for context I was messaging people and I downloaded social media I am in high school yet not allowed any social media she noticed I had passwords saved for instagram and didn't notice the messages which she wouldn't care because I just sent funny videos im not allowed safari either so I messed with settings and got that too and im also not allowed to download apps I fixed that yet she noticed all the changes and got mad I have asked her many times when I will get it back yet I just get "stop asking" or "you know what you did" or "don't start with me" I have cleaned the house not shown any attitude and the worst I've done is brought my school laptop up stairs I just don't know what to do anymore I cant make any new friends without a phone and I cant talk to my old ones either and its really got to me and I've started to fall back into my depression because I feel like there is no reason to keep doing good if im not getting anything in return and I just got yelled at for typing to much but please give me some tips at how to get it back I just don't know what to do.
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Have you told your mom how it is effecting you not having a phone the fact that you can't keep in touch with your friends. You need to sit down calmly and talk to her no shouting no getting annoyed just explain how you feel and get her to explain how she feels about what you did after she told you not too. Maybe you can come to a compromise like letting you have the phone for an hour after school, and if you show her how responsible you are she may increase the time.
That's the best advice I can think of good luck.
Remember your mom isn't stopping you from using social media just to be mean she is trying to protect you.
