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The holiday spirit is all about giving, and we’re not talking about gifts specifically. We mean spreading joy and love to those around you. Being compassionate and understanding and showing kindness to the world. It’s also about expressing gratitude for what you have and what you receive. This cycle of grace and generosity is what makes the season so special.

However, some people like to abuse the magical feeling of the holiday spirit that lingers in the air without carrying it in their hearts themselves. All they want to do is take and don’t even consider saying thank you to anyone. Find the worst examples of these scrooges by scrolling down below. 

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Geez, Having A Relative Abandon You Like This On Christmas Is Hugely Damaging Emotionally, Not To Mention Dangerous

Geez, Having A Relative Abandon You Like This On Christmas Is Hugely Damaging Emotionally, Not To Mention Dangerous

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While holidays are about kindness and all the other good feelings out there, there’s no denial that the material side of things, the gift giving, is also a part of it. And there’s nothing wrong with that—it’s one of the ways to make people in your life feel loved and appreciated.

Unfortunately, sometimes, the gifts you receive do miss the mark. Someone might have forgotten that you already bought yourself a cast iron pan or didn’t realize that orange is simply not your color. The good thing is that there is a chance you might be able to regift it.

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Selling A Used iMac For 1200$, Woman Asks “How Low” I Would Sell It For, Or If I’d Take 800 And Some Jewelry She Makes. Oh And I Also Ruined Christmas

Selling A Used iMac For 1200$, Woman Asks “How Low” I Would Sell It For, Or If I’d Take 800 And Some Jewelry She Makes. Oh And I Also Ruined Christmas

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work in a $2 shop. We get people trying to bargain with us. "$2.50?! Can you make it a $1". Those people are so annoying!

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The Holidays Bring Out The Very Best In Beggars

The Holidays Bring Out The Very Best In Beggars

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We’re saying “a chance” because there are certain rules you have to adhere to. After all, you do not want to embarrass yourself, the regift receiver, or the original gifter in front of everybody. So, here are the do’s and don’ts of regifting: 

Do put the same amount of care and consideration into catering the gift. Don’t just regift something because you personally don’t like it or need it. Think whether the receiver would enjoy the gift and would have use for it. In other words, make sure it’s the type of gift you would actually buy for the person if you didn’t have it, if it’s something you’d spend money on. And if that’s the case, there’s no doubt you’re making the right decision.

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#4

My Kids Won’t Have A Christmas Because I Don’t Have $20

My Kids Won’t Have A Christmas Because I Don’t Have $20

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How Else Are People Going To Buy Christmas Presents?

How Else Are People Going To Buy Christmas Presents?

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"taking people's money"?! What are they talking about? The seller said no

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Don’t regift to a person in the same social circle. That is, if you got a scarf from your aunt, don’t just pass it onto your cousin. There’s a high chance your aunt might see your cousin wearing it and have her feelings hurt. Instead, give it to one of your work friends that might appreciate it. That way you’ll avoid possible discovery.

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CB Doesn’t Appreciate “Lame” Christmas Gift

CB Doesn’t Appreciate “Lame” Christmas Gift

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Strangers Wont Give My Kid AirPods Or Money?! Thanks For Ruining His Christmas!

Strangers Wont Give My Kid AirPods Or Money?! Thanks For Ruining His Christmas!

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A not-so-friendly PSA for these types of parents: Kindly leave your entitled mindset at the door before procreating. Otherwise, just don't! Jeez!!!

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Selling An $800 Drone With Accessories For $400 To Get A Little Christmas Money. Then This Parent Of The Year Shows Up

Selling An $800 Drone With Accessories For $400 To Get A Little Christmas Money. Then This Parent Of The Year Shows Up

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love OP’s kind response lol. Narcissists live for getting a reaction out of people, OP shut it down.

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Do keep it to yourself. You don’t have to tell the person you got the gift from that you are regifting it. Same goes for the person you are regifting it to. No one really needs to know. The only exception to this rule is if you have a very good relationship with the person and you know they will not take it poorly if you say, “This is actually a regift, but when I got this, I instantly thought of you.”

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Christmas Day Discounts For Second Hand Cars?

Christmas Day Discounts For Second Hand Cars?

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Ah Yes Let Me Just Deliver You A Free Fridge And Giant White Xmas Tree

Ah Yes Let Me Just Deliver You A Free Fridge And Giant White Xmas Tree

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need a refrigerator, but you don’t need “a couple good size crock pots” (start with 2-3 pots of different sizes and you can upgrade your kitchen when you can afford it) and definitely you don’t need a “white 6’ Christmas tree with lots of decorations”. All these are wants and if you can’t afford them, maybe try to downsize them to your budget.

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Don’t regift personalized items. Sure, you might not like the way those monogrammed towels feel on your skin or you might think the engraved locket is tacky, but they’re all tell-tale signs that it’s a regifted item. DIY things also count as personalized items, so hold on to that knitted sweater, even if it doesn’t really flatter your frame. It’s all about the sentiment that went into it.

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This Was On A Post About Giving Free Stuff For People In Need For Christmas

This Was On A Post About Giving Free Stuff For People In Need For Christmas

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Well, if you want my kid to have some quality time with their parent, you better give me a ps4. Otherwise, they will have to just play with their younger siblings while i play on MY ps4.”

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Put Up Different Christmas Decorations!

Put Up Different Christmas Decorations!

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Trying To Give Away A Free Trampoline But Ruining A Disabled Child's Christmas Instead

Trying To Give Away A Free Trampoline But Ruining A Disabled Child's Christmas Instead

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find it interesting in all of these that the children know what they're getting for Christmas. More likely that the parents' Christmas has been ruined.

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Do keep track of the things you want to regift. Dedicate a little space for the gifts that you know will not fit into your life and keep them there. Just make sure to put a note on each one with the name of the giver, so you don’t accidentally regift it to them. 

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Some Holiday Entitlement From A Zero Waste Group

Some Holiday Entitlement From A Zero Waste Group

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd like to see the list before I judge them. If there are reasonable options in a wide price range, I agree with this. Too many people buy random rubble just to be able to say they gave a gift. And especially for young children and families in need this is devastating. No one, even if they hide it, is happy about useless c**p. Then better give nothing. But useful and thoughtful doesn't necessarily mean it has to be expensive. And it is high time we stop being so materialistic to believe that it is neccessary and enough to gift random clutter instead of either putting in some thoughts and give something nice. It's the thought that counts, the thought you put in to make people happy. If you don't put in some thoughts, a 10k diamond ring can be useless rubble.

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I Do A/C Work At A Retirement Home, Instead Of Them Being Appreciative Of The Donations They Got For Thier Holiday Party, They Have To Nonchalantly Call Out Everyone Who Didn't Donate

I Do A/C Work At A Retirement Home, Instead Of Them Being Appreciative Of The Donations They Got For Thier Holiday Party, They Have To Nonchalantly Call Out Everyone Who Didn't Donate

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Don’t leave any previous gift tags on the item. You don’t want to leave any traces that show that this was a gift for you. This might make people feel like they're an afterthought. So, remove any labels that indicate that.

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Asking For A Literal Car In A Buy Nothing Group

Asking For A Literal Car In A Buy Nothing Group

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, well since it's also the HOLIDAY Season, lemme pop down to the dealer and pick you out something nice.

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Ah Yeah, Holiday Season, When All The Choosing Beggars Are Rising Above The Surface

Ah Yeah, Holiday Season, When All The Choosing Beggars Are Rising Above The Surface

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At first it said $100 gift card, and then it said "however much you can afford"? WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO GIVE YOU, LADY?!

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I Feel So Bad That We Ripped Him Off, I Probably Ruined His Children’s Christmas

I Feel So Bad That We Ripped Him Off, I Probably Ruined His Children’s Christmas

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Do repackage it. This is your chance to give the item a new life, so spruce it up. And because you saved time and money by choosing to regift something, you can allow yourself to put in extra effort there. We all know that getting a gift that’s nicely packaged makes it just a little more magical, so go all out.

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It's An Okay Deal For Christmas Time But The Last Sentence Just [Ruins] It

It's An Okay Deal For Christmas Time But The Last Sentence Just [Ruins] It

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In all of the years I've housesat, never have I made such entitled demands.

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Mother Demands You Only Buy Specific Gifts For Birthday And Holiday. For Context, The Child Is Like 4 Years Old

Mother Demands You Only Buy Specific Gifts For Birthday And Holiday. For Context, The Child Is Like 4 Years Old

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Where’s Your Christmas Spirit?!

Where’s Your Christmas Spirit?!

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As an artist myself, bloody hell. 12$ is actually rlly cheap, considaring multiple factors. Good job on fellow artist sayin no.

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All in all, do not lose the holiday spirit. Share love and gratitude with people you encounter and wish them well. And if you come across a choosy beggar, wish them happy holidays and move on. Their bitterness is their to deal with.

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A Christmas-Themed Tale Of One Entitled Woman's Quest For A Free Coffee Shop Journal

A Christmas-Themed Tale Of One Entitled Woman's Quest For A Free Coffee Shop Journal

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Casual Christmas Excuse

Casual Christmas Excuse

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Pay Me $100 And I’ll Let You Take Down My Christmas Tree, Lights, And Ornaments While I Sit There Watching You, Sipping My Drink

Pay Me $100 And I’ll Let You Take Down My Christmas Tree, Lights, And Ornaments While I Sit There Watching You, Sipping My Drink

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I Was Listening To Some Uplifting Christmas Music And Actually Considering This When The 2nd Message Came In

I Was Listening To Some Uplifting Christmas Music And Actually Considering This When The 2nd Message Came In

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Free Christmas Gifts For Your Children And Free Money? Why Bother

Free Christmas Gifts For Your Children And Free Money? Why Bother

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This breaks my heart. Favorite Christmas was the year our shelter let us pick out two gifts for our moms. Free. I got her a blue sweater, and a pair of earrings. I don't even remember what she got me, because it was so nice to give for a chance. ( The dinner was horrible, but we were all in it together, and so grateful.)

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The Holidays Really Do Bring Out The Best In People Don’t They

The Holidays Really Do Bring Out The Best In People Don’t They

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I originally thought that derpy and Trixie were the kids, but it appears that they are mlp characters

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I’m Trying To Get My Husband The 2 Gifts He Wants For Christmas But Please I Need Friends & Family To Actually Pay For It

I’m Trying To Get My Husband The 2 Gifts He Wants For Christmas But Please I Need Friends & Family To Actually Pay For It

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Person Trying To Get Free Christmas Photos

Person Trying To Get Free Christmas Photos

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I Bought A Friend A Season Pass As A Late Christmas Gift, A Day Later Wants Me To Get A Refund And Buy Him Something Else

I Bought A Friend A Season Pass As A Late Christmas Gift, A Day Later Wants Me To Get A Refund And Buy Him Something Else

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Thinking That A Private Seller Will Be Providing A Christmas Sale

Thinking That A Private Seller Will Be Providing A Christmas Sale

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seems like Facebook Marketplace has Christmas sales - who knew?

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CB Wants A Very Specific Christmas Tree And Decorations But Doesn't Want To Pay. Feels Like A Choosy Beggar To Me

CB Wants A Very Specific Christmas Tree And Decorations But Doesn't Want To Pay. Feels Like A Choosy Beggar To Me

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This doesn't really belong here. They found out their stuff was damaged and are just looking to see if anyone has something similar to get rid of. It doesn't hurt to ask. If they start talking s**t to people offering things, that would be a different story.

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