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Family Stunned After Woman Refuses To Shave Her Thick, Long Hair In Solidarity For Teen’s Cancer
A person with a freshly shaved head, facing away, being brushed off. A situation about shaving head for cancer.

Family Stunned After Woman Refuses To Shave Her Thick, Long Hair In Solidarity For Teen’s Cancer

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One of the most unfair things in the world is seeing kids get cancer. In the U.S., about 15,780 children aged 0-19 are diagnosed with cancer every year. What’s even more devastating to witness is how parents and families have to cope with it. It’s not unusual for them to react in ways that may seem out of line to others.

One woman faced backlash from her boyfriend’s family when she refused to shave her head in solidarity with his 13-year-old sister who was diagnosed with terminal cancer. As a model, her hair was the source of her income, but the family accused her of being vain. Feeling that the family’s anger was misplaced, the woman asked for unbiased opinions on the internet.

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    This woman’s BF’s family asked her to shave her head in solidarity with his little sister who got a cancer diagnosis

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    She refused because, as a model, her hair was detrimental to her career

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    The girlfriend approaches this situation with empathy: “Emotions are running incredibly high in their family at the moment”

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    Still, most commenters didn’t think that was an excuse for the family to treat her this way: “This should not be a demand”

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    Image credits: LightFieldStudios / envato (not the actual photo)

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    After the initial shock subsided, the woman tried to patch things up with her BF’s mom and sister

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    The girlfriend tried to make it up to the girl by inviting her to have a photoshoot together, but it didn’t work out as planned

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    Some people thought she made a mistake with the photoshoot appointment, others believed there was nothing she could do right in this terrible situation

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

    Gabija Palšytė

    Gabija Palšytė

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    Gabija is a senior photo editor at Bored Panda. Before joining the team, she achieved a Professional Bachelor degree in Photography and has been working as a freelance photographer since. She also has a special place in her heart for movies and nature.

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    Gabija Palšytė

    Gabija Palšytė

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    Gabija is a senior photo editor at Bored Panda. Before joining the team, she achieved a Professional Bachelor degree in Photography and has been working as a freelance photographer since. She also has a special place in her heart for movies and nature.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    58 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Post was 11 years ago and OP mentioned in a few of her comments that Jess's illness was terminal, so Jess has likely diéd at this point. Wonder if OP and Matthew stayed together. TBH, I doubt it - I remember being 23 and thinking that my relationship with my boyfriend was "perfect". It was not.

    Pawsome
    Community Member
    4 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't even really judge. This is just really heartbreaking :(

    Wyrdwoman
    Community Member
    20 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember the original post when it was first posted all those years ago. Good to see it was updated but a bit sad at the outcome.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    58 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Post was 11 years ago and OP mentioned in a few of her comments that Jess's illness was terminal, so Jess has likely diéd at this point. Wonder if OP and Matthew stayed together. TBH, I doubt it - I remember being 23 and thinking that my relationship with my boyfriend was "perfect". It was not.

    Pawsome
    Community Member
    4 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't even really judge. This is just really heartbreaking :(

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    Wyrdwoman
    Community Member
    20 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember the original post when it was first posted all those years ago. Good to see it was updated but a bit sad at the outcome.

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