This Guy Receives A Racist Message, Responds With A Compliment And Gets An Apology
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Over the course of years, many conducted studies have shown that social media can be quite harmful to one’s mental health. It’s not so hard to see why – when millions of angry people are suddenly given the platform to express their raw feelings, things can get pretty ugly. Today, no one is immune from receiving hateful and toxic messages and a Twitter user Abdul Dremali, a marketing consultant from Boston, is no exception. “I get pretty rude messages very often. I’m fortunate to have a large social media following and with that large audience comes a lot of haters. It’s just part of the game,” he told Bored Panda.
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However, Abdul found a unique way to deal with people insulting him online. “I came up with the idea to just be overly kind as an experiment. Years of constantly getting defensive when someone insults you get tiring so I made a game out of it. It’s served me well because it eliminates any animosity. It ends up being funny regardless because I dismiss their hostility entirely.” he said. One conversation he had perfectly demonstrates this experiment. After receiving a hateful message Abdul responded with a compliment and changed the tone of the conversation, which ended with wishing each other goodnight like friends. “I’ve never talked to that guy again. I think he changed his username because millions of people saw him being racist. Probably a smart move on his part,” he added.
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Kill 'em with kindness. Works nearly every time...
Killing people works every time? :)
is no one else impressed that he managed to score the twitter handle Advil?
It really fits him. Edit: I just checked - Twitter was founded on March 21, 2006 and he joined April 2008. I guess it was still the early days and he had more options for it than someone joining today.
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No not really impressed at all.
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Yes! Surprising. I wonder if they ever tried to buy him out.
That’s not how it works on Twitter. It’s not like a website domain name.
I've been doing this in response to racist remarks for years. I, however, do not have a large online following and have been doing it in person, which makes it even more awkward for the person doing the insulting. It's brilliant to see them crumble into apologies. Mwahahaha.
What do people say to you in person?
I've been called a wog, a nigger, a darkie (which is quite funny), amongst others. I'm really ethnically ambiguous and for some reason all ethnicities think I'm one of them. I used to live in a Bangladeshi community in London and the boys would hurl abuse at me when I walked past them because I had a white boyfriend.
Kill 'em with kindness. Works nearly every time...
Killing people works every time? :)
is no one else impressed that he managed to score the twitter handle Advil?
It really fits him. Edit: I just checked - Twitter was founded on March 21, 2006 and he joined April 2008. I guess it was still the early days and he had more options for it than someone joining today.
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No not really impressed at all.
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Yes! Surprising. I wonder if they ever tried to buy him out.
That’s not how it works on Twitter. It’s not like a website domain name.
I've been doing this in response to racist remarks for years. I, however, do not have a large online following and have been doing it in person, which makes it even more awkward for the person doing the insulting. It's brilliant to see them crumble into apologies. Mwahahaha.
What do people say to you in person?
I've been called a wog, a nigger, a darkie (which is quite funny), amongst others. I'm really ethnically ambiguous and for some reason all ethnicities think I'm one of them. I used to live in a Bangladeshi community in London and the boys would hurl abuse at me when I walked past them because I had a white boyfriend.