Hey Pandas, Talk To Me About Your Latest Issues Or Struggles. I’m Here To Listen (Closed)

I really hope you don‘t think I‘m stalking you because I reply to you more often than to others. It‘s just that when I read your comments or submissions I so often think „yeah, same here“. I‘ve been struggling with depression and anxiety too and the pandemic has set my progress back by years. I am really scared of what will come mostly for the same reasons as you, especially when it comes to the destruction of the earth. I know that nothing I am writing here will really help you, but maybe it is a little solace that you are not alone with what you think and feel and that there are people who think this denzoren-guy is really a fine person.

I'm 60 and fret over younger Americans like yourself. I have extreme guilt about the environment, even though I am a "tree hugger". I do my best to help clean up and believe every day is "Earth Day". I have no kids. I knew a long time ago that the planet was over-populated and that things were going to get harder to endure. The only advise I can give about finances... invest in cryptocurrencies. I learned from watching YouTube videos and then opened an acct on Coinbase & Binance. If you could just invest a small amount of cash, $25-100, into ADA, CHZ, ONE, and VET, your financial situation will turn around within 5 years. I got into crypto 5 years ago and have made a pretty nice nest egg. Every time you have some 'extra' cash from bdays, xmas, etc., INVEST it. Tighten the belt even harder with your cash and invest those extra dollars. You'll be SO happy you did.

First, life doesn't end in your thirties and second, life gets better. My mother-in-laws aunt was married to a man that beat her on the regular and verbally abused her for over 40 years. After he died and in her 70's, she met and married a man who was kind, wealthy and treated her like a queen. Right after they were married, he took her on a round-the-world trip for 9 months. She's never been so happy or had so much fun. Life gets better, you just have to keep trying. And stop putting the weight of the world on your shoulders. If you feel strongly about the worlds problems, do something about it. You never know...maybe while protesting the destruction of the rainforest you'll meet the person you were meant to be with.

You and your sister have had to deal with too much loss in such a short time. There is no time to catch your breath and deal with the loss. I feel for you and your sister. Send her a card and maybe some flowers.... I wish you all the best Carol. Bless you.

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I feel you. I was making my own story on here when it got closed so I never got to post. I'm sorry all that happened

They are. I'm starting over with what worked earlier. But in true Healthcare form, I was displaced and it was since November that I've been fighting either for meds or the right ones.

Why did this get down voted?

That’s a lot of stuff. I hope u can get it all straighten out. I has faith in u 👍🏽

Are those meds getting sorted now?

Not sure if you can find help with your son through a charity ? i know others that have help through charities but i'm in the UK so not sure if they work the same in the US but no harm in trying https://www.appliedbehavioranalysisprograms.com/best-autism-charities/

Can't help you much, but I find my backpain is greatly helped by adequate pain medication. I use the max amount of paracetamol, together with the max amount of naproxen or ibuprofen, in the morning with some cafeine. This therapy was prescribed by the doctor, but they are all over the counter medicine, so you may want to try. Please ask advice of a medical professional if you must take this longer than a week. You may need protection for your stomach lining.

Wow. I hope you have people around you who can support you. This is bloody terrible. I feel for you Laura.

Also, I am eating a black forest ham and cheese subway that I made myself and it is DELISH

I have a similar dad. He disapproves of me being bisexual and doesn't want me to cut my hair short because "women shouldn't have short hair" pshh.. I hate these kinds of people

Edit : Generally my mom is a bit racist but mostly my dad and the sexist part is mostly for my dad and homophobic parent is also generally my dad but my mom is kinda ok with 🏳️‍🌈 .

I totally get that. That’s how I feel a lot too. But when you feel like your birth gender, you’re still valid. I will sometimes feel female for like five minutes, and then go back to being enby. I’m really bad at writing comments, but you’re definitely valid. And, like you told me, if your friends don’t accept you, then they’re not your friends. And take your time. You don’t have to rush coming out. I wish you luck :) <3

Hey hey don’t worry that much! I’ve been gay for, like, ever lol. There comes a day when your like “BOOM I found it! I’m ( )! This feels right, imma flow with it!” If you don’t like it, just go fluid till your ready again. If you need help we, the LGTBQ+ community will be here to help! And if you wanna go on a virtual date, lol here I am, in my single sadness!

Just my immediate thoughts - can you decide for now to just be you without having to be labelled (by yourself or society) You and any changes are just part of you - and you are wonderful Xxx

I went through a very similar situation. I promise, you will get through this and be a more compassionate, empathetic, overall better person on the other end.