Discover the world of Nyxis, a comic artist who captures the experiences of transgender women with humor and sensitivity.
Through her Instagram platform, she often shares her personal journey and artistic reflections, engaging over 2K followers. Her comics delve into themes like identity exploration, the nuances of transitioning, and everyday challenges, resonating deeply with those following her.
From experimenting with names to adapting fashion choices, Nyxis' work is not just entertaining but enlightening, offering a unique perspective on the highs and lows of womanhood and transition.
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Genius. I like my given name, so I never really thought how much of a pain it could be to choose your name. My friend just adapted his middle name.
A friend of mine just decided to keep her nickname as it is gender neutral
Load More Replies...omg i get this! being a transman and picking a name was so painful, i had an entire list too!
Yeahhh... I've thought about this a fair bit. I was born female, prob identify most as NB, but 'female' doesn't distress me anywhere near as much as it would distress and confuse people I care about deeply were I to come out (ditto my sexuality - I'm bi and more attracted to girls than guys, but because I'm a very low weight = no sex hormones, I'm functionally asexual). As it happens I know what my parents would have named me had I been assigned male and it's a name I like, so I'd have gone with that as the least painful choice. I am however very aware that that's pretty much the last thing on a lot of trans kids' wishlists when choosing a new name and I fully support them in that +
Taking the name that your parents would have named you if you had a different sex, is a really nice idea. Never thought about that (although my younger brother already got given that name, so in my case it wouldn't have worked anyway)
Load More Replies...Great idea, lol. Also: saying your name out loud (practicing introducing yourself out loud when you're alone in your room) can help you realize that you might like the name when it's written but not actually like the way it sounds out loud. But it also helps to have friends who understand that trial and error is part of the process, and will give you the freedom to try one out and then change if it just doesn't feel right.
Ditto trying out Dr (new name) Surname, or another formal prefix!
Load More Replies...Yes. When you identify as trans, the name you were given at birth matches your 'false' gender. You need a name to match the gender you feel yourself to be inside, and it's down to you to pick it. It can take a few gos to get it right (I remember how many email addresses I went through at 13 - email addresses!)
Load More Replies...This is actually really clever. Is this something people actually do when trying to decide on their name?
As an Allie I don't think fully I can understand y’all’s struggle but I certainly can give support and a laugh sincerely your local cis man.
I don't know what it's like to be a whale, but I support animal rights. Not trans either, but support their rights too!
Load More Replies...I can only imagine what an incredibly huge moment it would be to have that newly corrected driver's license. Must feel amazing.
It's very difficult to describe the feeling. Elation might come close but it's not quite there.
Load More Replies...That's an interesting sound. I'm going to have to try it.
Load More Replies...One day in the dead of night the boobie fairy will appear and grant your wish.
I remember waiting for that fairy! I was told she was a lovely little thing, with a bicycle pump. Sometimes she pumped just a little, and sometimes she pumped for a very long time! lol (My aunt had a very strange sense of humor back in the 60s.)
Load More Replies...I wish more trans females could understand even non-trans females are not always endowed with boobs, but that doesn't make a female less of a female. And, yes, it's okay to wear dresses, even the sleeveless, form-fitting kind, with an A cup.
Lol, when I was younger I really wanted to wear bras bc they felt “grown up,” now I hate them
Omg, someone asked me the same question. I always drew females and preferred female characters. My thoughts were exactly that but I felt like I was going to come across as someone I wasn't if I said anything. They assumed I was a lesbian. For me, drawing females just came more naturally and graceful. I love coming up with flowing dresses. Now I want to get back into sketching.
When I came out to my D&D group they were all "yeah, no sh*t. we knew. way before you did."
thats actually similar to when i discovered what trans was lol "what?! why would someone want to be a girl?? being a girl sucks, i wish i were a boy..". now i'm a transmasc demiboy and i'm happier now (edit: sorry if it had seemed rude, i was having a rough day at school and i was just typing random stuff)
Lol I was the same, I always drew guys and made male ocs.
I finally wore a suit to the school dance for the first time. I was so excited and then I spent the whole night getting misgendered in both genders. Being nonbinary can be rough like first I see teachers who know me who say "Oh this is [name] she's my student." and then I have photographers saying, "Wait let's put him on the left." Like how the heck do I present as they/them.
I know how you feel :( being nb kinda sucks because you can't really pass outside of queer spaces, the closest I've gotten is people getting confused and asking me if I'm 'a boy or a girl'
Load More Replies...The euphoric high of being correctly gendered by a member of the public followed by the crushing low of being incorrectly gendered.
Load More Replies...Oh. I get it now. Took me a hot minute. HRT stands for hormone replacement therapy. Does it change the condition of your skin?
Amongst many other things, it sure does. Differently for trans men and trans women, but changes quite a bit for sure.
Load More Replies...Why do we (trans people) always have the best fashion sense?
What do you think we were doing in the closet all that time?
Load More Replies...I'm a cis woman but I feel exactly the same in reverse. Fück woman's pants, the pockets are lies.
Not just the pockets, but since having a baby my stomach is wider than my hips and I have a fatty, low pelvis. Makes me feel very self-conscious there. Women's pants have that weird hump to fit wider hips, but on me it's just extra loose, and then my pants are always slipping down. Even with a belt. Women's underwear never has enough room to accommodate extra bulgy bits. I'm seriously considering men's pants and even underwear. No one will know, right?
Load More Replies...Yo todavía no he empezado mi mi transición de cambio de genero pero cuando veo ropa me siento como en esta imagen
This is a new one for I’m aware of heat from fire , fire from heat could anyone explain this I’ve seen in different trans memes.
the Blahaj stuffy sold by Ikea has become a trans icon. I have no idea why, and it's entirely possible I'm the only trans person in the west who doesn't own (at least) one.
Load More Replies...As a Cis woman I'd like to say, you're all welcome to use the same bathroom as I do. Nobody except for some àss-eared douchebags actually care either.
My own anxiety prevents me from caring about who or what is using the stall next to me. I'm just trying to keep my head down and get out with clean hands
Load More Replies...Cis-woman here. If a guy is going to assault women in a bathroom, he isn't going to require a sociably-acceptable reason to enter first. As in, anyone who says letting trans-women utilise women-only spaces is opening the doors to men claiming to be transferred for the sole purpose of attacking women. Men like that don't ask permission.
I have to agree. It's not like women's public washroom's are entirely shut away from all public's view and access. The ones in Canada, the women's washroom is usually the first washroom and has a very open doorway. Sometimes with full view of the stalls, and, yes, we have some gaps in the stall doors. Not only that, but I've had other women peak in at me through the stall gaps, or try to break down the doors with force, instead of asking if anyone is in the stall. I've had other women make threats to me for just being there because they're in there doing d***s and having a paranoid trip. I still find all sorts of bodily fluids on the seat, walls and floor. Tampons/pads stuffed in the toilet paper dispenser, syringes left on the floor, toilet paper littered all over, hair in the sink and counters. You name it. Women still have to worry about females exploiting others with their phones recording in the washrooms.
Load More Replies...Ah, the “school bathroom dilemma.” Aka why I’m always mildly dehydrated.
I remember growing up I never wanted to use public restrooms. I would hold it til I got home no matter how bad it was. Then when I remembered I'm a woman I realized that (as my subconscious had been screaming at me for 30+ years) the problem wasn't that it was public but that it was the men's room I was going into! I felt like an unwelcome intruder all those times.
Honestly, I believe most people take for granted such simple things, while a trans or intersex person has to expend a fair amount of thought and planning for so, SO many things. I can't imagine the stress involved in all of that.
Load More Replies...Family washrooms. The trans people at my work use the gender neutral, one room family washroom, as they can't use the men's nor the women's.
And this is why I have the unhealthy habit of not using the bathroom at school!
Relatable, even after realizing that I was a demigirl I continue to only use gender neutral washrooms, even if it's a single person washroom.
I would just pick the one with whatever physical (u know what I mean) gender you were born with
I think it is changing your voice to sound more like the gender you have chosen like for the main character more like a girls voice.
Load More Replies...I guess this is one of the hardest things for me to understand. I've never even thought about being a man; I just am and always have been. That must really suck.
Sometimes I think about my gender. I’m cis-het, but I do have some personality traits that people will call “masculine” and sometimes I wonder about that
This is one of those "huh, it's not just me who thinks it" moments before your brain clicks over to the "holy sh*t! i'm trans!" realisation.
*faint rumble* *cloud of pumpkin spice lattes, oversized sweaters and books appears on the horizon*
AND DN’T FORGET THE BEAUTIFUL AUTUMN COLOURS!!!
Load More Replies...Yay I’m not the only one that does the aspirational picrew, lmao
This is my first time hearing about this site. I love those kinds of dress up, maker games.
The character also has a large tattoo with a vine like design over both shoulders
Load More Replies...The character also has a large tattoo with a vine like design over both shoulders
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