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Man Shames Girlfriend For Loving Fiction, Calls It Make-Believe That’s Lowering Her IQ
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Man Shames Girlfriend For Loving Fiction, Calls It Make-Believe That’s Lowering Her IQ

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Usually, reading books and watching movies is seen as a brain-stimulating activity. It’s both fun and enriching, making these hobbies a great way to spend your time. A win-win, right?

Well, not according to this Redditor’s boyfriend. With what he considers very high intellectual standards, he believes that only non-fiction counts as real knowledge. Anything else, in his words, only lowers your IQ. Because of this, he told his girlfriend to stop consuming all fictional media and focus instead on things that aren’t “make-believe” and are actually worthwhile.

Stunned by this demand, she turned to the internet to ask how to handle such a wild request. Read the full story below.

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    Stunned by the ultimatum, she turned to the internet to ask what to do

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    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

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    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read mostly nonfiction but have also read some amazing fiction. This man is an egotistical and pretentious. Please walk away.

    Daisydaisy
    Community Member
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't even bother asking "What should I do?" Clearly you should leave him immediately

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a feeling that if she doesn’t do it fast enough that he’s gonna reveal his new girlfriend. I’m suspicious that that’s where he got this idiotic idea from. And if it’s not that, then it’s some red-pill garbage about “controlling his woman,” and both of these theories are entirely unacceptable. If I wanted someone to tell me what to do and to control me, I never woulda left home!

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    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
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    59 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her boyfriend is a moron who dislikes imagination.

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    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read mostly nonfiction but have also read some amazing fiction. This man is an egotistical and pretentious. Please walk away.

    Daisydaisy
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't even bother asking "What should I do?" Clearly you should leave him immediately

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a feeling that if she doesn’t do it fast enough that he’s gonna reveal his new girlfriend. I’m suspicious that that’s where he got this idiotic idea from. And if it’s not that, then it’s some red-pill garbage about “controlling his woman,” and both of these theories are entirely unacceptable. If I wanted someone to tell me what to do and to control me, I never woulda left home!

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    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    59 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her boyfriend is a moron who dislikes imagination.

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