Entitled Mom Demands A Refund On This Artist’s Work That Her Daughter Commissioned Because It’s ‘Sinful’
We at Bored Panda have seen our fair share of choosing beggars. And then some. But this case is something else.
Just a few days ago, Redditor u/dippdot shared a conversation he had with a very obnoxious lady, and it has to be one of the funniest examples of how ridiculous these people can be.
Not only did the woman demand a refund for an artwork she failed to prove even existed, she thought u/dippdot had to repent for their “demonic” drawings!
Image credits: dippdot
Since the rules of r/ChoosingBeggars prohibit u/dippdot from revealing the identity of the person who contacted them, the artist said she “was an older lady working with a coffee brand who had 300+ followers.”
The Redditor added that she mostly posted selfies of herself with some coffee brands and Jesus quotes.
“Normally, people can find me only under the username Jamdoodles,” the artist told Bored Panda. “I am a college student working to get a Creative tech and Art major. However, in my free time, I like to draw a lot of fan art for independent films and media.”
“I often do commissions. Roughly about four per week, give or take, depending on what a commissioner may want. Nine times out of ten I am requested to draw an original character or a loved one in the style of the fan art I normally do. Most people normally are pretty understanding and respectful and I rarely get the occasional person begging for free art. I’ve had everything from people wanting me to draw their lost loved ones for free to people getting mad; I am not the animator for most of the films I draw fan art for. This lady really was the one to take the cake for me as I have never had someone try to scam me and then tell me to “repent” before. Honestly got a good laugh out of it.”
As my colleague Jonas pointed out in one of his pieces, feeling special and entitled is perfectly natural when you’re just a child: kids think that they’re the center of the world and it’s what psychologists refer to as healthy narcissism. However, during the later stages of a person’s psychological and emotional development, they eventually need to grow out of it and learn to respect others and what they want, too.
According to psychotherapist and psychoanalyst F. Diane Barth, L.C.S.W, who has a private practice in New York City, a small amount of entitlement can be good for adults as well. There’s nothing wrong, for example, with believing that we have the right to be respected by others and that we have the right to take care of ourselves and our loved ones. But this doesn’t extend to situations where our actions benefit us at the cost of hurting those around us.
Author Len Cristobal thinks one of the reasons why creative work is often undervalued rises from distance.
“People rarely see artists, their sleeves rolled up and hunched over a desk, studying various elements of design, principles, software, methods, materials, trends, histories, and relevant industries in order to hone their craft, find opportunities where their skill set is needed, and produce sensible artwork,” she wrote. “There are people who believe that artists deserve low pay because their work does not require technical skills — as if art is produced solely by impulse, vanity, or some internal dissonance.”
That may be true sometimes. But this time, I think it’s just ignorance. I don’t want to sound judgmental. But you read the exchange.
People thought the conversation was absolutely hilarious
These are the right wing religious terrorists at their best. Threatening, hate filled idiots.
"People like you are the reason demonic imagery is allowed nowadays"--- no, the US constitution is.
Everyone has access to the internet. A lot of people shouldn't even have access to any device including an Etch A Sketch.
Not so much "entitled" as mentally disturbed. Quite probably for real, needs help.
Every time I read stuff like this, I'm wondering how some people can be mentally stuck in the middle ages, while living a modern life.
hmmm... you've heard of the westboro baptists I assume?
Load More Replies...Jesus, what a nasty lady. I do love the drawings of Mephistopheles, Sock, Angel Dust, and Bill Cipher though <3
Sounds like *Carrie's insane mother; see how well that worked out for her? (Stephen King's Carrie, not Carrie Bradshaw...but I have never seen Sex and the City, so maybe her mother's a nut, too? Idk.)
Those drawings are rather cute! I draw, have for decades, but am not so skilled with people (or "demons," lol). Religion, when used as the Baptists/Protestants misuse it, is one of the nastiest things to ever happen. When it's observed just as God wants it done, it's great. That "Karen" needs to shut up, keep her big mouth opinions to herself, and leave the world 100% alone!
"Where can I leave a (negative) review of your artwork?" My secretary takes care of those things. Her name is Helen Waite so if you really want to, you can go to..."
Dippdot should make illustrations for the restaurant 'filled with satanic activity' Also, he can draw hands so well 🤩
I have to say, her comments wouldn't bother me at all. You kinda have to just shake your head. People like this generally rely pontificating as a means of expression. Pure self righteous posturing under the guise of religious virtue
I had a random creeper send me a PM on Instagram telling me my art was awful, disturbing and in poor taste and hoped I failed in my illustration career. I mean WTF?
It's fine to dislike an artist. It's even okay to tell your own children they're not allowed to own certain pieces of art. But it's not okay to harass and threaten the artist!
Release my followers onto you 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This could just be a Choosy Beggar trying to get something for free.
This is so cheesy and fake. They needed to try a little harder on the dialogue...smh
These are the right wing religious terrorists at their best. Threatening, hate filled idiots.
"People like you are the reason demonic imagery is allowed nowadays"--- no, the US constitution is.
Everyone has access to the internet. A lot of people shouldn't even have access to any device including an Etch A Sketch.
Not so much "entitled" as mentally disturbed. Quite probably for real, needs help.
Every time I read stuff like this, I'm wondering how some people can be mentally stuck in the middle ages, while living a modern life.
hmmm... you've heard of the westboro baptists I assume?
Load More Replies...Jesus, what a nasty lady. I do love the drawings of Mephistopheles, Sock, Angel Dust, and Bill Cipher though <3
Sounds like *Carrie's insane mother; see how well that worked out for her? (Stephen King's Carrie, not Carrie Bradshaw...but I have never seen Sex and the City, so maybe her mother's a nut, too? Idk.)
Those drawings are rather cute! I draw, have for decades, but am not so skilled with people (or "demons," lol). Religion, when used as the Baptists/Protestants misuse it, is one of the nastiest things to ever happen. When it's observed just as God wants it done, it's great. That "Karen" needs to shut up, keep her big mouth opinions to herself, and leave the world 100% alone!
"Where can I leave a (negative) review of your artwork?" My secretary takes care of those things. Her name is Helen Waite so if you really want to, you can go to..."
Dippdot should make illustrations for the restaurant 'filled with satanic activity' Also, he can draw hands so well 🤩
I have to say, her comments wouldn't bother me at all. You kinda have to just shake your head. People like this generally rely pontificating as a means of expression. Pure self righteous posturing under the guise of religious virtue
I had a random creeper send me a PM on Instagram telling me my art was awful, disturbing and in poor taste and hoped I failed in my illustration career. I mean WTF?
It's fine to dislike an artist. It's even okay to tell your own children they're not allowed to own certain pieces of art. But it's not okay to harass and threaten the artist!
Release my followers onto you 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This could just be a Choosy Beggar trying to get something for free.
This is so cheesy and fake. They needed to try a little harder on the dialogue...smh
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