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67 Times People Gave Unsolicited Advice And Proved They Have Zero Clue What They Are Talking About (New Pics)
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Every now and then, we meet someone who offers unsolicited advice. This person thinks they have the answer to everything, even the most complex problems that require deep thought and deliberation.
Their ability to oversimplify things is actually astounding, so much so that there is a subreddit dedicated to these “geniuses.” Indeed, the Thanks, I’m Cured community does a splendid job of subtly calling out these people for being so out of touch with reality.
Here are some of the posts from the page. Yes, all of these are facepalm-worthy, but their utter absurdity is where the entertainment value lies.
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#1
Come On Stock Market, Get It Together
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#2
Thanks For That
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 4 hours ago
During a bout of depression a long time ago my well meaning boss told me how patients on the cancer ward had worse lives than me. And yes I felt so bad about my depression that it made me more depressed. And guilty.
#3
Looking Forward To The Research Too
People who come off as know-it-alls who give unsolicited advice will likely peeve, even offend, the other person. But according to Houston-based psychotherapist Elizabeth Seabolt-Esparza, a lack of emotional intelligence could be a factor outside of narcissism and ego wounding.
#4
Cool
Nikki Sevven 33 minutes ago
Well now I'm more depressed because I can't afford to travel the world.
#5
Oh, Thank Goodness! For A Moment I Thought Something Might Be Wrong
#6
Work Harder
“Some people feel helpless and don't know what to say, particularly in situations involving loss or chronic health issues. Some people may truly mean well while not realizing they are causing harm rather than helping,” Elizabeth told Bored Panda.
#7
Weeeeeeeeee
Other times, people just want to feel heard. According to licensed therapist Laurie Wilson, these folks just want to feel important and know their opinions matter. In some cases, she says it’s also a product of neurodivergence.
“Neurodiverse people don't mean anything malicious about it. We just really swear that we have the right answer,” Laurie says.
#10
My Cousin Shared This
#11
But I Hate Turmeric
#12
Oh. Okay
The lack of perspective may also affect someone’s opinions on a specific matter. Elizabeth emphasizes that most people who give unsolicited advice mean well. However, they may be coming from a place of ignorance or privilege, or just want to help so badly.
#13
I Think This Belongs Here
CloPotato 2 hours ago
It can be true and can be the necessary push for someone to take conscience of all the bars added to their mental prison and deconstruct what they learnt or what depression made them believe was true (I am personnally grateful for the version of me who went through this process). I just hope this wasn't done in a snarky way, or to say "you don't have problems so f**k off".
#14
If Only Avoiding Bigotry Were This Easy
2WheelTravlr 2 hours ago
Although this is simplified, studies show that constant inundation with media and online social networks is not good for mental health.
#15
99% Of Online “Mental Health Advices”
“It can be easy to tell someone to just quit a job they hate or to just stop going to Starbucks when they have a financial net to catch them, not realizing that some people are struggling so much financially that there is no fat to trim, so to speak,” Elizabeth said. “Feeling helpless can create a need to fix it by offering unsolicited advice.”
#17
Can It Actually
Eliza 3 hours ago (edited)
Financial stability helps (alot) with things that make normal people sad and anxious, but depression is not about that. It's biological and can happen to people regardless of finances. I have had multiple major depressive episodes and have been upper middle class most of my life. In fact, one of my common thought loops when I get depressed is a feeling of deep seated shame that I have so much privilege and objectively a great life and I can't even do the most basic things. I think about how many people struggle against much more difficult circumstances and do amazing things meanwhile I can't even get up the energy to do my laundry.
#18
Healthy Coping Mechanisms
So, how can you actually be a supportive listener for someone going through a rough time? Laurie’s number one tip is to “just listen.” She then advised against sharing a story about a similar experience, since the other person only needs to be seen and heard.
#20
It Was Just That Simple
#21
Pain Is Temporary Unless It's Chronic
“As a society, we need to be more aware of the link between mental illness and chronic illness, as well as financial and all the other hardships that come along with that,” Laurie said. “Our attachment wounds and our past trauma or past hurt yield illness and hardship. And ‘just think positive’ will not lessen the pain.”
#22
Wow Imma Need Me Several Of Those
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 4 hours ago
Anyone want to buy some magic pebbles? I have ones that cure the above, also ones that cure communism in a person, and homosexuality.
#24
And That's How I Lost My Self Esteem
Toujin C'Thlu 1 hour ago
I sometimes wonder if these teachers ever experienced bullying, or even interacted with other kids
Meanwhile, Elizabeth’s tip is simple and straightforward: ask yourself if the advice you’re giving addresses the problem within minutes. Her second important piece of advice: remember that not everyone is religious.
#25
Broken Leg? Walk
Frank Ropen 4 hours ago
Million dollar companies hire more people to prevent being understaffed. So act like a million dollar company
#27
You Heard 'Em Boys, Effort Doesn't Require Effort
“Comments like ‘let go and let God’ may feel dismissive to someone who is an atheist,” Elizabeth said. “It is advisable to check with the person first to see if they are religious to get an idea of how this may land with them. Even if they are religious, they may not be feeling receptive to this kind of response.”
#29
Thanks Google
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 4 hours ago
Is AI trying to get rid of the human resistance before it renames itself Skynet?
#30
(Found On Facebook)
#31
We Did It Guys, Bullying Is No More
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 4 hours ago
So... The bullies are still bullying others? Just not you? I do not think that solves the problem.
#32
I Know It’s Ironic But I Just Had To Post This Because It Fits
2WheelTravlr 2 hours ago
I never knew that bacteria follows the same rules as vampires. Ya learn something new every day!
#33
I Just Thought This Was Funny
#34
Wow I’m Cured
#35
Found On Pinterest
Phantom Phoenix 2 hours ago
Question for the last guy. Sherry, specifically, or alcoholic beverages in general?
#36
An Insult In A Bag
liam newton-harding 4 hours ago
And this is where you slap the "well meaning" person who handed you this...it may not cure depression, but there will be a short lived rush of dopomine.
#37
It’s The Pink Hair That’s The Problem Guys
#38
I Dont Know What To Put Here
Alessa Gillespie 3 hours ago
Ugh. This is like receiving advice on how to prevent/relief migraines from people who've never had a migraine.
#39
So That's How You Get Rid Of Mental Breakdowns
#42
And It Is Magically Gone
Bewitched One 3 hours ago
Riiiiiiight lol let me just not listen to the thing that makes me listen
#45
It's That Easy!
#47
My Mother Just Forwarded This To Me
Upstaged75 4 hours ago
Sounds like my mom before I made her read a bunch of articles about how depression/anxiety works. Telling me to "snap out of it" is pointless.
#48
…because American Diets Are Famously Deficient In Salt
#49
Oh Wow What An Idea Thanks Boomer
#50
Why Are You Depressed, You Sad Idiot? You Have Tea And Cookies Right In Front Of You!
#51
Still No Reason To Be A Jerk For No Reason
#54
The Cure To Bed Is Just Stopping
#56
Bad Correlation
#58
Yes. Just Pretend To Feel Happy
#59
Next Time I Should Just Make It Into More Money Ez
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 4 hours ago
The poor man needs to spend the money on necessities, the rich man can afford to invest surplus cash.
#61
I No Longer Have Depression Apparently
#66
Because They Make The Same Amount Of Money
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David Paterson 44 minutes ago
Do you mind if I print some of these out? I'm seeing a brand spanking new therapist for the first time tomorrow and want to take them along to show her.
CloPotato 2 hours ago
Recently started therapy bc I'm pretty sure I have ADHD. Doc made the 2nd meeting way shorter bc he had "stuff to do" (the commute to go there was 6x the duration of the appointment so it was a bit annoying), and then asked me to tell him what I never forget. Which I couldn't, bc I forget everything, which is why I'm here in the first place. He was like "you need to understand what happens for the things you never forget", and only when I snapped and listed a lot of stuff that I do forget, including closing my door, turning off my stove, and eating, that he took notice of forgetting to eat and said "ah so you actually struggle with something". Once again my dude, why do you think I bothered coming in the first place?
David Paterson 44 minutes ago
Do you mind if I print some of these out? I'm seeing a brand spanking new therapist for the first time tomorrow and want to take them along to show her.
CloPotato 2 hours ago
Recently started therapy bc I'm pretty sure I have ADHD. Doc made the 2nd meeting way shorter bc he had "stuff to do" (the commute to go there was 6x the duration of the appointment so it was a bit annoying), and then asked me to tell him what I never forget. Which I couldn't, bc I forget everything, which is why I'm here in the first place. He was like "you need to understand what happens for the things you never forget", and only when I snapped and listed a lot of stuff that I do forget, including closing my door, turning off my stove, and eating, that he took notice of forgetting to eat and said "ah so you actually struggle with something". Once again my dude, why do you think I bothered coming in the first place?
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