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Parents Leave Kid Alone With An iPad Their Whole Childhood, End Up With A “Cave Dwelling Freak”
Today’s kids were practically born with smartphones in their hands. Tablets are their playthings instead of regular toys. They will never know life without the internet, where social currency isn’t measured by likes, views, and shares.
While being a techy child has its upsides, the disadvantages can also be damaging. As you’ll read in today’s story, it can lead to a rough transition into adulthood.
Of course, experiences vary between each person, and this self-proclaimed “iPad kid” is sharing theirs. You will find the entire text as you scroll through.
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There is an alarming number of young children with possible digital addiction
A 2024 survey published in the Economic Times found that 60% of children between the ages of 5 and 16 have shown signs of possible gadget addiction. However, that is just one part of the problem.
The survey also revealed that 85% of parents struggle to manage their children’s online content usage, while only 10% use parental control features to limit screen time.
According to data scientist Professor Imed Bouchrika, exposing a child as young as four to a smartphone denies them the opportunity to learn social skills from face-to-face interactions. But that’s not the worst part.
As Prof. Bouchrika also notes, the constant overstimulation may cause the child’s brain to crave easy dopamine at a tender age. Those same dopamine cravings also exist in people addicted to various illegal substances and nicotine.
Are the parents to blame when a child is inseparable from their pocket-sized screens? Clinical psychologist Dr. Randy Kulman says partly yes.
In his article for Psychology Today, Dr. Kulman points out that “digital-age parents” don’t have a model for dealing with their children’s screen time. However, they are responsible for setting an example for their kids and ensuring no overuse.
It all comes down to the screen time rules
A good first step for parents of young children would be to lay the ground rules early on. An excellent blueprint would be the advice from the American Academy of Pediatrics, which discourages media use for children under 18 months unless it’s for video chatting.
Rules gradually change as children grow older. For kids ages 2 to 5, screen time must be limited to an hour daily of high-quality programming, such as educational videos. Programs like Sesame Street are still recommended for improving cognitive, literacy, and social outcomes.
Parents must establish more precise rules and reasonable limits for older children in their preteens and early teens. Mayo Clinic recommends encouraging unplugged, unstructured playtime and implementing “tech-free times,” such as during meals.
Screen limits may include curfews or forbidding exposure an hour before bed. They may also help keep screens out of the child’s bedroom or require them to charge devices outside.
Fortunately, the author realized the severity of their digital addiction, albeit a little late in life. Their experience is a cautionary tale about the dangers of a seemingly harmless gadget, especially when left unchecked.
The person elaborated more in the comments as readers expressed sympathy and shared well-wishes
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Fack Suckerberg 1 month ago (edited)
These are the results not only of stupid parents but of the horrible car centric lifestyle and toxic work culture in many parts of the world (Author is not from the US but from Philippines). In most parts of Europe the story would be totally different.
Corvus 1 month ago
Lazy parents, I'd say. So much easier to just put a distraction in your kid's hands than actually having to interact with them.
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Mari 1 month ago
Your parents neglected you. You had the Ipad, I had books. It is hard to realise that you were not so important to your parents. The reaction is to find connection with other people (online) extremist groups are always recruiting so you were also a victim. I am glad you've realised that you don't belong there and that you changed your point of view. Best way to connect with people is to find a hobby club were the others share the same interest of passion. Remember you are not the only one with less social skills, a lot of people have the same problem!
KrazyChiMama 1 month ago
I grew up before the internet and I was a book nerd. My mom used to take my books away and make me go outside to play. I thank her for this because I doubt I would have had much of a social life growing up if she didn’t. I had friends at the library but middle aged women aren’t the same as kids your own age :)
Fack Suckerberg 1 month ago (edited)
These are the results not only of stupid parents but of the horrible car centric lifestyle and toxic work culture in many parts of the world (Author is not from the US but from Philippines). In most parts of Europe the story would be totally different.
Corvus 1 month ago
Lazy parents, I'd say. So much easier to just put a distraction in your kid's hands than actually having to interact with them.
Load More Replies... Mari 1 month ago
Your parents neglected you. You had the Ipad, I had books. It is hard to realise that you were not so important to your parents. The reaction is to find connection with other people (online) extremist groups are always recruiting so you were also a victim. I am glad you've realised that you don't belong there and that you changed your point of view. Best way to connect with people is to find a hobby club were the others share the same interest of passion. Remember you are not the only one with less social skills, a lot of people have the same problem!
KrazyChiMama 1 month ago
I grew up before the internet and I was a book nerd. My mom used to take my books away and make me go outside to play. I thank her for this because I doubt I would have had much of a social life growing up if she didn’t. I had friends at the library but middle aged women aren’t the same as kids your own age :)
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