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Guy Steals Meds From Twin Bro, Irate When He Can’t Replace Them With A Cheap Knockoff
Living with siblings often means sharing spaces and belongings, but what happens when boundaries are crossed? Family is expected to go the extra mile for each other, but surely there has to be some kind of limit to your obligation.
One guy has had it up to here with his twin brother who, after weeks, he caught stealing his allergy medication. His brother has since offered to get him a generic replacement, but the guy has turned to netizens to ask if he’s a jerk for demanding the original product instead.
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You’re expected to go the extra mile for family, but this guy has had enough of his brother’s entitled behavior
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After noticing his allergy medication disappearing, he confronted his twin brother about it, who admitted he’d been stealing it for weeks
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The brother thought it was no big deal and offered to replace the pilfered meds with a cheap knock-off he found on Amazon
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The guy refused, demanding his brother replace what he stole with the original, more expensive product
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His brother wouldn’t budge, prompting the guy to turn to netizens to ask whether or not he’s being a jerk for insisting on a one for one replacement
OP begins his story by telling the community that he and his twin brother have lived together for a few years. He adds that their relationship is usually stable, except for the fact that his brother has a habit of taking advantage of him and not respecting boundaries when it comes to using his stuff.
He goes on to explain that he suffers from allergies and bought a bottle of medication for it a few months ago. According to OP, there are 90 pills in a bottle, so it’s kind of hard to keep track of how many there are. Despite not taking a pill every day, he noticed that the bottle was getting lighter. He eventually counted them and found there were only 15 left.
Well, when next he needed to treat his allergies, he found just a single pill remaining. He instantly suspected his brother of taking them without asking, as per usual. When OP confronted him about it, he admitted to pilfering the pills but got quite defensive about it and claimed it wasn’t a big deal. OP replied that it was the principle that mattered.
When OP demanded he replace the product, his brother offered to get him a generic replacement off Amazon, but he insisted on a one for one replacement. His brother told him he would get him the cheaper pills or nothing at all, prompting OP to ask netizens if he was being a jerk for demanding the genuine medication at the original cost.
From what OP tells us in his post, it would seem he’s dealing with a severely entitled sibling. If you’ve ever had to cope with someone who constantly thinks the world owes them something, you can probably relate.
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So, what’s the best way to deal with an entitled family member? We went looking for answers.
In her article for Psychology Today, Abigail Brenner writes that family members are often the hardest to deal with, because they’re connected to us in a more complicated, intimate way than friends, colleagues or neighbors.
Brenner puts forward several strategies to deal with difficult family members, including not trying to ‘fix’ the problematic person, being present and direct, encouraging the person to express themselves, watching out for trigger topics, and remembering it’s not about you.
In his post for A Conscious Rethink, Jack Nollan suggests a few no-nonsense ways for dealing with entitled people, family or not. Nollan recommends setting limits and establishing your boundaries, using soft language to prevent conflicts, identifying the difference between a need and a want, and keeping your compassion in mind.
It looks like OP and his twin need to have some real talk about boundaries, or he’ll have to invest in a lock to keep his brother’s entitled clutches out of his room for good.
So, do you think OP is being a jerk, or is his brother actually playing that role? What’s the most ridiculous sibling argument you’ve ever had? Spill the tea in the comments!
In the comments, readers swiftly concluded that the guy was not being a jerk and slammed his brother for trying to weasel out of buying the genuine meds
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Ace 9 months ago
A doctor and a pharmacist already said it, but one generic version of a d**g is the same as another generic version, so the cheaper online ones will do fine. The OP probably does not understand this, the brother apparently does. In any case it's a ridiculously small amount to fall out over, so I think there's some other tenstions here that are causing their rift, it's not just about these meds.
Ms.GB 9 months ago (edited)
I think his brother should give him the $38 dollars. If you steal something from someone that they may have overpayed for that's the risk you're taking by stealing. If you want a bargain then buy it yourself.
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Stacy Bender 9 months ago
Setting aside the, talking stuff without asking, some people have a psychological reaction to medication. (x brand is better) - but I'm guessing this situation is just the tip of the iceberg to a bigger problem that OP has either let slide in the past or doesn't want to face.
Gwyn 9 months ago
The thing about Amazon is STORAGE. You have to be really careful who you buy from; if they store it in a warehouse that isn't temperature controlled then the medication goes bad. Only buy from reputable sellers. But, you don't have to have Amazon -you can get the really cheap off brand at Walmart too!
Thanos'Fingers 9 months ago
If they make it in a bathtub in a country with zero regulation, smuggle it over and then sell it on a cheap Amazon store... Storage not the only thing to worry about with cheap Chinese knockoff sellers.
Load More Replies... Ace 9 months ago
A doctor and a pharmacist already said it, but one generic version of a d**g is the same as another generic version, so the cheaper online ones will do fine. The OP probably does not understand this, the brother apparently does. In any case it's a ridiculously small amount to fall out over, so I think there's some other tenstions here that are causing their rift, it's not just about these meds.
Ms.GB 9 months ago (edited)
I think his brother should give him the $38 dollars. If you steal something from someone that they may have overpayed for that's the risk you're taking by stealing. If you want a bargain then buy it yourself.
Load More Replies... Stacy Bender 9 months ago
Setting aside the, talking stuff without asking, some people have a psychological reaction to medication. (x brand is better) - but I'm guessing this situation is just the tip of the iceberg to a bigger problem that OP has either let slide in the past or doesn't want to face.
Gwyn 9 months ago
The thing about Amazon is STORAGE. You have to be really careful who you buy from; if they store it in a warehouse that isn't temperature controlled then the medication goes bad. Only buy from reputable sellers. But, you don't have to have Amazon -you can get the really cheap off brand at Walmart too!
Thanos'Fingers 9 months ago
If they make it in a bathtub in a country with zero regulation, smuggle it over and then sell it on a cheap Amazon store... Storage not the only thing to worry about with cheap Chinese knockoff sellers.
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