Couple Holds A Grudge Against Woman For Moving In Where They Lived, Floods Her With Complaints

Apartment living has its fair share of upsides and drawbacks. While lower maintenance costs and the convenience of amenities are among the pros, living in a tight space too close to a neighbor can be a significant downside. 

This was a problem a homeowner dealt with living next to an older couple, who constantly complained about “noises” she was supposedly making during reasonable hours. Oddly enough, the people who repeatedly made a fuss couldn’t keep their dog from barking and causing a disturbance.

The woman has had enough and wants to give her neighbors a piece of her mind. However, she is unsure how to convey the message.

An apartment tenant has been dealing with an uptight neighbor

Woman frustrated with noise complaints, leans against wall, eyes closed, in a room with plants and shelves.

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According to her, the couple next door constantly complains about the “noises” she makes during reasonable hours

Text reads "I need advice on how to reply, if at all" about noise complaints from neighbors in rented homes.

Text describing a family's move to a bigger unit in August for more space.

Text reads about an older couple now living below with adult children, previously in the current unit.

Text describing neighbor noise complaint and response.

Text about a woman dealing with neighborhood noise complaints, expressing frustration and seeking ways to respond.

Message about building a flat pack dining bench, neighbors complain about family noise.

Text exchange where a neighbor complains about noise affecting migraines and waking their granddaughter.

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She has since prepared a message for her neighbors but is unsure if she worded it properly

Text reads: Daughter afraid to make noise on deck due to neighbor complaints.

Text about neighbors holding a grudge over noise and claiming territorial rights in their old place.

Text exchange invites neighbor to visit and experience noise concerns firsthand.

Text asking for advice, perspective on a message draft about neighbor noise complaints.

Text excerpt about neighbors and noise complaints, a response to excessive messaging.

Text from a neighbor's complaint about acceptable daytime noise levels.

Woman in orange shirt listening intently, responding to neighbors' noise complaints.

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In her note, she also offered a practical suggestion and ways to help keep the peace

Text image saying, "We are not stomping around or banging for fun, we’re just spending time in our home doing normal everyday things.

Text from a woman responding to neighbor complaints about noise.

Text screenshot of a soundproofing suggestion in response to noise complaints from neighbors.

Text message from woman responding to neighbors' noise complaints, mentioning trades workers and daily living sounds.

Text image expressing frustrations about neighbors, shift work, migraines, children, and shared living spaces.

Text excerpt about noise complaints and a woman's perspective on neighborhood noise issues.

Text from a woman responding to neighbors about noise complaints and mutual respect in community living.

Image credits: Tygmaa

The author shared an update, stating that her message was left on “seen”

Text of a woman's response to neighbors complaining about noise.

There typically are specific definitions for what is considered “excessive noise”

According to the author, the neighbors were complaining about vacuum cleaning sounds at 1:30 pm and “pounding” from when she was building a flat pack dining bench at 4:30 in the afternoon. 

Most property management companies have definitions of excessive noise. According to Orlando-based Bahia Property Management and All County Property Management, these include loud music or TV, parties or gatherings, heavy footsteps or furniture movement, arguments, and pet noises like barking dogs. 

Apartments also generally have quiet hours, usually when people are asleep. According to Bahia, these are usually between 10 pm and 7 am on weekdays and 11 pm and 8 pm on weekends. 

According to Bay Property Management president Patrick Freeze, handling a noise complaint involves documenting the noise, talking to the neighbor in question, and raising the issue with the landlord. 

Regarding documentation, Freeze urges being as detailed as possible. It should include when the noise happened, what it sounded like, and how often it occurs. 

If talking to the neighbor does not work, Freeze advises the third step, which involves the landlord. He specifically recommends making a request in writing while reminding them of any noise clauses. 

The author had already completed step two by sending her neighbor a respectful yet stern note. However, since it fell on deaf ears, she may need to raise the issue with the landlord, someone with enough authority to handle the situation and make necessary decisions. 

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Most people in the comments were on her side

Reddit exchange about noise complaints and co-op living, with users discussing how to respond thoughtfully.

Neighbors complain post: "Impeccable. No notes." with a reply: "Thanks for that.

Neighbors complain about noise; woman claps back in online post.

Comments on dealing with noise complaints from neighbors, suggesting setting boundaries and considering blocking them.

Discussion about neighbor complaints with a focus on living in a co-op.

Reddit comments discussing neighbor noise complaints and passive-aggressive responses.

Neighbors clash over noise complaints; woman defends herself with humor.

Reddit discussion about neighbor noise complaints and soundproofing solutions, including adding rugs to reduce noise.

Text exchange about neighbor complaints and family noise with supportive advice.

Neighbors complain about noise; woman responds by discussing her experience with migraines in an online conversation.

Two comments discussing neighbor complaints about family noise and supportive responses.

Reddit user Tygmaa shares a story about unreasonable neighbor complaints, asserting her family's right to live peacefully.

Others shared their suggestions

Comment on Reddit about a woman's response to neighbor complaints on noise.

Text post about struggling to type correctly on a first draft from a user on an online forum, discussing neighbor noise.

Reddit comment on neighbor issues, suggesting calm discussions over noise complaints for resolution.

Text post about noise sensitivity and moving to a condo; mentions shared spaces and respectful neighbor relationships.

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