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Guy Decides To Put His Future First, Takes Girlfriend’s Dad To Court
Police officer checking driveru2019s ID during traffic stop, highlighting cop wrongfully tickets driver for speeding incident.
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Guy Decides To Put His Future First, Takes Girlfriend’s Dad To Court

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If you’ve ever been pulled over by a cop you might know the sense of dread. Or possibly confusion. Especially if you’re convinced you did nothing wrong. There are countless stories of officers unlawfully accusing, arresting, or even punishing innocent people. Some citizens stand up for their rights, while others let it slide.

When one guy received a speeding fine despite driving under the limit, he was not happy. He doesn’t want his licence tarnished for nothing. So he’s considering heading to court to contest it. The problem is, the officer who ticketed him is his girlfriend’s dad. And the guy is wondering if he should rather just pay the fine for the sake of his relationship. But netizens smell a rat.

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    Being wrongfully accused by a cop is generally not the greatest feeling

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    But when the officer turns out to be your girlfriend’s father, it takes things to a whole new level

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    A traffic fine can end up costing you a lot more than just what’s written on the ticket, and here’s why…

    The average cost of a speeding ticket in the United States is around $150. It really depends on where you are and what you did, or were accused of doing.

    If you’re caught speeding in Tennessee, consider yourself (sort of) lucky. That state has the least expensive speeding fines, and they can’t exceed $50. However, breaking the rules of the road in Virginia or Illinois carries a maximum penalty of $2,500. That’s according to Escort Radar, a company that specializes in advanced radar detection and smart technology.

    But there are many more hidden costs, regardless of where you get your speeding ticket. And if you’re convinced you didn’t break the law, it pays to contest the fine. “By simply paying a speeding ticket, you are admitting guilt and even the lowest level violation could add points to your license,” explains Escort Radar. “Points are added to your driver’s license when you’re found guilty of a moving violation.”

    These points on your license can increase your insurance premiums. Again, this varies by state and insurance provider, and just how fast you were going. But some drivers could see their premiums skyrocketing by up to 80%.

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    “The more points you accumulate, the higher your insurance premiums will be,” notes the site. “While two points may only see a 45% increase, additional points could see rates jump 80%.” But wait, there’s more. If you accumulate 12 points, your license may be suspended.

    It takes around three years of good driving for insurance premiums to return to normal after a speeding ticket and points are added to a driver’s record.

    So what should you do if you suspect you’ve been served a bogus speeding ticket?

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    Always sign the ticket. Regardless of whether you believe you’re guilty or not. That’s the advice from Bigger + Harman, APC, a California-based law firm of specialist traffic defense attorneys. Their experts say that signing your ticket is not an admission of guilt.

    “It is a promise to resolve your ticket by paying the fine or appearing in court on your arraignment date,” they say. “If you do not sign, the officer is obligated to take you into the precinct, and you have to pay bail instead of being released on your own recognizance.”

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    You should also write down everything you can remember about the ticket, as soon as possible. There are many reasons why your ticket might be dismissed or reduced. And if you’re not clued up, you probably won’t know all, or any.

    This is why it pays to consult with a traffic ticket attorney. You could very likely get a free initial consultation. Take advantage of that, say the team at Bigger + Harman. They advise that you take your notes with you and brief the legal expert. If they are a reputable traffic attorney, they will tell you if you have a case to challenge the ‘bogus speeding ticket.’

    “Guilt has nothing to do with it,” reads the firm’s site. “Most are too busy to take your case if they don’t believe they cannot get it reduced or dismissed.”

    They also stress that you should make sure to consult with a traffic ticket defense attorney. Lawyers specializing in other areas might not fare as well. “Traffic courts are notoriously busy and fast-paced,” warns the team. “A family lawyer will get lost in traffic court.”

    By the same token, it isn’t wise to go to court alone. “If you have the extra money, and you always wanted to represent yourself and play Perry Mason or Allie [sic] McBeal, save it for a cell phone ticket,” suggests Biggar + Harman, quite humorously. But there’s a good reason you might want to take the advice.

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    “Cell phone tickets have no Negligent Operator Treatment System (NOTS) points, and the fine for a first offense is only about $150,” they explain. “Otherwise, CA traffic tickets are some of the highest in the country.”

    According to Escort Radar, if you contest your speeding ticket and win, your insurance company will forgive the ticket, and you won’t have any infraction points on your license. “And if the officer fails to appear at the trial, you may win by default,” they add.

    Some other advice from their experts is to take a defensive driving class, as some insurance companies will accept class completion as a method to reduce premiums. You can also consider changing insurance companies. “Every insurance company is different, so shop around for new rates after getting a ticket, taking advantage of any accident forgiveness you can find,” reads the site.

    But, most importantly, for your sake, and those around you: Slow down.

    “Godspeed to you!”: Netizens had loads of advice for the BF, and many urged him to go to court

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    But not everyone was in the guy’s lane, and felt he should rethink things

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    The guy later thanked people for giving him the courage to fight his case

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    Jo Firth
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's with the YTA person trying to say there may have been a problem with the radar gun calibration. How does that change the fact that he can prove he wasn't speeding? Also, they're 18 and 19 - let go now because the odds on this relationship going full term are very slim (especially when her father is a arsehole).

    Wild Cream
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And also, if there was a problem with the radar gun calibration - then you SHOULD GO TO COURT to dispute it 😂 the YTAs are so weird for insinuating OP should just take the loss simply because the radar gun might have been wrong.

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    Cyndi Hafele
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What happened to a warning? Maybe daddy-o doesn't like you, maybe he thinks you're bad for his daughter, if he didn't recognize your vehicle before the stop, he certainly knew it was you after. He probably didn't know you had a dashcam, and figured you would just suck it up and pay. Say goodbye to your girlfriend, she's pretty much gone already.

    Kyla Baxter
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is this “warning” thing people speak of? That’s not a thing in most jurisdictions anymore because 1) quotas 2) it gets used a little bit too discriminately.

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dump the GF, fight the ticket. Being 19, I imagine his insurance rates are already very high. A bogus speeding ticket would send them thru the roof. Not to mention the ding on his drivers' licence.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dump her, take him to court, lessons for everyone.

    Mike Barrette
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fight the ticket. Dump the girlfriend. This won't be the last time daddy's little girl does something like this.

    Robert Beveridge
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her father knows EXACTLY what he is doing. Nothing about this is accidental/oversight/in any way professional.

    Roni Stone
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Challenge this in court, your faithless girlfriend aside.

    A S Mora
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't date cops and don't date people with cops in the family, full stop. This sounds like a power move on Daddy Law's part: he knows the ramifications of a speeding ticket on a young driver's record and wants to prove to this guy that while he may get to date his daughter, Cop-Daddy calls the shots and is not to be crossed. Fight the ticket and dump the daughter.

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You mean all cops should remain single forever? If so, how would they have a family? Anyway, yes, as Judge Judy often points out, the chances of them being a couple in 5 years is minimal even if they were married, let alone just dating.

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    Janine Randall
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe daddy cop is testing bf. If he fights the ticket, he's a stand up guy. If he doesn't, maybe daddy cop will think he's too big of a wimp for dear daughter.

    Kyla Baxter
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This girl is either a teenage drama queen who doesn’t actually know how her dad’s job works and is imagining all kinds of dramatic scenarios like him getting fired (someone please explain qualified immunity to her) OR her dad is an a*****e jerk. And the YTA people are nuts.

    DrBronxx
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The gf says that OP is trying to accuse her dad of either lying or make a serious mistake. Well…duh. Those are literally the options if OP really has evidence to show he was under the speed limit the entire time.

    Jack Sonol
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GFs reaction to the situation seems extreme to me, like she's assuming her dad will get fired if it goes to court. It's highly telling how worried she is about someone challenging her fathers authority. Almost like she has 13 years of bad memories when someone challenges his authority. However, the thing I'm most disappointed about is no update. This could go a thousand different directions ranging from completely wholesome to utterly horrifying. We'll never know!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We just know cop dad is testing the op lol , n he totally must fight that ticket , n have a talk with his gf asap ,cos somethings off with her ! NTA OP gf however is !

    Jonathan Setter
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% daddy playing an arsehole power move. Time to get out of that relationship, you just found out cops are dangerous. If you leave, hopefully he will forget you exist. If you stay, he is going to ramp up the abuse until you go.

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it all on OP when the cop is the liar? OP is the one that has to do everything to make sure the father feels ok? The cop could also retract his ticket or just not show up to court, allowing the ticket to be dismissed... which happens all the time. He doesn't have to admit he was wrong or lying. But no, OP is the one that has to eat the cost of the ticket and increase in insurance to "kEeP tHe PeaCe". Ironic given cops are also known as peace officers.

    Game Guy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's going to impact his career? Is she out of her mind? Cops shoot people for no reason and get away with it but a bogus ticket is going to trash his professional record? I don't think so.

    Jack Sonol
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cops do far more than shoot people and get away with it. People get paralyzed and suffer all kinds of permanent injuries due to negligence or incompetence and on extremely rare occasions the offending officers get a minor slap on the wrist and go back to work.

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    Mark Childers
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most cops realize that speedometers can vary by a mile or two and let it go. I have had so many bogus tickets through the years that I've lost count. I've also had some legit ones. I fought every one of them. The fines, the points against my license, and the insane insurance rate increase for three years is worth trying. I easily won all of the bogus tickets (some were really stupid, and I'm just guessing they happened because the cop was bored), and 99% of the legit ones (we're talking minor things where it was really a judgment call).

    Mary Muir
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. Gf's father was acting in his professional capacity as a law enforcement officer when he gave you the ticket, and it's your right as a citizen to contest it. Shouldn't have anything to do with the gf. If it does have something to do with the gf, then that's wrong. Law enforcement officers are required to conduct themselves appropriately and professionally when on duty. Ticketing someone wrongfully just because they are your daughter's bf is not on. That's an abuse of authority. If in court he claims that the radar gun showed a different speed, you can ask for proof of that reading and then ask when that radar gun was last calibrated. Sometimes your speedometer can be off as well, especially if you've installed different tires from the standard equipment for your vehicle. And then when all the evidence is there, the judge makes the call. Not you, not the father, the court decides. And it's wrong for gf to interfere and make it about herself.

    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Daddy sending a message, time to break up with her.

    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately GPS-based logs will not be taken as proof. Anyone who's ever driven (or sailed, skied, flown) with a GPS device should be aware that they're not always accurate, prone to interference from surrounding objects and for example will quite often show peak speeds several times higher than realistic, due to one wayward reading.

    Jack Sonol
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry dude but you are wrong. I use GPS professionally (Surveyor) and I drive a lot using Maps, GPS is more accurate than your speedometer. Police radar systems are much more prone to malfunction than phone GPS. His dashcam footage will give all the information needed to tell if he was experiencing interference, and they will test the cops radar system before the court date.

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    Paulo Leitao
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    is the gf willing to pay out of her own pocket? if not, she has no say in this. end of.

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's definitely got to go to court if he has the evidence of not speeding. It Will affect his license, his insurance and future work if a works vehicle is involved. It's awkward from the family side of things but that's his driving capacity affected and potentially career affecting too.

    Trashy Panda
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who sues a cop over a traffic ticket? You fight the ticket in court, and with your evidence you just might win. I don't know where you live but if it's the US you don't stand a chance suing a cop with Qualified Immunity.

    Ginger Winters
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do believe op being young and his first ticket might be using the wrong terms especially considering the way he described the court hearing. It sounds more like fighting the ticket

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    SouthernGal
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did he ever think about just talking to the dad about it before going to court? A calm discussion can solve a lot of problems before they escalate. He has nothing to lose. If he’s man enough to let the dad know he plans to go to court first, he might gain a lot of respect in dad’s eyes.

    Dori
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty sure once a ticket is issued, you have to go to court to contest it. The ticket is in the system and you can't remove it.

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    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fight it if you want. Just know, you'll have to move somewhere far away. Cops will make your life a living hell with retaliation because you fought the ticket. Even then, they'll call in favors from a different force. Sorry, but that's how it is. Cop's egos can't take what they think is disrespect. I've seen it happen, a person had to move basically across country.

    Jo Firth
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's with the YTA person trying to say there may have been a problem with the radar gun calibration. How does that change the fact that he can prove he wasn't speeding? Also, they're 18 and 19 - let go now because the odds on this relationship going full term are very slim (especially when her father is a arsehole).

    Wild Cream
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And also, if there was a problem with the radar gun calibration - then you SHOULD GO TO COURT to dispute it 😂 the YTAs are so weird for insinuating OP should just take the loss simply because the radar gun might have been wrong.

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    Cyndi Hafele
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What happened to a warning? Maybe daddy-o doesn't like you, maybe he thinks you're bad for his daughter, if he didn't recognize your vehicle before the stop, he certainly knew it was you after. He probably didn't know you had a dashcam, and figured you would just suck it up and pay. Say goodbye to your girlfriend, she's pretty much gone already.

    Kyla Baxter
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is this “warning” thing people speak of? That’s not a thing in most jurisdictions anymore because 1) quotas 2) it gets used a little bit too discriminately.

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dump the GF, fight the ticket. Being 19, I imagine his insurance rates are already very high. A bogus speeding ticket would send them thru the roof. Not to mention the ding on his drivers' licence.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dump her, take him to court, lessons for everyone.

    Mike Barrette
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fight the ticket. Dump the girlfriend. This won't be the last time daddy's little girl does something like this.

    Robert Beveridge
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her father knows EXACTLY what he is doing. Nothing about this is accidental/oversight/in any way professional.

    Roni Stone
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Challenge this in court, your faithless girlfriend aside.

    A S Mora
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't date cops and don't date people with cops in the family, full stop. This sounds like a power move on Daddy Law's part: he knows the ramifications of a speeding ticket on a young driver's record and wants to prove to this guy that while he may get to date his daughter, Cop-Daddy calls the shots and is not to be crossed. Fight the ticket and dump the daughter.

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You mean all cops should remain single forever? If so, how would they have a family? Anyway, yes, as Judge Judy often points out, the chances of them being a couple in 5 years is minimal even if they were married, let alone just dating.

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    Janine Randall
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe daddy cop is testing bf. If he fights the ticket, he's a stand up guy. If he doesn't, maybe daddy cop will think he's too big of a wimp for dear daughter.

    Kyla Baxter
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This girl is either a teenage drama queen who doesn’t actually know how her dad’s job works and is imagining all kinds of dramatic scenarios like him getting fired (someone please explain qualified immunity to her) OR her dad is an a*****e jerk. And the YTA people are nuts.

    DrBronxx
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The gf says that OP is trying to accuse her dad of either lying or make a serious mistake. Well…duh. Those are literally the options if OP really has evidence to show he was under the speed limit the entire time.

    Jack Sonol
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GFs reaction to the situation seems extreme to me, like she's assuming her dad will get fired if it goes to court. It's highly telling how worried she is about someone challenging her fathers authority. Almost like she has 13 years of bad memories when someone challenges his authority. However, the thing I'm most disappointed about is no update. This could go a thousand different directions ranging from completely wholesome to utterly horrifying. We'll never know!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We just know cop dad is testing the op lol , n he totally must fight that ticket , n have a talk with his gf asap ,cos somethings off with her ! NTA OP gf however is !

    Jonathan Setter
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% daddy playing an arsehole power move. Time to get out of that relationship, you just found out cops are dangerous. If you leave, hopefully he will forget you exist. If you stay, he is going to ramp up the abuse until you go.

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it all on OP when the cop is the liar? OP is the one that has to do everything to make sure the father feels ok? The cop could also retract his ticket or just not show up to court, allowing the ticket to be dismissed... which happens all the time. He doesn't have to admit he was wrong or lying. But no, OP is the one that has to eat the cost of the ticket and increase in insurance to "kEeP tHe PeaCe". Ironic given cops are also known as peace officers.

    Game Guy
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's going to impact his career? Is she out of her mind? Cops shoot people for no reason and get away with it but a bogus ticket is going to trash his professional record? I don't think so.

    Jack Sonol
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cops do far more than shoot people and get away with it. People get paralyzed and suffer all kinds of permanent injuries due to negligence or incompetence and on extremely rare occasions the offending officers get a minor slap on the wrist and go back to work.

    Load More Replies...
    Mark Childers
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most cops realize that speedometers can vary by a mile or two and let it go. I have had so many bogus tickets through the years that I've lost count. I've also had some legit ones. I fought every one of them. The fines, the points against my license, and the insane insurance rate increase for three years is worth trying. I easily won all of the bogus tickets (some were really stupid, and I'm just guessing they happened because the cop was bored), and 99% of the legit ones (we're talking minor things where it was really a judgment call).

    Mary Muir
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. Gf's father was acting in his professional capacity as a law enforcement officer when he gave you the ticket, and it's your right as a citizen to contest it. Shouldn't have anything to do with the gf. If it does have something to do with the gf, then that's wrong. Law enforcement officers are required to conduct themselves appropriately and professionally when on duty. Ticketing someone wrongfully just because they are your daughter's bf is not on. That's an abuse of authority. If in court he claims that the radar gun showed a different speed, you can ask for proof of that reading and then ask when that radar gun was last calibrated. Sometimes your speedometer can be off as well, especially if you've installed different tires from the standard equipment for your vehicle. And then when all the evidence is there, the judge makes the call. Not you, not the father, the court decides. And it's wrong for gf to interfere and make it about herself.

    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Daddy sending a message, time to break up with her.

    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately GPS-based logs will not be taken as proof. Anyone who's ever driven (or sailed, skied, flown) with a GPS device should be aware that they're not always accurate, prone to interference from surrounding objects and for example will quite often show peak speeds several times higher than realistic, due to one wayward reading.

    Jack Sonol
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry dude but you are wrong. I use GPS professionally (Surveyor) and I drive a lot using Maps, GPS is more accurate than your speedometer. Police radar systems are much more prone to malfunction than phone GPS. His dashcam footage will give all the information needed to tell if he was experiencing interference, and they will test the cops radar system before the court date.

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    Paulo Leitao
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    is the gf willing to pay out of her own pocket? if not, she has no say in this. end of.

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's definitely got to go to court if he has the evidence of not speeding. It Will affect his license, his insurance and future work if a works vehicle is involved. It's awkward from the family side of things but that's his driving capacity affected and potentially career affecting too.

    Trashy Panda
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who sues a cop over a traffic ticket? You fight the ticket in court, and with your evidence you just might win. I don't know where you live but if it's the US you don't stand a chance suing a cop with Qualified Immunity.

    Ginger Winters
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do believe op being young and his first ticket might be using the wrong terms especially considering the way he described the court hearing. It sounds more like fighting the ticket

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    SouthernGal
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did he ever think about just talking to the dad about it before going to court? A calm discussion can solve a lot of problems before they escalate. He has nothing to lose. If he’s man enough to let the dad know he plans to go to court first, he might gain a lot of respect in dad’s eyes.

    Dori
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty sure once a ticket is issued, you have to go to court to contest it. The ticket is in the system and you can't remove it.

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    Scott Rackley
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fight it if you want. Just know, you'll have to move somewhere far away. Cops will make your life a living hell with retaliation because you fought the ticket. Even then, they'll call in favors from a different force. Sorry, but that's how it is. Cop's egos can't take what they think is disrespect. I've seen it happen, a person had to move basically across country.

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