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Massive Support For Man Who Pushed Mom Away While Celebrating Gender Reveal With Wife
A heavy dose of family drama took the spotlight in what was meant to be a heartwarming gender reveal video.
The now-viral clip captured a father-to-be shoving his mother aside so that he could hug his wife just as they found out the gender of their unborn child.
The moment triggered heated discussions online, with some saying, “bring this guy an Oscar.”
Highlights
- A gender reveal spiraled into some family drama after a mother-in-law got involved.
- Gabriela Lahr shared a video online, announcing to the world whether she was expecting a boy or girl.
- Many felt it was rude of Gabriela’s partner to push his mother aside just “for a photo.”
- Others felt it was good that he was “setting limits.”
But others sided with the “innocent” mother and said, “I trade no woman for my mother.”
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A gender reveal spiraled into some family drama that sparked heated discussions online
Image credits: Kateryna Hliznitsova/Unsplash (Not the actual photo)
The viral clip, uploaded by Gabriela Lahr, started off like any typical gender reveal.
The anticipation seemed high, and loved ones had surrounded Gabriela and her partner, who were visibly eager to know the gender of their baby on the way.
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Within moments, a puff of blue smoke began filling the room to reveal that the expectant couple were welcoming a baby boy.
As the crowd erupted in cheers, the mother approached the couple but was gently moved away by the man.
He continued embracing Gabriela with a warm hug.
Gabriela Lahr addressed some of the chaos online after telling the world she was expecting a boy
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Meanwhile, the mother was seen awkwardly walking away from the happy couple.
The video triggered a wave of comments online, with one saying, “It’s always the guy’s mother.”
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Another shared a similar sentiment: “Note that she is never the woman’s mother, hahaha, always the husband’s mother.”
“Don’t feel sorry, or even defend this mother-in-law’s attitude,” said another. “Understand that it is the couple’s MOMENT, only theirs, even if it is at least.”
“I love to see people setting limits,” read one comment on social media
Image credits: gabrielalahr_
Image credits: gabrielalahr_
“First time a guy puts his mother in her place,” said another.
Others defended the mother-in-law, saying, “She went to hug them both with so much affection… her attitude was so innocent that it was painful.”
“I would never embarrass my mother-in-law or mother for a photo,” one said online
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Image credits: gabrielalahr_
Gabriela responded to some of the comments and said she would be different when she becomes a mother-in-law herself.
“Being a mother of a boy, I am aware that when my son has his wife, I will know how to respect their space and moment! We raise our children for the world and not to stay under our wings forever,” she wrote online.
Gabriela said she would “know how to respect” his son’s space with his future partner
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While the moment caused an uproar online, it was far from being the first time a mother-in-law stirred some chaos during a gender reveal.
A number of other influencers and soon-to-be parents have shared stories of their gender reveals going horribly wrong because of a meddling mother.
@pipoquiando2 até que enfim! #chárevelação#fyy♬ som original – pipoquiando2
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Influencers Candace and Wesley, known for sharing cute moments from their family life on TikTok, spoke about how their $9,000-costing gender reveal party was ruined.
Wesley explained in a video that his mother, Michelle, reached out to Candace to ask whether she needed any help with setting up the gender reveal.
“Am I getting paid?” Michelle brazenly asked her daughter-in-law.
Influencers Candace and Wesley spoke about how their $9,000-costing gender reveal party was ruined
Image credits: candacenysm
When Candance asked why she would get paid, the mother-in-law replied, “Because I’m not your f***ing maid.”
But the drama did not end there.
To everyone’s surprise, a fire alarm went off on the day of the gender reveal, just seconds before Candace and Wesley were supposed to know whether they were welcoming a baby girl or boy. The guests were forced to rush out, and firefighters quickly arrived at the scene.
Wesley said he had reason to believe that Michelle had a hand in ruining their gender reveal.
@candacenysm Do you think she did it or not? 😅#storytime#momsoftiktok#motherhood#motherinlaw#mother#funny♬ original sound – Candace
In yet another incident of chaos during a gender reveal, a pregnant woman wound up lashing out at her mother-in-law for ruining her special moment.
When the expectant couple realized they were welcoming a baby girl, the mother-in-law jumped onto her son before his partner could hug him to celebrate the good news.
Another video captured a mother-in-law giving the most “Karen” when her daughter-in-law confronted her about stealing her special moment with her partner
Image credits: Sabesh Photography LTD/Unsplash (Not the actual photo)
“Husband’s mom RUINED our gender reveal,” read the text at the beginning of the viral TikTok video.
The pregnant woman was later seen confronting the mother-in-law in front of the other guests.
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“You didn’t even allow him to hug me. I’m his wife,” said the disappointed woman.
“He hugs you every day. What’s the problem?” asked the mother-in-law, who seemed like she couldn’t fathom why they were even having the conversation.
The soon-to-be father was captured trying to quell the situation before the camera stopped filming.
“Wow, the fact she can’t see she is wrong speaks volumes about that mother-in-law,” read one comment online
@itsgoneviral. This is our first baby, and she just ruined the moment! #motherinlaw#genderreveal#ruinedmarriage#inlawsproblems♬ original sound – It’s Gone Viral
Many were surprised by the mother-in-law’s behavior, saying, “having a KAREN as a mother in law totally a NIGHTMARE.”
“I’m proud of her for standing up for herself,” one wrote. “Her husband not having her back in exactly why his mom thought this was okay.”
The internet was divided after Gabriela Lahr shared her gender reveal video
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ElfVibratorGlitter 6 months ago (edited)
Maybe I'm in the minority but I find most of these gender reveals tacky. But this mom is 😡. "What? he hugs you everyday." My partner and I decided we're not doing a gender reveal party for Sprout.
Cee Cee 6 months ago
It was the hormonal comment that got to me. I'd have decked her.
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Kristen Woehlke 6 months ago
I too think pricey (or not) gender reveals are tacky. "Ok, we just found out the s*x of our baby and it's..." But MIL throwing herself at son and stealing the couples moment and then she's like "oh honey, just go lie down, you're hormonal!" Lady, you want hormonal??? I'll give it to ya!!!
BrownEyedPanda 6 months ago
This is a partner problem. I honestly believe that the husband could have stopped this before it came to this. The damage as far as the congratulatory hug is concerned is done. It's up to the husband to sit his mother down and TELL her that she was out of line for spoiling his special moment with his wife, and it had better not happen again. Ever. Until his wife receives a genuine apology for her snarky remark, she can glean her information from the internet like everyone else. She WILL keep her unsolicited advice to herself, and will ASK permission to to come by, and not merely drop in. Any more disrespect towards the mother of his child, and it's radio silence, including the day when the baby is born and stats. It's high time these men grew a set and started defending their GF's/fiancés/wives.
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zovjraar me 6 months ago
one person commented that the mom was trying to hug both of them. doesn't matter. everyone in that room is happy for them, but you don't see anyone else trying to hug them in their moment. it's their baby, not the mom's.
ElfVibratorGlitter 6 months ago (edited)
Maybe I'm in the minority but I find most of these gender reveals tacky. But this mom is 😡. "What? he hugs you everyday." My partner and I decided we're not doing a gender reveal party for Sprout.
Cee Cee 6 months ago
It was the hormonal comment that got to me. I'd have decked her.
Load More Replies... Kristen Woehlke 6 months ago
I too think pricey (or not) gender reveals are tacky. "Ok, we just found out the s*x of our baby and it's..." But MIL throwing herself at son and stealing the couples moment and then she's like "oh honey, just go lie down, you're hormonal!" Lady, you want hormonal??? I'll give it to ya!!!
BrownEyedPanda 6 months ago
This is a partner problem. I honestly believe that the husband could have stopped this before it came to this. The damage as far as the congratulatory hug is concerned is done. It's up to the husband to sit his mother down and TELL her that she was out of line for spoiling his special moment with his wife, and it had better not happen again. Ever. Until his wife receives a genuine apology for her snarky remark, she can glean her information from the internet like everyone else. She WILL keep her unsolicited advice to herself, and will ASK permission to to come by, and not merely drop in. Any more disrespect towards the mother of his child, and it's radio silence, including the day when the baby is born and stats. It's high time these men grew a set and started defending their GF's/fiancés/wives.
Load More Replies... zovjraar me 6 months ago
one person commented that the mom was trying to hug both of them. doesn't matter. everyone in that room is happy for them, but you don't see anyone else trying to hug them in their moment. it's their baby, not the mom's.
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