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“Trust Your Instincts”: Retired FBI Agent Shares Safety Tips Online And These Are Meant For Women
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Safety Tips That Might Come In Handy For Women, As Shared By This Former FBI Agent

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Like a waterproof watch or good insurance, some things seem rather useless until that one time they really pay off. Unfortunately, while crime has become increasingly rare, that doesn’t mean one shouldn’t still exercise some amounts of precaution.

An ex-FBI agent went viral for sharing a series of safety tips predominantly for women, but also useful for anyone else. So get out your favorite method of taking notes, take a quick glance behind your back and be sure to leave your own ideas and experiences in the comments down below.
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    So an ex-FBI agent started making videos sharing tips to stay safe

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    You can watch the full video here

    There are day to day precautions people can take

    Personal safety in public spaces is a matter of proactive risk management rather than a reaction to immediate threats. While modern society is generally safer than in decades past, data from the FBI Crime Data Explorer indicates that property crimes and personal larcenies remain a consistent reality in urban environments, necessitating a disciplined approach to how we navigate our daily lives.

    Maintaining safety begins with the psychological transition from a state of total distraction to one of active observation. Research conducted by the National Safety Council suggests that “distracted walking,” primarily caused by smartphone usage, has led to a significant increase in pedestrian accidents and a decrease in environmental awareness. When an individual is focused on a screen, they effectively forfeit their ability to detect subtle environmental changes or suspicious behavior, making them a more viable target for opportunistic crime.

    To mitigate these risks, safety professionals often recommend the implementation of the OODA Loop, Observe, Orient, Decide, Act, a decision-making framework originally developed for military combat but highly applicable to personal security. By observing the flow of people and the layout of a street, you can orient yourself to potential hazards such as poorly lit areas or blocked exits. This level of situational awareness allows you to make decisions long before a situation escalates. Statistics show that individuals who exhibit high levels of awareness are rarely chosen as targets. A seminal study by Grayson and Stein in 1981 demonstrated that potential offenders evaluate targets based on non-verbal cues. Those who walked with a short or awkward stride, displayed downward-looking eye contact, or showed signs of hesitation were significantly more likely to be perceived as vulnerable. Conversely, walking with a steady, purposeful gait and maintaining a neutral but alert posture projects a sense of capability that acts as a natural deterrent.

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    Being aware of your environment is always useful

    Beyond physical presence, the routes we choose and the timing of our travels play a critical role in statistical safety. Data from urban planning studies suggest that crimes are disproportionately concentrated in “hot spots” characterized by low natural surveillance and poor lighting. It is advisable to stick to primary thoroughfares where there is a consistent flow of both pedestrian and vehicular traffic. Even if a shortcut through a park or an alley saves five minutes, the statistical risk increase rarely justifies the time saved. If you find yourself in an unfamiliar area, using a navigation app is useful, but it is safer to memorize the next three turns or use a single earbud for audio directions rather than walking with the phone held out in front of you. Keeping your hands free is essential for maintaining balance and responding to your environment, carrying heavy bags or keeping hands buried in pockets reduces your reaction time significantly.

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    Digital tools should be used as a secondary layer of protection to enhance your physical security measures. Many modern smartphones include emergency SOS features that can be triggered discreetly, and sharing your real-time location with a trusted contact provides a digital safety net. For those utilizing public transportation or rideshare services, the protocols must be even more stringent. According to various rideshare safety reports, the most vulnerable moments occur during the initial pickup. It is a vital safety standard to verify the vehicle’s license plate and the driver’s identity before entering. Once inside, checking that the child safety locks are not engaged and tracking your own progress on a personal map ensures you are being taken to the correct destination. These small, repetitive actions form a comprehensive safety habit that reduces the likelihood of human error or predatory behavior.

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    The final and perhaps most important component of personal safety is the acknowledgment of the body’s physiological warning systems. The human brain is highly evolved to detect patterns that do not fit a safe environment, often manifesting as a “gut feeling” or a sense of unease. In the book The Gift of Fear, safety expert Gavin de Becker argues that intuition is a cognitive process that happens faster than conscious thought. Ignoring these signals in favor of social politeness is a common mistake that can lead to dangerous outcomes. If a situation feels incorrect, the most logical and serious advice is to remove yourself from that environment immediately. Safety is not a matter of luck, it is a calculated discipline of observing data, trusting your instincts, and maintaining a physical presence that communicates you are not a passive observer, but an active participant in your own security. By integrating these practices into your daily routine, you move through the world with a grounded, statistical advantage that prioritizes your well-being.

    Commenters also gave their own tips

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    Justin Sandberg

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    Dominyka Proškėnaitė

    Dominyka Proškėnaitė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, crafting captivating visual content to enhance every reader's experience. Sometimes my mornings are spent diving into juicy dramas, while afternoons are all about adding extra laughs to the world by editing the funniest memes around. My favorite part of the job? Choosing the perfect images to illustrate articles. It's like imagining a story as a movie in my mind and selecting the key shots to tell the story visually.

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    CaliPanda
    Community Member
    5 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I travel a lot for business and second all of these suggestions. I would add carry a Birdie alarm and pepper gel (not spray). Keeping your head on a swivel is key.

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got Birdie alarms for my wife, stepdaughter, and daughter... but they don't carry them. 😕

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    ADHD
    Community Member
    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if at a petrol station, if approached and u think its something dangerous, spray the heck out of em with pump. was a viral video of a lady doing that. the attack failed

    Mari
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes I see people together but I feel that there is something off. I can feel that the woman is scared. Than follow them for a time, just to be sure that there is no emergency situation and that in case someone wants help, I am near.

    CaliPanda
    Community Member
    5 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I travel a lot for business and second all of these suggestions. I would add carry a Birdie alarm and pepper gel (not spray). Keeping your head on a swivel is key.

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got Birdie alarms for my wife, stepdaughter, and daughter... but they don't carry them. 😕

    Load More Replies...
    ADHD
    Community Member
    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if at a petrol station, if approached and u think its something dangerous, spray the heck out of em with pump. was a viral video of a lady doing that. the attack failed

    Mari
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes I see people together but I feel that there is something off. I can feel that the woman is scared. Than follow them for a time, just to be sure that there is no emergency situation and that in case someone wants help, I am near.

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