
This Girl Shared A List Of 15 Warning Signs That Will Help You Recognize Someone Who Is Suffering From Depression
Depression is the most common mental disorder in the United States, affecting about 6.7% of the country’s population age 18 and older in a given year. According to the newest edition of The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (also known as DSM-5), some of the main symptoms of depression include diminished interest or pleasure in almost all activities, slowing down of thought, reduction of physical movement, loss of energy, and feelings of worthlessness. A depressed person usually feels numb and isolated with a mind filled with all kinds of negative thoughts. And you can’t “snap out of it” or “look at things from a different perspective” because that’s not how mental disorders work.
One of the most common misunderstandings about depression is that this mental disorder is almost the same as sadness. And that’s absolutely not correct. Occasional sadness is an inevitable part of human existence. It visits us from time to time (usually after stressful or upsetting life events) and is a perfectly normal feeling that you sometimes simply can’t avoid. Though at times it might not feel like it, sadness can be a really valuable experience to a person, since it gives one some space to reflect and works as a reminder of what truly matters to them.
With depression, it’s a totally different thing. But the problem is, people tend to mix up these two words. A lot. In reality, these words refer to two absolutely different experiences. Depression is a serious mental disorder with long-lasting symptoms that can lead to serious health complications, including putting your own life at risk. Moreover, while sadness usually has a specific reason behind it, depressed individuals most of the time can’t even pinpoint the reason why they feel the way they do.
Another difficult thing about depression and other mental disorders as well is that they, a lot of the time, are pretty much invisible. A person struggling with depression from the outside can look perfectly normal. Despite that, if we’re paying enough attention to the ones around us, we can often tell if they’re not doing that great.
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Recently, Twitter user carolfrancescaa shared an important thread of warning signs that can possibly tell us that a person is struggling with depression
Even though depression can have many faces, here are some of the signs we all should pay attention to
Caz suggests that people struggling with depression can become quieter than usual, seem more tired, can lose their appetite, start spending a lot of time alone, start avoiding eye contact, and not show genuine positive emotions.
Caz continues by adding that a depressed person can struggle to stay engaged in a conversation, become emotionally distant and apathetic, start experiencing big mood swings, and can seem to be avoiding making future plans.
Depressed individuals can also seem distracted, start talking less, and become much more irritable.
I've struggled with depression and anxiety all my life and the worst part for me is, people say they care and whatnot but when I really need support I am alone. All the people I know don't understand and they really get annoyed with me and/or avoid me with "here we go again" attitudes. So, I stay away from people whether I'm in a good place or not, because I don't want to see that. For me figuring out how to truly be self sufficient and be my own cheerleader and not care about the fake 'friends' is what helps me stay strong. I have absolutely no faith in others to truly care about me. And on some level I guess I must be a pretty awful person to be around especially when I'm felling my worst...
Talk to your Dr/therapist about this. Group therapy with people who get you can do as much, and sometimes more, than the best meds
+1. Group therapy was what finally helped me break free of my depression.
I was discussing this article with my daughter, and she reminded me of something I went thru during menopause. I had a lot of paranoia, and finally wound up gently calling people out when I saw facial expressions or sensed annoyance, just something like "Did I say something wrong"
I hate when I hit post too soon. Anyway, sometimes there was an issue, a couple of times I really did need to apologize, most of the time it really was in my head. If someone was there I could trust, I would check with them. The reason I knew it was just me was because , literally overnight, everyone started hating me. Also be aware that hormonal fluctuations can cause issues in men and women, biology can be a bitch
Who else has trouble/ a fear of leaving the house? Ps most of the symptoms above especially the house being in total chaos
This is where some of us who are introverts have to be careful, it can cross a line. Usually when I get like this, I text friend or family and we schedule errands, meals and just getting together for a few days/weeks. I'm getting there again, and now is a very bad time for it. Also be aware that hoarding can also be a symptom of depression, which adds to chaos. I have to force myself to throw away the dumbest things and have a houseful of, for example, school supplies from when my daughter was in school. She graduated 2004.
I struggle with the hoarding thing, but it's with art supplies. And to me, anything can be art. Scraps of fabric, an old gift bag, photos cut from magazines (especially from architectural or travel ones). I also can't throw away photos, birthday, holiday, or occasion cards, or art from anyone in my family, from my 82-year-old mother's cross stitch to my 22-year-old niece's sculpture. It feels like I'm hurting them if I throw out something they made.
Lisa Anne Good response!
Lisa: It's not hoarding if it's Art Supplies. It's called "Stocking Up". From one artist to another. Also, aren't sentimental things supposed to be kept? Maybe I'm not the best one to be giving advice here, LOL. (I'm not a hoarder. I'm not, I'm not I'm not!)
@Lisa Anne as an artist, same! Put sticky note with the date when u got a material, then after not being used for a year maybe donate to a school program? Also pic your favorites of childrens artwork either put it in a book or photograph it. Children won't remember every piece but keeping 1 or 2 shows how special without keeping the whole collection (as a child of a hoarder had to find a way to not be one but keep the "good stuff"
Oh and I am an extrovert. To the max. So it's very hard.
Yes. Most of the time, leaving the house takes lots of self-pep talks. So I am low on energy before I even walk out the door. And I'm always running back in to get something. So I'm late. I've had depression for over 20 years, and just noticed the going out anxiety. It was such a normal part of life, I didn't think there was any other way.
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I can stay in the house for months, playing video games and sleeping. Mostly sleeping. I become too scared to go out onto the terrace to water my beloved plants. I watch them die and sink deeper into the depression.
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I JUST WANT YELL THANK YOU TO BP AND ALL COMMENTATORS!!!! I thought I was managing well til I read this article and the comments. I made an appointment with my Dr today. Apologies to anyone the following statement may offend, the sentiment is sincere. I thank Jehovah for all of you, you are gifts from him!
Good for you! "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Your journey will not be easy, and you will have setbacks, but never doubt that you are moving in the right direction.
I've struggled with depression and anxiety all my life and the worst part for me is, people say they care and whatnot but when I really need support I am alone. All the people I know don't understand and they really get annoyed with me and/or avoid me with "here we go again" attitudes. So, I stay away from people whether I'm in a good place or not, because I don't want to see that. For me figuring out how to truly be self sufficient and be my own cheerleader and not care about the fake 'friends' is what helps me stay strong. I have absolutely no faith in others to truly care about me. And on some level I guess I must be a pretty awful person to be around especially when I'm felling my worst...
Talk to your Dr/therapist about this. Group therapy with people who get you can do as much, and sometimes more, than the best meds
+1. Group therapy was what finally helped me break free of my depression.
I was discussing this article with my daughter, and she reminded me of something I went thru during menopause. I had a lot of paranoia, and finally wound up gently calling people out when I saw facial expressions or sensed annoyance, just something like "Did I say something wrong"
I hate when I hit post too soon. Anyway, sometimes there was an issue, a couple of times I really did need to apologize, most of the time it really was in my head. If someone was there I could trust, I would check with them. The reason I knew it was just me was because , literally overnight, everyone started hating me. Also be aware that hormonal fluctuations can cause issues in men and women, biology can be a bitch
Who else has trouble/ a fear of leaving the house? Ps most of the symptoms above especially the house being in total chaos
This is where some of us who are introverts have to be careful, it can cross a line. Usually when I get like this, I text friend or family and we schedule errands, meals and just getting together for a few days/weeks. I'm getting there again, and now is a very bad time for it. Also be aware that hoarding can also be a symptom of depression, which adds to chaos. I have to force myself to throw away the dumbest things and have a houseful of, for example, school supplies from when my daughter was in school. She graduated 2004.
I struggle with the hoarding thing, but it's with art supplies. And to me, anything can be art. Scraps of fabric, an old gift bag, photos cut from magazines (especially from architectural or travel ones). I also can't throw away photos, birthday, holiday, or occasion cards, or art from anyone in my family, from my 82-year-old mother's cross stitch to my 22-year-old niece's sculpture. It feels like I'm hurting them if I throw out something they made.
Lisa Anne Good response!
Lisa: It's not hoarding if it's Art Supplies. It's called "Stocking Up". From one artist to another. Also, aren't sentimental things supposed to be kept? Maybe I'm not the best one to be giving advice here, LOL. (I'm not a hoarder. I'm not, I'm not I'm not!)
@Lisa Anne as an artist, same! Put sticky note with the date when u got a material, then after not being used for a year maybe donate to a school program? Also pic your favorites of childrens artwork either put it in a book or photograph it. Children won't remember every piece but keeping 1 or 2 shows how special without keeping the whole collection (as a child of a hoarder had to find a way to not be one but keep the "good stuff"
Oh and I am an extrovert. To the max. So it's very hard.
Yes. Most of the time, leaving the house takes lots of self-pep talks. So I am low on energy before I even walk out the door. And I'm always running back in to get something. So I'm late. I've had depression for over 20 years, and just noticed the going out anxiety. It was such a normal part of life, I didn't think there was any other way.
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I can stay in the house for months, playing video games and sleeping. Mostly sleeping. I become too scared to go out onto the terrace to water my beloved plants. I watch them die and sink deeper into the depression.
This comment has been deleted.
I JUST WANT YELL THANK YOU TO BP AND ALL COMMENTATORS!!!! I thought I was managing well til I read this article and the comments. I made an appointment with my Dr today. Apologies to anyone the following statement may offend, the sentiment is sincere. I thank Jehovah for all of you, you are gifts from him!
Good for you! "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Your journey will not be easy, and you will have setbacks, but never doubt that you are moving in the right direction.