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Bride Opts To Have Her 4 Grandmas As Flower Girls And They Totally Crush It
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Bride Opts To Have Her 4 Grandmas As Flower Girls And They Totally Crush It

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While it’s all sunshine and rainbows on most wedding days, some are particularly so. And it’s all due to the people not being afraid to step a little bit out of the box sometimes. That’s exactly what this Tennessee couple did when they finally tied the knot after dating for 2 years. Even though flower girls are usually associated with cute little girls, this time the bride decided she would get her four lovely grandmas involved by honoring them with this duty. Gladly, they all were really excited about this unconventional twist, so they surely accepted and it turned out to be just the cutest thing!

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This Tennessee couple decided to do a little twist on their wedding day

Image credits: Natalie Caho Photography

As John Lennon once said, “Love is the flower you’ve got to let grow”. And so they did, and so their love brought Tennessee couple Tanner and Lyndsey Raby to the altar on September 22nd this year. But no wedding ever passes without a little bit of surprise, so it’s safe to say this celebration was no exception.

And asked their grandmas to be the flower girls at their wedding

Image credits: Natalie Caho Photography

The eldest of them was the bride’s 90-year-old great-grandmother

Image credits: Natalie Caho Photography

This time it was all because of the lovely bride who came up with an adorable idea of how to honor and get the four grandmothers of her hubby-to-be and her more involved. She said she knew she wanted to do that from the moment she got engaged. “I felt so blessed to have them all here so I wanted them to be involved too,” said Lyndsey. So she made them her flower girls!

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She was joined by bride’s 70 and 76-year-old grandmas

Image credits: Natalie Caho Photography

And also the 70-year-old grandma of the groom

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One could think that elderly people might not be so keen on such a playful twist but these four lovely ladies were all up for joining the bridal party. After all, Lyndsey assured it wouldn’t feel complete if it was otherwise, so they all joined in and happily took up the flower petal baskets with writings “Here comes the bride” on each of them.

Seeing them all was a really special sight to everyone at the wedding

Image credits: Natalie Caho Photography

The bride herself, Lyndsey, said she wanted the grandma’s to be involved right from the moment she got engaged

Image credits: Natalie Caho Photography

In the fabulous photos by wedding photographer Natalie Caho, you can see from left to right the eldest star to the bridal party was the bride’s great-grandmother Kathleen Brown, the groom’s 70-year-old grandmother Joyce Raby and two lovely grandmas of the bride – 76-year-old Wanda Grant and 72-year-old Betty Brown.

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And her wish sure did enfold beautifully

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Image credits: Natalie Caho Photography

As the bride believes the grandmas were more excited than even her bridesmaids

Image credits: Natalie Caho Photography

The photographer who captured them, Natalie Caho, shared a photo of them on her Instagram, noting that she’s seen a lot of cute flower girls in her day “but these four gals take the cake”. She also added that “Most girls are lucky to even have one grandmother present. And the fact that [Lyndsey] had four was a big deal that she wanted to savor.” The four ladies sure made the Raby’s wedding day a lot more special.

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tristessa avatar
Juniper
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow who has a luxury of having 4 grandmothers? I feel like cheated on, I have none.

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blugeagua
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right! All grandmothers and even one great-grandma! I also have none. All of my grandparents died years ago. :(

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Kiwi Canuck
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is probably really dumb but it irked me how the beginning of the article says "when they finally tied the knot after two years of dating". "Finally" would be after 50 years of dating, not two little years!

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Miriam L
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It really depends on how long it feels to the couple, in my opinion. As long as they've had the time to think it over between dating and engagement, do what works for you. In my community, weddings are fairly simple and it's rare to have a whole year between engagement and wedding, and a friend of mine still thought her six months was forever!

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Whatever...
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lindsey, you probably gave them one of the high points of their lives. So sweet!

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Sterrinatu
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was really lovely. My Grandma died 1 month before I was born. She's a lucky lady to have them in her life.

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Linda Matheny
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG, how wonderful to have all of the "Grama's" part of the wedding.

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porcupine
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They look amazing! My grandma was my maid of honor and she was so beautiful. I think this should definitely be a more common practice.

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Beth Arriaga
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had our parents 'stand in' as our matrons of honor and best men. My dad walked me down the aisle while my mother and soon to be mother In law stood for me and then my dad took his place next to my groom and his father. It was magical. No dry eyes anywhere. I would have had our grandparents if they were still living... we had their photos nearby. Family is everything - and family can be the ones you're born with or those you gather around you- either way, family is love

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jenjie.newt
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this idea! It's funny that it's so original but it makes so much sense.

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine all the puzzled brides in Tennessee who wonder why she has four grandmothers, when they only have one… and their last name is already the same as the groom's.

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Barbara Vandewalle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love this. All four of my grandparents died when I was six. I had only mother, with dementia.

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Cindy Collins
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is so very lucky to have 3 living grandmothers, and one great mother. I am a little envious

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Teresa Taylor
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an absolute treasure!! This is a wonderful blessing and an extra special memory. Your wedding days is always a special day, but theirs was over-the-top with their flower girls.

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Rissie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also of course grandma's would join in. When you reach a certain age you stop caring about silly rules and know a flower girl can be anyone. It's very sweet and they are clearly aware about the privilege of having so many lovely ladies of several generations in their midst.

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Katherine Boag
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Came to find out how the bride had 4 grandmas, was disappointed.

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Rissie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes because having both your grandmothers, a great grandmother and your husband's alive to see you wed is nothing special whatsoever. Well it is and your reaction is sad.

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Juniper
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow who has a luxury of having 4 grandmothers? I feel like cheated on, I have none.

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blugeagua
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right! All grandmothers and even one great-grandma! I also have none. All of my grandparents died years ago. :(

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Kiwi Canuck
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is probably really dumb but it irked me how the beginning of the article says "when they finally tied the knot after two years of dating". "Finally" would be after 50 years of dating, not two little years!

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Miriam L
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It really depends on how long it feels to the couple, in my opinion. As long as they've had the time to think it over between dating and engagement, do what works for you. In my community, weddings are fairly simple and it's rare to have a whole year between engagement and wedding, and a friend of mine still thought her six months was forever!

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Whatever...
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lindsey, you probably gave them one of the high points of their lives. So sweet!

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Sterrinatu
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was really lovely. My Grandma died 1 month before I was born. She's a lucky lady to have them in her life.

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Linda Matheny
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG, how wonderful to have all of the "Grama's" part of the wedding.

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porcupine
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They look amazing! My grandma was my maid of honor and she was so beautiful. I think this should definitely be a more common practice.

bubs623 avatar
Beth Arriaga
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had our parents 'stand in' as our matrons of honor and best men. My dad walked me down the aisle while my mother and soon to be mother In law stood for me and then my dad took his place next to my groom and his father. It was magical. No dry eyes anywhere. I would have had our grandparents if they were still living... we had their photos nearby. Family is everything - and family can be the ones you're born with or those you gather around you- either way, family is love

jennifernewton_1 avatar
jenjie.newt
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this idea! It's funny that it's so original but it makes so much sense.

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Steve Cruz
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine all the puzzled brides in Tennessee who wonder why she has four grandmothers, when they only have one… and their last name is already the same as the groom's.

bmarrs avatar
Barbara Vandewalle
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love this. All four of my grandparents died when I was six. I had only mother, with dementia.

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Cindy Collins
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is so very lucky to have 3 living grandmothers, and one great mother. I am a little envious

ctrteresa avatar
Teresa Taylor
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an absolute treasure!! This is a wonderful blessing and an extra special memory. Your wedding days is always a special day, but theirs was over-the-top with their flower girls.

wianjama avatar
Rissie
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also of course grandma's would join in. When you reach a certain age you stop caring about silly rules and know a flower girl can be anyone. It's very sweet and they are clearly aware about the privilege of having so many lovely ladies of several generations in their midst.

katherineboag avatar
Katherine Boag
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4 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Came to find out how the bride had 4 grandmas, was disappointed.

wianjama avatar
Rissie
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes because having both your grandmothers, a great grandmother and your husband's alive to see you wed is nothing special whatsoever. Well it is and your reaction is sad.

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