“In My Pool Again”: Brats Invade Pool Like It’s A Public Space, Homeowner Finally Snaps
Interview With ExpertThere’s nothing more refreshing than going for a swim on a sweltering summer day. You can feel all of your worries melt away after submerging yourself into a cool pool. But having access to a swimming pool isn’t a luxury all of us have. And if you can go swimming any time you want, you better not take that for granted…
One homeowner recently reached out to Reddit for advice after they noticed their neighbors children showing up in their pool unannounced and unsupervised. Below, you’ll find all of the details, as well as a conversation with Safe Kids Worldwide.
Having a pool to swim in is a huge luxury when you’re a kid
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But after this homeowner’s neighbors started taking advantage of their pool, they decided that it would be completely off limits
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“Drowning happens quickly and quietly, so no single prevention strategy is enough”
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I spent countless hours in the pool as a kid. Growing up in a city that had brutal summers, the swimming pool was the only outdoor place I could enjoy without being drenched in sweat in a matter of minutes. But as much fun as swimming can be for children, it’s important for parents to understand safety before letting their little ones go for a dip.
To learn more about water safety, we got in touch with Safe Kids Worldwide. They were kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and explain why parents should never leave their kids unattended around water.
“Drowning is the leading cause of death among children between 1 and 4 years old, and it’s the third leading cause of unintentional injury-related death among children 19 and under,” the safety experts shared. “Drowning happens quickly and quietly, so no single prevention strategy is enough. We therefore recommend layers of protection to keep kids safe in and around the water.”
“Here are our top tips: Barriers and alarms. It’s important to use 4-sided pool fencing with a self-latching, self-locking gate, pool safety covers and alarms to prevent unsupervised access,” Safe Kids Worldwide says.
Next, they note that all kids should have the ability to swim. “Make sure children learn how to swim, including the 5 water survival skills, so they are able to: step or jump into the water over their heads and return to the surface; turn around and orient to safety; float or tread water; combine breathing with forward movement in the water; exit the water.”
“Every child is different, so enroll children in lessons when they are ready,” Safe Kids Worldwide says. “Consider their age, development, and how often they are around water when deciding if they are ready. Parents who don’t know how to swim should also consider taking lessons.”
“Both parents and children themselves can overestimate their swimming ability”
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Supervision is also crucial. “Watch kids when they are in and around water, without being distracted. Keep young children and non-swimmers within arm’s reach of an adult at all times,” the experts continued. “To protect young children and non-swimmers when you are around but are not expecting to be in the water use an age and weight appropriate USCG approved life jacket.”
“Designate an adult Water Watcher to watch children in or near the water for a certain amount of time. Adults can take turns with this assigned responsibility,” Safe Kids Worldwide recommends. They even have a Water Water Card that can be can be downloaded from their site.
But even if your kids know how to swim, it’s not a good idea to leave them unattended near water. “Both parents and children themselves can overestimate their swimming ability, and even good swimmers can drown,” the safety experts shared. “Sometimes kids get into trouble in the water when they try to keep up with others, swim or play in the pool for too long, or hold their breath for a long time.”
“If you choose not to supervise older children who can swim, it’s important that they swim with a partner every time — never alone, so there is someone there to help if something goes wrong,” they added.
“While drowning in pools gets significant attention, the fact is more children and teens fatally drown in open water,” Safe Kids Worldwide pointed out. “Teach children that swimming in open water is different from swimming in a pool, and be aware of situations unique to open water, such as limited visibility, depth, uneven surfaces, currents, and undertow. Children should wear a U.S. Coast Guard-approved personal flotation device appropriate for their weight and the water activity. Swimming aids and water toys such as water wings do not prevent drowning.”
We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation, pandas. How would you react if you were in this homeowner’s shoes? Feel free to weigh in. Then, you can find another Bored Panda article discussing pool drama between neighbors right here.
Readers unanimously took the homeowner’s side and suggested they install a security system to ensure the kids don’t show up again
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WTF is with all these stories about going in neighbors' pools?? My neighbour as a kid had a pool but I'd never have had the gall.
I was just thinking this. In 20+ years of living next door to neighbors with a pool, my kids were in it once, with their father. The neighbors kindly said “oh they can come over and swim any time”, not a chance! Too much risk for everyone.
Load More Replies...No need, let them watch Jaws, then switch on the pool cleaner when they are in it. I walked on water one day when that happened...
Load More Replies...No fence ==>> illegal in civilization. Don’t know about some other states
Fence is usually about insurance rather than planning permission, but it's cute that you think all of civilization will have the same laws
Load More Replies...Anyone who thinks that your private property should be made available for the local children needs to give themselves a reality check. If I’ve paid for the property, serviced the pool, kept it in tip top condition then I’ve done that for ME and my family. Want a pool? Buy your own, go to the local public pool, swim in a lake for all I care it’s not on me to service your needs.
If you followed the rules that most municipalities have, fenced in locked up. Call the police and have them arrested for breaking and entry, and trespass. Their parents might get angry with you but since they are such bad parents who needs them for friends
Allowing your children to be unsupervised at a pool on someone else's property is a matter for Child Protective Services. The trespassing is a matter for the police. Tell the tut-tutting neighbors to build their own pools and invite the little heathens over. (Well, they'll come whether they're invited or not, won't they?)
The OPs neighbor is a negligent parent. She allowed her minor children to swim unsupervised! Drowning in a home pool is a very real hazard for children. The OP definitely needs to secure their pool area and make it very clear trespassing won't be tolerated. I'd send any critiquing neighbor a news article about a drowning death related to unsupervised children to remind them of the very real danger.
EFF what the neighbors think. Ask them if they're going to pitch in and cover the increased cost of your insurance and contribute toward the upkeep and maintenance of the pool? Oh they won't? Then EFF them and their opinions about you being the bad guy.
NTA. It's one strike and out for me. And get proof! don't let it be a he said / she said. I'd be getting a police report on trespass.
This is an older post that was posted months ago please be careful with reposting the same post twice
You're right. Don't know why someone down voted your post. I'll give an arrow up.
Load More Replies...The entitlement of some people astounds me , someones got a pool so they need to share it with my amazing kids. Seems one cannot have nice stuff anymore unless you move remote ...
Do you not have it fenced, with a locked gate?? Or are they just climbing over?
"just a pool" - yes, MY pool and you ruined it for your own kids by not parenting properly.
The homeowner ITA. You can be fined for not having a lock on your gate that prevents unauthorized access to your pool. That pool should have been locked up tight from the beginning.
WTF is with all these stories about going in neighbors' pools?? My neighbour as a kid had a pool but I'd never have had the gall.
I was just thinking this. In 20+ years of living next door to neighbors with a pool, my kids were in it once, with their father. The neighbors kindly said “oh they can come over and swim any time”, not a chance! Too much risk for everyone.
Load More Replies...No need, let them watch Jaws, then switch on the pool cleaner when they are in it. I walked on water one day when that happened...
Load More Replies...No fence ==>> illegal in civilization. Don’t know about some other states
Fence is usually about insurance rather than planning permission, but it's cute that you think all of civilization will have the same laws
Load More Replies...Anyone who thinks that your private property should be made available for the local children needs to give themselves a reality check. If I’ve paid for the property, serviced the pool, kept it in tip top condition then I’ve done that for ME and my family. Want a pool? Buy your own, go to the local public pool, swim in a lake for all I care it’s not on me to service your needs.
If you followed the rules that most municipalities have, fenced in locked up. Call the police and have them arrested for breaking and entry, and trespass. Their parents might get angry with you but since they are such bad parents who needs them for friends
Allowing your children to be unsupervised at a pool on someone else's property is a matter for Child Protective Services. The trespassing is a matter for the police. Tell the tut-tutting neighbors to build their own pools and invite the little heathens over. (Well, they'll come whether they're invited or not, won't they?)
The OPs neighbor is a negligent parent. She allowed her minor children to swim unsupervised! Drowning in a home pool is a very real hazard for children. The OP definitely needs to secure their pool area and make it very clear trespassing won't be tolerated. I'd send any critiquing neighbor a news article about a drowning death related to unsupervised children to remind them of the very real danger.
EFF what the neighbors think. Ask them if they're going to pitch in and cover the increased cost of your insurance and contribute toward the upkeep and maintenance of the pool? Oh they won't? Then EFF them and their opinions about you being the bad guy.
NTA. It's one strike and out for me. And get proof! don't let it be a he said / she said. I'd be getting a police report on trespass.
This is an older post that was posted months ago please be careful with reposting the same post twice
You're right. Don't know why someone down voted your post. I'll give an arrow up.
Load More Replies...The entitlement of some people astounds me , someones got a pool so they need to share it with my amazing kids. Seems one cannot have nice stuff anymore unless you move remote ...
Do you not have it fenced, with a locked gate?? Or are they just climbing over?
"just a pool" - yes, MY pool and you ruined it for your own kids by not parenting properly.
The homeowner ITA. You can be fined for not having a lock on your gate that prevents unauthorized access to your pool. That pool should have been locked up tight from the beginning.

































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