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Brooklyn Midwife’s Dice Game Club Sparks Concerns About Safety For “Non-White” Women
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Brooklyn Midwife’s Dice Game Club Sparks Concerns About Safety For “Non-White” Women

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A seemingly harmless dice game landed a Brooklyn midwife in hot water following her attempt to organize a game night.

Ellen Christy shared a post on her social media about organizing a monthly “Bunco Club” activity in her neighborhood, which quickly led to a storm of backlash online.

Netizens accused the 30-year-old of disrespecting the Black community and appropriating Black culture.

Highlights
  • Ellen Christy shared a post about her monthly “Bunco Club” dice game in Brooklyn’s Bed-Stuy neighborhood on a Facebook group.
  • Netizens criticized the 30-year-old midwife for appropriating Black culture, citing the lack of diversity in her post.
  • A screenshot of Christy’s post went viral after she deleted it, igniting heated debates over colonial behavior and community sensitivity.

“The colonizers be colonizing,” commented one social media user. 

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    The 30-year-old shared a Facebook post in the Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn Community Facebook group.

    In the post, she expressed that she was looking for women in the community “to join a Bunco Club,” organized by her every month at her apartment.

    Ellen also shared a selfie with a group of five other women sitting on the floor, seemingly from one of those dice game nights.

    Notably, every woman in the picture appeared to be white, with no person of color present.

    “Hi all – seeking women living in Bedford-Stuyvesant to join a Bunco Club!” Christy, who is white, wrote in the post. “Bunco is a game of rolling dice (think Yahtzee!), no skills required.”

    The 30-year-old Jamaica Hospital midwife created the “Bunco Club” to “connect” with women in her community

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    “I started this group to connect other women living in Bedstuy.”

    She concluded her message by revealing the exact details, including the date and time of the monthly activity.

    “We meet monthly to hang out and play. This month’s meeting is Saturday, September 27th at 7PM.”

    Bed-Stuy, the community where the hospital worker organized her game night, is predominantly Black and is home to the largest number of Black residents in New York City.

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    Given the lack of diversity in her picture, people called the post offensive and accused her of gentrification.

    As a result of the mounting backlash, Ellen deleted the post from the group.

    “Yikes. Gentrifiers and their defenders coming out of the woodworks…” expressed one user in disapproval of Christy’s post. 

    Ellen was accused of disrespecting the Black community and appropriating Black culture

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    Historically, dice games have been around since at least 3,000 BCE, with credible evidence found in places like Greece, Rome, Egypt, and China.

    Christy’s Bunco dice game traces its roots to 19th-century England, where it was known as the “eight-dice game.” 

    It was originally started as a gambling and swindling game and was first imported to San Francisco in 1855. After the Civil War, the game evolved into a popular recreational activity.

    Referring to a dice game called Cee-Lo, which is more historically associated with Black neighborhoods like Bed-Stuy, many social media users criticized Ellen for colonial behavior.

    “Y’all playing gentrified cee lo?!”

    Cee-Lo, a popular Chinese variation of Bunco, was brought to America by Chinese-American laborers and flourished most in Harlem, another Black neighborhood in New York, during the 1970s and 1980s.

    Due to mounting backlash and criticism, Christy deleted her original post about the Bed-Stuy game night

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    While the post was quickly removed following online criticism, one member of the group shared a screenshot on September 20.

    Calling out Christy’s decision to delete the post, the user Janessa Wilson wrote, “deleting your post, and all of the labor that we did to educate, is colonial violence. so that tracks.”

    Netizens were not happy, with many expressing their displeasure over the lack of diversity in the original post.

    One user commented, “What non-white person in their right mind would feel safe joining that?!”

    Another wrote, “No black or brown members and there is a solicitation for ‘members’ in this Bed Stuy Community Group?”

    “Colonizer Cee-Lo Club,” a third expressed.

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    However, some users defended Ellen, questioning how a simple dice game could be equated with colonial behavior.

    “Only in Brooklyn could a dice game become a geopolitical crisis,” wrote one dissenting user.

    “The racists in Bed Stuy don’t want white people around them, and they feel comfortable saying it out loud.”

    Bunco was originally created as a gambling dice game in England before transforming into a popular recreational activity 

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    One social media user even drew a parallel to the infamous homicide of a 40-year-old woman named Tamla Horsford, who was mysteriously found deceased after attending a slumber party in Georgia.

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    Tamla was a Black woman, and the party was organized in 2018 by a white family, leaving her as the only person of color there.

    Despite autopsy results revealing abrasions on her body and suspicions of foul play, in 2019, Major Joe Perkins of the Forsyth County Sheriff’s Office closed the case due to a lack of evidence.

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    The user Senora Hassan wrote, “My mind IMMEDIATELY went to the story of the African American woman who mysteriously d**d while attending a slumber party with her all white friend group… Sometimes you have to read the room…”

    Christy has not posted anything in the group since the controversy, nor has she addressed it on her other social media accounts.

    “It went from Bed-Stuy do or die to concern over a woman’s Bunco club,” wrote one social media user 

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    Maria Maria
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are some people constantly searching for something to be offended about. This is ridiculous in every way.

    BeesEelsAndPups
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speaking as a "hispanic" living in the USA, I'd agree with this. She's a white mid-wife. Of course most of her friends are other white ladies. There's nothing about this woman which screams "she hates black people" to me. I'm a man, but I'd feel perfectly safe with my sister/mother/cousin whatever joining this group. I work as an engineer, so almost none of my friends are white. If I ran a dice game, and you saw a picture of a bunch of Latinos, Indians, Chinese, and Koreans in the photo would you honestly think "ooh they must hate white people". No, you'd think, "I bet the snacks are on point." And while that's probably a racist thing to think, it's also 100% correct. Now who wants a Kaju Katli, mother fudgers?

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    Apatheist Account2
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rather than complaining, why don't the people of colour in her neighbourhood join the group? It's hardly her fault if the first few to join are white. Cultural appropriation is a ridiculous idea - take it to the extreme and that means only Chinese people can have gunpowder, and only white people can have trains, cars, radio, television, telephones, air travel and the internet, to name but a few.

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    UKGrandad
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1) the game they play originated in England. 2) they are accused of appropriating a *different* game from black culture. 3) that game actually originated in China. 4) it was an open invite for women - no colour was specified. So there was no appropriation of black culture, although an argument could be made that black culture appropriated Cee-Lo from Chinese culture, and there was nothing stopping black women from joining the club. Also, deleting the ad after a shítstorm of accusations of racism is NOT 'colonial violence'. WHAT THE HÉLL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?

    Faye Bosworth
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We sometimes disagree with our opinions dude, but on this we are agreed methinks.

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    Maria Maria
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are some people constantly searching for something to be offended about. This is ridiculous in every way.

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speaking as a "hispanic" living in the USA, I'd agree with this. She's a white mid-wife. Of course most of her friends are other white ladies. There's nothing about this woman which screams "she hates black people" to me. I'm a man, but I'd feel perfectly safe with my sister/mother/cousin whatever joining this group. I work as an engineer, so almost none of my friends are white. If I ran a dice game, and you saw a picture of a bunch of Latinos, Indians, Chinese, and Koreans in the photo would you honestly think "ooh they must hate white people". No, you'd think, "I bet the snacks are on point." And while that's probably a racist thing to think, it's also 100% correct. Now who wants a Kaju Katli, mother fudgers?

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    Apatheist Account2
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rather than complaining, why don't the people of colour in her neighbourhood join the group? It's hardly her fault if the first few to join are white. Cultural appropriation is a ridiculous idea - take it to the extreme and that means only Chinese people can have gunpowder, and only white people can have trains, cars, radio, television, telephones, air travel and the internet, to name but a few.

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    UKGrandad
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1) the game they play originated in England. 2) they are accused of appropriating a *different* game from black culture. 3) that game actually originated in China. 4) it was an open invite for women - no colour was specified. So there was no appropriation of black culture, although an argument could be made that black culture appropriated Cee-Lo from Chinese culture, and there was nothing stopping black women from joining the club. Also, deleting the ad after a shítstorm of accusations of racism is NOT 'colonial violence'. WHAT THE HÉLL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?

    Faye Bosworth
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We sometimes disagree with our opinions dude, but on this we are agreed methinks.

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