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Fed-Up Husband Puts Holiday Plans On Ice After Wife Books 10th Trip To Disney
Fed-Up Husband Puts Holiday Plans On Ice After Wife Books 10th Trip To Disney
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Fed-Up Husband Puts Holiday Plans On Ice After Wife Books 10th Trip To Disney

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Around 50 million people flock to Florida every year, just to visit Disney World. The renowned resort is made up of four massive theme parks with endless experiences to choose from. Known as “The Most Magical Place On Earth”, it has become a bucket list destination for many children and adults alike. And some just can’t get enough. They visit again. And again. And again…

One man shared how he recently refused to go on yet another Disney World trip with his wife. The guy says they’ve gone nowhere but there for the past thirteen years, and after 9 trips he’s “beyond sick” of the place. His wife tried to compromise by booking a trip to Hawaii instead. But when the man found out they’d be staying at a Disney resort there, drama ensued. Now he’s wondering if he was being unreasonable.

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    Disney castle with a crowd in the foreground, featuring a person wearing Mickey Mouse ears, illustrating frequent theme park visits.

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    But this man’s “Disney adult” wife wants to drag him there for a 10th time, and he’s had enough

    Text discussing a man's suggestion to visit Hawaii after nine Disney trips, causing a conflict with his wife.

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    Text describes repetitive Disney trips, including ice cream, mouse ears, hotels, characters, rides, and pictures at Cinderella's castle.

    Text about a man tired of Disney and suggesting Hawaii instead, facing wife's frustration.

    Text exchange discussing a trip, with a suggestion to visit Hawaii instead of Disney.

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    Couple discussing Hawaii trip on sofa, woman upset, man suggesting after multiple Disney visits.

    Image credits: Getty Images / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

    Text screenshot discussing hotel reservations in Hawaii, reveals booking at Disney resort Aulani.

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    Text excerpt discussing a man's frustration over frequent Disney trips and suggesting Hawaii for a different vacation experience.

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    Text excerpt about a man's refusal to visit Disney World again and his wife's frustration.

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    “Laughter is timeless, imagination has no age, and dreams are forever”: Walt Disney

    Walt Disney once said that “Laughter is timeless, imagination has no age, and dreams are forever.” Born on 5 December 1901, he’s gone down in history books as one of the most influential minds ever to grace the entertainment industry.

    Walter “Walt” Disney and his brother, Roy co-founded Walt Disney Productions a century ago. It went on to become one of the most iconic motion-picture production companies in the world. And is still going strong today. The studios brought us Mickey & Minnie Mouse, Donald Duck, Snow White, Peter Pan, The Little Mermaid and so many other classics that are bound to stir up all the nostalgic feels.

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    As a successful spin-off, Walt Disney World officially opened its doors to the public on October 1, 1971, in Florida. It spanned more than 28,000 acres, and provided an enchanting and magical place for kids and adults to step into their favorite movie scenes, and meet the characters who bring them joy.

    “Multiple hotels and campgrounds meant even more guests could visit the park,” notes the Disney Connect site. “At the same time, the immense size of the resort allowed for other attractions like a golf course and large shopping centers. All this left a grand impression on guests who ventured in from all over the world to see it for themselves.”

    Decades later, they’re still venturing. Pre-Covid, Disney World was pulling around 58 million visitors a year. It’s dropped to around 50 million now, which is still an impressive number. Many guests come back time and again.

    Image credits: Eno Eltora / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    “My ‘Disney adult’ label is one I wear with pride”: a grown-up fan speaks out

    “Disney adults” are defined as grown-up fans of the Walt Disney Company. Whether movies, merchandise, theme parks or characters, these people don’t shy away from their love for all things Disney. And many wear their Micky Mouse ears with pride.

    We older fans have seen our fair share of animosity and scrutiny over the years, often being called ‘weird’ or too old to love Disney,” wrote Sarah Gilliland in her essay titled “I’m a ‘Disney adult’ and I’m not ashamed of it. Really, I don’t get why people hate us so much.”

    She says that being a “Disney adult” has taught her not to take life too seriously, adding that “it’s a wonderful reminder to my kids to savor the fun stuff, and that life is too short to grow up too fast.”

    When Amelia Tait conducted a survey of over 1,300 self-confessed “Disney adults” in 2024, 91% of them declared they’d be fan until their very last breath. A third of respondents revealed they’d first encountered Disney as a baby. The vast majority said they loved the Walt Disney Company because “It offers an escape from an increasingly troubled world.”

    And with all the destruction and despair in the world, we’re inclined to say “do whate makes you happy!”

    “Legally tethered to a Disney adult”: many people felt sorry for the husband

    Comment expressing disbelief over a man's 9 Disney trips, suggesting Hawaii as an alternative.

    Comment discussing travel preferences beyond Disney, mentioning affordability and shorter lines.

    Text suggesting a vacation in Hawaii after nine Disney trips, discussing wife's reaction.

    Reddit comment discussing travel preferences, suggesting alternatives to multiple Disney trips.

    Reddit comment discussing compromise in response to a man suggesting Hawaii after multiple Disney trips.

    Reddit comment suggesting broadening travel horizons beyond Disney to explore more places like Hawaii.

    Comment criticizing Disney vacations, preferring Hawaii trips instead.

    Comment joking about a wife's love for Disney over husband's Hawaii suggestion.

    Comment on man's suggestion for Hawaii trip after 9 Disney trips, wife upset over refusal to return.

    Reddit comment about vacation plans after 9 Disney trips, suggesting making new travel decisions.

    A Reddit comment about preferring Hawaii over multiple Disney trips, expressing frustration with frequent Disney vacations.

    Text comment discussing a man's suggestion of Hawaii after 9 Disney trips, questioning wife's attachment to Disney vacations.

    Reddit comment discussing trip planning and suggesting going somewhere different than Disney.

    “You should go”: some who’d been to Aulani felt it was a decent compromise

    Text post criticizing Aulani in Hawaii for lacking Disney elements, suggesting better research needed.

    Reddit comment discussing a compromise between Hawaii and Disney trips for diverse travel experiences.

    Reddit comment suggesting a trip to Aulani, Hawaii as a compromise for frequent Disney trips.

    Text discussing a vacation compromise, suggesting Hawaii over Disney trips, and communication issues in planning.

    “Wives aren’t mind readers”: some netizens called the husband out for not speaking up earlier.

    Reddit comment discussing passive aggressiveness related to Disney trips versus Hawaii.

    Reddit comment criticizing someone for not addressing an issue sooner, mentioning resolution delay.

    Text comment discussing a Disney resort in Hawaii and vacation planning advice.

    Reddit comment discussing a man's suggestion for Hawaii after repeated Disney trips and a wife's frustration.

    Comment discussing a man's suggestion of Hawaii over Disney, calling it an unfair compromise for someone who loves Disney.

    “I’m a moron”: the man posted an update, revealing that he’d had a change of heart

    Text about a man suggesting Hawaii after multiple Disney trips and his wife being upset over his refusal to visit again.

    Man in casual attire sitting on a bed, looking at phone, contemplating vacation change from Disney to Hawaii.

    Image credits: Victoria Romulo / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

    Text excerpt about a man refusing Disney trips and suggesting Hawaii, leading to conflict with his wife.

    Text discussing differences between Disney World and a Hawaiian resort after multiple visits.

    Text about a man apologizing to Jess, discussing a Disney trip and Aulani, realizing his mistake.

    Text about re-planning a vacation, highlighting realization after feedback on Hawaii versus Disney trips.

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    “Did she tie you up and gag you with Mickey Mouse ears?”: some couldn’t understand why the man changed his mind

    Comment criticizing Disney vacation obsession, mentioning grown adults not exploring beyond cartoon vacations.

    Text from a Reddit user expressing frustration over frequent Disney trips instead of going to Hawaii.

    Comment discussing a man's frustration with his wife planning another Disney vacation after multiple trips, suggesting Hawaii.

    Comment discussing a man's suggestion to visit Hawaii instead of another Disney trip, encouraging better communication.

    Comment on relationship debate over vacation decisions, discussing taking turns choosing destinations.

    Comment criticizing multiple Disney vacations, suggesting emotional neglect.

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    Robyn Smith

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Robyn is an award-winning journalist who has produced work for several international media outlets. Made in Africa and exported to the world, she is obsessed with travel and the allure of new places. A lover of words and visuals, Robyn is part of the Bored Panda writing team. This Panda has two bamboo tattoos: A map of Africa & the words "Be Like The Bamboo... Bend Never Break."

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    Nimitz
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor guy got trapped in the end. If the genders were reversed everyone would be shouting for her to drop the manchild. I pity the fool

    Ms.GB
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the opposite in my relationship. I've been asking my husband to go to Disneyland with me for the past 20 years but he never wants to go. He used to work there though so I get it but it would be nice if we could go just once to see all the new stuff. Of course it's insanely expensive now but it didn't used to be when I first started asking! Kinda wish I talked him into it before the prices really skyrocketed because now I'm like why go when we can go on a really nice vacation for the same amount of money so I know I'll never go now. Actually reading this article and thinking about it has really made me realize that we almost always do what he wants to do. Like 90 percent of the time we go to a concert or go out to eat it's one of his favorite bands or what he's in the mood to eat. That's my problem too because I'm a people pleaser but I think I'm gonna start insisting he sits through a few concerts of my favorite bands!

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    JuniorCJ82
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So he has to "compromise" but she doesn't? Okay, got it.

    JuniorCJ82
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He deserves so much better - in marriage and in vacations.

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    CBolt
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too - she's still getting Disney & may not even participate in many of the non-Disney activities.

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    Nimitz
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor guy got trapped in the end. If the genders were reversed everyone would be shouting for her to drop the manchild. I pity the fool

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the opposite in my relationship. I've been asking my husband to go to Disneyland with me for the past 20 years but he never wants to go. He used to work there though so I get it but it would be nice if we could go just once to see all the new stuff. Of course it's insanely expensive now but it didn't used to be when I first started asking! Kinda wish I talked him into it before the prices really skyrocketed because now I'm like why go when we can go on a really nice vacation for the same amount of money so I know I'll never go now. Actually reading this article and thinking about it has really made me realize that we almost always do what he wants to do. Like 90 percent of the time we go to a concert or go out to eat it's one of his favorite bands or what he's in the mood to eat. That's my problem too because I'm a people pleaser but I think I'm gonna start insisting he sits through a few concerts of my favorite bands!

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    JuniorCJ82
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So he has to "compromise" but she doesn't? Okay, got it.

    JuniorCJ82
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He deserves so much better - in marriage and in vacations.

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    CBolt
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too - she's still getting Disney & may not even participate in many of the non-Disney activities.

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