Brooklyn Midwife’s Dice Game Club Sparks Concerns About Safety For “Non-White” Women
A seemingly harmless dice game landed a Brooklyn midwife in hot water following her attempt to organize a game night.
Ellen Christy shared a post on her social media about organizing a monthly “Bunco Club” activity in her neighborhood, which quickly led to a storm of backlash online.
Netizens accused the 30-year-old of disrespecting the Black community and appropriating Black culture.
- Ellen Christy shared a post about her monthly “Bunco Club” dice game in Brooklyn’s Bed-Stuy neighborhood on a Facebook group.
- Netizens criticized the 30-year-old midwife for appropriating Black culture, citing the lack of diversity in her post.
- A screenshot of Christy’s post went viral after she deleted it, igniting heated debates over colonial behavior and community sensitivity.
“The colonizers be colonizing,” commented one social media user.
Ellen Christy’s attempt to organize a dice game night backfired as she was labeled a “colonizer”
Image credits: Ellen Christy / Facebook
The 30-year-old shared a Facebook post in the Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn Community Facebook group.
In the post, she expressed that she was looking for women in the community “to join a Bunco Club,” organized by her every month at her apartment.
Ellen also shared a selfie with a group of five other women sitting on the floor, seemingly from one of those dice game nights.
Notably, every woman in the picture appeared to be white, with no person of color present.
“Hi all – seeking women living in Bedford-Stuyvesant to join a Bunco Club!” Christy, who is white, wrote in the post. “Bunco is a game of rolling dice (think Yahtzee!), no skills required.”
The 30-year-old Jamaica Hospital midwife created the “Bunco Club” to “connect” with women in her community
Image credits: Ellen Christy / Facebook
Image credits: Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn Community / Facebook
“I started this group to connect other women living in Bedstuy.”
She concluded her message by revealing the exact details, including the date and time of the monthly activity.
“We meet monthly to hang out and play. This month’s meeting is Saturday, September 27th at 7PM.”
Bed-Stuy, the community where the hospital worker organized her game night, is predominantly Black and is home to the largest number of Black residents in New York City.
Image credits: Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn Community / Facebook
Given the lack of diversity in her picture, people called the post offensive and accused her of gentrification.
As a result of the mounting backlash, Ellen deleted the post from the group.
“Yikes. Gentrifiers and their defenders coming out of the woodworks…” expressed one user in disapproval of Christy’s post.
Ellen was accused of disrespecting the Black community and appropriating Black culture
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Image credits: Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn Community / Facebook
Historically, dice games have been around since at least 3,000 BCE, with credible evidence found in places like Greece, Rome, Egypt, and China.
Christy’s Bunco dice game traces its roots to 19th-century England, where it was known as the “eight-dice game.”
It was originally started as a gambling and swindling game and was first imported to San Francisco in 1855. After the Civil War, the game evolved into a popular recreational activity.
Referring to a dice game called Cee-Lo, which is more historically associated with Black neighborhoods like Bed-Stuy, many social media users criticized Ellen for colonial behavior.
“Y’all playing gentrified cee lo?!”
Cee-Lo, a popular Chinese variation of Bunco, was brought to America by Chinese-American laborers and flourished most in Harlem, another Black neighborhood in New York, during the 1970s and 1980s.
Due to mounting backlash and criticism, Christy deleted her original post about the Bed-Stuy game night
Image credits: Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn Community / Facebook
Image credits: Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn Community / Facebook
While the post was quickly removed following online criticism, one member of the group shared a screenshot on September 20.
Calling out Christy’s decision to delete the post, the user Janessa Wilson wrote, “deleting your post, and all of the labor that we did to educate, is colonial violence. so that tracks.”
Netizens were not happy, with many expressing their displeasure over the lack of diversity in the original post.
One user commented, “What non-white person in their right mind would feel safe joining that?!”
Another wrote, “No black or brown members and there is a solicitation for ‘members’ in this Bed Stuy Community Group?”
“Colonizer Cee-Lo Club,” a third expressed.
Image credits: Ellen Christy / Facebook
However, some users defended Ellen, questioning how a simple dice game could be equated with colonial behavior.
“Only in Brooklyn could a dice game become a geopolitical crisis,” wrote one dissenting user.
“The racists in Bed Stuy don’t want white people around them, and they feel comfortable saying it out loud.”
Bunco was originally created as a gambling dice game in England before transforming into a popular recreational activity
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One social media user even drew a parallel to the infamous homicide of a 40-year-old woman named Tamla Horsford, who was mysteriously found deceased after attending a slumber party in Georgia.
Tamla was a Black woman, and the party was organized in 2018 by a white family, leaving her as the only person of color there.
Despite autopsy results revealing abrasions on her body and suspicions of foul play, in 2019, Major Joe Perkins of the Forsyth County Sheriff’s Office closed the case due to a lack of evidence.
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The user Senora Hassan wrote, “My mind IMMEDIATELY went to the story of the African American woman who mysteriously d**d while attending a slumber party with her all white friend group… Sometimes you have to read the room…”
Christy has not posted anything in the group since the controversy, nor has she addressed it on her other social media accounts.
“It went from Bed-Stuy do or die to concern over a woman’s Bunco club,” wrote one social media user
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Share on FacebookWhy are some people constantly searching for something to be offended about. This is ridiculous in every way.
Speaking as a "hispanic" living in the USA, I'd agree with this. She's a white mid-wife. Of course most of her friends are other white ladies. There's nothing about this woman which screams "she hates black people" to me. I'm a man, but I'd feel perfectly safe with my sister/mother/cousin whatever joining this group. I work as an engineer, so almost none of my friends are white. If I ran a dice game, and you saw a picture of a bunch of Latinos, Indians, Chinese, and Koreans in the photo would you honestly think "ooh they must hate white people". No, you'd think, "I bet the snacks are on point." And while that's probably a racist thing to think, it's also 100% correct. Now who wants a Kaju Katli, mother fudgers?
Load More Replies...Rather than complaining, why don't the people of colour in her neighbourhood join the group? It's hardly her fault if the first few to join are white. Cultural appropriation is a ridiculous idea - take it to the extreme and that means only Chinese people can have gunpowder, and only white people can have trains, cars, radio, television, telephones, air travel and the internet, to name but a few.
1) the game they play originated in England. 2) they are accused of appropriating a *different* game from black culture. 3) that game actually originated in China. 4) it was an open invite for women - no colour was specified. So there was no appropriation of black culture, although an argument could be made that black culture appropriated Cee-Lo from Chinese culture, and there was nothing stopping black women from joining the club. Also, deleting the ad after a shítstorm of accusations of racism is NOT 'colonial violence'. WHAT THE HÉLL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?
We sometimes disagree with our opinions dude, but on this we are agreed methinks.
Load More Replies...I'm confused. Did she anything suggest that only whites can join? Or was it just the fact that the first couple people who joined where white that makes this an offshoot of the K*K in the complainers view?
We can’t do anything about Trump but at least we can go after Boho game-nighters!
And are they complaining that white people playing dice is cultural appropriation? Because the black community claiming that they're appropriating "cee lo" when "cee lo" itself was appropriated from the chinese ... . I am really confused. Whey does eveythhing have to be something to get upset about?
1: Don't police anyone's choice of friends. Most friend groups don't look like the perfectly proportional photo-op crews in ads and TV. A lot of us additionally find it hard to make friends as adults, or don't have any friends at all. 2: Does the original story have *any* relation, whatsoever, to the story of the African American woman who died while at a slumber party? Then why mention it? 3: According to the story (and Wikipedia), Bunco originated in England, so who exactly is doing the "cultural appropriation" here? (Which isn't really a thing.)
It also mentions a game called Cee Lo which according to the post, black people stole from Asian people. I'm confused.
Load More Replies...Why all the comments in English? I'm offended! you are so colonials!
Alright, so a quick look at Wiki taught me that Bunco originated in 19th Century England. How is a WASPy lady appropriating a game that originated in England? I'm seriously confused and hope someone can shed some light on what I'm missing, here.
A woman is being called a racist for starting a club for women to play a dice game and inviting women to join.
Load More Replies...All this is is racism against white people. I'd be surprised if the majority of commenters were not bots. I can imagine this is just to feed into the ''White Genocide'' narrative that many of the psychos like to push. The offensive was likely paid for, and I also would not be shocked if this article was also paid for.
Get a life people. This is the most overblown outrage I've seen in a while. So, what, you're not allowed to have a group of friends that aren't sufficiently diverse? Only in New York, would people get outraged about a dice game.
Bed-Stuy is named for Peter Stuyvesant, an actual coloniz*r, slaveholder, and antisemite who was opposed to religious freedom and a reportedly cruel man. This appears to be a wild overreaction to an open invite to play a game.
He was administrator of New Netherland from 1647 to 1664, and died in 1672. I don't think his influence is really big these days.
Load More Replies...Just say it straight out, racism against white poeple exists, too. I'm an old white German man and I feel offended often. As a man, as a boomer, as a German, as being white. We must finally stop pigeonholing people.
So Cee Lo was Chinese, and it was ok for African Americans to take it. Now they're mad white people are playing it. P**s off.
What in the actual F??? White people aren't allowed to play a silly game just because non-white people may/may not have invented it? Can you go down the dark path that will lead if we logically play that out? Are black people not allowed to play games whites invented? No golf? No tennis? No basketball? No football? No baseball? No chess? Asian people? Indian people? Where does it end? Fercrissakes people this is absolute insanity. Stop getting offended by things that aren't offensive in any way!!!
Nothing about this says "White applicants only." People are infering racism from a single photo of a white woman with a group of other white women. She's inviting local women to join, and people are making a big deal that it's a "black" neighbourhood. You don't have to be a particular race to live in any area. Isn't that part of equal rights? The right to live in mixed communities rather than communities segregated by race? She took down her post because she was becoming the target of a racism claim that realistically, doesn't even seem to have been in evidence. Maybe this woman would only have welcomed white women to the group. Maybe she was just hoping to make friends with local women of all races.
Remembering days past being taught how to play bunco by my lily white wife's grandmother (97 years old at the time). And yes, some folk have been known to refer to me a person of color! LOL! Racist is she? I think not.
Society started to make real progress at one point, but went so far to the other side that we're right back where we started. So many people boil themselves down to a single characteristic and make it not just their entire personality but their entire existence - and if you're not "one of them" or an "ally" then it's open season on you. Everyone wants to win a gold medal in the victimhood olympics and to blame everything in their life on people they stereotype a certain way, all in the name of "equality". If people were to act like people and treat other people like people instead of pigeonholing everyone we'd be a lot further along, and might not have c***s like Mango Mussolini calling the shots.
I've never been able to understand why people actually care about what others say. So what, some racistt moronn decided to complain and she takes down the club? I'd just enjoy this free publicity, since let's face it, if I was in the area and read that complaint, I'd be knocking on the doors of that club, asking to join.
One person died under somewhat suspicious circumstances in Georgia in the 2010s, and we're going to make that a reason to stay away from white people's slumber parties? Young, black males are 4% of the population and cause 92% of the murders of black people... but be afraid of whitey!!! (A major cause of this is the fact that there is no justice for the murder of black men. Very few of these crimes result in a conviction, and when they do, the sentences are far less than the murderers of white people receive.)
What percentage of white people m******d were committed by white males?
Load More Replies...Im not American and i genuinely don’t understand can someone explain?
Like most rock fans growing up in the 1970s and 80s, I was introduced to "Bed Stuy" by this lyric: "I've been stranded in the combat zone// I walked through Bedford Stuy alone// Even rode my motorcycle in the rain// And you told me not to drive// But I made it home alive// So you said that only proves that I'm insane" -- Billy Joel, "You May Be Right." The claim that it's mostly Black is absurd. Despite the long-gone 1960s and 1970s crime problem (largely gang wars, referenced by "the Combat Zone") driving large numbers of White people to the suburbs, Bed Stuy is still incredibly racially balanced: about 1/3 White, 1/3 Black, and 1/3 Other (including sizeable Hispanic and Asian populations).
Proving yet again that leftist white women are the dumbest most self loathing people on the planet.
Jeesh.. I saw the headline and was expecting the bunco club to have shunned poc or made racist comments or SOMETHING. She just wanted to meet more women in her neighborhood by playing a game that my grandma played...?
This reminds me of all the other moms being furious that I taught my son how to play poker because, to me, it was an essential male life skill. He then proceeded to teach all his friends and it blew up. Assuming anybody motivesfor anything is always chancy. Always.
Comunitariarism goes both ways. If people never do the first step they stay away from each other.
Why are some people constantly searching for something to be offended about. This is ridiculous in every way.
Speaking as a "hispanic" living in the USA, I'd agree with this. She's a white mid-wife. Of course most of her friends are other white ladies. There's nothing about this woman which screams "she hates black people" to me. I'm a man, but I'd feel perfectly safe with my sister/mother/cousin whatever joining this group. I work as an engineer, so almost none of my friends are white. If I ran a dice game, and you saw a picture of a bunch of Latinos, Indians, Chinese, and Koreans in the photo would you honestly think "ooh they must hate white people". No, you'd think, "I bet the snacks are on point." And while that's probably a racist thing to think, it's also 100% correct. Now who wants a Kaju Katli, mother fudgers?
Load More Replies...Rather than complaining, why don't the people of colour in her neighbourhood join the group? It's hardly her fault if the first few to join are white. Cultural appropriation is a ridiculous idea - take it to the extreme and that means only Chinese people can have gunpowder, and only white people can have trains, cars, radio, television, telephones, air travel and the internet, to name but a few.
1) the game they play originated in England. 2) they are accused of appropriating a *different* game from black culture. 3) that game actually originated in China. 4) it was an open invite for women - no colour was specified. So there was no appropriation of black culture, although an argument could be made that black culture appropriated Cee-Lo from Chinese culture, and there was nothing stopping black women from joining the club. Also, deleting the ad after a shítstorm of accusations of racism is NOT 'colonial violence'. WHAT THE HÉLL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?
We sometimes disagree with our opinions dude, but on this we are agreed methinks.
Load More Replies...I'm confused. Did she anything suggest that only whites can join? Or was it just the fact that the first couple people who joined where white that makes this an offshoot of the K*K in the complainers view?
We can’t do anything about Trump but at least we can go after Boho game-nighters!
And are they complaining that white people playing dice is cultural appropriation? Because the black community claiming that they're appropriating "cee lo" when "cee lo" itself was appropriated from the chinese ... . I am really confused. Whey does eveythhing have to be something to get upset about?
1: Don't police anyone's choice of friends. Most friend groups don't look like the perfectly proportional photo-op crews in ads and TV. A lot of us additionally find it hard to make friends as adults, or don't have any friends at all. 2: Does the original story have *any* relation, whatsoever, to the story of the African American woman who died while at a slumber party? Then why mention it? 3: According to the story (and Wikipedia), Bunco originated in England, so who exactly is doing the "cultural appropriation" here? (Which isn't really a thing.)
It also mentions a game called Cee Lo which according to the post, black people stole from Asian people. I'm confused.
Load More Replies...Why all the comments in English? I'm offended! you are so colonials!
Alright, so a quick look at Wiki taught me that Bunco originated in 19th Century England. How is a WASPy lady appropriating a game that originated in England? I'm seriously confused and hope someone can shed some light on what I'm missing, here.
A woman is being called a racist for starting a club for women to play a dice game and inviting women to join.
Load More Replies...All this is is racism against white people. I'd be surprised if the majority of commenters were not bots. I can imagine this is just to feed into the ''White Genocide'' narrative that many of the psychos like to push. The offensive was likely paid for, and I also would not be shocked if this article was also paid for.
Get a life people. This is the most overblown outrage I've seen in a while. So, what, you're not allowed to have a group of friends that aren't sufficiently diverse? Only in New York, would people get outraged about a dice game.
Bed-Stuy is named for Peter Stuyvesant, an actual coloniz*r, slaveholder, and antisemite who was opposed to religious freedom and a reportedly cruel man. This appears to be a wild overreaction to an open invite to play a game.
He was administrator of New Netherland from 1647 to 1664, and died in 1672. I don't think his influence is really big these days.
Load More Replies...Just say it straight out, racism against white poeple exists, too. I'm an old white German man and I feel offended often. As a man, as a boomer, as a German, as being white. We must finally stop pigeonholing people.
So Cee Lo was Chinese, and it was ok for African Americans to take it. Now they're mad white people are playing it. P**s off.
What in the actual F??? White people aren't allowed to play a silly game just because non-white people may/may not have invented it? Can you go down the dark path that will lead if we logically play that out? Are black people not allowed to play games whites invented? No golf? No tennis? No basketball? No football? No baseball? No chess? Asian people? Indian people? Where does it end? Fercrissakes people this is absolute insanity. Stop getting offended by things that aren't offensive in any way!!!
Nothing about this says "White applicants only." People are infering racism from a single photo of a white woman with a group of other white women. She's inviting local women to join, and people are making a big deal that it's a "black" neighbourhood. You don't have to be a particular race to live in any area. Isn't that part of equal rights? The right to live in mixed communities rather than communities segregated by race? She took down her post because she was becoming the target of a racism claim that realistically, doesn't even seem to have been in evidence. Maybe this woman would only have welcomed white women to the group. Maybe she was just hoping to make friends with local women of all races.
Remembering days past being taught how to play bunco by my lily white wife's grandmother (97 years old at the time). And yes, some folk have been known to refer to me a person of color! LOL! Racist is she? I think not.
Society started to make real progress at one point, but went so far to the other side that we're right back where we started. So many people boil themselves down to a single characteristic and make it not just their entire personality but their entire existence - and if you're not "one of them" or an "ally" then it's open season on you. Everyone wants to win a gold medal in the victimhood olympics and to blame everything in their life on people they stereotype a certain way, all in the name of "equality". If people were to act like people and treat other people like people instead of pigeonholing everyone we'd be a lot further along, and might not have c***s like Mango Mussolini calling the shots.
I've never been able to understand why people actually care about what others say. So what, some racistt moronn decided to complain and she takes down the club? I'd just enjoy this free publicity, since let's face it, if I was in the area and read that complaint, I'd be knocking on the doors of that club, asking to join.
One person died under somewhat suspicious circumstances in Georgia in the 2010s, and we're going to make that a reason to stay away from white people's slumber parties? Young, black males are 4% of the population and cause 92% of the murders of black people... but be afraid of whitey!!! (A major cause of this is the fact that there is no justice for the murder of black men. Very few of these crimes result in a conviction, and when they do, the sentences are far less than the murderers of white people receive.)
What percentage of white people m******d were committed by white males?
Load More Replies...Im not American and i genuinely don’t understand can someone explain?
Like most rock fans growing up in the 1970s and 80s, I was introduced to "Bed Stuy" by this lyric: "I've been stranded in the combat zone// I walked through Bedford Stuy alone// Even rode my motorcycle in the rain// And you told me not to drive// But I made it home alive// So you said that only proves that I'm insane" -- Billy Joel, "You May Be Right." The claim that it's mostly Black is absurd. Despite the long-gone 1960s and 1970s crime problem (largely gang wars, referenced by "the Combat Zone") driving large numbers of White people to the suburbs, Bed Stuy is still incredibly racially balanced: about 1/3 White, 1/3 Black, and 1/3 Other (including sizeable Hispanic and Asian populations).
Proving yet again that leftist white women are the dumbest most self loathing people on the planet.
Jeesh.. I saw the headline and was expecting the bunco club to have shunned poc or made racist comments or SOMETHING. She just wanted to meet more women in her neighborhood by playing a game that my grandma played...?
This reminds me of all the other moms being furious that I taught my son how to play poker because, to me, it was an essential male life skill. He then proceeded to teach all his friends and it blew up. Assuming anybody motivesfor anything is always chancy. Always.
Comunitariarism goes both ways. If people never do the first step they stay away from each other.


























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