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Hey Pandas, Can You Help Me In A Little Dilemma? (Read Description)
So I was born a boy and lately I’ve been trans, but now I’m not so sure, I have always dreamt of being a girl, but I still wanna be a dirty, stereotypical man with moustache, what should I do and how do I tell my friends witch knows I’m trans? Side note: I’m 13 and introverted!
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There are many genders that can be both masculine and feminine, you could try to find one that you can identify with. Also, as another teen who is confused with gender, I know it feels horrible to not know who you are, but it will get better
There is a chance you could be gender fluid, or even bi gender. That being said you can still have a mustache and still identify as a girl :D
Whether you are a female or a male, Non-binary or anything. I know I am a stranger but still being the nicest girl, I can be I will try my hardest to be here for you and support you through it all. Just remember when you are trying to find your gender that genitalia do NOT equal your gender. The sex organs you were born with does NOT signify a person’s gender identity Forget about the two-gender binary. Gender is a term that relates to how we feel about ourselves, the way we choose to show who we are through makeup, dresses, high heels, athletic shorts, sneakers and more things that are usually based off one gender. But sadly, with this stupid society that we have been raised up in, the world has convinced us that there is, only two options of gender identity, “Male” and “Female” based on biological sex. But in reality, there is so much more than that, there is so much more fluidity in finding out your true gender
When you are trying to find your gender, have fun while exploring the options. Just be gentle with yourself while you explore. You can change as much or as little as you want from day to day, some things you can do while experimenting with your gender is something small like wearing nail polish or wearing a bow tie could make a huge difference in how you feel about your gender. Maybe some looks might feel better just to wear around your house at first. Maybe even if you wake up one day and you feel like you want to have a totally new haircut and/or wardrobe, and that is fine. Maybe even you could ask a few trusted friends to refer to you with different gender pronouns or a different name to try that kind of thing out. You are absolutely allowed to try out different names and pronouns and then changing your mind, it is all a part of the gender finding process.
Load More Replies... Whether you are a female or a male, Non-binary or anything. I know I am a stranger but still being the nicest girl, I can be I will try my hardest to be here for you and support you through it all. Just remember when you are trying to find your gender that genitalia do NOT equal your gender. The sex organs you were born with does NOT signify a person’s gender identity Forget about the two-gender binary. Gender is a term that relates to how we feel about ourselves, the way we choose to show who we are through makeup, dresses, high heels, athletic shorts, sneakers and more things that are usually based off one gender. But sadly, with this stupid society that we have been raised up in, the world has convinced us that there is, only two options of gender identity, “Male” and “Female” based on biological sex. But in reality, there is so much more than that, there is so much more fluidity in finding out your true gender
When you are trying to find your gender, have fun while exploring the options. Just be gentle with yourself while you explore. You can change as much or as little as you want from day to day, some things you can do while experimenting with your gender is something small like wearing nail polish or wearing a bow tie could make a huge difference in how you feel about your gender. Maybe some looks might feel better just to wear around your house at first. Maybe even if you wake up one day and you feel like you want to have a totally new haircut and/or wardrobe, and that is fine. Maybe even you could ask a few trusted friends to refer to you with different gender pronouns or a different name to try that kind of thing out. You are absolutely allowed to try out different names and pronouns and then changing your mind, it is all a part of the gender finding process.
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