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Who wouldn't love discounts and free stuff, especially in this economy? Some sellers on eBay claim that potential buyers often want to buy goods at half their price. In real estate, 90% of all offers are considered low-ball offers. And while negotiating is fine, expecting folks to give you stuff for free is hardly ever okay.
Luckily, the Internet is really good at giving these types of picky entitled people a reality check. Most often, that happens on the Choosing Beggars subreddit. It's the place where no form of low-balling is tolerated, and here is the newest collection of posts from the community for you to marvel and 'tsk-tsk' at!
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#1
I Make Funky Clothes That Celebrities Enjoy. Every Week Or So I'll Get A Dm From A Celebrity Like This
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#2
Didn't Know The Red Fridge Would Be Red
Kay C 8 months ago
I had a similarar problem trying to sell a green couch, and yes all the pictures were of my green couch. Had my time wasted with so many of these: "is it green?" "Why's it green" "do you have another colour" "my kids don't like green" oh and the classic, "Im a single mom and don't even like green, so can I have it for free"
#3
Just Trying To Get Rid Of Some Cleats On My Local Buy Nothing Group And This Entitled Person Flipped That I Responded To The First Responses I Got, Whether Message Or Comment
The fact that we love free stuff and would prefer lower-quality things if they don't cost anything over higher-quality items has been proven by an experiment. In his bestseller Predictably Irrational, Dan Ariely conducted an experiment where he let people choose from a luxury Lindt chocolate truffle and a Hershey's chocolate kiss.
The Lindt truffle cost 26 cents and the Hershey's Kiss cost one cent. Interestingly, people split pretty evenly between their choices: 40% chose the kiss, and 40% went for the truffle. However, when the prices for both chocolates were lowered by one cent, the majority of people grabbed the Hershey's Kiss. It became free, after all!
#4
Old Friend Think I’m Clout Chasing And Demands More Money For His Kickstarter
#5
Not Her First…
Bobert Robertson 8 months ago
You can afford vacation but not taking care of your kid... yikes.
#6
Disappointing Mother’s Day
What Ariely and his team discovered was that the relative price doesn't really matter to people. As soon as we see that something is free, we're compelled to grab it even if another, higher-quality item isn't that much more expensive. They carried out many more versions of that same experiment.
They tried decreasing the price of the Hershey's Kiss from two cents to one cent and see if the demand would rise as it did when it cost nothing. It didn't. Consumers didn't even change their behavior when Hershey's Kisses cost a negative one cent. "We concluded that FREE! is indeed a very powerful force," Ariely later wrote in a blog post.
#7
A Hobby, Not A Skill
Hippopotamuses 8 months ago
You can tell straight away. This person is going to be very difficult to deal with.
#8
Low Pay And No Tattoos
Bobert Robertson 8 months ago
You ain't finding anyone without tattoos and with references for $100 let alone $35
#9
You Want Us To ‘Spoil Your Kids’ Already Going To Disney?
Freelancers can often fall victim to clients who are choosing beggars. Journalism non-profit, The Open Notebook, surveyed 267 freelance science writers and 49 editors to see how often they negotiate rates with clients. Interestingly, 86% of the respondents said they ask for a higher rate either always, often, or occasionally, and only 14% percent always accept the rate as it is.
#10
9 Days … $33 A Day … Barely
#11
Not As Shocking As A Lot Of Things I See On Here, But She Won’t Take My Free Pacifier Because It’s Purple
#12
This Level Of Delusion
Interestingly, clients also view freelancers who are not afraid to negotiate pay more positively. In that same survey, 90% of the editors claimed they think it's reasonable for a freelancer to ask for higher pay rates. Only 8% said they would start thinking about the worker somewhat negatively if they were to ask for more pay.
#13
Looking For A Dog Sitter, 42 Hrs A Week, For Free Or Cheap. Must Be At Your House. And Go!
#14
Local Ad For Someone To Fix This Guy's Awful Parenting For Free (And Sorry Ladies, He's Married!)
#15
“Someone Give My Kids An Xbox Or A Playstation!”
In the end, expecting free favors, making low-ball real estate offers, and expecting free stuff has to do with our sense of entitlement. Some people just might think that they're entitled to special treatment; that they're owed goods and services. Interestingly, entitlement at an early age is completely normal, psychotherapist F. Diane Barth, L.C.S.W., writes for her blog on Psychology Today. Problems begin when we think that we're the center of the world once we grow up.
#16
On Threads…
brandyy17 8 months ago
heart was in the right place but handled it wrong. theres also the chances they wanted money for alcohol or d***s. u never kno wat they r gonna do with the money. some ppl have even pretended to b homeless. my friend is a total sweetheart must help everyone kind of person. she gave $100 to a homeless guy in his early 20s with a dog. she came back with dog food and a dog bed for the dog too. meanwhile im just standing with the guy cuz she told me to wait with him. after she was done with all the helping we went back to her house. while walking back to my house i saw that same guy no dirt on him anymore, dog looked like it got a nice bath and sitting in a nice jeep. saw him counting money while laughing. i decided to call the cops and it turned out he has been tricking ppl all over the state to get free money and free stuff for his dog so he didnt need to pay for any of it. pan handling is a very real thing. so is the alcohol and d**g scenario. i dont give homeless ppl anything bc u never kno. i dont want to support someones bad habit or get tricked. ill support street artists or musicians but not homeless. ill give money to a soup kitchen or homeless shelter but never some homeless person on the street. yes it can b a situation where its none of the reasons i stated but u never kno.
#17
Ex Girlfriend Christmas Wishlist
#18
Don’t Waste His Time
Adults with a traumatic past are more likely to expect preferential treatment. "Often individuals who have been mistreated or disrespected exhibit a sense of entitlement when they start to feel that they deserve better than they have been getting," Barth writes. A certain amount of entitlement is actually okay for adults. We all have the right to be respected, and to take care of ourselves, and our families. The line is crossed, however, when we expect special treatment.
#19
Free Couch Turns Into Being Insulted By 2nd Grade Dropout
#20
Come Watch My 5 Kids For A Few Cents An Hour For An Opportunity To Get A Sweet Discount On My Pyramid Scheme Products. Must Have Your Own Extra Large Vehicle To Drive Them All Around
#21
She Can’t Imagine Why $3 An Hour Isn’t Enough
Just like children do, says F. Diane Barth, L.C.S.W., entitled adults need to learn to balance their need to feel special with the need to feel connected to others. In order to have fulfilling relationships, we need to not only think about ourselves but other people's needs as a priority, too.
#23
We Need Food But "Canned Soups, Pastas, Vegetables And Fruits Go Right Into The Trash"
#24
The Audacity! Nannies Are A Privilege Not A Right
KatSaidWhat 8 months ago
If more than one person is quitting fast, maybe they're not the problem.
Entitled behavior can also greatly backfire, as it might diminish or destroy relationships and ruin our image in the eyes of others. Researchers have also found that entitled people tend to be much more disappointed in life. The lead author of a 2016 study explains that "life, health, aging, and the social world don't treat us as well as we'd like," and that violates an entitled person's worldview of self-superiority.
#25
I Volunteer For An Organization That Provides A Hot Home Cooked Dinner For Families In Need. This Woman Thought I Was Her Errand Girl
Hippopotamuses 8 months ago (edited)
This reminds me of the post last week about the woman who called the police to get baby formula.
#26
So Ungrateful And Rude
Trillian 8 months ago (edited)
Yes and no. After the big flood here I donated stuff and talked with the volunteers. They said that indeed people bring bags of stuff that is basically trash. Dirty, smelly, holes you name it. Stuff that had been sitting in the attic or garage for ages. Literally not fit to give to anyone and no, not even people who have lost everything. So 'would I wear this' does not necessarily mean 'is it fashionable'.
#27
Why Is It Always The Nanny Postings?
Riley Quinn 8 months ago
Considering how many helicopter parents there are, it seems there is an equal number who will leave their children with an internet stranger. Just tell them to take the candy from the guy in the white panel van. Think of the freedom you'll have.
However, there is a way out of such a mindset. The co-author of the same study, Julie Exline, PhD, told Health that the key is to shift your mindset to one of gratitude rather than competition. "Conditioning yourself to think about other people and what they deserve—and also being willing to admit your own faults and weaknesses—can help you feel more connected to others," she explained.
#28
Another Deluded Business Owner Looking For Free Labour
#29
Where Did I Sign Up To Be A Chauffeur?
#30
Everyone Pushed Her To Have A 6th Baby And Now They Don’t Want To Buy Her Things
Hippopotamuses 8 months ago
After the baby has been born, we all recommend that you jump off a cliff!
How about these entitled choosing beggars, Pandas? Do you think they have a chance to redeem themselves? Upvote the best (or worst?) cases you see on this list, and let us know your very favorite in the comments. And while you're here, don't forget to check out our previous posts about the Choosing Beggars subreddit here, here, and here!
#31
What An Amazing Opportunity!
#32
Entitled To Free Delivery Because The TV Is Free
#34
I've Got Nothin
#35
Modern Day Slavery
#36
We Are Both Unemployed But Expect Free Housing Without Judgement
Bob Brooce 8 months ago
I've got you covered. I know of somebody who can give you a place for 2 nights. They have pets, and they'll even give you $35 and some pizza.
#37
Any Ideas… LOL…
Rachel Pelz 8 months ago (edited)
Wow wow wow. Who's calling them a choosing begar? They accept both new and used. /j
#38
17 Yo Half Brother-In-Law Wants To Buy Friends With Cake
#39
One Person’s Request For The Last Six Months
#40
Delusional Apartment Hunting In Hcol Area
Hippopotamuses 8 months ago
".. work VERY hard to ensure you are never held liable for our rental costs." This isn't a red flag. It's a revolving red turret light.
#41
Trying To Be Nice To A Cousin For Labor Day
#42
What A Chill Day To Fire Up The Grill!
#43
Christmas Dinner Please? All Or Nothing, I Guess
#44
This Has To Be Fake...right? Right?!
Gingersnap In Iowa 8 months ago
Was she getting the extra money bcuz the Pastor was coming over late at night?
#45
Grateful For The Help However…
#46
Update From Yesterday. Cow Obsessed Amazon Wishlist Girl Who Wanted Free Sectional Delivered With 6 Inches Of Snow On The Ground Would Now Like A Better One Delivered
#47
Bride Seeks Dj For Her Day
The_one_on_the_left 8 months ago (edited)
Ok then, here are some other options: - A Spotify playlist and a decent Bluetooth speaker OR - Get the guests to all join in with their own sea shanties OR - Have several guest bring their younglings and listen to the soothing chorus of wailing chiddlers OR - Have mandatory silence and hire a whispering crone for ambience (They're very affordable, only two crow beaks and a stoat's foot!) Edit: Formatting
#48
If You Can Afford A Girls Weekend In Nashville, You Can Afford To Buy Your Own Drinks
Ashtophet’sRevenge 8 months ago
I would change lanes to avoid this whole mess… one hard stop, and you’ll be covered in thongs and going out tops…
#49
Don't Recommend Charity Events. I'll Explode
#50
"Give Me Money Or F**k Off!!"
#51
Is This For Real?!?
#52
‘Influencer’ Wants Me To Do Custom Sized Painting For Free And On Top Of That Pay Her $200, Otherwise She’ll Tell All Her Followers To Not Buy From Me
The_one_on_the_left 8 months ago
Wow, I knew about (not) paying through exposure, but this is just straight up attempted blackmail
#53
125 Cupcakes, From A Certified Kitchen, At A Discount
#54
Called Out A Choosing Beggar On Her Hypocrisy (?)… And Got Banned From My Neighborhood Fb Group
Littlemiss 8 months ago
So they charge a premium but expect someone to take care of their infant for less? Right... hello CPS
#55
My Mom Wants Money For Items But Doesnt Want Me To Buy The Items For Her
#57
Sure, Sure. I'll Just Commit Fraud Because You've Gone Over Your Budget
#59
Man Throws Tantrum
#61
Freaking Outrageous
#62
Finally Got One
#63
This Is Why I Can’t Do Operation Santa Anymore
#64
She Need A House And Be Quick
#65
Best Comment Ever!
#66
Bring Gifts
Multa Nocte 8 months ago
I don't agree with the "how" of this woman, but I agree that the entire purpose of a baby shower is to bring gifts.
#67
My Husband Would Love To Drive Your Bentley If You Have One Lying Around
Power puff scientist 8 months ago
another just half article... and not even the choosing beggar half but the replies...
#68
Cb Only Chooses Her Kids If You’re Paying For Them
The_one_on_the_left 8 months ago (edited)
I don't see what could be interpreted as entitlement here, this is just heartbreaking. Someone struggling so much with their mental health that they cant look after their children. The choices of content on BP recently have seemed extremely random. Edit: Check LakotaWolf's comment
#69
When The Free Thanksgiving Dinner For 8 Is Not Enough…
#70
How Dare You Give My Kids Free Gifts But Where's The Xbox, AirPods, And Nikes????
#71
Man-Child Choosy Beggar Tells Me To Grow Up
Power puff scientist 8 months ago
this is just half of the conversation, why even post this...
#72
To My Work Email…
#73
Selling My Farm Fresh Eggs And Offered To Let A Few People Take One Egg To Try First. Got This Message
#74
Clean My Barn And Do Farm Chores. Paid In Water
OWL ON A MISSION 8 months ago
I have worked at horse stables like this and everything they listed as duties is not easy AT ALL! This is hard manual labor! For freaking water? WTH?
#75
I'm Reporting You For Scamming!
Multa Nocte 8 months ago
HELP! HELP! HELP! A dirty word made it through BP's censors and I am scarred for life!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!! Won't someone have mercy??!?!?!?!?! 😱 😵
#76
This Is Not In A High Cost Of Living Area. Mine Is The Only Comment So Far And I'm Pretty Sure He's Going To Delete It
#77
Can't Afford To Make A Deposit On A Bakery Cake, Refuses To Make One
LakotaWolf (she/her) 8 months ago
You guys all need to read the entire post. It's a wild ride. https://www.reddit.com/r/ChoosingBeggars/comments/1ds4yj9/cant_afford_to_make_a_deposit_on_a_bakery_cake/
#78
Booked A Nonrefundable Room, Now Wants A Refund
#79
Update Not Giving Friend Expensive List For Her And Her Baby
#81
Can’t Afford My Current Rent, Credit Is Terrible, But I Need A Place That Allows Chickens, Goats, And Cows
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Power puff scientist 8 months ago
So many of these are just partial conversations, and sometimes not even the choosing beggar part but just a random part of the replies. How can you call yourself a writer if its even to hard to actually post something decent on BP.
KieLeaHar 6 months ago
Bored panda “journalists“ don’t do any writing… They still publications of Reddit mainly and they have been doing it for years. So for years now you have to go and click on the link underneath. It’s really rather annoying but if you wanna get the full story of what you’re reading you have to do that. They haven’t had an original article in a long time. I don’t know if they have ever. That’s why it makes me laugh to think that they are trying to charge people to use this website 😂 really? You steal your content from other websites.
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Power puff scientist 8 months ago
So many of these are just partial conversations, and sometimes not even the choosing beggar part but just a random part of the replies. How can you call yourself a writer if its even to hard to actually post something decent on BP.
KieLeaHar 6 months ago
Bored panda “journalists“ don’t do any writing… They still publications of Reddit mainly and they have been doing it for years. So for years now you have to go and click on the link underneath. It’s really rather annoying but if you wanna get the full story of what you’re reading you have to do that. They haven’t had an original article in a long time. I don’t know if they have ever. That’s why it makes me laugh to think that they are trying to charge people to use this website 😂 really? You steal your content from other websites.
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