Teen Is Kicked Out For Getting Girl Pregnant, 13 Years Later Parents Want To Meet Their Grandkid

Can't agree enough with the above. They've had 13 freaking years in which they could have contacted you and they didn't. And now, now that things have finally settled down for you, now that you are content with life, they want to reconnect? Do you realise that you could jeopardize all that by letting these people, who have proved themselves to be less than stellar, into your life again? Please don't fall for their 'it's our grandchild' or 'it's family' blackmail. You owe them nothing. Don't let them near you and don't let them near your daughter at any price.

Heck, even up to 5 years it'd make some sense. But not only did that not happen but they never tried to find OP/go to him before this. Too busy being angry at two kids. And then acting like they should be forgiven because they realised they actually missed OP. Nope. Kicking out a 15 should not be a step taken unless the 15 year old is dangerous to others in the home and even then there are better processes (legal) and programs (in patient medical) usually. As upset as they had a right to be how they handled the upset and the insults is not it.

That's exactly what I was thinking. Those so called parents are abject filth and he's and his daughter are far better off without them.

Yeah… They have made the wrong decision every single day of every week of every month of aaaall those 13 years; again and again, the have chosen to remain bad people. As if it wasn’t enough that they lost whatever spine they might have otherwise have possessed and illegally abandoned their minor child at the mere hint of hardship - they’ve kept abandoning him by not correcting their monstrous wrongdoing. They’ve done this over the span of more than a decade. I don’t know if I’d bother - they opted out. They opted out in the very beginning, and ever since. What they needed to be ashamed of was naturally never their son, but their pathetic failure at parenthood. I’m hoping this one isn’t real but this unfortunately happens depressingly often.