“Did She Even Have A Childhood?”: Beyoncé And Jay-Z’s Parenting Slammed After Blue Ivy Performs
One minute she’s Beyoncé’s baby trailing behind her during public outings, and the next, she’s a diva following in her mother’s footsteps with the same high-energy moves on stage.
Blue Ivy Carter, 13, took the stage like a seasoned pro during the opening night of her mother’s Cowboy Carter Tour.
Netizens had wild reactions online, with some fans predicting she would be the “most successful nepo baby” of her generation. But critics claimed she was “too young” to do what she does.
- Beyoncé kicked off her Cowboy Carter Tour on Monday in Los Angeles.
- Her daughters, Blue Ivy Carter, 13, and Rumi Carter, 7, joined her onstage.
- Netizens were harsh with their comments, claiming Blue Ivy was being “groomed.”
- Blue Ivy had previously seen the negative comments about her dance moves in 2023, Beyoncé's mother, Tina Knowles, said.
Beyoncé’s daughters, Blue Ivy Carter and Rumi Carter, joined her onstage
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Blue Ivy Carter was back onstage with her mother for her Cowboy Carter and the Rodeo Chitlin Circuit Tour.
This time, Beyoncé’s younger daughter, Rumi Carter, 7, also made her stage debut at Los Angeles’ SoFi Stadium on Monday night.
The daughters, aged 13 and 7, joined their mother for the opening night of their mother’s Cowboy Carter Tour
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Blue Ivy appeared in front of the crowd multiple times throughout the show.
She danced to the hit track Déjà Vu, which was released in 2006 and featured both her mother and her music mogul father Jay-Z.
The teenager also danced front and center during the song America Has a Problem.
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Meanwhile, Rumi stepped out as Beyoncé entertained the crowd with Protector.
Blue Ivy Carter previously joined her Grammy-winning mother as a backup dancer multiple times during her Renaissance World Tour in 2023.
The youngster also danced with her mother during the NFL Christmas Gameday halftime show in Houston in 2024.
Netizens were harsh with their comments, saying, “Let her be a kid ffs”
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The teen’s latest performance on stage sparked a flurry of comments online, with some claiming, “She still a nepo child groomed by her mother.”
“13 going on 23 too young to be out there,” one said, while another asked, “She 13?? Man, she looks like a 40 y/o mom working a double shift at IHOP.”
“Grooming!! She’ll be getting implants next!” said one naysayer.
“Ruined childhood, nothing else. Blame the parents,” one critic harshly said
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On the other hand, fans praised her talent and said, “She’s a star and a hard worker just like her parents.”
“Blue Ivy is going to be the most successful nepo baby of her generation i just know it,” another said.
@craigizzle Bey, Rumi and Blue for Protector. NO YOURE CRYING 🥹😭 @Beyoncé @Parkwood Entertainment #beyonce#cowboycarter#cowboycartertour#sofistadium#la#losangeles#beyoncetour#beyoncecowboycarter#cowboycartertourbeyonce#protector#rumicarter#blueivy♬ original sound – Craig
Netizens have been relentless in their scrutiny of Blue Ivy and her looks over the years.
She has often joined her power couple parents at high-profile events.
But nearly every public appearance turned into another round of discussions about her and her family’s personal choices.
Beyoncé previously said she was against the idea of Blue Ivy Carter performing onstage
@samtbrt Blue Ivy walking Runway at the Renaissance 2.0 #cowboycartertour#beyonce#sofistadium#blueivy♬ original sound – sam
In the concert film Renaissance: A Film by Beyoncé, the Single Ladies singer said she was initially against the idea of her daughter joining her onstage.
“She told me she was ready to perform, and I told her no,” she reportedly said.
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Beyoncé’s mother, Tina Knowles, revealed that Blue Ivy saw some of the negative comments people said about her dance during her performances in 2023.
“One of her friends came back and showed her some negative comments,” Tina said on an episode of Vogue’s The Run Through podcast.
Beyoncé, who holds the record for the most Grammy Awards won, shared some important advice with Blue Ivy
Image credits: craigizzle / TikTok
Blue Ivy dancing with Beyoncé during “America Has A Problem.” 💙#COWBOYCARTERTOUR#LApic.twitter.com/4AWHKENMoX
— BEYONCÉ LEGION 𐚁 (@BeyLegion) April 29, 2025
The grandmother said the incident wound up being “a great life lesson” for the child prodigy.
“Her mom basically said, ‘Listen, if you let this get you down, then they won. So you should go and work harder. And, you know, just work harder and get your skills together and go out there and blast it,’” she recalled.
Blue Ivy “grew so much” after seeing the negative comments about her performance
Image credits: Beyoncé Bowl / Netflix
Tina said Blue Ivy “grew so much” from the experience after Beyoncé’s advice.
Kelly Rowland—who has performed alongside Beyoncé as a former Destiny’s Child member—said she was “proud” of Blue Ivy’s performances during the Renaissance World Tour.
Image credits: Raph_PH / Flickr
“She works very freaking hard, period. But how could she not, you know?” the singer told E! News in 2023.
“She sees her mother in action and she sees her father in action and how they apply everything, hard work to everything that they do,” she continued.
“She works very freaking hard, period,” said former Destiny’s Child member Kelly Rowland
Beyoncé 2006 / Blue Ivy 2025. ✨
pic.twitter.com/dtJL9RbkhT— Beyoncé Press. (@beyoncepress) April 29, 2025
Beyoncé and Blue Ivy gave a rare interview together last year for Disney Studios.
At the time, the mother-of-three was reprising her role of Nala for the live-action film Mufasa while her daughter lent her voice to Kiara, the daughter of Nala and Simba.
“She did such a beautiful job and I can’t believe how natural she is. And I’m just proud of you. I’m so proud of you. And I can’t believe how big and grown-up you are … Nobody’s prouder than mommy,” Beyoncé said during the interview.
“Blue Ivy looks so fake,” a critic said online
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Honestly - she looks great, has a full outfit on, is not being sexual - what is wrong with people?!?!
I actually respect that, if you look at each of her performing outfits compared to Bey’s, Blue Ivy’s are toned down and much more appropriate for her age.
Load More Replies...It's really fascinating how puritan the US is considering the violence of their country...
The author of this is not from the US. This site is not from the US.
Load More Replies...from what I saw in these videos, she is dancing, it´s not sexual....sure she has heavy make-up and outfits, but also, she is performing. Also, you can tell she puts lot of effort in her dancing, so maybe it´s kind of reward for he...I personaly wouldn´t want this for my child at age of 13, but I guess she doesn´t have "normal" life anyway
How is aging into a teenager considered grooming, exactly? She looks fine. Fun, but modest, and normal. What’s happening here?
All the naysayers are jealous. She looked fabulous. I thought it was her momma. Good for Blue Ivy. And if I don’t get the chance to have super wealthy, connected parents, with dance choreographers at their beck and call, I’m glad someone did. Good for her. She slayed!
What a stupid take. There's always someone that trots out the old 'jealousy' chestnut. No one is jealous, believe me.
Load More Replies...She’s dressed appropriately and she looks comfortable dancing onstage. What’s the problem? A 13 year old girl doing dance routines to the music they like isn’t a new thing - it’s a pretty universal experience. The only difference is that she has the opportunity to do it on stage in an arena rather than in her living room or at a school talent show! The people making negative comments mention clothes and makeup but they’re really judging a child for her body - it’s not her problem if you think she looks older. You’re the only ones being creepy.
I am not a fan at all, but I see nothing wrong with this. It is a performance. I did ballet as a kid, and for the recitals we all had full face makeup, otherwise you look like a blank page.
Beyonce's children will never be "normal" children, They live in a completely different world from what we view as normal. Trust that the parents are parenting. You don't want to see them on stage, then don't go to their concert.
Her outfit is fine…way too much makeup though! She does not look 13 with all that on! Let her be a kid and stop damaging her skin with all that crud she doesn’t need!
All performers wear a ton of makeup for the camera, men also.
Load More Replies...That's a pretty monstrous smear. May I ask - are you American?
Load More Replies...Honestly - she looks great, has a full outfit on, is not being sexual - what is wrong with people?!?!
I actually respect that, if you look at each of her performing outfits compared to Bey’s, Blue Ivy’s are toned down and much more appropriate for her age.
Load More Replies...It's really fascinating how puritan the US is considering the violence of their country...
The author of this is not from the US. This site is not from the US.
Load More Replies...from what I saw in these videos, she is dancing, it´s not sexual....sure she has heavy make-up and outfits, but also, she is performing. Also, you can tell she puts lot of effort in her dancing, so maybe it´s kind of reward for he...I personaly wouldn´t want this for my child at age of 13, but I guess she doesn´t have "normal" life anyway
How is aging into a teenager considered grooming, exactly? She looks fine. Fun, but modest, and normal. What’s happening here?
All the naysayers are jealous. She looked fabulous. I thought it was her momma. Good for Blue Ivy. And if I don’t get the chance to have super wealthy, connected parents, with dance choreographers at their beck and call, I’m glad someone did. Good for her. She slayed!
What a stupid take. There's always someone that trots out the old 'jealousy' chestnut. No one is jealous, believe me.
Load More Replies...She’s dressed appropriately and she looks comfortable dancing onstage. What’s the problem? A 13 year old girl doing dance routines to the music they like isn’t a new thing - it’s a pretty universal experience. The only difference is that she has the opportunity to do it on stage in an arena rather than in her living room or at a school talent show! The people making negative comments mention clothes and makeup but they’re really judging a child for her body - it’s not her problem if you think she looks older. You’re the only ones being creepy.
I am not a fan at all, but I see nothing wrong with this. It is a performance. I did ballet as a kid, and for the recitals we all had full face makeup, otherwise you look like a blank page.
Beyonce's children will never be "normal" children, They live in a completely different world from what we view as normal. Trust that the parents are parenting. You don't want to see them on stage, then don't go to their concert.
Her outfit is fine…way too much makeup though! She does not look 13 with all that on! Let her be a kid and stop damaging her skin with all that crud she doesn’t need!
All performers wear a ton of makeup for the camera, men also.
Load More Replies...That's a pretty monstrous smear. May I ask - are you American?
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