Guy Judges This Girl’s Personality By Her Appearance, Gets Murdered By Words When She Replies
Most of us single folk had those moments where dating apps seemed like a good idea and went for a Tindr or something similar. After all, it seems like the perfect place to find a significant other, that’s the whole idea behind the app. Unfortunately, there are so many horror stories and not-so-perfect exchanges coming from such dating apps that many whoever thought of trying them (or actually tried them, bless their souls!) were successfully discouraged to ever think of approaching the Tindr-zone. This is exactly that not-so-perfect story that a young woman shared with her friend who posted it online and things went pretty viral.
Brittany Lauren decided to try a dating app after moving places and it wasn’t long before she encountered a man that discouraged her from ever trying such apps again. Bored Panda reached out to Britanny for additional comment and she provided us with some details. “When I first got the message I knew right away what he was attempting to do. I’ve seen the tactic before, “negging” as it’s referred to,” the woman revealed and went to explain what “negging” is, “insecure men trying to knock a woman down via a backhand compliment/insult.” Britanny also mentioned that she knew where the conversation was headed the moment she got Rob’s message.
Britanny recently shared screenshots of a conversation with a friend who posted it online
Image credits: brittanylaurenxo
“I encounter men like Rob pretty often. But, hardly ever in person. Mostly online. I guess being behind a screen gives them courage to act like a jerk,” Britanny told us. She also mentioned that moving to a new place encouraged her to try dating apps to meet new people. “They are littered with men like Rob, unfortunately. After this encounter I’ve deleted all of my apps and I’m going back to the old school tactic of waiting for a man to approach me in the produce section of my local Whole Foods, haha,” the woman joked.
The screenshots showcased a conversation Britanny had with a stranger named Rob
Britanny also explained how the brutal exchange ended up online:
“My friend and I, since downloading dating apps, often screenshot conversations with men and share them via text in a “oh my god, can you believe this guy?!” way. Gossiping the way girls do, ya’know? So, when I screenshotted Rob’s messages before he blocked me I had only intended on her seeing it. Then after reading it, I thought it was pretty funny so I threw it up on my Facebook page for my other friends to see and get a quick laugh. I honestly didn’t expect it to go as far as it did. But, I’m glad it did!”
Image credits: brittanylaurenxo
When asked how people responded to her post, Britanny revealed that the response was overwhelmingly positive. “A vast majority of my DMs are from women sharing their stories of a “Rob” in their life. Women thanking me for giving them courage to stand up to men like Rob who think it’s okay to be hateful for no reason. If anything came from it going viral, I’m glad it was that,” she said. “Lots of DMs from men who think I’m funny or attempting to shoot their shot, haha. I’d say about 5% of my messages are from fellow “nice guys” cursing me out, some death threats sprinkled in. Haha. But, it’s the Internet— again a place that gives these men courage to say things they wouldn’t dare say to my face.”
Image credits: brittanylaurenxo
Here’s how people reacted to the exchange between the two
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Share on Facebook"Gossipying the way girls do, ya know". Um no I don't because gossiping is not a "girl thing" it's just a human thing since guys do it to. That's just sexist c**p.
Poor Rob, after that burn he should enlist to the new Space force and ask to get deployed permanently to the lunar station.
It seems that he expected her to respond to his first comment that of course she'd gladly give up all partying, etc., just to spend time with him.
That def seemed to be his plan. He seems like one of those guys that believes if you insult a woman she'll be more attracted to you because...you know...girls like bad boys.
Load More Replies...She probably was 100% dead on. The guy reads like he’s negging, and that’s a tactic that bitter “pickup artist” boys use after reading about it in the Red Pill cult forums. Many of these guys are likely socially awkward or sad boys misdirecting their bitterness at women, and being brainwashed by the echo chamber of fellow bitter boys., rather than working to better themselves at social skills. They read about “tricks to score women” and “how to seem confident (by being a dudebro)”, and think they can shortcut their way to success with women by “playing the numbers game” with “pick up lines” and the aforementioned negging s**t. Stop playing games and just treat women like people.
Yeah right. Look at the votes and the comments. It’s just a gaggle of giggling Yass Girls in here agreeing with a poorly handled joke. #triggered
Load More Replies...I don't get what he was trying to do. It was like he was saying "You look nice but I don't think we'd get along".... So why bother writing her at all?
Maybe some more 'hahas' or 'lols' would have softened the edges on his insecure suppositions.
I once had a guy talk about the bubble headed cheerleaders that are associated with the professional American football teams. I said "Actually..I bet they're smarter than you." Turns out most of those women are physicians, lawyers, hold PhDs, are Psychiatrists..own businesses..etc. I think we were watching a Dallas game at the time. Never judge a woman's activities or intelligence by how she looks. You may not get what you expected.
They are often portrayed very badly in films unfortunately. Going to be a mix of people, like most things.
Load More Replies...'Women aren't allowed to go to parties or spent time with their friends if they are in a relationship.' ???? .....but men are, you know that "boys will be boys"? And did you hear this one? It's good for man have an extramarital affair, it makes him a better husband!!???? What a heck!!!! That's why I have to quote an observation of a very wise Bored Panda: "I have a house, a job (tenured), a cat, and a vibrator. He's offering me nothing I can't supply myself except that undesirable mass of testosterone - which is why the only male in my life is neutered."
She did'nt understant. 1. Alcohol destroys the appearance and brain, so the guy does not want them to drink. My mom never drink and she look well at 55 years. 2. Fanatical Instagraming can be a consequence of narcissistic personality disorder and desire for attention, which can lead to more serious mental problems. And how I see she is very close to be fat.
She should have left her dating apps open. At least doing it this way weeds out the Robs without her having to meet them and waste time getting to know them.
dude probably so toxic it burned away :\
Load More Replies...This is seriously worthy of being posted on BP? This happens 45,000 times per day, and most of them are much worse than this. What the heck? Downvoted. I'd spend all my downvotes this year on downvoting this if I could. I had a guy send more than 5 messages in a row, our first conversation, talking about how women have to clean themselves or they stink. Kept going on about women stinking. Had one say that women who had any male friends were insecure sluts with "issues". Had one call my recently-deceased Dad an "a-hole" (long story how that came up in just four messages), but holy cow.
If you want to impress the lady, Rob, you gotta do better than that. At least you gotta show some common sense about it. Nobody, man or woman, appreciates a negative approach. And I'll bet she's probably heard it a hundred times that she's stunning. Therefore, try to be a little original and creative. Show her that you're not just a run-of-the-mill kind of guy that thinks a left-handed compliment is the way to her heart. Maybe a little poetry. Or that great smile. Anything but that you're probably just a shallow, party chick.
Married 18 years guy here: I LOVE when my Wife gets her little black dress on, and goes out with her ladies.... Because I know when she gets home....;)
🤣 Rob was pretty spot on 🤣.. I love how he complimented her and then took a shot in the dark with a generalisation that involved her looking like a bit of a party chick, clearly trying to have a laugh with her & HE’S a a*****e. Instead of laughing it off & correcting the goose, She claimed it & took a bigger s**t on ‘Her type’ of chick. Credits ‘Her type’ with causing past horrors in his life that created ‘His type’. She projected a whole lot more shite than he did 🤣🤣🤣 #someonestriggered My moneys on him hitting a little too close to home. She DOES look like a random, coke loving insta sloot.
well this woman is so very egotistical that it is just normal she meets strange people - they are reflecting her attitude
It sounds to me she's been burned in the past even more by the someone who thought was a nice guy. Just look at her sermon. The guy obviously wanted a relationship with a loyal girlfriend.
I'm loosing faith in humanity over c**p like this. FFS, it's obviously a pickup line. It's the very first thing he said to her and he even ended it with "lol". She then took it literally after him flat out saying that it's a rhetorical generality made by naive people. And that it's "not an actual question". She literally knows nothing about this guy and attempts to burn him over her own assumption.
Bingo. I love all the woman in here agreeing with her overreaction, down voting any opposition. This is ridiculous.
Load More Replies...Girls DO approach guys too. It does go both ways. And the whole "easy"-ness of "sit back and wait for guys", is really inaccurate. Not all guys have the courage to approach. Those who most often do, sadly, are *often* (not always) the shallow / insecure ones, who equate "picking up" with their self-worth. And the girls who just "sit back and wait for guys to approach", because it's "easy", are also often (but not always), the shallow / insecure ones, who rely on their looks / overt sexuality to 'attract' men, then complain that they're only judged by their looks / overt sexuality. (Having worked in bars, this is seen constantly, regardless of demographic). ie in the end, neither the men nor women have it 'easy', if they're looking for something beyond a shallow hook-up. It takes a lot of effort to find the right one, regardless of gender
Load More Replies...The LOL's weren't playful - it was just passive-agressive. Oh, I was just kidding. Don't be so sensitive. I'll bet you've said that a lot. Thanks to the internet, girls & women are onto guys like you. Good luck getting a girlfriend.
Load More Replies...Another nice guy. "I'm letting a girl know I judge her negatively so instead of saying hi & getting possibly ignored she'll just think I'm an a*****e & remember me." Logic isn't your strong suit. I hope you're young & grow out of it.
Load More Replies...I'm so sorry you can't get a girlfriend. Maybe read through some of the comments on here & learn something. Because girls always find guys who tell them they party to much so hilarious.
Load More Replies..."Gossipying the way girls do, ya know". Um no I don't because gossiping is not a "girl thing" it's just a human thing since guys do it to. That's just sexist c**p.
Poor Rob, after that burn he should enlist to the new Space force and ask to get deployed permanently to the lunar station.
It seems that he expected her to respond to his first comment that of course she'd gladly give up all partying, etc., just to spend time with him.
That def seemed to be his plan. He seems like one of those guys that believes if you insult a woman she'll be more attracted to you because...you know...girls like bad boys.
Load More Replies...She probably was 100% dead on. The guy reads like he’s negging, and that’s a tactic that bitter “pickup artist” boys use after reading about it in the Red Pill cult forums. Many of these guys are likely socially awkward or sad boys misdirecting their bitterness at women, and being brainwashed by the echo chamber of fellow bitter boys., rather than working to better themselves at social skills. They read about “tricks to score women” and “how to seem confident (by being a dudebro)”, and think they can shortcut their way to success with women by “playing the numbers game” with “pick up lines” and the aforementioned negging s**t. Stop playing games and just treat women like people.
Yeah right. Look at the votes and the comments. It’s just a gaggle of giggling Yass Girls in here agreeing with a poorly handled joke. #triggered
Load More Replies...I don't get what he was trying to do. It was like he was saying "You look nice but I don't think we'd get along".... So why bother writing her at all?
Maybe some more 'hahas' or 'lols' would have softened the edges on his insecure suppositions.
I once had a guy talk about the bubble headed cheerleaders that are associated with the professional American football teams. I said "Actually..I bet they're smarter than you." Turns out most of those women are physicians, lawyers, hold PhDs, are Psychiatrists..own businesses..etc. I think we were watching a Dallas game at the time. Never judge a woman's activities or intelligence by how she looks. You may not get what you expected.
They are often portrayed very badly in films unfortunately. Going to be a mix of people, like most things.
Load More Replies...'Women aren't allowed to go to parties or spent time with their friends if they are in a relationship.' ???? .....but men are, you know that "boys will be boys"? And did you hear this one? It's good for man have an extramarital affair, it makes him a better husband!!???? What a heck!!!! That's why I have to quote an observation of a very wise Bored Panda: "I have a house, a job (tenured), a cat, and a vibrator. He's offering me nothing I can't supply myself except that undesirable mass of testosterone - which is why the only male in my life is neutered."
She did'nt understant. 1. Alcohol destroys the appearance and brain, so the guy does not want them to drink. My mom never drink and she look well at 55 years. 2. Fanatical Instagraming can be a consequence of narcissistic personality disorder and desire for attention, which can lead to more serious mental problems. And how I see she is very close to be fat.
She should have left her dating apps open. At least doing it this way weeds out the Robs without her having to meet them and waste time getting to know them.
dude probably so toxic it burned away :\
Load More Replies...This is seriously worthy of being posted on BP? This happens 45,000 times per day, and most of them are much worse than this. What the heck? Downvoted. I'd spend all my downvotes this year on downvoting this if I could. I had a guy send more than 5 messages in a row, our first conversation, talking about how women have to clean themselves or they stink. Kept going on about women stinking. Had one say that women who had any male friends were insecure sluts with "issues". Had one call my recently-deceased Dad an "a-hole" (long story how that came up in just four messages), but holy cow.
If you want to impress the lady, Rob, you gotta do better than that. At least you gotta show some common sense about it. Nobody, man or woman, appreciates a negative approach. And I'll bet she's probably heard it a hundred times that she's stunning. Therefore, try to be a little original and creative. Show her that you're not just a run-of-the-mill kind of guy that thinks a left-handed compliment is the way to her heart. Maybe a little poetry. Or that great smile. Anything but that you're probably just a shallow, party chick.
Married 18 years guy here: I LOVE when my Wife gets her little black dress on, and goes out with her ladies.... Because I know when she gets home....;)
🤣 Rob was pretty spot on 🤣.. I love how he complimented her and then took a shot in the dark with a generalisation that involved her looking like a bit of a party chick, clearly trying to have a laugh with her & HE’S a a*****e. Instead of laughing it off & correcting the goose, She claimed it & took a bigger s**t on ‘Her type’ of chick. Credits ‘Her type’ with causing past horrors in his life that created ‘His type’. She projected a whole lot more shite than he did 🤣🤣🤣 #someonestriggered My moneys on him hitting a little too close to home. She DOES look like a random, coke loving insta sloot.
well this woman is so very egotistical that it is just normal she meets strange people - they are reflecting her attitude
It sounds to me she's been burned in the past even more by the someone who thought was a nice guy. Just look at her sermon. The guy obviously wanted a relationship with a loyal girlfriend.
I'm loosing faith in humanity over c**p like this. FFS, it's obviously a pickup line. It's the very first thing he said to her and he even ended it with "lol". She then took it literally after him flat out saying that it's a rhetorical generality made by naive people. And that it's "not an actual question". She literally knows nothing about this guy and attempts to burn him over her own assumption.
Bingo. I love all the woman in here agreeing with her overreaction, down voting any opposition. This is ridiculous.
Load More Replies...Girls DO approach guys too. It does go both ways. And the whole "easy"-ness of "sit back and wait for guys", is really inaccurate. Not all guys have the courage to approach. Those who most often do, sadly, are *often* (not always) the shallow / insecure ones, who equate "picking up" with their self-worth. And the girls who just "sit back and wait for guys to approach", because it's "easy", are also often (but not always), the shallow / insecure ones, who rely on their looks / overt sexuality to 'attract' men, then complain that they're only judged by their looks / overt sexuality. (Having worked in bars, this is seen constantly, regardless of demographic). ie in the end, neither the men nor women have it 'easy', if they're looking for something beyond a shallow hook-up. It takes a lot of effort to find the right one, regardless of gender
Load More Replies...The LOL's weren't playful - it was just passive-agressive. Oh, I was just kidding. Don't be so sensitive. I'll bet you've said that a lot. Thanks to the internet, girls & women are onto guys like you. Good luck getting a girlfriend.
Load More Replies...Another nice guy. "I'm letting a girl know I judge her negatively so instead of saying hi & getting possibly ignored she'll just think I'm an a*****e & remember me." Logic isn't your strong suit. I hope you're young & grow out of it.
Load More Replies...I'm so sorry you can't get a girlfriend. Maybe read through some of the comments on here & learn something. Because girls always find guys who tell them they party to much so hilarious.
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