Equality is humanity's Holy Grail, the cornerstone of most value systems, but we have yet to reap all of its rewards. Sure, our society has tremendously evolved for the better during the last, say, 100 years, but a long journey is still ahead, and the vast array of double standards that still divide people to this day highlight this perfectly.

The double standard definition states that it is a rule or a principle applied to different people or groups. The most prominent case of double standard examples to this day come from gender equality. What's usually okay for men, is not acceptable when done by women. Starting with beach attire and ending with lady bosses, society finds unnecessary ways to chime in about what's wrong and what's right.

Bored Panda has compiled a list of insightful illustrations that uncover the uncomfortable truth behind some everyday life situations, and it's (mildly) disturbing how accurate they are. Judging by these images, it's clear that sometimes terms like 'gender equality' are reduced to no more than a catchphrase. Scroll down to see the proof for yourself, and vote for your favorites.

#1

Double Standards

Double Standards

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    #2

    Clothing Standards

    Clothing Standards

    beiibis Report

    Carris Butcher
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get fake geek girl all the time! I wear big glasses, I dress differently and I do occasionally play games. People I know say I'm trying to be a fake geek girl or gamer girl and I have no idea what they mean. I'm not trying to be anything I'm just comfy this way! I'm glad it's not just me who experiences this

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    #3

    Body Image Standards

    Body Image Standards

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    Zori the degu
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Woman's face though: "I live among idiots. Honestly, do you think that I want your f***ing opinion?"

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    #4

    Boys vs. Girls

    Boys vs. Girls

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    Double Standards

    Double Standards

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    #6

    Work Rules

    Work Rules

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    Fakes And Posers

    Fakes And Posers

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    #8

    Body Standards

    Body Standards

    AlexandraDal Report

    #9

    Double Standards For Parents

    Double Standards For Parents

    Chaunie Brusie Report

    Zori the degu
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's really annoying. I only have an experience as a passer-by or a witness but I can say some people indeed are narrow-minded enough to act like that.

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    #10

    Double Standards On Emotions

    Double Standards On Emotions

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    Anna Thouvenin
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Double standards both ways in one comic. Finally <3

    Ferenc Lakatos
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even double standards have double standard.

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    D Rolls
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate the idea that males shouldn't cry at all. It bothers me so much because it's a natural thing for all humans, male or female.

    ena dejeanne
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All things equal men are far less prone to crying than women and that's down to biology. Most gender stereotypes are actually deeply rooted in biological differences which over time concretize in culture.

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    Laetitia
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really like that it shows double standards go both ways!

    Katinka Min
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be higher up. It's not as funny, but way more comprehensive than the others and shows how damaging the current gender stereotypes are to women AND men.

    Yeseul
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is the best one....showing both sides on the most common topics...

    Alistair McElwee
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So what really annoyed me was when I had a female employee who worked really hard on a project and knew it in and out. So we went to the meeting with (male)client - and he'd only talk to me. Every question was to me, and every time I'd turn to Ms. and repeat the question, and she'd answer. Then next question, again to me. I mean, if it's not to vulgar, WTF? She was the expert who'd lead the project ajdnInwas there only as her boss who'd assigned her the project she'd done so well. But, being a male, apparently I was the expert, no matter what. Sickening.

    moonsong23
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but I heard that it is scientifically proven that crying releases hormones that make you upset, and is therefore beneficial to you. And even if that isn't true, I still think that people should be able to cry no matter what gender.

    Nyssa Link
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG every single one of them is true... women has to find their "proper" place in business that's usually what's normal place to be for men. and men are expected to be emotionally mute to be seen as strong. like come onnnn

    Justin Griz
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see lots of debate that double standards don't exist. I'd like to share something I noticed. I've been binge watching shameless US. Male gendered character, first of his family to attend uni. Trying to be a conscientious student. Roommates girlfriend treats him like s**t. One night she's bored with her boyfriend and sneaks from his bed to the male characters & begins sucking his d**k while he's asleep (for those playing at home sexual assault and 'rape culture'?) He objects but she finishes anyway. (Rape). She decides she wants him rather than the boyfriend & becomes very pushy and controlling, setting timetables for when he can do pretty much anything. She notices he's getting annoyed with this & uses money and gifts to try to keep him. He becomes infatuated with another. She becomes angry & confronts him publicly, yelling and abusing him. She punches him in the face making his nose and mouth bleed. (DV). Crowd bursts into cheering & spontaneous applause.

    Reland McClure
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nailed it here! Personally, I like a man confident enough to be real with his emotions in every aspect of his life & allows a woman to do the same without passing judgement on her. I loathe double standards!

    Diana Fisher
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ugh! I have lived it, live it now and will probably always live it. I think it makes me stronger

    American Lampoon
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men naturally cry less than women though sooooooooo

    Haki Covington
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, because society doesn't let men cry. Men are thought of as tough, and when they cry people look down upon them. You f*****g moron.

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    Ellen Rogers
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good balance in one strip, finally!

    Ashley Roth
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So why can't we all just be like whatever and not have labels !!

    Eduardas Jucys
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By far the best example in this list!

    Julián Gutiérrez Posada
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    there´s stuff that regardless of gender you should never post online.

    Little Menace
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not all of them are actually true. We know a few guys whose wives/gf left and they were extremely upset and everyone helped them in a lot of ways. Some of them are true and others could have been more real. A man who has sex a lot gets all the admirations of his mates, whilst a woman is called a hoe and a s**t.

    Kakegurui Sandwich
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cry and I’m just emotional, any of my guy friends cry and they’re pathetic and weak.

    hello there
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    took them a while to finally give a double standard that goes two ways.

    Alexander Smith
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Coward, weak and pathetic are the ones I often hear...and spineless. Occasionally they also say I'm too sensitive. Of course I was also taught I'm not allowed to feel anger so...this world is a mess.

    Grim Grimson
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another one: Oh, you got beat up by a woman, you're weak. Oh no, he hit you, that piece of s**t deserves to rot in jail! These double standards piss me off, why are so many of these biased against men?

    Doctor Peppermint
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...you know this comic was made by the woman that views herself as, and i quote: ''Non-binary genderqueer peoplequeer mentally ill non-monogamous kinky critical feminist robot'' and you still think this person is sane enough to make a rational argument?

    crazycoollady1999
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a woman, but I still get shunned by others (especially my counselor) for crying. Is this normal?

    Paladin of Shadows
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then you see me and my boyfriend, we're both emotional people and even though I cry more than him (what can I say, stress is a thing) neither him, I or any of our friends think this is correct.

    kishore almaji
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    husband beats wife... 'the guy is a bastard!' wife beats husband... 'the guy is such a loser!'

    Elliott Bork
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the second last one is just plain abrasive

    Pi...
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was the best one!

    Aarron Forste
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are all the same meanings, just used for the opposite sex... They provoke the same feelings. Just another play on words, like most of this article.

    Maggie Bailey
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of these double standards are indeed hypocritical, as shownm but some of them exist because men and women are in fact different in many ways - equal, but different. Feminists and the Left always want to make out there are no differences between the sexes with this gender politics stuff, but it is just not true. Both sexes have complementary strengths and weaknesses. That is something that needs to be taken into account more. You can't force equality on every single circumstance in life!

    Adam Summerfield
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe biology/evolution has something to do with it? Women and men are different. Men are biologically expendable, no one gives a f**k about your feelings. That's why men are not supposed to cry. Women on the other hand are not expendable. An explanation is here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhAE8g9lxWo&t=480s but honestly I thought evolutionary reasoning along the lines of gender is widely understood.

    Joel R
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do these artists even realise that men and women were made to be different? It's not a double standard to be different than the opposite sex. These are just basic facts of life.

    Alba Malva
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And, again, the problem about heteropatriarchy affects mainly to womans. If some man is considered "coward", for exemple, he "just" needs to avoid this reaction, but women are considered per se frightened and weak, it is not negative because it is their nature.

    Sam Jac
    Community Member
    8 years ago

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    All these behaviour are disgusting for both sexes, there is no double standard here.

    Dima Less
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    8 years ago

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    Horny? Hmm... Never heard that. Try "pervert" instead.

    Luca
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Under the age of 30 it's horny, above that it's perv.

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    #11

    Body Positivity

    Body Positivity

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    Liliana V
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact that they are both eating the same thing in the same portion size just really makes this extra sad.

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    #12

    Generalization

    Generalization

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    Eglė Liubinaitė
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F*k this stereotype, I'm the best at math in my class :p

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    #13

    Leadership Strategies

    Leadership Strategies

    thecooperreview Report

    Anna Thouvenin
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That reminds me of the man who made the experience of signing all his emails by a female name for a week to talk about gender inequality in doing business. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-happened-when-a-man-signed-work-emails-using-a-female-name-for-a-week_us_58c2ce53e4b054a0ea6a4066

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    #14

    Makeup vs. Natural

    Makeup vs. Natural

    Kate Ordie Comics Report

    Anna Thouvenin
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So damn true. One time I overheard my coworkers talking and these two guys were discussing about "girls who put makeup are so insecure, it's like they couldn't even go out without makeup if their life depended on it". Then another day in the same week, I was so tired I decided not to put makeup. The very same guy saying this was like "omg what happened to your face?". Yeah no wonder why women are "so insecure"...

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    #15

    Gender Equality

    Gender Equality

    shortpacked Report

    #16

    Shameless Girls

    Shameless Girls

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    Jade B
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can I just say that I love the art style of this one? <3

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    #17

    Double Standards

    Double Standards

    For Better Or For Worse Report

    coffee zombie
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women don't get round, they get curvy in all the right places. And that's sexy af.

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    #18

    Gender Equality

    Gender Equality

    Matt Bors Report

    Ivana
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This election just wrecked me, all hope was lost.

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    #19

    Girls vs. Boys

    Girls vs. Boys

    Immer Report

    Ja Legge
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's true. Girls get bashed if she slept with a guy then that guy spreads a rumor abt them. Guy gets cheered on and a girl gets bashed.

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    #20

    Double Standards On Young Girls

    Double Standards On Young Girls

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're a true pro-life, instead of blaming a stranger, do something towards building a society where abortion is not needed. Same goes for (extremist) pro-choicers - instead of hating on some women's decisions, let's do something towards building society where abortion is not something a womam does because "she had no other choice".

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    #21

    Double Standards On Bodies

    Double Standards On Bodies

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    Captain Planet
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think only women have a problem with this. I can't imagine guy's really finding this a big deal. XD Also on the beach people sunbathe topless as well so. As far as armpit hair. Well you're free to do it. But people are also free to not find you attractive then. But there are all kinds of things people find attractive and not attractive so I don't really see a problem.

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    #22

    Shallow vs. Desperate

    Shallow vs. Desperate

    Razzy Report

    Helen Burgess
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    very well done! and the girl in the second instance doesn't even get a speech-bubble, let alone a date!

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    #24

    Girls vs. Boys

    Girls vs. Boys

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    Kristin
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are people like that?! When boys get laid everyone is proud! When girls get it they get punished!

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    #25

    Society's Take On Men

    Society's Take On Men

    Rasenth Report

    Michel M. Prins
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The second one will always be an idiotic statement, for both male and female. I hear it a lot, yet don't understand why it's a race to get intimate with another person. It's a personal experience and (can be) something special, on top of that: It's none of another's business, and if those think it is, they're the ones leading a sad life. Sure, the term "Lucky at cards, unlucky in love" is on it's place in this regard, but luck can switch lanes now and then.

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    #26

    Dad Bod vs. Mom Bod

    Dad Bod vs. Mom Bod

    howbabycomic Report

    Sheila Stamey
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have we totally forgotten how milf went ? Not that that was great but, seriously ? Which one do we pick? Can we just be who we are, male, female, or however, and just be happy? The insecurity is mind blowing to me, on behalf of the observer!

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    #27

    Sexual Harassment

    Sexual Harassment

    Razzy Report

    Andrew Petrykowski
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is this a relevant comparison? How about comparing the reaction you get as a male when telling someone about being a victim of sexual assault.

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    #28

    Things You Can Only Do With Boys

    Things You Can Only Do With Boys

    Last Place Comics Report

    Anna Thouvenin
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, the vagina is the inside part. So...

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    #29

    Double Standards

    Double Standards

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    coffee zombie
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont agree that only weak men show emotion. It's nice to see a man who has emotions instead of trying to act like they are made of stone, with no feelings.

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    #30

    Appearance Standards

    Appearance Standards

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    Zori the degu
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm more like the right half. And I'm fine.

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    #31

    Comic Book Characters

    Comic Book Characters

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    Kori K. Warriner
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, I have a problem with either gender of superhero being displayed in a sexual manner.

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    #32

    Sexualizing Bodies

    Sexualizing Bodies

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    Stille20
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they over sexualize super heroes, but there is a difference. The male characters are being portrayed as strong, the women as sexual. If female super heros looked more like Serena Williams or Kerri Walsh it would be different.

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    #33

    Equality

    Equality

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    Ivana
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We were playing around, play fighting when I kicked my husband in the balls. It wasn't on purpose and I instantly felt horrible as he spent about 5 minutes in pain on the floor. The worst he got me was an elbow to the nose that caused a nose bleed, and one where he slammed my back into the thermostat. Literally last week my husband asked "Why don't we wrestle anymore" and all that flashed through my head. I don't like the idea of women hitting men any more than a man hitting a woman. The only fighting I am okay with is play fighting.

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    #34

    Double Standards

    Double Standards

    megacynics Report

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    #35

    Problem Solving

    Problem Solving

    Razzy Report

    Anna Thouvenin
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't agree with this one. Men get a lot of pressure on their bodies, as much as women. There is not a single person I met who said that they should "accept themselves" as a way to solve their problems (with getting laid). On the same note, any magazine cover will show that makeup is not a way to solve problems, or there wouldn't be 254 pages of the "new amazing diet already used by 45 stars that will make you lose weight before you even realize it". And we also have countless articles on "accept yourself and screw who doesn't, you don't need them anyway"...

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    #36

    Acceptable vs. Unacceptable

    Acceptable vs. Unacceptable

    Justin Hubbell Report

    Anna Thouvenin
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who hate body hair, both are unacceptable. But I don't care about what they do as long as I don't have to touch them :p

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    #37

    Double Standards

    Double Standards

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    Zori the degu
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But really, what's their purpose from evolutionary point of view?

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    #38

    Men And Women

    Men And Women

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    Eglė Liubinaitė
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I kinda like emotional boys more, like, atleast they aren't like those "badass" shitsacks like others. Also, expressing emotions is actually good for own body.

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    #39

    Standards For Dressing

    Standards For Dressing

    John Lydgate Report

    Luc Mailloux
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait... what is this trying to say, even? What I gather is that people will judge you regardless of how you look. Surprise!

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    #40

    Double Standards In The Workplace

    Double Standards In The Workplace

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    Amanda Sango Hibbs
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I like the medical field. Everyone dresses the same

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    #41

    The Smiley Face Double Standard

    The Smiley Face Double Standard

    endlessorigami Report

    #42

    Double Standards In Relationships

    Double Standards In Relationships

    John Lydgate Report

    Pasca Mouse
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when people are like " Looks likes someones on there period." it's so annoying

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    #43

    Girl Power

    Girl Power

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    sunnyrei82
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    women like that are the ones who make people think wrong about feminism. And, because many people are soooo closed minded, they think every single woman who wants equity are like that.

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    #44

    Double Standards

    Double Standards

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people really don't get it that it's not same....

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    #45

    Gender Equality

    Gender Equality

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    Silvia
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. Any statistics on the subject will show that women do not get paid equally for the same job, with the same qualifications and experience.

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