Lady’s Manipulative Plan Backfires When BF Refuses To Date Again After She Dumps Him Before Vacay

Couples who keep breaking up and making up often have something going on under the surface that they must work on. If there’s always someone giving an ultimatum or having to prove their love, it usually spells out trouble in paradise. 

This is what a man realized when his girlfriend broke up with him at the airport before they went on vacation. She kept giving him ultimatums, which led to their breakup since he refused to give in. He couldn’t take it anymore and decided not to take her back, even though they lived together.

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Even the best vacation can get spoiled if a couple gets into a bitter argument during it

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The poster was shocked when his girlfriend broke up with him at the airport, before their trip, all over an ultimatum that he refused to give in to

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In an update, he mentioned that the vacation didn’t go well after that, as he had to get another room because his ex kept trying to start fights and control him

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The man tried to make the best of the trip by making friends with many people, but his ex felt insecure about that and tried to get him to take her back

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When they returned after the trip, they still had to live together in his house, but he handed her an eviction notice and tried to get on with his life till then

The poster and his partner had clearly been having problems even before their trip. He mentioned that she kept serving him with ultimatums, and it seemed like he was tired of having to keep giving in. That’s why when she did it yet again at the airport, he stood his ground, and she decided to break up right then and there.

Healthy relationships should be built on trust and acceptance. Nobody should be forcing their partner to give in to an ultimatum or pushing them to do things they don’t want to do. This kind of behavior usually comes from a place of insecurity and a desire to be in control of the other person.

It seems like the OP’s partner wanted to always be right and put him in his place. That’s why, when he stood up to her, she couldn’t take it and broke up with him. People who keep breaking up and making up usually don’t know how to handle conflicts effectively. They probably feel that by doing this, they might have the upper hand and the other person will have to grovel.

Unfortunately, the woman picked the worst time to end things with her partner. Their entire vacation got ruined because they weren’t communicating and stewing in their anger. The OP knew that his partner would want to get back together, but he had been burned so many times by her behavior that he questioned whether he should.

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In an update post, the man shared that at first the vacation was going badly and that he had been confined to the hotel room for a while. Later, he decided to go out and make friends, but his ex-girlfriend kept sabotaging him and picking fights. Luckily, a hotel employee helped him move to another room, and things became a bit better.

The man also shared how odd it was that he was trying to have a good time, but his ex-partner was unhappy about that. She did try to get him to take her back so that they could enjoy their vacation, but he didn’t want to do that. Eventually, she realized her manipulation wasn’t working, and so she flew out early.

This kind of emotional manipulation can be very hard to deal with and even tougher to recognize when it’s happening to you. People who can play on others’ emotions to get their own way don’t care whether they are doing the right thing or not. It’s important for the other person to either put a stop to it or seek support from trusted friends or family members.

Luckily, the OP didn’t fall for his ex’s tricks and set boundaries with her. Since he still had to live in the same home as her, he stayed in the basement and handed her a one-month eviction notice. Although it was quite uncomfortable for him, he knew that by cutting off his manipulative ex-girlfriend, things would eventually get better.

What would you have done if your partner broke up with you just before a trip? Let us know your thoughts and if you feel the OP handled this situation well.

People were glad that the man didn’t take his ex back and told him that he really dodged a bullet

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