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Bisexual Woman Finds Out She’s 13 Weeks Pregnant, GF Calls Her A Cheater But The Truth Is Far Worse
Secrets and suspicions can ruin even the best relationships, and it often starts with just one moment of doubt. This can become worse if one partner acts on their misgivings without giving their loved one a chance to explain their side.
This is what seemed to be happening between two women who had been dating for four years when one of them found out that she was 13 weeks pregnant. Obviously, her girlfriend immediately suspected her of cheating and tried to get her to confess, until the shocking truth finally came out.
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Having to face the suspicion that your partner might have had an affair can be incredibly painful to deal with
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The poster had been dating her girlfriend Ana for four years and was concerned when Ana started gaining unusual weight in her stomach area
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After Ana went to the doctor and did a urine test, she found out that she was 13 weeks pregnant, which shocked the poster, who accused her of cheating
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The woman ignored Ana’s calls and texts, and even spent a night at her friend’s house until she was ready to figure out the situation with her
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The women later decided to get an ultrasound done, as the previous doctor hadn’t done that, which led to them finding out that there was a mass on Ana’s ovary
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The couple was horrified when they learned that Ana had stage 1 ovarian cancer, which is why she had gained the weight, so they had to begin figuring out their next steps
The poster clearly loved her girlfriend, Ana, a lot, and since they had been together for four years, they also planned on getting engaged soon. The problem is that Ana started to put on an unusual amount of weight that was mainly piling on in her stomach area, even though she was working out more and eating healthy.
According to medical professionals, when a person starts experiencing rapid weight gain of approximately 2-5 pounds a week, it’s important that they see a healthcare provider as soon as possible. This kind of quick weight gain might signal that something is wrong and that there is an underlying health issue that needs to be fixed.
That’s why Ana eventually decided to go to the doctor and see what was actually happening in her body. Unfortunately, what she learned left her shocked because the medical professional made her take a urine test, and he told her that she was 13 weeks pregnant, which didn’t seem possible.
When situations like this occur, it might be reasonable for people like the poster to suspect their significant other of having an affair. Although emotions might be running high, therapists advise confronting the other person about these suspicions and having a calm conversation to understand what really happened.
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The poster was obviously baffled after learning that her girlfriend was pregnant, and she kept trying to find out whether Ana had cheated. Even though it must have been tough to deal with such accusations, Ana stayed firm and continued to plead her innocence to the OP.
This must have been a difficult thing for the poster to have to go through, which is why she decided to take a short break from Ana and stay over at her friend’s place. Eventually, though, she decided to figure out the truth with her girlfriend, and they planned to get an ultrasound done.
Usually, doctors advise undergoing an ultrasound after a few weeks have passed, as it might not show as much in the early stages of the pregnancy. Around week six, medical professionals can use this method to determine if the fetus is viable and can advise the mother-to-be about how to prepare.
Since Ana had been very confidently told by her first doctor that she was pregnant, both she and the OP were shocked when the ultrasound revealed a mass on her ovary. Although the test helped prove her innocence, it also meant she’d have to go through possible surgery and chemotherapy to deal with the cancer that was found.
Hopefully, this confusing situation helped bring the poster and her girlfriend together and increased their trust in one another. What would you have done if you were in the OP’s shoes and found out such news? We’d love to hear your thoughts on the story.
People were shocked by Ana’s first doctor’s negligence and urged the poster to report him
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JB 3 weeks ago (edited)
It’s incredibly frustrating, nay, rage inducing, that general medical attitudes towards gynaecology issues just don’t seem to change. In my early 20’s (over 30yrs ago) I went to my GP because I hadn’t had a period in over 8 months, nor sěx in well over a year. Both of which I explained quite clearly to the Dr. They wanted me to take a pregnancy test to “eliminate the possibility”. I asked him, “Did you not listen to the part where I said ‘I haven’t had any type of sěxual relations in over a year, not even kissing!?’” Dr shrugged and said “women lie sometimes”. I glared at him and replied, “So do men. I’m wondering if you’re lying about being a doctor because I’d love to hear your explanation of how I could be 8 months pregnant without any sěxual contact whatsoever in about 18 months.” Another shrug, “It’s standard practice”. Now in full on pıssed off redhead mode, “You just admitted that standard practice is to assume all women are lying until they prove otherwise, and you aren’t willing to even consider any other possibility until you have that proof. Fine, I’ll do your test, when it comes back negative, I require a full apology. If it comes back positive, I want three wisemen carrying gold, frankincense and myrrh.”
Binky Melnik 3 weeks ago
Unfortunately, it’s not just women who are screwed over in medicine, but also black folks. Living in a building that’s overwhelming populated with black males, I regularly hear stories that curl my hair. They tell me how doctors assume black folks don’t feel pain (!) or feel less pain than white folks and sooo much more garbage, and that nonsense is why so many black folks don’t go to the doctor when something’s wrong. (This also explains their over-reliance on home and folk remedies.) It’s as if medicine only studies white males and then extrapolates white male problems when dealing with black patients or women. (Oh, dear: What the hell must black women go through during doctor visits?! 😳) So many times, I marvel at how far technology has taken us, but then I hear these stories and think technology may have advanced but mankind sure hasn’t! This story was super-interesting, though, and by the end, I, too, had no idea whether to be relieved or terrified for OP’s mate. Good grief.
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June 3 weeks ago
I've looked it up and you can't date a pregnancy from a urine test. Also, a doctor would have prescribed blood test and echography to confirm the pregnancy, because 1) a doctor knows cancer can give a false positive, 2) a doctor would have been very suspicious about cancer given the context. I can imagine this happening in a developped country (nor in the US, as it would be lawsuit worthy) 🤷♀️
JB 3 weeks ago (edited)
It’s incredibly frustrating, nay, rage inducing, that general medical attitudes towards gynaecology issues just don’t seem to change. In my early 20’s (over 30yrs ago) I went to my GP because I hadn’t had a period in over 8 months, nor sěx in well over a year. Both of which I explained quite clearly to the Dr. They wanted me to take a pregnancy test to “eliminate the possibility”. I asked him, “Did you not listen to the part where I said ‘I haven’t had any type of sěxual relations in over a year, not even kissing!?’” Dr shrugged and said “women lie sometimes”. I glared at him and replied, “So do men. I’m wondering if you’re lying about being a doctor because I’d love to hear your explanation of how I could be 8 months pregnant without any sěxual contact whatsoever in about 18 months.” Another shrug, “It’s standard practice”. Now in full on pıssed off redhead mode, “You just admitted that standard practice is to assume all women are lying until they prove otherwise, and you aren’t willing to even consider any other possibility until you have that proof. Fine, I’ll do your test, when it comes back negative, I require a full apology. If it comes back positive, I want three wisemen carrying gold, frankincense and myrrh.”
Binky Melnik 3 weeks ago
Unfortunately, it’s not just women who are screwed over in medicine, but also black folks. Living in a building that’s overwhelming populated with black males, I regularly hear stories that curl my hair. They tell me how doctors assume black folks don’t feel pain (!) or feel less pain than white folks and sooo much more garbage, and that nonsense is why so many black folks don’t go to the doctor when something’s wrong. (This also explains their over-reliance on home and folk remedies.) It’s as if medicine only studies white males and then extrapolates white male problems when dealing with black patients or women. (Oh, dear: What the hell must black women go through during doctor visits?! 😳) So many times, I marvel at how far technology has taken us, but then I hear these stories and think technology may have advanced but mankind sure hasn’t! This story was super-interesting, though, and by the end, I, too, had no idea whether to be relieved or terrified for OP’s mate. Good grief.
Load More Replies... June 3 weeks ago
I've looked it up and you can't date a pregnancy from a urine test. Also, a doctor would have prescribed blood test and echography to confirm the pregnancy, because 1) a doctor knows cancer can give a false positive, 2) a doctor would have been very suspicious about cancer given the context. I can imagine this happening in a developped country (nor in the US, as it would be lawsuit worthy) 🤷♀️
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