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Fam Torn Apart By 15YO’s Inappropriate Lies Concerning Her Step-Uncle, Step-Aunt Refuses To Forgive
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Fam Torn Apart By 15YO’s Inappropriate Lies Concerning Her Step-Uncle, Step-Aunt Refuses To Forgive

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One lie might seem harmless, but it can truly take on a life of its own and cause a lot of damage if it’s allowed to continue. People who try to get away with such falsehoods often have an ulterior motive and don’t care if other folks get hurt in the process.

This is exactly what happened when a teenager made up a fake story about her step-uncle just to seem more interesting to her friends. What she didn’t realize was how the lie could have ruined his life, which is why her family made sure she learned her lesson. 

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    The poster shared that her sister had a blended family consisting of her biological son, Kevin, her husband, and his daughter, Kelly, who was fifteen

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    After a family gathering, Kevin shared that Kelly had been telling her friends that the poster’s husband had exposed himself to her when she was in the bathroom

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    The poster confronted Kelly about her story in front of their family, which led to her breaking down and confessing that she lied for clout

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    The poster’s entire family decided to cut Kelly out of their lives because of her actions, but her dad pleaded for them to forgive her

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    Everyone felt that the man wasn’t able to understand the enormity of his daughter’s actions

    The poster seemed to have been on good terms with her brother-in-law and step-niece. That’s why she had invited them for a get-together at her house. Later on, she was shocked when her nephew revealed that Kelly had told her friends that the OP’s husband had exposed himself to her when she was alone.

    The poster couldn’t believe that such a situation would have happened, but she was also confused as to why Kelly would lie about such a thing. According to mental health experts, teens might make up such stories to feel seen or to experience special treatment. This is especially true for those kids who feel insignificant or unappreciated.

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    This was probably what happened in Kelly’s case, because when the poster confronted her, she explained that she lied to seem cool. All of her friends had experienced some sort of intimacy, so she thought that this story would help her seem more interesting in front of them. She didn’t realize that by making up such a lie, it could have damaged her step-uncle’s reputation.

    The OP felt that the best way to call Kelly out was to confront her in front of their entire family, which must have been traumatizing for the teen. When it comes to cases of chronic lying or kids making things up, it’s always helpful to get professional mental health support. Therapists can then create a treatment plan to curb the behavior over time.

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    Once the entire family got to know what Kelly had done, they all got very angry with her. She was immediately cut out, and nobody wanted to trust her anymore. This was obviously very heartbreaking for her father, and he tried to get the rest of the family to forgive her because she was just a teen.

    As the OP pointed out, her husband’s reputation could have been put at risk if such a lie had gotten out. Even experts say that faking a story is a criminal offense against a person because it can affect their life and their relationships with other people. That’s why it’s important to think through such things carefully before saying them.

    It’s clear that the teen was affected by being cut off from her new family, and hopefully, she felt remorse for her actions. On the other hand, her dad didn’t seem to realize the severity of her actions and kept trying to persuade everyone to act as if everything was back to normal.

    It truly takes a lot for a family to go no-contact with someone, and in situations like this, it shows that only tremendous hurt or betrayal can make that happen. The best outcome of this situation would be for the teen to realize her mistakes and truly make amends for the lies she spread.

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    Folks sided with the woman and felt that she had made the right decision about cutting off her step-niece

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    Nova Rook
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a young teen a rumour went around our little neighbourhood that my father was caught jumping out the window of a young teen girl because her mom came home and he needed to get out of there. It was a case of broken telephone as my dad has the same name as me - it was me, a 13 year old boy, jumping out her window because her mom came home early. Thankfully the mom corrected the rumour! My poor dad, he must have had a few people looking at him funny.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One does not potentially destroy a life to "look cool". Serious action, serious consequence.

    David
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and 15 is old enough to understand the gravity of what they said

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    Yu Pan
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    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1) stupid teenagers have the power to ruin adults' lives and reputation, 2) Kevin would have to still live with Kelly. Those two points are enough to shut down Joe. Kelly did a stupid thing and now has to learn a painful lesson. Also super refreshing to see a family rallying around Op, instead of everyone asking Op to forgive Kelly.

    🇺🇦 🇵🇸 TribbleThinking
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right - the family rallying round the wronged person is so sadly rare in these stories.

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    Nova Rook
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a young teen a rumour went around our little neighbourhood that my father was caught jumping out the window of a young teen girl because her mom came home and he needed to get out of there. It was a case of broken telephone as my dad has the same name as me - it was me, a 13 year old boy, jumping out her window because her mom came home early. Thankfully the mom corrected the rumour! My poor dad, he must have had a few people looking at him funny.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One does not potentially destroy a life to "look cool". Serious action, serious consequence.

    David
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and 15 is old enough to understand the gravity of what they said

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    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1) stupid teenagers have the power to ruin adults' lives and reputation, 2) Kevin would have to still live with Kelly. Those two points are enough to shut down Joe. Kelly did a stupid thing and now has to learn a painful lesson. Also super refreshing to see a family rallying around Op, instead of everyone asking Op to forgive Kelly.

    🇺🇦 🇵🇸 TribbleThinking
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right - the family rallying round the wronged person is so sadly rare in these stories.

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