Exploring Gender Expectations: 25 New Comics By Artist Lainey Molnar
Interview With ArtistLainey Molnar is an Amsterdam-based artist whose comics shine a spotlight on the challenges and pressures women face today. Originally from Hungary, she started sharing her work in 2019 and quickly gained a global audience by addressing issues like feminism, relationships, and body image.
Her bold illustrations challenge outdated norms and encourage women to embrace their individuality without guilt. Lainey’s art isn’t just visually striking—it sparks important conversations and creates a safe space for women to feel seen, heard, and empowered.
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Given the chance, Bored Panda reached out to the illustrator to ask some questions!
When asked about upcoming projects, Lainey shared her excitement about experimenting with a new medium: “As of late I started posting short videos around the topics of being a woman, relationships, little wisdoms, and self-healing besides the regular illustrations, and I'm enjoying them tremendously. Instagram infamously changed their algorithm to favour videos, slashing so many creators' engagement and forcing them to do videos they're not necessarily comfortable with, but I feel like I can get even deeper this way to support women all over the world.”
What I love about the Olympics, is that every body size is represented there, and they are the BEST in the world!
As for exploring other art styles, Lainey has a dream project in mind that merges her passions: “Before digital art I used to draw with markers, which I really miss, but I don’t have time for it anymore. My ultimate dream is to paint on designer handbags. My background is in fashion, and my hobby is refurbishing (vintage) designer accessories in the name of sustainability and value. Creating artworks on pieces I already consider artworks would marry all of my passions and talents.”
Perfect engagement ring for me would be - NO RING! Because I don‘t like to wear rings. We are happily married for 29 years now - and both don‘t even wear our wedding rings. Just need a picture number five!
Women trying to be the flower for years... then then they hit Peri-menopause and the bomb is PRIMED! Watch out men!!
Oh yes, that's certainly not exchanging one harmful stereotype for another. No emotional maturity for women here, folks!
When it comes to advice for aspiring comic artists, Molnar emphasizes the importance of staying true to one’s creative voice: “This is an advice to everyone creating any kind of art: Do not put too much weight on how you are doing on social media. Having followers or likes doesn’t validate how valuable your art is—it’s simply a tool to echo your voice. The art and the message should come from your heart, and it should be something you would create the same way just for yourself if you lived in a hut up in the mountains for a year with no internet. I started off creating these comics just for myself, to process my experience as a woman in the world, and I didn’t intend to have an audience or have it as a full-time job. Until this day I refuse to draw anything that doesn’t come from the heart.”
I was about ready to fight you until I read that through twice. ha! good one.
Load More Replies...Oh my ... I'd say, point at any car, and just assume that somewhere in its development, construction, production, assembly, delivery a woman was involved, or rather, multiple ones. But, for them to be five, one being involved in each would suffice already. Many people wear clothes, some even outside. Many of these were made by men, and more made by women. The gardeners who come by and mow a public space around the corner are women, but as they're employed by the city, I'd be surprised if it were monosex either way.
I get it but a woman cannot asexually reproduce. A woman did make the internet though.
True but neither can We need a woman for the entire pregnancy Their need for us can be over in 30 seconds
Load More Replies...Also: GPS, WiFi, kevlar. Hospital nearby? The profession of nursing. Etc. etc. Even better answer, “You’re right. The systematic exclusion of women from higher education and positions of leadership, and their erasure from history, makes it so much harder to be able to name things that they have invented.“
Honestly this one really annoys me! Women HAVE invented things and we are soooooo much more than just baby producers! Let's talk about all the sh*t that women have invented and that men have stolen credit for instead of just saying "Every single human".
You don't even need to look out your window. Just look at this site. Programming wouldn't exist in its current form without Ada Lovelace, Grace Hopper, Sister Mary Kenneth Keller, Radia Perlman, and the ENIAC programmers (Kathleen McNulty Mauchly Antonelli, Jean Jennings Bartik, Frances Snyder Holder, Marlyn Wescoff Meltzer, Frances Bilas Spence, and Ruth Lichterman Teitelbaum).
Lainey’s ultimate goal for her work is ambitious but deeply meaningful: “My biggest goal is for all women to feel seen, heard, and feel like they are not alone. To give them a new perspective about things the system, the patriarchy, life, and society taught them are the norm. To give them tools to heal themselves from past traumas and stuck patterns. I know this might sound incredibly ambitious, but I’m set on changing the world.”
Hi, girl here: this is the cringiest take on "girls" I've ever seen. We're just regular people like everyone else, miss me with this "magical, powerful, fascinating" stuff, ew.
Idk why you got downvoted so I gave you an uppie ☺️
Load More Replies...Expanding on this vision, she hopes her comics help foster a larger community of support and growth: “I truly hope that I can establish a community where like-minded women uplift one another. I am fascinated how it’s happening in the comment section under each one of my posts—they get vulnerable, share their personal stories, like and support one another. I believe there is a huge need for a safe space online for women where there is no judgment, and they can share, express, bond, and grow. So I’m planning on building all that in the future.”
One comment from a follower particularly stood out to the illustrator and affirmed the impact of her work: “One time I received a message from a follower that she has shown my illustrations to her young brother, and they started having discussions around what girls and women are going through. She told me that her brother was only familiar with the male narrative and ended up opening his mind to so much on the ‘other’ side and even sharing the illustrations with his friends. This is the kind of ripple effect I aim for with everything I do. I just start the conversation, but how it’s interpreted or how it unfolds is fascinating.”
Comparison is the thief of joy - said by some philosopher much smarter than me
I have my peace of mind and happiness and my dog. And as far as I'm concerned, I've won.
Outside of her art, Lainey has a wide array of hobbies: “Besides doing art and refurbishing accessories and trying to read all the books in the world while traveling to every corner of the globe, I love to do puzzles. It’s becoming a problem because I buy and do them at such a rate that they have taken over my apartment. Maybe I should consider making puzzles with my illustrations—that would be a fitting project!”
as a neglected first daughter of a mental ill mother I am a living clichè
I'm now realizing why my dad turned me into "the man", it was so i didn't have to rely on one. Not sure why he made me climb trees though...
I can’t believe I have to explain this, but some of y’all need to understand this is satire. It’s sarcastic. It’s illuminating a double standard.
I can't believe ppl don't get this! They are my favourite type of these!
Load More Replies...It may be satire but I'm addressing everyone here who didn't get this: I've read many posts on reddit, Facebook, Instagram, boredpanda, etc, from men who cheated because they weren't attracted to their partners anymore because for whatever reason, their wives or girlfriends "let themselves go". So why is it different if women do the same thing?
It's not. I would be very surprised if those men you're talking about wouldn't have been torn a new one by literally everyone.
Load More Replies...Okay, this is weird because - the stereotype is the other way around. People are much more accepting of women cheating because the man doesn't put in any effort any more than the other way around. That's a miss.
I've heard stories from our grandparent's generation, men telling their wives if they don't sleep with them, they'll go to the neighbours girl instead. Men who think like this are less common now, but they are what this is adressing. She submits, he decides if she's enough.
Load More Replies...My husband says it's degrading to fathers too when you call watching their own kids "babysitting", and I absolutely agree with him.
It mostly comes from the men's mouth to praise their own efforts..when you ask them to watch over their own kid for half hour while you do errands or take a bath, than they refer to it as they already babysitted this week..!How dare you ask again?! Because the other issue is that we have to beg for it. ..Whenever you are ready, to see the real world of the majority.
Load More Replies...honestly toys and my imagination have become my preference at this point
My collection just keeps growing. Honestly some amazing things out there! I'm taking this 'dating myself' phase of my life all the way!
Where's the sitting on my butt playing video games all day house or is that one just for guys?
Nooo please let me join your club, i will bring a blanket and a huge mug of tea
Load More Replies...We are products of thousands of years of evolution. Please refer to studies on chimps and bonobos. These are our first cousins and we are all from the same family tree. We are stone age egos in a space age world
There's a world of difference between the behavior of chimps and bonobos. Some of these humans need to take a que from the bonobos instead of the chimps.
Load More Replies...survival of the fittest, many female animals have involved more than one partner. A fertile female is to precious for the evolution to depend on one ( infertile/ sick) male- so males doesn't have to expect virgins but to prove they have the most fertile semen or technic to protect the female afterwards
Most of the girls I know are getting married and having kids, and while it is never said out loud, they do look down at me for staying single and getting my dream job instead... years of hard work and college and I'm finally graduating with my teaching degree in two weeks!!! Also, I DO want to get married and have kids some day, just waiting on the right guy and not the first one that comes along. People need to back off and take their noses out of my business...
I know I'm late. But: the people railing against feminism only see that women are being moved 50 steps forward. They don't see that women started out 100 steps back.
I know I'm late. But: the people railing against feminism only see that women are being moved 50 steps forward. They don't see that women started out 100 steps back.
