but I don’t know why all the people are citing “emotional distress” and stuff - you went to a sperm bank, you get sperm. I remember with this case or a different one, all the people crying that their children could’ve dated and not known they were siblings so that’s why it’s so disgusting - except even if the doctor hasn’t used his own sperm, the kids could’ve still been siblings anyway. It’s not like sperm banks only use on sample of a person total.
Rich Bodager, a Las Vegas local, was adopted back in 1968 and wanted to learn about his biological parents. He submitted DNA to the 23andMe website and its test produced a surprising result. As it turned out, someone else in the database of the company was related to Rich—and that person was his granddaughter, which he knew was impossible. The “granddaughter” finally reached out to him. As they later found out, she was his half-sister and she had been looking for him for 15 years.
My sons are adopted. The oldest did a DNA test. The test results came with a note saying if he was interested in contact with a family member to get in touch. He found he ha a half sister and 2 half brothers living not too far from him. They are nice people. My other son did a dNA test got no response. Hired someone to find his birth mother, she did in about a week. They have met. Birth mother said she has waited a very long time for contact. He has 2 half bothers and they could be triplets, they look so much alike. This family I have not met.
So why did it say she was his granddaughter if she was his sister? Not much confidence in their methods if they make a c**k up like that.
Imagine the confusion of parents who were told that the blood type of their son didn’t match their own. To conceive him, the couple went to a fertility clinic. After finding out that the genetic material of their son didn’t match theirs, they feared that there was a terrible lab mix-up. Finally, the couple used 23andMe to go through genetic genealogy testing. According to it, the child’s father was actually his… uncle. Apparently, the real father must have been a twin, albeit a chimera. That means that a twin absorbed the cells from the other offspring after he died in the womb.
You do know the childten can have blood types that dont match the parents at all. It is rare, about 1 in 10,000 babies. In the old days they didnt realize it was possible and if the blood types did not match, they assumed the child was through an affair or something. Today we know that it is not true and you can have non matching blood types.
This, unfortunately, is not that rare. Evidently, more than 1/3 of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage in the first three weeks after conception. The "host" recognizes that there is something wrong with the baby, generally it is not viable, and "sheds" it. New pregnancy tests, unfortunately, are so sensitive, that the tests will confirm pregnancy that early and when the woman "loses" the child she is aware that she was pregnant and goes through a lot of "unnecessary" angst because she was aware of being pregnant and "losing' the baby. When there was absolutely NOTHING that could be done to "save" the baby.
I the old days they just assumed a miscarriage if their cycle was late. Lost a baby around 3 weeks. Didn't cycle for four months. I don't think this is uncommon.
Load More Replies...This is so crazy. I was pregnant with fraternal twins, then the next sonogram I had was 2 sacs but the other sac was empty. I wonder if my daughter absorbed her twin's DNA as well
Andrea Ramirez used a DNA test kit because she wanted to find out more about the history of her Mexican ancestry. However, not only did the results show that she wasn’t Mexican at all, but that the man she called dad wasn’t even her father. The woman looked at the potential family members in the 23andMe database and found a possible match of a half-sister and half-brother. Andrea later found out that her parents had used donor sperm to conceive her. She reached out to the matches and found her half-sister, Jennifer Rose Jones, who had been conceived at the same clinic as Andrea. The DNA showed that they shared the same father, and are now attempting to find him.
She was still culturally Mexican though. People shouldn't overstate the importance of genetics in what is, above all, a matter of cultural legacy.
I so agree, there is a difference between your heritage and your biological background.
Load More Replies...So they want to find their biological father and the father gave his sperm and probably wanted to stay anonymous. Whose rights are more important here? I don't know. What if a sperm donor is found by his 40 children who want something from him? What about responsibility?
They should not attempt to find their father. Sperm donors don't want to be contacted. That is not the point. It is selfish of these two poeple. They were raised by families that wanted children so badly they went to unusual lengths. Why does this discount them as their family? Why is genetic material so much more important?
I can understand wanting to know about family medical histories, but past that, you are right. That man is not your father.
Load More Replies...Why would they try and find him? They HAVE parents. Your parents are the people who raise you, not some anonymous dude who donated sperm because he was broke.
If the donor doesn't want to be found he should be left alone. Hopefully he left medical history when he donated.
This is exactly why I don't want to take one of these tests. I don't want to meet strangers that think they are my family.
I found out my father isn't my birth dad. Apparently my mother got pregnant by the neighborhood boy and she ran off with the circus, met my "dad", told him he got her pregnant and tricked him into believing I was his. I learned this through a DNA test, and she filled in the blanks. Sad thing is that both of my "dads" suck.
It's hard to figure out if someone will be good for yourself, even harder if they will make a good parent. I learned this the hard way. I hope you have a good relationship with your mom.
Load More Replies...I find the chimera cases really interesting. Is anyone else wondering how many times chimerism and mosaicism has effed up crime investigations?
Probably virtually nothing compared to failed justice resulting from incompetence, bias and nonsense legal system.
Load More Replies...I read a long Ask Reddit post about this once, some pretty amusing/shocking stories. One of the funniest things was all these Americans finding out that the family story about having Native American heritage was complete bullshit. Apparently it's quite a thing over there. I also think that sperm donors need some kind of non-identifying code attached, so that when people grow up and start dating they can make sure they don't inadvertently date a half sibling. I've definitely read multiple stories about that happening.
It sure is! I was told I am Indigenous. I was even told my grandfather was raised on a reservation and changed his last time when he became an adult. Lo and behold, I am as European white as they come.
Load More Replies...I actually enjoy the transparency of DNA tests. There is no more sweep-it-under-the-rug, like the 50's. Once everyone realizes how much is actually going on, it removes some stigma and lets kids grow up in a more honest place.
I agree, not to mention that from a health point of view it is super important to be aware of your lineage because of hereditary diseases and the like.
Load More Replies...My first thought is always how many people find out s**t they didn't want to know, lol! Like how you're uncle is your dad or your older sister is actually your mom. Awkward family gatherings are a definite potential side effect.
It always bothers me how much people try to hide things. If everyone were honest, they would realize everyone is just as f****d as everyone else.
Load More Replies...This is why I specifically looked for birth records and followed the female line in my ancestry search. The males were added, but I'm sure that a lot of them were fathers, but not necessarily biological fathers.
That's the smart way to go about genealogy. The average rate of a false paternity event is historically around 1 to 2 % per generation and accumulates to a much higher percentage the farther you go back along the male line. After they found the skeleton of Richard III. of England in 2011, some DNA tests were done on descendants to confirm it was really him. (It was, as confirmed by the female line descendants) But they found a false paternity event along the male line and when they tried to find out where along the line it had occured they found another one!
Load More Replies...I look just like my dad and my brother looks just like my mom. My daughter looks just like her dad since birth. My son looked like NOBODY his first couple of months and his eyes were so dark you couldn't even identify a color. If I hadn't birthed him and never left his sight in the hospital I would have thought he wasn't mine. Now he totally takes after me.
In Sweden, according to a 2001 article, 3000 children have another father than the one they thought they had. Considering that Sweden has a population of about 8 million at the time, that isnt that insignificant. Source: https://www.aftonbladet.se/nyheter/a/G1QAl6/3-000-barn-far-fel-pappa-varje-ar
We found out my dad's biological father was a high ranking Nazi assigned to oversee operations at Chelmno camp. When the camp was liberated, he evaded arrest by allied forces and took illegal refuge in the U.S.. He was discovered in Memphis in 1952 and extradited back to Europe where he was tried for his war crimes. Thank God my grandma only had a one night stand with this guy. Things would be pretty awkward during Hanukkah.
I found out my father isn't my birth dad. Apparently my mother got pregnant by the neighborhood boy and she ran off with the circus, met my "dad", told him he got her pregnant and tricked him into believing I was his. I learned this through a DNA test, and she filled in the blanks. Sad thing is that both of my "dads" suck.
It's hard to figure out if someone will be good for yourself, even harder if they will make a good parent. I learned this the hard way. I hope you have a good relationship with your mom.
Load More Replies...I find the chimera cases really interesting. Is anyone else wondering how many times chimerism and mosaicism has effed up crime investigations?
Probably virtually nothing compared to failed justice resulting from incompetence, bias and nonsense legal system.
Load More Replies...I read a long Ask Reddit post about this once, some pretty amusing/shocking stories. One of the funniest things was all these Americans finding out that the family story about having Native American heritage was complete bullshit. Apparently it's quite a thing over there. I also think that sperm donors need some kind of non-identifying code attached, so that when people grow up and start dating they can make sure they don't inadvertently date a half sibling. I've definitely read multiple stories about that happening.
It sure is! I was told I am Indigenous. I was even told my grandfather was raised on a reservation and changed his last time when he became an adult. Lo and behold, I am as European white as they come.
Load More Replies...I actually enjoy the transparency of DNA tests. There is no more sweep-it-under-the-rug, like the 50's. Once everyone realizes how much is actually going on, it removes some stigma and lets kids grow up in a more honest place.
I agree, not to mention that from a health point of view it is super important to be aware of your lineage because of hereditary diseases and the like.
Load More Replies...My first thought is always how many people find out s**t they didn't want to know, lol! Like how you're uncle is your dad or your older sister is actually your mom. Awkward family gatherings are a definite potential side effect.
It always bothers me how much people try to hide things. If everyone were honest, they would realize everyone is just as f****d as everyone else.
Load More Replies...This is why I specifically looked for birth records and followed the female line in my ancestry search. The males were added, but I'm sure that a lot of them were fathers, but not necessarily biological fathers.
That's the smart way to go about genealogy. The average rate of a false paternity event is historically around 1 to 2 % per generation and accumulates to a much higher percentage the farther you go back along the male line. After they found the skeleton of Richard III. of England in 2011, some DNA tests were done on descendants to confirm it was really him. (It was, as confirmed by the female line descendants) But they found a false paternity event along the male line and when they tried to find out where along the line it had occured they found another one!
Load More Replies...I look just like my dad and my brother looks just like my mom. My daughter looks just like her dad since birth. My son looked like NOBODY his first couple of months and his eyes were so dark you couldn't even identify a color. If I hadn't birthed him and never left his sight in the hospital I would have thought he wasn't mine. Now he totally takes after me.
In Sweden, according to a 2001 article, 3000 children have another father than the one they thought they had. Considering that Sweden has a population of about 8 million at the time, that isnt that insignificant. Source: https://www.aftonbladet.se/nyheter/a/G1QAl6/3-000-barn-far-fel-pappa-varje-ar
We found out my dad's biological father was a high ranking Nazi assigned to oversee operations at Chelmno camp. When the camp was liberated, he evaded arrest by allied forces and took illegal refuge in the U.S.. He was discovered in Memphis in 1952 and extradited back to Europe where he was tried for his war crimes. Thank God my grandma only had a one night stand with this guy. Things would be pretty awkward during Hanukkah.
