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“Guests May Be Uncomfortable”: Bride And Groom Take Woman’s Hairy Armpits As Personal Insult
Woman showing hairy armpits while wearing a white tank top, highlighting natural body hair and personal grooming choice.

“Guests May Be Uncomfortable”: Bride And Groom Take Woman’s Hairy Armpits As Personal Insult

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Many weddings have a dress code. Usually, it’s black tie or formal attire, and many people agree that violating that etiquette would be bad. In fact, 79% of Americans say that showing up in casual attire would almost always be inappropriate. When it’s a destination wedding, the dress code might be even more important.

For this couple, it was certainly so, as they reprimanded one of their friends about her body hair. Since the event would take place at the beach, the woman was asked to shave her armpit hair, as it would distract other guests. When she stood her ground, the couple got mad, calling her out for doing this as some feminist protest, even though she said she kept her armpit hair for other reasons.

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    The couple asked her to remove it, since it would distract other guests, but she just didn’t feel comfortable

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    Woman refuses to shave hairy armpits despite bride and groom's discomfort at personal insult over grooming choice

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    Commenters offered the woman mixed reactions: some praised her for standing her ground

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    Woman explains stopping shaving armpits amid discomfort from bride and groom viewing hairy armpits as personal insult.

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    Others, however, told her she was being unreasonable and thought that visible armpit hair would be a sign of poor grooming

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    LB
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder, would the YTA commenters think it appropriate to have a no-beards policy at your wedding?

    Ashtophet
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just read a story where groomsmen had beard tans because the bride made them shave. Serves her right…

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop politicising women's choice to have their natural body hair. I sniggered a bit when my ex got together with newb and she does not shave. But since then I rarely shave and actually I sweat less it seems. How about just trimming and then dyeing them a matching colour to your outfit. As someone said, if armpit hair is going to be the centre of the wedding, those people really need to get a life. And that includes the guests who would be clutching everything in sight. Get some smelling salts for those who might swoon at the sight of natural body hair. Gsus.

    L.V
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She offered to trim, and that wasn't good enough for them... I think she just needs better friends!

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    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who would be too distracted at a wedding byy a woman's underarms? That sounds like an odd f****h to me. But it doesn't matter because OPs friends have made the point that they think she's disgusting, so I'd say go to Mexico, enjoy the free booze and the sunshine and then distance yourself . Everyone deserves better friends.

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    LB
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder, would the YTA commenters think it appropriate to have a no-beards policy at your wedding?

    Ashtophet
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just read a story where groomsmen had beard tans because the bride made them shave. Serves her right…

    Load More Replies...
    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop politicising women's choice to have their natural body hair. I sniggered a bit when my ex got together with newb and she does not shave. But since then I rarely shave and actually I sweat less it seems. How about just trimming and then dyeing them a matching colour to your outfit. As someone said, if armpit hair is going to be the centre of the wedding, those people really need to get a life. And that includes the guests who would be clutching everything in sight. Get some smelling salts for those who might swoon at the sight of natural body hair. Gsus.

    L.V
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She offered to trim, and that wasn't good enough for them... I think she just needs better friends!

    Load More Replies...
    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who would be too distracted at a wedding byy a woman's underarms? That sounds like an odd f****h to me. But it doesn't matter because OPs friends have made the point that they think she's disgusting, so I'd say go to Mexico, enjoy the free booze and the sunshine and then distance yourself . Everyone deserves better friends.

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